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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's got a gorgeous girlfriend but I want him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: Poster stated they are 13, but it says 30 in age. I'm 13 years old and I have noticed I have turned bi-sexual and I an deeply in love with a 14 year old boy. I would die for him I feel there is a connection between us, but he's scared to admitted it and so am I he'... (102 words)

The loveful blues....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello People, I'm a 17 year old guy and I think I love this other slightly younger guy who goes to a different college and says that he is completely head over heels in love with me. All seems good.. Apart from the fact that he is an extremely good-looking model... I ... (194 words)

Do we all find happiness and true love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - do we all find happiness and true love?xxx... (8 words)

Should I invite him to my party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm having a birthday party in the summer and I want to invite this guy that I have liked since the beginning of the school year. He has a girlfriend and they have been going out for a couple of months. I don't think they will be together though over summer. I just started to ... (105 words)

My problem is my husband's family!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age - My problem is my husband's family! We unfortunately moved on to property 10 years ago that his dad gave HIM and we placed our home there. The remaining acerage is to go to HIM when his dad dies. The one acre our home is on is ours together due to morgage papers.His family is ... (600 words)

Tips on controlling ejaculation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 years old and I'm a senior in high school. My girlfriend and I have just recently started pleasuring each other. I'm a virgin and I've never gotten further than feeling a girl's breasts until now. She says I'm good at fingering her and when I do it, everything goes ... (204 words)

Concert woes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I went to a concert last night, and one of their opening acts was Cavo. I met them after the concert and they were amazing. Their music is great and their personalities are too. They are so nice and just ahh. They are coming again May 21st and I really wanna go see them again. ... (112 words)

Should I ask out this girl on my route?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - There is this girl on my delivery route I want to ask out. Here is the deal. I only see her if I am there at certain times of the day, so not everyday. When we do see each other she is always makeing extended eye contact and smileing etc. We say the whole "hey" bit but do... (152 words)

How do I get noticed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I decided I want to do something with my life. People always say "anything is possible" and "chase your dream." And I've decided I want to. I want to be a model, and my sister used to be when she was younger. She went to John Casablanca's and I was wondering should I go ... (71 words)

Husband sending out mixed signals...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - We are coming up on our 6th anniversary. Hubby has become more distant - we don't communicate, he is not into kissing/hugging/romance- basicly we are roommates with the benefit of sex. When it comes to sex- I am the one to initiate it- he lays there and hardly even touches me ... (216 words)

I can't be completely happy in the relationship I am in now because I feel like I can't let go of my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend has a drug problem and he broke up with me because of it almost a year ago. I am still having a hard time moving on and still love him. I feel like if I move on I am abandoning him and everyone else in his life has given up on him. When we broke up I felt like ... (306 words)

Is this a curse???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

8 April 2010 (F) age - I have an incredible amount of bad luck, even Im trying very hard to do the best. I make good choices, but there is a tremendous bad luck lingering in my family and personal life. Very unusual health problems , variety of financial disasters major relationship issues to the ... (171 words)

Passion!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy I've known for a year, has recently been flirting with me. He is younger, and at first I shrug it off and enjoyed the attention! But then I started to feel attracted to him and made it known, which I think kind of scared him a little bit. Well I stopped reciprocating ... (181 words)

Serious question about sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am kinda scared i might have came inside my girlfriend today. we were having sex without a condom and then i felt i was gunna cum so i pulled out quick and came on her but it wasnt a lot but i know i didnt cum in her, well im pretty sure i didnt because we checked inside her ... (164 words)

I'm male and like to give head but I'm NOT gay!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How come girls think guys who suck another guy are gay? It happens. I'd much rather be sucking a girl but I like giving a guy head every once in a while. Is there something wrong with that?... (38 words)

Agony aunts forever!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I was wondering how I can get paid to become an agony aunt, I love helping others and answering questions, its one of my passions. thankyhuu x... (29 words)

Should I let my boyfriend go out for drinks with his clingy ex booty call?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So here's my issue ... my boyfriend has this girl Wendy who still keeps in contact with him. The very first night we went out, she was blowing up his cell phone with phone calls and texts like "please come over" "make love to me" "i need you" "i left my door unlocked" "im ... (327 words)

