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Confused and trying to escape the friend zone

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Question - (8 December 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm in college and I met this girl at a couple of parties. Originally she asked a friend about me. i started taking everything slowly because i thought it might turn into a serious relationship and i eventually hooked up with her after about 4 weeks into our relationship. she told me then next morning that she would like to hang out with me more often during the week. so on monday we hung out because it was the day before our fall break. again we had a good time. it was a 5 day break and i lost contact a little. when i got back i asked her to hang out at parties and during the week for 2 weeks but she said she was busy. so this week i asked her again. her response was "for right now i think we should just be friends because i have too much stuff going on and its not fair to you when you could be hanging out with other people". I told her that being friends for now would be ok. now we have winter break coming in a week, she lives too far from me to visit her without it being weird, and it is a month long. i really like her but i dont know what to do. what should i do?

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