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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does fantasizing lead to cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - is it okay for my fiance to fantasize about other women? could it lead to cheating? is fantasizing ok? we have a great sex life. he tells me he is very happy. im just worried that if im okay with letting him get lap dances and watch his porn when im not home(he do... (102 words)

Can I win her heart back if her marriage falls through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I’ve been heart broken since the 20th of June 09, my ex and I broke up after I had a emotional break down and said a lot of nasty things about her and her family after we had been together for a year and 15 days. There a lot of things about me that has hurt me though my life, ... (757 words)

How should a groom handle a bride's doubts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiancee and I have been together for 4 years this month and have been engaged for just over a year. We are both students (she's in nursing school and I'm in med school), but plan to get married when she is finished (next year) because then at least one of us will have a ... (602 words)

I thought she was joking but no, she's serious! She's going to hotel in a different city to lose her virginity with this random guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! My friend met this guy on holiday last August, and kept in contact with him, even though he lives far away. Anyway, they have pretty sexual chats and she talks to him all the time and stuff. However he does this with a lot of girls. He added me on facebook and so I can ... (429 words)

Old friend invited me to a wedding but I'm not sure I want to go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Right, first off just to make clear this is a question regarding relationships with friends! But hope you might be able to help all the same :) I've got a friend who is getting married soon. She was a friend from school, and so has invited my group of friends from school alon... (363 words)

Two guys, one pregnancy, unsure of father or what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - (MOD NOTE: Aunts/Uncles please be respectful to this poster, no negative nasty posts please!) I have a huge dilemma. i'll try to make this as short and to the point as possible. I just very recently ended a three year relationship with a man that I am still in love with. Un... (592 words)

My gf is acting differently and I don't understand why?????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so the last few days ( about a week ) my gf of 2 months has been acting differently than before. I dont know what I did or what is wrong. Today during passing period we started talking and she asked if I wanted to still go out but not hug or kiss or anything. To me if we do ... (97 words)

Out of the dating scene for awhile, do I just throw myself out there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! When I was 15 I got into an abusive relationship [mostly mental abuse], and only managed to get out of it when I was almost 17. I'm now almost 19, and still haven't been out with anyone since. I am now ready for a relationship, but it seems like everyone I go for h... (104 words)

I'm not used to dealing with guys, could he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know if this guy might like me. after class the other day he asked me if i would go to the fair with him because he didnt want to go alone. he mentioned that it might be fun. but the thing is is that we have to go anyway to get credit for a class. on my way back home ... (127 words)

I need space from b/f but don't want to lose him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost four months now. Before him, I had just got out of a pretty heavy relationship. It was a cycle of breaking up, and going back. Over and over again, for eleven months. so I decided to move on. I erased any emotion, feelings - anyth... (345 words)

I get so nervous that I can't act right around him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help! I don't want my boyfriend to lose interest in me. We are both quite different from each other. But as the saying goes; 'opposites attract' - I am very attracted to him and I know for a fact that he is attracted to me too which makes me feel great as I do have iss... (424 words)

Do guys take the time to be friends with decent girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I REALLY like this older guy who's popular and a lot of girls like him. I have talked to him now and then and whenever I do it's probably the best feeling ever. Ive noticed that on his face book he talks to a lot of really pretty girls, and comments there pictures saying there ... (181 words)

Is it unhealthy for me to talk to him when we're far away from each other and probably won't see each other again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. So recently I've been talking to this kid I met on vacation at Atlantic City. We walked on the beach for an hour and a half and just talked about everything. We are both 14 years old and get along really really well. Only problem is that he lives in Virginia and ... (151 words)

I realize my mistakes, now how do I get my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my recent ex broke up about a week ago. Things were going great for a while but later she was wanting to spend less and less time with me. She asked me if we were going to be bus buddies and I said yeah if you want to be and she said well duh, why do you not want to be? ... (1193 words)

I was just a fling for him but I've developed deeper feelings for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, guys, I've got a problem. In Feburary, I had a brief fling with a guy that I've known for a long time. We still talk occasionally, and he flirts, even though he has a girlfriend now. I seem nto have developed deeper feelings for him than he has for me, as all he ever wants ... (127 words)