I can't stand his "been there, done that" attitude!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for over 3 years and we are living together almost 2. a couple of weeks ago i casually brought up the topic of kids , i said that this was something that i was starting to think about as i have just turned 35. he was horrified and made remarks like i was ... (326 words)

Crossing the line in a friendship...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would a girl who is "just friends" with a guy go out on the town with him behind his girlfriend's back when she KNOWS he has a girlfriend and the girlfriend doesn't like her and thinks she's after him? If they get caught, they'll be accused of cheating! Isn't that ... (57 words)

Is he lurking in the shadows??????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I recently have gotten out of a bad relationship with my ex after he caused me physical and mental abuse. We have been separated for almost 6 months now and were together for almost a year. He became very close with my best frinds husband who I have known for the ... (275 words)

Spending time with ex as just friends???

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8 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am still very close to my ex girlfriend. Our circumstances for finishing were complicated. It wasn't... a normal situation I know I still like her, and for a while she said we could date again then she said she only cared for me as a friend. We talk everyday by text... (115 words)

Update on being stepmother to a 3 year old.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (An update, of being a stepmother to a 3 year old..) I'm 21, and my husband to be is 23) Its me again.... Just an update also.... Things started to get a little better, then just recently, going back down... The 3 year old is starting to disrespect me sometimes, call me na... (363 words)

Do I take him back after he's been coming on to my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi... i need some advice on this situation im going through right now. my ex boyfriend and i has been broken up almost a month now but he was still telling me how much he still is in love with me and how much he loves and misses me. last week he told me we're going to be ... (253 words)

How do I tell my new partner I'm pregnant with my ex's baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey so i broke up with my ex 1 month ago and i have just found out i am pregnant i am really happy about it and i have told my ex but my problem is i now have a new partner that i have been with for 3 weeks and i dont know how to tell him. i really like him and dont want to ... (124 words)

How do I leave my boyfriend?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i really need some help! Been with my boyfriend with 2.5 years, and live together with 2 other housemates. I havent felt that things are right for a long while but recently its been even worse. hes always been v opinionated and argumentative. We have 3 big argments in the ... (360 words)

My whole family saw our sex tapes!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf and I have been together for 3 years, she is 18 and I am 20. A few weeks ago we made a sex tape with my web cam and downloaded it to my computer. I thougth I put it in a folder that was private and needed a password to open. Monday we left to come on vaction with my ... (306 words)

Help! Should I move on with my life or take on the challenge and be the guy she likes most?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a situation. I like this girl and would love to be more than friends with her one day. She is a very sociable and outgoing person, but I just can't stand it when she is with other guys especially when they all(many) hug her and she takes numerous pictures with them. ... (202 words)

Dreams... or premonitions?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Since i have been going out with my boyfriend i seem to have dreams about him that keep coming true. he had the string to my prom dress cause he was trying to get a tie the same color and i had a dream one night that he lost it , and he called me the next day in the morning and ... (310 words)

5 dollars for a 2 dollar coffee???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl I work with, whom I get along with pretty well. She knows I really have a thing for her, but she's older than me. The other day I went to get coffee but she didn't have any money on her, so I bought her one. She said she'd pay me back but I told her not to worry ... (148 words)

Am I mid-life crazy or is it truly time to make a break?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a 39 year old guy, married 18 years with 2 kids 15 and 10 boy and girl. My wife has had a lot of health problems over the years. About 6 or 7 years ago our sex life became virtually non-existant. Finally 3 years ago I had an affair for about 4 months. I told my wife i was ... (148 words)

Wh do I love him...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is one a lot of people ask me and I can't answer, 'Why do i love him?' My boyfriend is Jealous, Possessive, Angry and Domineering, When we're out anywhere he holds on to me so tight and hates it when i'm out of his sight, but all i know is i love him so much my h... (356 words)

