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He was too rough and now I'm bleeding

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Question - (5 April 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I had sex with this guy on saturday. He likes to use his fingers and he went a bit rough and deep he tried to put his fist in and i was bleeding.. He also said there was like a wall there.. I have been spot bleeding since saturday and dont know why? This is a strange question but need to know as theres no gp's available today...

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (5 April 2010):

Tisha-1 agony auntHe likes to use his fingers and go a bit rough and deep? What do YOU like? Do YOU like that? It's YOUR body, you have to be the one who takes care of it. Clearly, this man is not going to.

Of course you're bleeding, you've had an item larger than baby's head jammed in your vagina. Who knows what kind of tissue damage he did?

This is ridiculous. Go use this NHS web tool and get answers from qualified medical professionals.

http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/help/bodykey/index.aspx

I did a little test run there and it asked you to call the free phone number because you are bleeding. Go be sensible, please.

Good luck, and please please please take care of yourself.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (5 April 2010):

Not My Name agony aunt*bleeding* - typo

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (5 April 2010):

Not My Name agony aunterr, umm, what on earth is a guy doing trying to put a fist up you?

I know people do that, but I have even had a baby and i find that totally unimaginable.

He would be bledeog - not me - coz I'd probably have punched him in the nose before he had half a chance of trying to torture me as such.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010):

wow...he tried to put his fist in??? You should def. try to see a Dr. as soon as possible. Its possible he tore you pretty bad but im not sure...it doesnt sound good though. And is this guy worth it for him to be stretching you out so bad?? I know that sometimes we get caught up in the act that we dont think about the time when we'll settle down and get married, but you wanna make sure your feminine parts are in tact for your future husband. I had sex with really large men in the past and am now trying to tighten up for my future husband. Those other men were not worth giving myself too.

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A female reader, help heros  United Kingdom +, writes (5 April 2010):

help heros  agony auntring the nhs helpline and explain they will give you a a number to ring if it is very painfull take painkillers untill you get through to someone. good luck x

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