Talking with ex while tipsy, should I call and explain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - First off, i have been dating and trying to keep busy. Was with my ex for 3 and a half years..it was petty stuff i think that broke us apart.. fighting over things i regret.. no one cheated.. we did have alot of love.. he broke it off... a year later i leave him a vmail and ... (490 words)

I'm checking ex's emails because I want to know what he's up to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Right i have been split up fro exalcoholic for 3 weeksnow ive wrote on here before regarding it and im so happy without him and my life is so much easier now but i cant help checking his emails and its getting stupid now i really dont know how to stop myself.I really do not ... (116 words)

Girlfriend 32, still virgin, how do I get her ready for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf is 32 years old n virgin . our affair start before 2 years ... I want to have fun with her sometime she ready n sometime not ready.. Now last 4 month she dont sexy talk to me . she had to go out side for 4 month after return she is very upset n told me i m not interesting ... (119 words)

I need good advice, how do I get over loving my teacher?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

5 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Okaii,so most of you already know from my last question that I am in love with my teacher,but believe me I wish I wasn't,not because of him but because we can't be together 'obviously',even though I really wish we could,so my last question was "how can I tell him?",but ... (128 words)

I feel emotionally numb towards boys except for my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im still not over my ex and its been 2 yrs, it hurts me. I have so much feelings for him, yet he didnt even kiss me. He lost interest in me at the start of the relationship, thats why he didnt kiss me, and blamed it on my shyness, and told me a yr after the break up the truth ... (333 words)

Will cleaning up after sex lessen your chances of getting pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my boyfriend and I are trying for a baby. We have been living toether for 2 years and r financialy ready. My sister had problem concieving so I am afraid this will happen to me to as I no many women who have miscarried lately. Anyway my question is i am off the pill for ... (139 words)

How do I tell my partner its over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i'v been with my partner for many years now he,s always been laid back and i found this cool when i was young. we have had allot of fun and I love him for that but I guess I have grow up an he behaves like a 18 year old he,s 41 and even uses teenage language when we argue I ... (424 words)

Does sewing your wild oats apply to women as well as men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bit of an issue at the moment which is part of an ongoing issue. I've been through a hell of a lot of stuff over the years despite being 22. I spent the best part of 6 years on drugs off and on constantly switching one for the other starting from the extreme realising ... (484 words)

Confused! Ex said my obsessiveness caused her to be obsessive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5127 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - The love of my life left me a month ago due to the fact that she felt I was being too obsessive of her. We were in a long distance relationship for over 3 years and she's very dear to me. She felt obligated to stay with me and she didn't want the commitment anymore. Thing is ... (535 words)

Sometimes he pays attention, sometimes he ignores me. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've know this guy for 3 years and he has always been a little flirty with me but he has been starting to flirt even more. The other day I was wearing a nice outfit and he walked back and forth staring at me. Everytime I talk to him he stands very close to me, he asks me to do ... (211 words)

Use Him And Lose HIm

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been friends w/ this guy for a while, he asked me out and i said yes. He really gets on my nerves sometimes and i kinda want to break up with him, but I also really want to have sex with him haha. My friends say "use him and lose him" It sounds kinda like a good idea to me, ... (66 words)

She loves to argue and there is major drama in her life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this girl for about 4 months. The first 6 weeks were great, things moved very fast. She then told me she has a child... it caught me off guard.. but I accepted that because of the feelings I had for her. I knew things were not going well with her work lif... (456 words)

I can't find a job and g/f is calling me a mootch!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age - My situationis this. I've been unemployed for 15 months and my 10 year relationship has become very tumultuous. I'm living in her house and find myself in a very awkward situation. I do love her and do what I can for her and around the house. She knows I'm looking for work but ... (174 words)

How do we get to know each other better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on a new guy at my school I have talked to him a few times to get to know him but he is kinda quiet so he doesn't really make conversation my friends told me to ask him out but i don't want to because I'm afraid he will say no because he doesn't know me very well ... (74 words)

Should I go back to South Africa to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a major dilemma. my boyfriend and i met up on facebook and been dating online for the past 2 years. last year he came to visit and i accidentally fell pregnant. we had a beautiful baby girl but still lived across the world from each other. he came to see his daughter in ... (282 words)

I'm scared of going into labour!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am pregnant, me and my partner have decided to call her scarlett if she is a girl, or oliver if he is a boy. i admit i was shocked when i found out i was pregnant, but me and my partner are very happy and more in love than ever before which is nice. thing is im terrified ... (171 words)

