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I'm really jealous of my best friend's success with guys! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I'm ashamed to admit it, but I'm really jealous of my best friend. She gets so much attention from the guys it's almot impossible for me to find any guy at all whenever we go out. Don't get me wrong, I really love her and care about her, she's my best friend ... (382 words

How should I bring it up and when should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Okay, so basically im in love. Actually im pretty sure I am. Please don't leave comments saying wait, or he's too old, or something that will piss me off and make me hate myself and life even more. Thanks. So, I like this guy who is 6 years older than me. He is 21. And im 14 ... (101 words

I need help to heal my heart

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept him on light duty while ... (299 words

My friends think I should ask him out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3112 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - i like this guy but he doesn't even know that i exist. he is a grade ahead of me and he is one of my best friends cousin. my friends think that i should ask him out, every time i look at him he looks at me and then looks away and then i start to blush and i can feel my face get ... (115 words

Age difference poll.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - im starting a poll to see the age gaps in relationships from ages 14 - 16 e.g. im 14 i went out with a girl tht was 13...... (28 words

Why do guys take so long to call you back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - why do guys take so long to call back? If they don't call after 3 days dose that mean they lost interest?... (22 words

The sex I've had in the past upsets her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend makes me feel bad constantly about the number of sexual partners I have had. I have been with seven other women. I don't think that's a high number. I had sex with seven different women but I only had sex, get this seven times. Every encounter I had was ... (220 words

Why do I cry alot about nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Lately I have been realllyyyyy emotional.. I just wanna cry over thee stupidest things! And no I'm not on my period and I'm way to young to be pregnant. I have cried like six times in the past two days over stupid things. I was laying in bed. Just laying there and I started to ... (69 words

How long before doctor can give you pregnancy results?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi I took a pregnancy test today and it came up positive. I have a doctors appoitment tomorrow to confirm it. I was just wondering when you get a test at the doctors how long have you got to wait until you get the results? Thanks... (46 words

He's acting strange now, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - me and my bf have been going out for almost 2 years and recently we got in a huge fight. it really was one of the stupid fights that mean nothing but it got way out of hand and just blew up. we forgave each other but recently he hasnt been cute at all. i mean he calls me baby ... (176 words

Am I the bad guy for not wanting these people as guests?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hello. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years and living together for almost one year. Today she asked me if it is OK for her son and her X brother n law to come stay the weekend with us. I was totally shocked she asked. I felt somewhat betrayed ... (107 words

Because of a bill I have to communicate with my ex, but he's being difficult!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend, we were together for a year, he was just not paying any attention to the relationship!! the problem is i do not want to talk to him period but the thing is i have to because he is on my phone plan, i want him to disconnect the line, i texted him on ... (168 words

In love with my teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have a big problem. I am majorly in love... with my teacher. I know, I know, you all think it's 'just a crush' but it honestly isn't. I've never felt this way towards someone before. He has told me on four occasions that he loves me. He ALWAYS flirts with me. Sometimes in ... (170 words

Confused, am I a freak?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - i am a 39 year old male who's wife passed away 9 years ago i have not been with another person since.Here is my confusion and question about four months ago i met this great looking girl at a bar she was nice and smart and everything well i went back to her house we watched a ... (160 words

I told her I possibly gave her HIV, but it turned out I didn't have it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Please i need your advice,i wrote last week concerning my girl friend whom i said;said i gave her hiv,but i tasted negativ.It been 2 month 2day since we saw last,initially she was not in town,but came back 3 days ago,that anxiety of seeing me whenever it long is no longer ... (209 words

Why do I keep cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I keep cheating on my boyfriend. It's as simple as that. I feel like crap, it's happened twice and i've told him twice. The real problem is that I keep flirting and looking for more outside attention. Me and him don't spend very much time together since I moved. It's not that I ... (95 words

Since he hasn't asked the question, should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years we live together and have a mortgage and everything is lovely but my problem is that I really want to get engaged and get married. I have started to discuss it a few times and he gives the impression that it is something he wou... (176 words

Did he go back to his ex because its what he had known for so long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I meat this guy who is not my exactly my type but after the first date we hit up very quick and we been seen each other for 2 months but him ex was constantly calling and texting and on my question what is going on he promised that is nothing till one day I see them together ... (211 words

Am I silly because I want him to wear a condom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (? age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am thinking about having sex with my partner for the first time. I am a virgin and he is not- I am in my mid twenties and he is nearly forty years old. I am already on birth control and condoms and lube are at the bedside tabe all ready for the d... (257 words

I really want to like him, but I've been told he's a man-whore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - A little background, I've always fallen for the man-whore. Even if I didn't know it. There's this guy I met a couple weeks ago who goes to my school. He's a senior in High School and I'm a junior. He invited me to a couple of his volleyball games and his friends made it seem ... (118 words

