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writes:Hoe stupid of me was this? My boyfriend has been bugging me for forever about having 2 girls give him head. I finally said no its never gonna happen if you want it so bad go do it with 2 other girls. He took this literally! I mean I love him so much and wanna let him do it to be happy but this was a big mistake wasn't it? :/ Reply to this Question
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reader, smiliek  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 dump his selfish stupid ass and find someone who cares about YOU more then his dick. You shouldn't 'let him do it to be happy' as you will be very unhappy with that. He just wants to cheat on you and always will. Leave now
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): i have a solution to your problem. since sex isnt that sacrade to him and its more important to him for you two to get it how you to want it, rather then to build a healthy sex life together, then maybe you should be his girl but openly sleep with someone who understands how to make you feel good about yourself. since hes so new-fashioned, he should understand and agree to this, why else would he go get his fantasy filled by other girls if you cant go get your needs taken care by someone who knows how to make a girl be in the mood and confident? yea, he'd have to understand if you did something like this, unless of course he knows he wronge and just thinks youll put up with whatever. quit blaming yourself, hes a jerk. i personally wouldnt date a jerk because i like sex and i cant get off with a guy who aint into it also, i would have been gone along time ago if i was you. theres sooo many things you and him could be trying in bed, hes not interested in any of them except other girls? most guys like one of two types of sex.. freaky sex like with someone theyre comfortable enough to try weird things with, and/or casual sex with random ppl. your guy likes the random thing/ppl, good luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 December 2010):
 I agree with Tisha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): You didn't do anything wrong. You weren't stupi at all, you told him how it was and as the answer given was slightly ambiguous he took the meaning he wanted. He should have checked for confirmation.
You deserve better than a guy who is so competitive and dead set on an idea that he will do whatever even hurt someone he likes to do it.
You really deserve much better. He must be the thickest person alive if he didn't understand what you mean - that if he wants to fulfil that fantasy then he can go somewhere else but not when he is with you (it's common sense)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 December 2010):
 The mistake was in not realizing the guy is just looking for some condoned sexplay outside your relationship. He's not so lovable in my books--more like a selfish guy who cares more about his penis that your well-being.
There are many quality men out there who would NEVER consider badgering their girlfriend into doing something she didn't want to do. Once you get a little distance away from this guy, I hope you realize that. And that you deserve much much better treatment.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): omg why would you put up with that? he should be hestitant to even ask you that kind of question, let alone take cheating on you as a good solution. sure you want to keep a guy happy, but your geopardizing your own happiness to do it. he has no respect for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): You did the right thing because now you know he is a selfish jerk who cares only about himself. You are lucky to have found this out before the relationship got any futher.please leave him you deserve better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): I agree with DB you didn't make a mistake at all, he asked you to do something you didn't want to do and you were strong enough to say no, be proud of yourself and find a man that deserves to be with you.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 December 2010):
 Nope, not a mistake at all! He's not a good guy, and this will be a good test.
Really, you should dump him. He won't let this go and it's a huge sign of disrespect to you. Let him go get his herpes from all the skanky tail he wants. Just don't be waiting at home for him to give it to you too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): Personally I would have never agreed to this and if my boyfriend asked me for such a favor I'd be long gone. But that's just me, I enjoy one on one relationships. If my boyfriend wanted something like this, I would think he didn't love me very much, and that this request would happen over and over with different girls. Why let him have his cake and eat it too? Now if you don't mind and prefer an "open" relationship, okay then. But something tells me otherwise. Not to be mean, but I would say "see ya" and move on. You will find someone that wants you all to himself and no one else.
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