Has my boyfriend's mate moved in for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We moved in together 2 years ago. After 6 months of me and my 3 children aged 10, 9 and 7 moving in, he has changed. He was off work at this point, I was paying and still do, the vast majority of bills, including mortgage etc. For ... (238 words)

Do they still consider me a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 19 years old and i'm at uni 30 miles away from my home town. before i left home i fell out with lots of friends, just because we all changed and we're all in different places, heading in different directions. but most of my friends have stayed in my home town. anyway... (179 words)

I want to sleep with him but will he stick by me if I get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it wrong to want a baby with your boyfriend? I'm fifteen and he's turning fifteen May 31, 2010...We were on the phone last night and he was saying he wouldn't break up with me and he would stay and raise the baby...do you think I should believe him? HELP!..I really wana ... (82 words)

Is she setting herself up for disappointment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a female friend who is friends with a guy who has a girlfriend. He and his GF have been together for a long time. My friend went through a thing where she was really low on self-esteem and flirted with this guy a lot and tried to get him to leave his girlfriend. He ... (311 words)

Did I lose my virginity to myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, i have a question... i got really horning last ngith and started masturbating. i couldnt get enoguh, so i used a tool to help me feel good. im a virgin, and i started bleeding. could this be because of the tool i used, or my thing breaking and making me not a virgin ... (81 words)

In love with my friend's ex-boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - *MOD NOTE: Question asker's own title* I think I'm in love with my best friend's ex-boyfriend, and I am almost sure he's got a crush on me too. We've been talking a lot lately, and we seem to connect somehow. But last year, my friend B. was dating him, and I don't know if she s... (80 words)

Is it OK to make a move on my hairdresser?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my situation is a little complicated. I asked another similar question a few days ago but I couldn't find it, so I'm going to ask again and add some details I wanted. To make the long story short, I have a huge crush on a hair stylist who works in the salon I've been... (362 words)

How can I show him how much it hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for many years. The thing is we've had an argument because of something he did which he promised me he wouldn't do. Theres a reason I don't want him to do it. He promised me over and over. I now don't know what to do. I want to make him pay becau... (121 words)

Should we prepare for a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since my boyfriend realised my period is late (nearly 2 weeks late) now he thinks im pregnant because my period hasn't arrived, but he is already planning things like how we are going to get our own place because he says i cant live at home if im pregnant. i appriciate ... (218 words)

He's too scared to tell her no!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, he has a child who is one year old. I have accepted this and accepted the fact that he will be seeing his son. However I cannot accept the fact that whenever his ex rings up at the last minute demanding that he looks after his son ... (180 words)

I'm beside myself now that he's away -- should I break it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend been friends for four years. we started dating after high school and fell in love shorthy after that. when i left for college i was five hours away still our love stay strong but, now he just left for the army and i dont know what to do. all i do is cry and ... (85 words)

I think he's lying to me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months now and I think he keeps lying to me. First of all (this was about 8 months ago) i found some messages on his phone from and to another girl. She kept asking loads of times if she could call him yet and he was s... (719 words)

Help! I'm stuck in the Friend Zone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a woman about a year ago and have been seeing her at least weekly on a friend basis. We never go more than 2 days without chatting, texting, or hanging out eating/drinking together. The odd thing is that she has a boyfriend who she sleeps with on occasion. The boyfriend ... (160 words)

How often should we see each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been dating for 3 months, we re both 16, how often is the right amount to be seeing eachother?... (24 words)

What are her motives? What is she thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok new info. We havent talked in almost a month, and she texted me for my birthday. I had been ignoring her calls for the pas thturee weeks trying to get some space. Ahe texted on my b day and wanted to know why we hadn't talked. I told her she could call if she wanted later ... (287 words)

He said he might ask me out soon, but I'm afraid my friends don't like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i've been seeing this lad for like 7 months now and we have a strong relationship, the thing is he said he might ask me out anytime soon. i want to go out with him, but my friends dont like him and im worried they'll fall out with me or call me names for it. could you please ... (65 words)

My wife thinks I drink too much, do I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age - I am married and 47 years old and have owned my own professional business for 16 years. For years I managed the stress and anxiety of running my own business by relaxing with a few drinks at the end of each busy day. Over the years my drinking progessed to the point where I ... (325 words)