She wants to be freinds. But does she?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hello all. Well, I really like this girl in my college and after maybe a year or so I finally manned up and decided to let her know how I feel about her. Me and this girl, we were very close freinds, always laughing and joking around, we would chat for hours on end on Facebook ... (450 words

My boyfriend was trying to hook up with my friend and now I'm pregnant by him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - wanted to share my experience I'm going through right now.....Well I was with my bf for bout 3 years and onetime brought a friend around him he told me she looked familar and probably a while back tried to get with her so I left it alone.....me and him always had big ... (658 words

My bits don't look like the girls in porn.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - So any help fr guys would be apreciated, basically. As embarasing as it is my vagina isn't like the ones I've seen in certain porn videos! It's got tight small outer lips everything is good except on my right side one of the inner lips sticks out about 3 cm, I've had sex with 2 ... (91 words

Two Problems I think My friend's girlfriend likes me and I Have a huge crush on her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I have gone on many websites asking for advice and I hope I can find the right answers here. Ok here it goes...I think my friend's girlfriend likes me. She's really nice to me, nicer to me than she is my other friends and she smiles at me alot when I mimic her and when she ... (519 words

My boyfriend is obsessed with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - *OP's own title* hey i am 17 and ive been dating my boyfriend for like a year and a few month,and its not that his to nice to me i can deal with that but the problem that he seems a bit to obsessed with me. well yh his nice and i dont mind that about him but its like at firs... (428 words

Is burping and passing gas a sign of being comfortable with someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi! I have been with my guy for nearly a year, he has always been cautious about farting or burping in front of me, and seems to make an effort to try not to do it around me since we started dating . And seemed to get embarassed everytime he did it by accident. Everytime he ... (138 words

I feel like I just ruined my chance to be with this amazing girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - My ex and I had been hanging out and talking. I guess I kinda freaked and said that I couldn't be friends with her bc I still have feelings for her. Today I got a really long email saying that the reason she had been in contact, trying to hang out ect, was to maybe restart ... (185 words

She is rubbing pregancy in my face!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - me and my hubby have been TTC for about 1 and 1/2 years, his sister is pregant with her 3rd child and i am really happy for her, but my hubbys bro and his gf have been TTC for about 9mths and she just fell pregant. which im was happy for her but now im sick of it and it kil... (213 words

He said he was "out with someone". What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - There's this boy who is my mate but the thing is, is that I fancy him but I have asked him out and he didn't say yes or no he said "I'm out with someone" I have no idea what to do please give me a answer?? ... (48 words

Is it vain or arrogant to believe he loved me too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Please help me. I'm 39. When I was at Uni, I met a lovely man who was my friend. We were both devout catholics and had a lot in common. He eventually told me he loved me and wanted to go out with me. I was shocked as I hadn't seen it coming - he had said he wanted to be a ... (520 words

How to help my friend???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - my friends bf is a loser. he just got out of jail for turning some poor guy into a vegetable. she is constantly finding him lying about text/calling girls but she never finds out the content of the convos. she confronted one of the girls who told her to watch out for her bfs ... (148 words

What do you do when you want to leave someone but feel stuck (because you live with them)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with this guy for 3 years, and I love him deeply. However, when we moved in together 2 years ago, our relationship turned into a rollercoaster. Things will change for a little while, and everyone is happy, then he will regress back to where we started. Now we are ... (1503 words

Why is NOT wearing a bra so important to my husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Whenever I am away from work, and I am talking nights, weekends, and vacations, my husband insists that I don't wear a bra. I thought you had to be 18 and/or flat chested to do that. Being 31 and having a full bosom, I have been worried that my breasts would sag from lack of ... (159 words

Trying to get her back... or just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm 25 years old and I'm french, my ex girlfriend is 26 and she is korean. We spent 1 year and a half together, but only 8 months really together. We met in nyc, we wre both studying english. She didn't want to date me first because she said that she didn't want to fall in ... (1675 words

Should I be more understanding when he is stressed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My bf doesn't think anything to do with me is important. I have been looking for a job for months now, stressing because i have bills to pay but because of the bad economy it is very hard to find work in my industry. i finally did get a full time job and he didn't even seem... (206 words

I confronted him about another girl and he spat on me and shoved me down the stairs. How do I move on from this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am not sure how to get over this so im asking for everyones opinion. I just recently broke up with my ex saturday because I confronted him about texting this girl and deleting messages from her. he got all pissed off kicked me out of his house with no place to go, spit in my ... (218 words

Sometimes I wish I could just dissapear!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I am a mother of 5, my oldest daughter is graduating this year...Then I have a 16 year old daughter and a 14 year old son, a 11 and 10 year old daughters. Well, when I was 20 I was ran over by a drunk driver, I had a spinal cord injury, I never cried, never really thought ... (503 words