A co worker is trying to get me in trouble and I am tired of the triangle effect!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok this is what's going on thank you for helping.. I don't know even where to begin, so here at facts she likes me I am female too, she baited me to tell her I liked her - I never did - I started dating a coworker Man she stopped talking to me then to creating problems between ... (653 words)

How can I cut her out of my life???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I had this good good friend a while back me and her and I were extremely close, about a week and half ago I decided to write her a myspace message during which I looked up her status and moods, I found out she was pregnant which was a shocker so I left her a message saying I ... (416 words)

Anxious about body changes from taking the pill.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have never been on the pill but I am getting quite a bit of hair on my neck and chin, I have made an appointment with my doctor and my friend says she will probably test my hormone levels, how do they do that? I have googled the pill and the most common type of pill to ... (124 words)

Bunny Boiler trapped my husband in a 5 year affair!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 16 years, we have two children ages 9 and 10, I caught him at this girls house 5 years ago, and he said he was helping her thru issues and they were friends- dumb me right- I believed him. I ask him to not talk or see her again, he said he ... (371 words)

Nightmares and flashback from a childhood assault.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, :]. Let me begin by saying that this is really hard for me to talk about and if there is anything that needs clarification I can do that. I'm going to give lots of details so I can hopefuly avoid having to do that. It started maybe a year ago, I got my period ... (397 words)

To dress or not to dress?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - *OP's own title* I need the advice from Married women out there ONLY.. I am a happily married man. I am the typical jock type of guy that loves sports and coaching my kids. I love everything about women, the way they look, taste, feel, ect.. Recently my wife of 10 years sugg... (148 words)

It seems like he's keeping his options opened!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been dating a guy for about 4 wonderful months. we saw each other every other week because he lives 3 hours drive from me and he has custody of his 2 children every other week. He was the one to tell his family and kids even his ex about me and he discussed why no... (294 words)

I'm 17, pregnant and considering adoption!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, pregnant and considering adoption, i have read that you grieve every day and can no longer enjoy your childhood for worrying about the baby you gave up. I feel little for the foetus, although being only a month old i'll admit, and only knowing a few days. Anyway, i just ... (123 words)

Pregnant with twins! Thank god it was only a dream but why do I keep dreaming this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that this really has nothing to do with relationship advice, but I need help anyway! I'm a good girl, 18, and never even dated. But lately I've been dreaming that I'm pregnant! These are becoming very frequent, like 3 in the past week! The last two dreams have been... (121 words)

He told me that getting physical with me doesn't make him feel good!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dunno I've been feeling guilty! I had this GUY in my life but he wasn't my boyfriend literally! But we were a lil intimate! He's given me an orgasm and kissed me! But today he happened to tell me this... That getting physical to me doesn't make him feel good. We are wor... (208 words)

Why has he went cold on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi :-)iam a 19 year old girl who is very confused about a relationship with this boy who attends the same college as me. I know a fair deal about the lad's background which i shuld share with you even though some of it is confidental. He is 17 and is living at home alone wi... (496 words)

Advice re au pair jobs abroad!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'd really appreciate some advice on these job offers. I'd like to go and work abroad as an Au Pair. I'll write about both families, and you can tell me what you think. One of the families is from Switzerland. They have three kids , a girl, 18 months old , another gir... (657 words)

Does he need some "cave time"???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just spent a lovely couple of days with the man I've been dating for 3 months. We live a couple of hours away, we talk quite a bit but don't get to see each other all that often, so when we do it's quite special. I went down to see him this time seeing as previous tim... (581 words)

Giving him head makes me puke!