My husband gets lustful thought and imagines other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi am a married women who loves my husband a lot and at the end i know he also loves me and we are quite happy with are marriage but my husband gets fascinated and gets lustfull thoughts and also imagines other women how do i react to this or what do i do about it..? please ... (58 words)

He wants to have sex, part of me wants to, but I've got some questions!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and he wants to have sex and part of me wants to but then im always scared about getting pregnant also he wont use a condom because he likes the feeling of one off im on the shot but please help me and give me options on what to do?????... (58 words)

How do I make him feel good when he can't get it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old, pretty darn sexy (if I do say so myself ;D) and just recently found myself with a friend with benefits three years younger than me... Great, right? Yeah, only... he couldn't get it up. He'd been drinking the night before and it seems it affects him that... (261 words)

How do I return the favour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The last while my bf has been putting his hands in my pants and touching me, I want to return the favour but I am abit nervous and don't really know what to do and also since he has been the one making the moves on me does this mean he wants the same back?we re both new to ... (60 words)

Is she interested? Does she know I'm a lesbian too?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age - Dear Cupid I am a lesbian and there is a girl I like very much who works in our local pub. We have got to know each other quite well over the last several months. She always smiles and seems happy to see me, laughs at my jokes and recently for my birthday she gave me a card and... (268 words)

I want more... Should I be grateful for what I've got?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've been apart from my man for 2 months now, and it's only a couple weeks till he returns, yet i'm becoming more anxious and insecure everyday. He calls me almost every night to say a quick love you and night, but won't reply to any email or text I send him. I feel hur... (154 words)

Can somebody open my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Right here. Right now. Okay, I really do not want to cause a big stir but I need you all to try and open my mind to an understanding... What is Religion? Why do people decide to follow it? Personally I am not into the idea of following a religion. I was christened a... (190 words)

Should I go back after what's happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend online on a dating website. He was amazing! We would spend much time texting getting to know one another before meeting. It was about 2 months and we ended up getting an apartment together. I noticed a change that he would always ask me when I was out of his ... (247 words)

The made a mountain out of a molehill!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks a go, an argument which started off pretty minor got out of hand by the means of "facebook" and i'm in a predicament now on what to do and could do with a push in the right direction. The basic story is: It started with prom dresses, and girls being girls things... (431 words)

Why hasn't he proposed after all this time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 29 and I've been with my man for 11 years. We have a 10 year old son together, we've purchased a home together, cars together, and basically everything together as if we are married, but we're not. Everytime I bring up marriage he says everything fine the way it is and I do... (148 words)

I like them both and I can't choose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know I will be judged a lot from this question, but I really am stuck in a big web of my own lies. Well, I don't really know if they count as lies but I need help. Me and my ex only went out for a month. Not a long time, I know. I am only 14 and he is only 15. We are young, ... (581 words)

Was he nervous because he fancies me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok one of my brothers mates came to my parents house to do a price on some plumbing that needs doing, I was the only one in so obviously had 2 talk 2 him, I have always liked theis guy and although have never said it to him would love to, Anyway when i was talkin... (168 words)

Does he need anger management?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is Italian and told me he had an anger problem when we first met. He seemed so nice and gentle and such a family man. The problem is, he gets mad at the smallest things and ruins whatever we are doing or planning. He ... (327 words)

Should I wait until after vacation to decide?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Single mom with 2 boys who has been with a man for 5yrs who has been violent in the past from choking me twice and has a horrible attitude..but it's been a year that he hasn't put his hands on me cuz he knows that I'm ready to walk out any day..we got into an argument over the ... (194 words)

Putting him first and I'm losing out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone :) Well i am 21 years old and have been in a relationship for the past 4 years.... I love my boyfriend so much but sometimes i feel like im tied down and cant do anything without thinking about his reaction. Im young and i wanna go out and have fun with male and ... (216 words)

He was too rough and now I'm bleeding

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with this guy on saturday. He likes to use his fingers and he went a bit rough and deep he tried to put his fist in and i was bleeding.. He also said there was like a wall there.. I have been spot bleeding since saturday and dont know why? This is a strange question ... (68 words)

I never got pregnant before... could it be different this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - last night my ex came over and we ended up having sex. i jus turned 16 a few days ago and hes about to be 19 in 2 months. we had sex a lot when we were together and never used protection. he pulled out. we were together for 6 months and had sex at least 4 times a week, usually ... (162 words)

