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writes:Is it wrong to want a baby with your boyfriend? I'm fifteen and he's turning fifteen May 31, 2010...We were on the phone last night and he was saying he wouldn't break up with me and he would stay and raise the baby...do you think I should believe him? HELP!..I really wana loose my virginity to him anyway because he is a virgin too. I rather do it with someone who hasnt before you know? ugh! Help Please! Thanks!! xoxo
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reader, GoGreen126 +, writes (6 April 2010):
It's perfectly normal for a teenage girl to want a baby. That does not mean, however, that you should go out and get pregnant! I know what it's like to want a child VERY much, but don't act on that desire. You're 15. You have so much to look forward to in life, and many of them require motherhood to be later on rather than now. For now you should finish high school and maybe go to college. Have a career. Then you can start thinking about babies more seriously. Just because you want one doesn't mean that's what's best for you or your bf or your potential child.Best of luck,message me with questions,--GG
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): use condoms or/and other forms of birth control. dont even think bout having babies because it will ruin ur childhood and ur bf wont stick around to help u out. in the best scenario, he would stick by u but dont think he will take full responsability of ur kid. usually guys flee from pregnant chicks...
and baby are NOT fun. after one 3days of taking care of it u will prob end up resenting ur kid because its hard work.
also when u used condoms make sure he reads the instructions carefully on how to put them on and only.. only hav sex when u feel ure ready. dont feel pressured to do it cause ur friends are doing, cause it looks fun on tv, or cause ur bf wants it!
ull end up regretting it if not, trust me!
been there, done that
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reader, help heros  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 i been in your shoes hunick by. my boyfriend told me he would be with me forever but sadly we split. we never done anything and in a way i was happy for all i loved him he g left me. i was hurt and we never done a thing i think yous are both still young and there is plenty time to have sex. just enjoy life as it is. and yes you are very right you dont want to be having sex with boys who have got round but then you should sill wait tho untill you are atleast 16. x
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reader, FrozenLullaby +, writes (5 April 2010):
Honey, both of you are still young to be thinking about having a baby.
I know you will get this too much, but you should be entirely sure you are ready before you decide to sleep with him. You have to trust him, AND convince him to use a condom. Many guys think not using a condom is okay, but the risk of you getting pregnant will be huge.
How long have you two been together? If you have only been together for a short amount of time, I suggest getting to know one another as well as possible before you take that step and sleep together. The first time IS important, because it will be something you will carry in your memories forever and you don't want to lose your virginity to someone who might later on be unfaithful/treat you badly/take advantage of you. And most of all, keep in mind that doing it just because everyone seems to be doing it as well is NEVER a reason (trust me, I've been there).
Please notice it's important to use protection. If your boyfriend uses protection and both of you are careful, the risk of you becoming pregnant will be very low.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Don't be stupid. You are both kids. You should not be sleeping together anyway. he may not want to break up with you but his parents will drag him away. Have some self respect. You are too young. babies are not as easy as they look. Enjoy your youth and freedom and concentrate on getting an education - thats what men want - girls with brains - not babies!
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