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy for almost a year and i still cant give him head like i have to my other bf i dont know why, i start fine and when i start to go deeper i puke. Someone help me plz. P.S. he is the biggest guy i been with but i could take my ex's all the way help me ... (67 words)

Why do they hate me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's mother and two sisters hate me. To make a long story short our son is seven years old and they only call 6 times a year. They live in North Dakota and we live in Florida. When they call it makes me mad because they want to know everything about their nephew. They ... (106 words)

I love my best friend more than I like my own boyfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, I'd like to note that I have a boyfriend of my own. And have never admitted to being anything other than straight - since well I thought that's all I was. My best friend and I have been best friends for almost 2 years now. We spend lots of time together and in ... (308 words)

I'm struggling to trust her, but she's still flirty with the ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! Im a guy who is currently struggling to trust his gf. She talks to guys from her past which i know alot of because we were really close friends before we started dating. we've been together for about 5 months now. So she use to tell me everything like who she liked, who she ... (211 words)

I'm finding it hard to belive I might be pregnant

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 1 week and 4 days late on my period. today i took a pregnancy test and it came out positive straight away, two dark pink lines. i went to the docs and got a midwife appointment. does this actually mean im pregnant? im finding it hard to believe.... (53 words)

Do people often record themselves having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i were talking about trying new things in the bedroom. He brought up how he wants to film me giving him a blowjob. He then said, but thats a bit personal, i dont expect you to do it but id love to watch it over and over. Iam thinking id love to do this for h... (98 words)

Only attracted to older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid I dont know why but i can only fall for older men. I have tried liking people my age but i just can't. i am in love with like 6 different guys (and obsessed with 1 guy) and i have no clue what to do and all of my friends are so sick of earing my love troubles... (67 words)

Am I misinterpreting her body language or is she interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age - Hi Theres a woman I have known for 3 years now. We became great friends and she shares every little thing thats happenning in her world with me. She has been divorced for 8 years now and is very mistrusting of men.We also have a lot in common in terms of our interests and ou... (751 words)

It started as a one-night-stand; now I'm wondering ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been single for two years and when I split up with my ex, three months later I met James. He was my first one night stand...this was two years ago and I last slept with him last weekend. We don't meet up regularly he often texts me and I say I'll meet him and then I don't ... (356 words)

Is age only a state of mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im a 26 year old single lady.I have been friends with this guy for over two years now.i always knew that he was attracted to me but has never really asked me out.The truth is that i am also attracted to this guys and i would like to go out with him but im not sure since this ... (66 words)

Am I being sensitive & reading too much into these so called past friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a question. I bumped into an old friend 2 weeks ago. We were very close one time, but over the years lost contact. Anyway we exchanged numbers and emails... she missed called me the same day so a few days later i text messaged her back. she didnt bother to... (266 words)

I don't enjoy being unfaithful to my boyfriend but I cant stop seeing my cousin!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for eight years and we have a daughter who is three years old. I am comfortable with my life with my boyfriend and I do care for him, however I am not in love with him. Recently,I met up with my cous... (160 words)

I cant imagine feeling this way about anyone else, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a really bad problem. I am in love with my nurse and I know there is no way I can be with her. I have no idea how to stop feeling the way I feel for her. Everytime I see her I just realize how special she is, quite honestly I feel as if I don't want to be here anymore. ... (285 words)

Should I have pushed the subject with him teaching me to drive?

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8 April 2010 (F) - First off, i have been dating and trying to keep busy. Was with my ex for 3 and a half years..it was petty stuff i think that broke us apart.. fighting over things i regret.. no one cheated.. we did have alot of love.. he broke it off... a year later i leave him a vmail and ... (546 words)

Nothing is putting me off wanting a baby, am I really ready at 14 or is it just a phase?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: Poster's real age is 13, not 18-21] okay, this question wasnt posted for me to be insulted. so if you have a problem then please leave your comments out. im 13, nearly 14, and i am desperete for a baby. i was watching a documentary on TV, and i saw the ups... (97 words)

Is it possible to overcome shyness/social phobias and go on to do what you want in life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this isn't really a relationship problem, although it affects my relationship, it's more of a life problem. I feel like I don't know what Iwant to do with my life, like I have no passion or real desire to do any specific career. I have begun a course in art and ... (297 words)

She will be moving back to Thailand in 3 months, is there a solution for keeping our relationship alive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What can I do to not lose my girlfriend who is an exchange student and will leave in 3 months? We both love each other soooo much we're like the perfect couple you know and then sadly she has to go back to her country. She means everything to me, I mean a lot to her too. I ca... (343 words)

I have a feeling something is wrong, but when I ask he always says he is fine!