Is it possible he has a personality disorder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 3 years. The man involved and I love each other very much and express it too each other alot. We do have our arguements. I have found when we argue all the things I tell him are thrown in my face and when we argue he always ends the ... (209 words

We have not met yet so would it be unreasonable to ask him to remove other girls from his facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - a guy i've been talking to thru internet and texting for a month says he loves me and wants to meet me so we r meeting in a few wks. i know he is who he sez he is cos met him thru a friend. on hif facebook. he has 500 friends. i'd say he knew bout 50 of them and the other 450 ... (125 words

Boyfriend wont speak to me over a facebook message from I guy I don't even know.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend has fallen out with me cos last week (friday) on facebook a lad i had never talked to before he just sed it was a random add. he sent me a facebook chat message saying "you look F*****G amazing you Gorgeous babe" my boyfriend was stood behind me and he kicked off ... (171 words

Is he too good to be true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - i have been dating a guy for six months. he seems amazing. he doesn't want to have sex yet and accepts im not ready. he never pushes me into anything. he also says he wants to marry me. is he too good to be true?... (45 words

I really want to kiss him but I don't know if he feels the same!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - ok so theres this boy in my neighborhood i like, hes been my bff for like 2 years i really wanna kiss him but i dont know if he would kiss me or not! he's 1 year younger than me and im 14 need advice! thx... (47 words

How can I get my husband to be more friendly towards family members?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi. My husband is very nice to me. But sometimes he gets angry for silly reasons and shouts at me. I sometime feel like getting out of it but it will be impossible. He loves his parents a lot but he never speaks to them he always shout at them. He never likes my family members ... (180 words

How do I explain to her my situation without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - I've been seeing a lovely woman for over two months now and we get along perfectly well and we have a close and intimate relationship. She recently moved to my city (and the country) while I have been here for over a decade. There is a big age gap (over ten years), but it i... (321 words

What else can I do to get over him now he has gone back to his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey, I was with this boy for only 4 months but really fell for him. he then said i was too full on so he ended it. i have now found out at hes getting back with his ex but i really do like him and cant stop thinking about him. ive tryed to keep busy but it isnt working. what ... (70 words

Is there something wrong with me if I think about sex all the time despite being a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Is there something wrong with me,I think about sex all the time,and when I like guys I generally think about shagging them rather than being in a relationship,as I don't really like the exclusiveness.but the thing is I'm a virgin,I masterbate but how can I be so randy if iv ... (62 words

How can I be desireable to him and win him over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - So,here's the thing, I have been single for 1.5 years.I have had various love intrests and now I'm really into this guy from work, we get on well and flirt,I didn't want to pursue anything as he had a girlfriend but they just broke up and now I think I should. but Iv been out ... (207 words

He has a kid with another woman, ...but I love him so much.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - *OP's won title* i met a guy some weeks ago, i fell in love with him and he did the same, the thing is that he has a kid with another woman who fortunately happen to get married thats now according to him... i love this guy very much and am even looking forward to marrying him,... (118 words

Sex text tips needed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - im in a fairly new relationship and would like to try sex texting but iv never done it before and im not even sure what kind of things to put dowm.. any tips?... (34 words

My brother's jealousy ruined my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - *OP's own title* When I was 20 my older brother liked the same girl that I did. She didn't want him she wanted me. We started going together and I fell really hard for her. We had a good relationship for a almost two years but things didn't work out. She broke up with me o... (317 words

I was totally blindsided by my girlfriend suddenly dumping me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - What do I do? I have been broken up with my ex-girlfriend for 3 weeks now. Of course, I'm still sad, but I have accepted it's over. I have no sort of disillusionment in wanting her back. I just want to move on. What's gnawing at me is I still do not understand the break-up at ... (200 words

Is he up to something if it took him 2 months to kiss me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - What do you think?? is my boyfriend up to something bad? my bf is really sweet.it took him 2months to kiss me..we'd hang out cuddle, hold hands but he didn't make a move to kiss me. i asked him why it took him that long cos most guys would just jump on me.. he said hes got resp... (138 words

Sick of this pain in the neck!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi, i cant actually remember when this problem first started but ive had enough of the pain. Ive always had problems with my neck, it does crack if its really that stiff which isnt painful but im forever moving my neck from side to side because its that uncomfortable and ... (316 words

I want him to love me like he loves his ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Am a young entrepreneuer, very independent, have my own home etc and have been dating my boyfriend for the past two years.The only reason that he is in this realationship with him, because i make my own monies and i look after him pretty well, but he is not in love with me. Am ... (141 words

My sisters husband is cheating on her, ..with our other sister!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - I've got two sisters one is 58 and the other is 53. Recently my older sister finds out her husband has fallen in love with my other sister. She is upset about it but have no courage to confront them. I want to help but dont know where to start. Please help.... (56 words