He did not answer my text msg, .. should I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age - Met a man online. I almost did not go as I have been having terrible dates from online. Surprisingly, I go on the first date and we hit it off. We had alot of laughs , I am sure the alcohol helped. We held hands and had a quick goodnight kiss. The second date was last Thursday. ... (144 words)

Is he playing hard to get or just not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help with working out whether this man is playing hard to get - or just not interested. I work with this man and he is quite a lot older than me. We really clicked and we had a laugh togther, as well as more emotional discussions. He constantly hints that he is inter... (219 words)

How can I stay friends without getting too attached to this man when we are both married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well here goes. I am a 35 year old woman, married for 15 years to a great friend. Thing is that is the ONLY thing my husband is, is a great FRIEND. He and I got together under less than ideal circumstances, but tried to make the most of it. The first ½ of our marriage... (637 words)

Married at 16, now regretting it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

5 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 22 years old and I'm desperate I meet my wife when I was 15 she was 19 years old she got pregnan when I just turn 16yrs old so we got married she was 20yrs.. after 3yrs of of been togheter she stop using birth control and got pregnan again after that one I told her to ... (170 words)

Difference of opinion on who are acceptable as friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has women who work at nightclubs as his friends on facebook. For two years, he controlled my friends, told me who I had to delete who I was allowed to accept and it's finally getting to me. He told his sister-in-law to remove me from her friends and then removed... (145 words)

I don't understand what he wants!

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there everyone... I would really appreciate your advice as am feeling rather confused. About 5 months ago i met a guy *Dan a week after spliting up with my boyfriend *Ryan. We both fell pretty strong i think, it was quite an intense connection that we had...and he ... (443 words)

I want a baby with my older Husband

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and recently married my best friend and the most perfect man. He is 65 and we dated for 4 years before we married. I have a 6 year old from my first marriage and he has 3 grown children and we all get along great. I recently have this yearning to have a child ... (213 words)

I've been in love with the same guy all my teen years. Help

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys. so I'm 18 and have liked the same guy since I was 13 lets call him Tim. when I was 15 I moved to a new town and since then we have mainly talked by text messages and msn but have grown closer non the less. I have tried to have other relationships but he has always b... (838 words)

Was I in love with a ghost??

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5 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girl broke up a month ago now for really knows what. She told me one thing in the breakup letter then later told me I was being too obsessive of her and she felt as if she had to make me happy all the time. We've been together for 4 years and we were so in love ... (228 words)

My guy is around 24/7 and I'm finding it hard to breathe!

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - been with my partner for more than a year now, he is nice to me, gives me everything, has respect for me and i guess im lucky to have him as he is with me. he loves me very much, im his first serious relationship, his first love. he is my first serious relationship aswell. ... (189 words)

Confusing feelings after a break up

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) Recently I've had my first break up and I'm 21 lol. It's been interesting, my feelings are kinda all over the place, but I believe I'm coping well. My problem is that whilst we are still friends and talk on the phone etc, I'm worried that I'm confusing myself. I... (215 words)

He told me he may even let me rape him..what is that all about??

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all I have a bit of a problams im kinda falling for this guy i met through a friend who told me 2 add this guy on facebook Yes i no its also bad but i have already slept with him, but i dont regret it one bit Anyway my problam is im not sure what he actually think... (288 words)

Please help with the guilt of a breakup!

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel super guilty about breaking up with my bf of a year and a half. the last 2 months we were fighting constantly, and even though we both loved each other, we weren't happy. i felt he only had time when it was convenient for him, and when i was upset, all he'd say is that ... (227 words)

Ex boyfriends reoccurring dreams?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was wondering whether someone could give me their opinion on what my ex boyfriend's recurring dreams mean? Ok, so to explain the situation. My ex and I have been in each other's lives for the past eight years. For the last year it was sketchy as to what we'd actual... (655 words)

Our relationship is basically everything without a label?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I find myself stuck in a rut with a lot of history...so here goes the story: I've been with this guy for over 2 years (we're both 20), but we still don't have that "boyfriend/girlfriend" label. We weren't too sure if we wanted that kind of relationship, be... (726 words)

Is my husband having lustful thoughts about other women?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one.. hi am married since two n half yrs and quite happy with my marriage but few incidents that took place i feel he thinks lustfully about other woman, please can u help me by telling do these incidents indicate that he has lustfull thoughts... (366 words)