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. We have had our ups and downs, we have almost broken up, and we have almost gotten engaged. I love him with everything I have in me and he says he feels the same. I believe that he loves me. We are together all the time, like a ... (253 words)

My ex wants me to give him his Christmas presents otherwise I have to give my gifts back! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy everyone, bit of a problem.. Right, me and my boyfriend broke up like three months ago, just after christmas and before new year, which wasnt good really, great start to the new year ey :) Anyway, he gave me his gift just before christmas, a fred perry polo and a reall... (267 words)

Is there a correlation between gender and sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am curious. I have a pretty good sex life, but I think my sex drive is a little higher than that of my boyfriend. Don't get me wrong, it doesn't bother me, because I am getting enough to keep me satisfied and I know we both love each other to pieces, but it just made me ... (158 words)

Is it a bad thing to tell her I love her even though she has a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with a girl since 8 months and i've had a crush on her since 17 months. We study in the same college. She has a boyfriend since 5 months who studies in her class. I didnt know she was in a relationship until last month.She wants a long term relationship and is not s... (218 words)

How do I get my boyfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been split up from my boyfriend for about three months now, and i havnt had a day where i havn't thought about him, it's weird, ive never really had this before, ive had other boyfriends but they havn't been that hard to get over, but this guy, he was really something, we ... (399 words)

Its the age old problem, does my female friend want to be more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, I'm new on here and would greatly appreciate any advice on the situation I'm in. It might be a lengthy post, but I want to provide as much detial as possible, so I apologise in advance. It's the age old scenario of 'does a female friend want to be more'. I h... (808 words)

Will my husband know if I'm not a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in relationship with a man last two years, now im going to marry other person, if leave my first relationship before 6 months of my marriage, will my husband know my virginity?... (34 words)

How can I reconcile my boyfriend's sexual history with my lack of one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5143 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a gay 22-year-old male involved in my first relationship with another man, which has lasted now for a bit over a year. We've been long distance for almost 10 months, as I'm spending a year working on the other side of the planet (in a non-LGBT-friendly society, for what ... (833 words)

I'm pregnant! Can I rely on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im 4-5 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend doesn't know im pregnant yet but he knows that i missed my period and even said he would want me to keep it if i was. so i tested and i am, i am going to tell him when im ready though. i have been thinking alot about this baby as im ... (152 words)

What kind of a connection is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5144 days ago

8 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I normally wouldn't ask a stranger online for some advice, and I want clarify from the very beginning that I want nothing at all from the person I will be talking about. I just need someone to explain what the heck is going on: I am a professional in the beginning ... (635 words)

Was he full of it from the beginning or was he just running away?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I know that I had my part in some pretty immoral things in this whole thing. I'm willing to admit that. But here goes: My friend started to date this guy that I'd known about three years ago (because I went to school with him) and they had a great... (1072 words)

Insecure about having sex

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8 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 21 year old virgin guy with 3.5 inch penis. I'm really worried about my sexual life about my penis size. please help. Am I normal? Can I increase the size?... (33 words)

How does the pill work?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunts, Just got the pill today from the doctor, and he told me to take it on the first day of my period - only question is, does that mean the active pill, or the inactive pill in the 'start' area of the packet (I realise that this is like taking no pill at all....)... (110 words)

My girlfriend for refuses sex!

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8 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i dont even know what to do again,because everytime i ask my girl friend for sex,she will refuse due to the size of my manhood,please what should i do to improve the size the size of my penis in order to be having great enjoyment with my girl friend.thanks... (49 words)

Should I continue to pursue her when she's preoccupied with her friends and ex b/f?

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8 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi I've been going out with this girl for a year. ithe proble I have with her is what she's told me... She told me she cheated before choose friends over her man. Lied. She has a wicked attuite and hangs up . So also hangs out with her group of guy friends drinking till 2 in ... (235 words)

Should I tell him of my affair?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All In high school, i was blessed with a remarkable guy. But in year 2000 he past away in an accident. I went thru a hard time. I even contemplated suicide but since my family was depending me for income, that made me strong to work and start life. I strongly beli... (393 words)

Present for my ex-girl friend?

