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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend wont stop texting his ex and calling her names he tells me he hates her and everything n he doesnt have her number but he keeps texting her, im friends with her and she tells me, he tells me not to talk to her. I talk to her behind his back to make him think im not talking to her cause he wants to know eerything we talk about and somthings he just shouldnt know.How do i get him to stop abusing her??.Help?thankyou.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 He sounds like a very immature and ridiculous person. I would let him go and talk to your parents about this. This is beyond your ability to deal with and it's time to talk to an adult who can help. Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhis now left me to get back with her after her and him currently saying i have nothing to worry about cause shes gay. Now they are planning on moving away together before they are even back together, it didnt work the last few times they were together. will it this time?
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (9 December 2010):
When you say you don't want to lose him...What exactly would you be losing??? You will lose a guy that makes you feel like a queen one time, only to take it away the next by being jerk.
Wouldn't you rather have a guy that makes you feel like a queen all the time?? The lesson here is...This is the kind guy you should stay away, not fight to keep.
The only way to make it stop, is for you to stop being there to take it. The worst part about this is...you may choose to not listen to what ever we say here. But when things get really bad...that's when you will say those famous three words almost everyone says...
"I should have..."
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 December 2010):
How old is this guy? He sound extremely immature and I know he has a lot of growing up to do, but being nasty and ugly to someone is wrong no matter how old you are. He is a bully, based on what you've written here.
You can't control his behavior, you can only control yours. His authentic self seems to be an angry, bitter, nasty guy. He just lets the mask slip when he feels anonymous on MSN or texting from his phone. It's juvenile and bullying behavior that shouldn't be tolerated by you or her.
Talk to your parents about what he's doing; parents have been through teenaged troubles of their own and probably have some very good wisdom for you. If he's doing this at school, go talk to a teacher. I've found a website that has some ideas for you. Please read it through and let me know what you think.
Don't tolerate bullying or insults. http://www.bullyingnoway.com.au/
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni really dont wanna be next, i dont wanna lose this one, sometimes he makes me feel like a queen, other times well now most the times r just misrable.. he only argues when im not actually with him he waits till his on msn or something its just like GRR seriously you'll sya it online but not to my face. how do i like... make it stop?
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (8 December 2010):
You do realize you could be next right??? You may not see this as a warning...but you better believe it's a big one.
Just saying.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (8 December 2010):
he'll stop when he realise that he has you to abuse.
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