Is it silly to leave someone because they won't help around the house?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have a serious dilemma! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years but I am seriously thinking of leaving him. We moved in together weeks after meeting and have been together ever since, I was 16 when the relationship started. Lately we have argued ALOT, mainly ... (408 words)

He wants to still be in a relationship with me, but in separate houses

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5 April 2010 (F)

age - my partner and I have lived together for 6 years, we had both my 2 and his 2 children living with us which put a strain on our relationship and led ti arguements. he left me abruptly 4 months ago, although we have continued seeing each other as friends. he says he still loves ... (100 words)

I beleive my husband loves somebody else, how can we repair our marriage?

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5 April 2010 (?) age 41-50 - my husband.loves me as a wife.he has fallen in love.he also remain in contect with his college and says she is just a friend.and his love is virtual.he feels his part is missing he does not forget her.but he is mine and will be till the end of his life.i know his love is ... (135 words)

I feel lonely and unloved in my marriage, but excited by LDR

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5 April 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 5 years now but i feel lonely and unloved my husband cant get an erection in the first two years he did try to get help with ths from the doctor but has given up on this he did try and fullfill me in other ways but i was left deflated so we dont even do ... (173 words)

I don't know if I am over reacting or how to deal with older work colleague

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man at work, who is married and older. I think we are just friends, and he has made statements saying that we are friends. But sometimes he does things that makes me feel like there's something more (and I don't want something more). For example, he'll touch me (take ... (323 words)

Is my brother in law just trying to rub my nose in it?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I went through a very painful breakup with my ex a couple of years ago, and was left feeling very hurt and betrayed. The ex just happens to be a friend of my brother in law who keeps dropping the ex into conversation (telling me how he is doing etc). I really don't want to talk ... (156 words)

Whatever he texts to me he also texts to my friend, is he trying to make me jealous?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please help i talked to this guy for a while now he always texts me everyday and we talk i thought maybe he likes me because of all the signals and i thought that he might..his cousin even told my own sister asking if we were together because he keeps talking about me. t... (271 words)

She seems to like me but I am not sure

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I already asked a question is she a lesbian. well I'm getting the vibe that she is gay..my friend who is bi talks to her sometimes and thinks she is too. well this woman I like has short carrot top hair and wears guy clothes. I want to know is she interested in me.I n... (312 words)

I've kissed girls but never made out

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5 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Umm im a guy and in 14, I've kissed many girls but never really made out. Im scarred when i start i might bite their tongue or something stupied like that, i just want to know how to get into it/start it and how to maintain it. ALso i dont know how to use my tongue when i get ... (79 words)

Was he interested in me or is he cooling off?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused about a fellow co-worker's intentions and therefore, need advice on this. (This is a long, detailed question so bear with me. Thank you.) I've been working as an accountant in an office and have become good friends with a fellow male coworker. We have a lot in co... (1049 words)

Does it hurt males to loose their virginity?

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5 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been thinking about sex and i am scared. will something happen to my penus if i lose my virginity. will it hurt... (24 words)

Is my FWB developing feelings for me?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a friend that i have sex with from time to time and i think his getting feelings for me. his friends say he dont like you like that he just using you, but when me and him get together i dont feel that, i feel like hes catching feelings for me. he loves to be around m... (131 words)

Slipping Out! Why?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is very embarassing to ask but I really need some advice. My boyfriend and I were having sex. We've only done it a few times before so we're fairly new to this but for some reason he couldn't get in me for a long time. Or as soon as he got close or i'd move my hand, he'd ... (103 words)

Is my weight gain since marriage a cause to worry about my husbands interest in me?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi am married for two years now and have put on a lot of weight which my husband does not like he would tell me i look fat and looked good when we were newly married and at times he would look at other girls who are look really slim and compare me. is this something to worry ... (82 words)

My mother puts my husband under a microscope - but only looks for the negative!

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My mother feels that my husband is often selfish, disrespectful and inconsiderate to me. My husband loves me very much and I think overall we are happy and I agree that he could be all of the above at times, but we have a good time toghther most of the time a nd wonderful happy ... (210 words)

I'm preganant but wonder what future there is with my boyfriend.