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8 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So, my now ex-girlfriend and I broke up about four months ago, over some personality quirks of mine and we sort of agreed it would be better for her if the relationship ended. Her birthday is coming up soon and I wanted to get her something nice that says I care about you a lot ... (97 words)

Is it ok to let the guy do most of the work?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This might be a strange question. I'm wondering if it's ok to let the guy do most of the work when you're in a relationship...setting up dates, calling you, etc. I've been with my BF for about 7 months. In the beginning I felt that the asking out, planning dates and callin... (196 words)

Marriage is a mess! Can anything be salvaged from it?

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8 April 2010 (M)

age - I stumbled across this site through Google, and basically just need someone to listen. 11 years ago, my wife and I got married (second time for me, first for her). At that time, she was a little overweight, but sexy with it. Fast forward to 2009: three months ago, she was in ... (460 words)

He doesn't want what I want and I have fallen for him!

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - DEAR CUPID I have been "dating/messing" around with this guy that works @ my job for two months now. He is 34 I am 22, in the beginning he told me he wasn’t really looking for anything serious but unfortunately I disregarded all of that and now I have fallen for him. He flirts ... (102 words)

Why do I have these feelings and thoughts about guys?

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8 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: 2 questions put together on same post>> I have a big problem im currently dating a girl, im an uncircumsised male and i love how my girl performs oral on me and plays with my foreskin everything is good and all but the thought of me performing oral on an uncut ma... (158 words)

He Has NO sex Drive

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8 April 2010 (F)

age - I am in a long term relationship with a wonderful man in almost every way but one. Our sex life is non - existant. We have had sex one time in the last 4 years and that was only after I told him that I was unhappy about our lack of sex life. A bit of history. My guy... (358 words)

I think he really likes me

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I think a guy likes me. Whenever we are at lunch he will always sit next to me and start blurting into my conversation. When I am in class kids say that hes staring at me. Im not very popular and I dont see why he would like me. He seems alot like a stalker! Does this ... (62 words)

She threatened to have an affair or go to a sperm bank to have another child

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8 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife had a pituitary tumor that grew after she gave birth to our first. Another pregnancy would be risky. She asked what I thought about having another child. I said I voted no as I didn't want to lose her or take the chance of killing my daughter's mother so I could have ... (144 words)

Husband does not want to have sex with me and would do anything but that!

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What should I think when my husband hasn't made love to me for months. He has had a back problem for a while yet has done nothing to get better. He goes to work, he even works around the yard but when it comes to bed NOTHING! I don't know what to think. He tried getting ... (124 words)

Should I go on a date with a married man? He's so hot

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello guys I'm a 22 year old woman and well i was getting some work done waiting for the owner to get an estimate and this super hot guy walked in he kept checking me out so neways he was like your incredibly beautiful and I told him thanks he kept flirting with me and gave me ... (216 words)

Does he like me or just want FWB?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - first off i am 21, and my brother is 19, but his best friend is 18. his friend is so attractive and we have soo much in common, me him my brother and his girl friend all bowl together and go to baseball games and things like that. we get along so great. i have been attracted ... (144 words)

Mixed bag of random questions.

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8 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Can someone please answers some of my curious questions!! (as many as you can, maybe? Just write the number by it and state your answer) 1. When do boys start getting horny and turned on and get erections? 2. Do you have to pop your cherry before you have your period? ... (245 words)

Girlfriend won't let me go out without her!

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8 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i have been together for nearly a year. Ive never cheated on her or came close to. But she wont let me go out by myself. Out to clubs, even with my brother or friends. Private partys or anything, shes a couple of months younger and so cannot go to these places ... (71 words)

How can I get our relationship back on track?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - help! my friend/boyfriend and i are very inexperienced in healthy, normal relationships and i need help to know what to do to resolve ours or get things back on track. my long distance friend/boyfriend told me recently that he cheated. there is a history to our relations... (1238 words)

The 'Crushing On The Best Friends Boyfriend' problem.

