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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:for the last two months I've been hopelessly in lust with my best guy friend. It's bad, it's been painful, and I was at my wits end. He knew about my feelings, he kindly made it clear he just wanted friendship. Today at an acquaintance's Easter party, there was an attractive girl, he asked me to get her info, at first I was hurt, I became a bit jealous, but Then I got weird and realized I care for him, and want him to be happy so i made my way to cute hot chick( she turned out to be very nice, btw) I did not get her number mainly bcause I did not know how to subtlely ask for it, like he instructed. She mentioned an Ex but no current BF. While we chatted she received a text From what I assume is a guy since I was sitting where I could see the screen brightly light up with a traditional Male name and she replied happily to the text... FYI, my guy friend had to leave the party, early. But he still insisted I get info. I can only assume her cuteness made him shy, because he's not really!Now he is calling me for the goods. All I could say is she's nice and she has a boyfriend (but that might not be true). He is going to drive me crazy with wanting the details!!!!!!I'm angry at him, but at the same time I don't blame him, because it's not his fault he can't see my cuteness, even tho other guys can. How does one get over a crush? Rejection?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): Very callous of him. Badly done. Best way to get over a crush is to get with someone new...a guy who wants more than just a friendship.
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