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Have you ever thought to yourself "why you are with this guy or girl" well soe times when my boyfriend is a sleep I look at him and start to think "why am I with you, do you even love me, why do you do the things you do, why do you act like you love me one day and the next you ... (202 words)

Is checking a partners internet activities a violation of privacy?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How big of a deal is it to violate your lover's privacy by checking his browser history? I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months. We met on a dating site. Things were going great for a bit, but behavior patterns changed. He suddenly didn't message me like h... (593 words)

I want to have sex with him, but am not sure how to go about it.

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I met this guy about a year and a half ago on a TV Show forum. I first started talking to him when he gave me guy advice. And we've talked ever since then, and we've grown really close, we've done video chat, IMVU, MySpace, all sorts of stuff to stay in contact. And I've ... (231 words)

Not realizing what you have got until it is gone.

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, The feedback I received last time from you all was fantastic, so here goes current question: Everyone needs a little personal space. I am an only child, treasure my alone time, and am head over heels in love with my now ex-boyfriend. I broke up with... (213 words)

Just found out I am pregnant to my ex! I need to know I am thinking straight in deciding what to do about this.

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that I'm pregnant with my ex-boyfriend's baby and for so many reason, I don't want to keep it: - My EX is the father and although he says he wants to support me and would consider keeping it, we have a long messed up history and I don't want to have another ... (354 words)

Is it good enough protection to only use a condom upon insertion?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend insisted having sex with me and we landed up having an intercourse, but i stopped him before he could insert inside me. During the course of intercourse he he used condoms on and off... Is it good enough to use condoms only at the time of inserting? Is there... (98 words)

I cant believe my fiance saying he may have gotten another woman pregnant. Do you think he is just testing me?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiancé told me that some girl told him that he might have gotten her pregnant. It does not seem like him at all--- cheating and not using protection. According to his tone of voice on the phone, I think he was kidding, but I was crying when I said bye and he did not say ... (90 words)

I want to talk to him when we are not drunk, ... should I, ... or should I just leave him alone?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey just after a bit of advice. I met this guy about 6 months ago after seeing him around a bit. At first he was really keen texting me etc and went to his house a couple of times after meeting up out (didn't have sex though). Then he started to back off, like if he saw me out ... (302 words)

How can I get her to like me as more than a friend?

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5 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a beautiful girl who I've been friends with for 4 years. I love her so much I would die for her. Something caught my eye about her when we first met. I thought I liked her pretty well for about the first 3 1/2 years but then we started talking more and getting ... (193 words)

Hair removal.

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) well im 17. Iv just started triming then shaving my vagina. It always feel a lil ichy an gets kinda red. Will that stop hapening once i get used to it and do it more? I heard geting it waxed is best but i really dont want any one doing that to me. So all i can do is ... (81 words)

My fiancee wont let me contact her or my sons. I am at the end of my tether!

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5 April 2010 (M)

- Dear Cupid I've got a massive problem, my fiancé and I haven't spoke to each for over a month and I also haven't seen my 2 little boys. We have been having problems for a while and as a result I left our family home, we have been trying to sort things out and I thougt that we ... (369 words)

Confused and lost on this co-worker?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok this is the run down I don't know what to think or how to act on this.. Here's the facts I am female I have a female coworker, who I think really liked me, or has led me to belive she did.. She always stares and has made phrases like instead of going out to eat let's do... (547 words)

I'm too scared to snog!

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have this boyfriend, but im to scared to snog him everyone is telling me to and i dont no what to do but the thing is i have never snogged someone before. please help, and write back to me... (46 words)

How can I find out if she wants me for more than a friend?

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5 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've known this girl for a few years. She is frighteningly gorgeous but I don't think she knows it because she doesn't like looking at pictures of her self. She comes across as bossy and smart, but I've known her long enough to know she isn't like that. Anyway, she is... (336 words)

He says he is happy but is giving me mixed signals

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok well this is my problem. Me and my ex boyfriend were quite happy when we were living together. we were even talking about getting married and raising a family. then we ran into money troubles and ended up renting off my mother. I lost my job and my ex lost his 3 months ... (596 words)

Does the teacher's behavior seem odd?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Just to give a heads up, no this is not one of those 'I'm in love with my teacher' questions. But, this is a question still on the same subject. Where to begin? I live in one of those typical towns surrounded by corn. Everybody knows everyone and every 'professional' is a fam... (804 words)