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bit of a stereotypical problem here. I kind of like my one of my friend's boyfriends. I know it's cliche! Before they started going out, I had acknowledged he was cute amd nice, but now that they are dating and all that, what was first a cursory glance quickly became a ... (369 words)

Should I just settle for being loved even though the romance and sex has died?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age - My husband and I have been together for 16 years. Initially we had a very healthy sex life. Over the last five years it has been reduced to almost nothing. Now I have spied on his computer and he is looking at transgender porn sites. I know that he loves me, but has no ... (138 words)

Everyone says he wants to break up with me, but he does not do it.

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok well,my boyfriend(ps:astrology belivers welcomed)he is a virgo and im a gemini, he is very demanding and im free spirited. hes passionate im not. we've always worked through it, but lately we've been having some troubles. well in highschool we get a weeks off vacation... (584 words)

Boyfriend troubles.

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - *Mod Note - This post contains 4 seperate postings that have been made in to one* 1/ My boyfriend broke up with me 5 months ago, and it broke my heart, but he came back to me a month later and told me he really wants to be with me, and it took the time apart to realize ... (1077 words)

If he has not called in a month should I ring him or just move on?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - We hooked up at a party where we met 3 months ago and since then we have been going out on dates every week or every other week. And there have been a lot of making out with him. But we never made it official or talked about whether we are in a relationship or not. It seems ... (187 words)

How do I deal with a jealous ex?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I dated this guy for about four months. Finally we broke up and he got all jealous and pissed off about it. Now everytime he texts me he says, " where you? who you with? Who are you dating?" and more. Everytime I see him, he gets jealous if I'm with another male. Please ... (64 words)

What would happen if we were caught running away?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so i had to break up with my boyfriend, because my mother doesnt like the fact that he doesn't live near me, he lives about 30 minutes or so away from me, and i get to see him every weekend. and we've been dating for almost a year, and this is the first time i've ever... (218 words)

Should I masterbate?

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8 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I just told my dad i have considered masterbating. I dont know if I should do it though. Can anyone help me? Please message me as fast as possible! Thank you! ( Im 13 and a male.)... (37 words)

Is my relationship at it's end If I am unhappy and find myself irritated all the time?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am just so confused. I've been with my bf for almost 3 years and we have a one year old,but I don't know if we were meant to be together. I find myself irritated at many little things he does now. For example how long it takes him to get ready to go some where or the way he ... (172 words)

How can I get out of a date without seeming nasty?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mind is so messed up. I have been messed around by a few guys in the past that i really cared for and felt we had an amazing connection. In Janaury i got hurt by a guy i honestly thought would never ever hurt me. After that i came to the descion i need to work on myself b... (318 words)

How can I enjoy oral sex when he is pulling faces?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't trust my boyfriend with oral sex anymore. He went down on me a few times in the beginning of our relationship, and I enjoyed it. However, some of the first times he did it, he made a face like he really hated the taste. Another time, he told me he "couldn't get the smel... (226 words)

Caught my husband on a swinging site and don't know what to do.

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Last month I discovered on my partners computer whilst he was at work that he had joined a swinging site upset and confussed i decided to join myself to view his profile once i found him I became heartbroken as his relationship status was single and bi curious we have been ... (178 words)

My ex offered me a cruise. Do I take even though he's hoping we get back together?

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8 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Since breaking up from my ex I have had feelings of relieve mainly because we no longer live together. After the dust had settled we have remained platonic and by choice are still not dating anyone else. My dilemma is whilst there are still raw emotional edges between us to ov... (152 words)

Wondering where this online relationship could go.

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8 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy In december last year when i was on windows messenger, this girl randomly started a conversation with me. I had no idea who she was or anything, but we started to speak. Although it was just online, we got on really well. She was 15 and I was 16, and i thought we had r... (580 words)

I'm a lesbian, but don't want a relationship with my roommate.

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8 April 2010 (F)

age - hey everyone I have a problem I am a Lesbian and I have a roommate who is my bestie friend of thirty five years and the god mother of my children... my problem is she always seen to undress in front of me when she get out of the shower which is next to my bedroom she always ... (153 words)