To shave or not to shave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3112 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I feel like this is a ridiculous question to ask but I really don't know how to go about my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything has been great. He treats me very well and I'm very happy. Our sex life is incredible but I'm looking to ... (170 words

Timing of Divorce & catching a cheat (UK civil law)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - *OP's own title* I have posted before about the fact that my wife is yet again cheating on me with a work colleague. I tentatively suggested today as she went out to meet a friend for lunch that she looked fabulous, and asked 'Who is the lucky man?' - knowing full well she is m... (162 words

Burning sensation during sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey i had a yeast infection 5 weeks ago and got treatment for it but it still burns badly when i have sex with my bf and i find it hard to sit down because of the pain. it is not because of lubrication problems because i am always wet its like my vaginer is being ripp... (125 words

LDR problems--boyfriend says he was happy until he met me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, I need some serious advice on how to deal with my boyfriend. We have been in a long-distance relationship since last July. I love my boyfriend dearly and ended a 6-year relationship with someone who loved me very much and treated me like a queen, for this man. In... (691 words

I want sex more than 4X a week! How do I do this with husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - am 23 years old and my husband is 31 yrs old, he is from a very traditional family, he loves me so much, he knows about my past. i was not a virgin when i got married to him and he didnt care about my past. we rarely had good sex as i ve got keratosis pilaris (a skin disorder ) ... (158 words

There's only one problem..

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been married for five years now. My husband and I recently separated and now he wants me back. The problem is he sucks in bed. I have been enjoying my sex life, which I haven't in the last past three years. My husband was decent in bed at first but the last couple of ... (179 words

Why would he hide these things?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - What is wrong with my husband? Here's my story. We've been together 7yrs, married 3yrs. I don't have my family in the country and he doesn't have his family in the state. So it was just the 2 of us here. He met all of my friends, but I haven't met any of his. He's black, I'm ... (647 words

I'm really into her, but she doesn't want any part of it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - There is this classmate of mine, who is my best friend and is a girl. I sort of like her, she knows this. Everything was fine until i gave a cell phone as her birthday gift. I did not give it because i like her, i just gave it as a friend.she started fighting with me for this ... (264 words

Should I call it quits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am a 21 year old female and I've been dating this guy who is older than me for 10 months. We have broken up a couple of times and gotten back together. We will be fine for a few weeks and then he disappears, doesn't call or answer phone calls from me for a week or so. When I ... (97 words

He's married. Is it too late?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have told an ex that I am still in love with him. We have not talked or seen eachother in 3 years. He emailed me out of nowhere to send me well wishes. So I took the opportunity to tell him how I have felt for 3 years. He told me he is engaged. We talk every week. H... (335 words

He's ignoring me? help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Okay, so my ex and i started talking again about a month ago. i was so ecstatic because it had been 5 months since he had talked to me (i messed up really bad with him and he broke up with me. but he's forgiven me for it and says he loves me and that he has since before we ... (188 words

Does he really want to be with me? Am I wasting my time and breathe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Dear cupid, Well last week, i went to ma boyfriends house spent the whole week with him, and everything was going well until this one day . I was on his laptop, lookin for music to play, so im going to google and it shows the follwing web sites you mainly get on the most ... (608 words

Is this a normal period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 18-21 - Okay, im only 13 and ive had my period for almost a year but its not regular. Every day i have dischage in my underwear. Its either clear white o yellow.. is that bad? should i go see a doctor? it really bothers me and i change a lot because of it. Please help.... (54 words

I need a little advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend have been going together for 5 months, and he still hasn't kissed me! I really want him to, but don't how to give him the hint, and I'm not even sure if he wants to. Can you help me? Please?... (44 words

Should I get involved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - So my husband's ex-girlfriend (who is currently engaged) STILL cannot get over my husband. He does not speak to her, nor does he reply to her emails, texts, etc. Also, she drove by our house the other day really slow, and she lives about 15+ miles away. She has tried to add me ... (142 words

Don't want to lose her forever

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have a broken heart because my ex girlfriend has a boyfriend and I truely love her and want her back. What can I do?? I dated my ex girlfriend for a year in a half. I'm 32 she's 24 and we were a very good looking couple. She always talked about getting married and kids... (700 words

Condom isn't working properly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

15 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I use a condom every time that we have sex, but there is always secretion at the base of the penis that looks like semen. i have looked it up online and some people have said that it is just white vaginal fluid, but it is identical to semen, and i have never ... (144 words

Do some women really just get nothing from clitoral stimulation?

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15 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Simply put, as the title states I'm just curious if some women out there genuinely get nothing from clitoral stimulation. I'm completely open to the possibility that I'm doing it wrong, but it's really getting to the point where I'm frustrated with myself. I've tried try to ... (241 words

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