I have health issues which will be fixed, but will the spark come back/

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old son. Obviously that means I got pregnant very early in our relationship. It went from 0 to 60 very fast and we were not able to have a your average honeymoon period. He was your typical "playboy" prior to me. ... (248 words)

I'm stuck on my ex and cannot move forward

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up almost a year ago and I still cry over him all the time. I don't know how to get over him and I keep trying to move but it isn't working. My relationship with my ex seemed perfect and I think the reason he left was because he got scared. The last time we ... (202 words)

My best friend is a male, and lately his attitude has changed

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been best friends with this hispanic guy (I'm hispanic as well. We'll call him Ruben) for a little over 2 years now. What people thought was odd was that he and I didn't enjoy thothers's company back then when I started marching band (I was a freshmen clarinet player at ... (717 words)

He'll never feel the same about me what do I do?

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5 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I know. I've know him for about 3 years, but we haven't really been close friends. But being around him these 3 years has made me grow really fond him of to the point where i'm pretty sure I'm in love with him. The only problem is he's straight and he just ... (154 words)

How do I get a good guy?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl, just started high school and turning 15 in 2 months. So I've been thinking lately that i would like to have a boyfriend. Ive had many relationships before but obviously they didn't. my longest was 3 years , 9 months, then 6 months. now, nothing. ... (118 words)

Stop things now before it ruins our friendship?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I've been best friends with my best guy friend for over 5 years now. We never go a day without talking and we are extremely close. Its like we are practically dating already and over the last few months we have kissed a few times and both developed feelings for ... (258 words)

Ex & I back together but he's falling into his old habits and I'm sick of them!

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was hoping I could ask for advice really. My problems and questions always seem really long but here goes, i hope you can help. Ok, so I split with my boyfriend a year ago and then got back together, had quite a few shaky problems to start with (trust issues on both... (1546 words)

Friends say my b/f is cheating, he denies it..who do I believe???

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time. but some of our friends (they dont like him anymore because of something unrelated to our relationship) have been telling me that he has cheated on me several times with several different people. I have confronted my ... (139 words)

My crush wanted me to get info on another girl!

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - for the last two months I've been hopelessly in lust with my best guy friend. It's bad, it's been painful, and I was at my wits end. He knew about my feelings, he kindly made it clear he just wanted friendship. Today at an acquaintance's Easter party, there was an attractive ... (277 words)

Health issue after sex--anyone have this problem??

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the first time two days ago. I had a septate hymen, and breaking it was significantly less painful than I was expecting it to be. There was only a small amount of blood. But now there is a swollen bloody cord of flesh poking out of my vagina - the remains of my ... (129 words)

Things got messed up and I'm unsure how to proceed now?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I got this guy that I really liked number, so then I called it. We ended up sending each other pictures and having phone sex. Now this was a HUGE shock for me because Ive liked this guy for 3 going on 4 years. Also he was more in the popular crowd and a couple years ... (523 words)

Should I just ask him bluntly if he wants to go further?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my best friend and I have been messing around, like I've been giving him handjobs and he's been touching me. The first time I saw him after the first time it happened he acted awkward and we didn't do it again, so I texted him and told him that I wanted to keep doing ... (122 words)

Boyfriend walked into a situation and now doesn't trust me!

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Need to gain his trust back, how do I do it? My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a few months, we saw eachother everyday for two months straight, fell in love right away but rushed into things incredibly too fast. I'm not used to having a steady boyfriend so thi... (390 words)

I like him but don't want to do all the chasing!

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5 April 2010 (F)

age - There is a guy I like who I could feel chemistry from whenever I got to get my hair done. I linked with him on Facebook and sent a message but he has not messaged me back. It is making me feel bad as Imade the move and do not want to feel like I am doing all the chasing. He ... (181 words)

I really like this guy but everyone seems against it

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is very long but i feel like people should know the whole situation. I work in a fast food place as one of the supervisors. I had a crush on one of the workers and we went on a date and kissed but it never interfered with work (dating isnt allowed) and he ended up ... (381 words)

Getting Over the Obstacles? Is it Possible?

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5 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - It's been a long time since I've felt like a giddy school girl with a crazy, unexplainable crush. But yet, here I am.. Unfortunately, this guy and I have a long roller coaster history, I've had feelings for him since day one, but there has always been an obstacle stopping... (461 words)