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Why isn't he communicating with me anymore?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok, there's this guy that i really like, i've known him a while and we've been out with each other once before, recently after breaking up with the guy i lost my virginity to, i had sex with him, we'd just decided to meet up after not seeing each other for nearly 7 months, and ... (218 words

My b/f still in closet, I understand, but I want to be with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I'm a guy and i have been dating this guy for the past 4 and half months and in the beginning everything was fine, we saw each other every week and we talked just about every single day, up until 2 months ago when things began to change, seeing him dropped from once a week to ... (589 words

Are these arguments normal?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay So, Firstly it's been a long time since I asked question's using this website. I was 15/16 when I used it, I am now 18. I started thinking that if I can't deal with relationship problems myself and confront things with myself and my partners/friends etc... then that ... (596 words

Problems galore--B/f has no job, obsessed with playstation and porn!

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26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend now for nearly ayear and a half, I live at his house at the moment as he likes me to be here and i love bieng with him!! I and would like to have our personal space in a flat. I am finding it very claustraphobic living here and hving his family ... (240 words

My boyfriend says flirting is just a "guy thing"

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26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have been dating close to 8 months now. he is 35 and im 21, but age doesnt seem to be a problem because we both agree its just simply a number and we both love each other. Anyway some of the stuff he does sort of bothers me a little..... (98 words

I tried to forget that teacher but now he's coming on to me.

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26 April 2010 (? age 22-25 - Hey, i'm a 14 year old girl,, I wrote here before,, about teacher/pupil chrush,, and everybody just told me to forget him (my teacher), it would never work so, I belived them,, and tryed to forget him, but it was really hard. And when I was u know, almost getting him off my ... (449 words

I think my best friend's b/f is flirting with me

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26 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - One of my best friends has a bf. Me and him have become pretty close friends. Latley, I've noticed that he is flirting with me (I think). I did like him somewhat before they started going out. Now that they have been going out I seem to like him more and more. Please don't tell ... (100 words

Why don't guys text you back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - This will possibly amuse most of you but im asking one of the most common questions in history.. WHY dont guys text back?? and even when they do 30% of the time its atriaght away 70% of the time it can be hours later. Thye even do it to girls they like or people they;r... (89 words

I don't feel comfortable around this guy, is it ok to cancel the date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - ok, so i have a problem. ive been talking to this guy and we have went out twice. after the second date he started calling me "his" angel and he even said that i could "save" him. ive never been the type of girl that falls for lines so this sort of creeped me out. the problem ... (110 words

I love the man but don't like him most of the time!

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26 April 2010 (F age - I have been in the same relationship for 20 years. I was injured at work and have not been able to work for 6 months. I am on living on a very limited income and try to budget each day. My partner is careless and doesn't budget for anything not even for retirement. He has ... (253 words

How do I tell my wife I understand that she's pregnant but not an invalid!

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26 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - So my wife is about 6 weeks pregnant. I know how the whole pregnancy deal works. It's tiring, they feel nausueted, etc etc. I get it. My wife has made it seem like she's incapacitated! I always pay the bills, maintain the cars, feed the dogs, mow the lawn, take out the tra... (336 words

Are these signs he might be interested?

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26 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am extremely confused about the signals that a guy makes when he likes you. I know one guy that seems to be interested in me, but he hasn't talked to me yet, so i'm not exactly positive. These things that he does include: frequently glancing or watching me, trying to be near ... (92 words

Am I pushing him into a corner to get him to let me move in?

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26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am in a long distance relationship of 70 miles which doesn't sound like much but I'm finding really difficult. I am 26 and he is 31. We've been together 10 rather tumutuous months. I see him very often really considering he has a very busy job - I stay the weekend at h... (232 words

Effort or Experience?

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26 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - Effort or Experience? Some friends and I were having this discussion recently and it seemed that answers were about 50/50. Everyone had good reasons so I thought I'd pose the question here. Which would you prefer in a lover, experience or effort? Why? Feel free to in... (77 words

Boyfriend, marriage and family

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26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined....Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. We've been together 10 months now. I'm very keen to marry him and he would also like to be married. We have some issues in terms of religious and cultural differences. A major problem for him is my family bac... (305 words

Is it okay to break up by text message? What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - So how do you feel about being broken up with by text message? To me there are two types of breakup: 1. You care about the person and you either would consider still talking or even getting back together. 2. You just want to burn your bridges, the town or even the planet ... (259 words

After we did everything, he said he didn't want to be involved

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26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - First of all, the age is wrong, I'm only 17. I've been friends with this guy for ages and for the past year I've been pretty much in love with him, lets call him Chris. I recently was at a party and I think I was a bit all over him. I REALLY wanted to get with him and I was di... (309 words

I'm really worried about my friend but she doesn't seem to be bothered

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26 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have been really worried about my best friend lately, her granny died about 6 months ago and she didnt cope with it very well, since then she started hanging out with some really bad girls and started drinking smoking and taking drugs i have also realised she hasnt been ... (127 words

No lack of sex in our marriage but husband has sex dreams all the time!

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26 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - My husband and I have a very good sex life. I'm open, he's open, and we both seem to enjoy it equally. It hasnt always been this way however. We have a 7yr old and a 18 month old and the last year has been just getting back to normal. I gained over 100lbs with this pregnancy ... (204 words

She doesn't know I'm married after 1 year relationship

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26 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I live in Shanghai and have been in a good relationship with a 28 year old Chinese girl for almost a year, I am 37 years old. She is a very sweet girl and I feel she truly loves me. She is traditional and wants to get married soon, I'm feeling a lot of pressur... (210 words

On the pill..is sex without a condom safe?

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26 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - i'm on the pill, and i never mess up. so is having sex with out a condom safe? neither of us have an STD or and STI or anything. so how big is the chance of his pre cum getting me pregnant?... (42 words

Jealousy, Trust and Respect... am I crazy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Why do people assume that jealousy in a relationship means a lack of trust or some insane amount of insecurity? I'm not talking about jealousy gone out of hand like expecting the other to call every hour or report their schedule or some such nonsense. Just garden variety "... (602 words

Does my girlfriend have the hots for our room mate?

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26 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - over the past months my girlfriend has changed, she doesnt desire sex with me, and i feel like our room mate is the reason why. She claims to hate him but, find them glaring at each other, getting each others attention. I have noticed her masterbating, when she had never don ... (267 words

Girlfriend's controlling parents!

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26 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - well I've been my girlfriend for almost 4 years. she's 21 I'm 20. We're great together and are happy with each other. but her parents are the control obsessive type to the point where they constantly call her to know where she is at all the time and need to cover every aspect ... (337 words

Need advice! He appears to love me, but claims not..., and how do I remain friends? Help appreciated!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ugh, So My boyfriend of 3 1/2 months broke up with me a week ago. I've been either really happy or really upset since then. Everyone keeps telling me that he was the one that made the mistake of dumping me and everything. I don't know what to do, i have to see him everyday and... (285 words

He's only nice to me when he's got his fix

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - i had been with my boyfriend two and a half years and we split for three months and decided to give it another go. But about two to three weeks he got back together with his x who he has a child with he says he only did it for his child and didnt and hasnt got any feelings for ... (531 words

My family may dissown me if I get back with my bf

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Just wanted to see what everyones thoughts are on my situation... My boyfriend got violent with me a few weeks ago, he didn't hit me, just pushed me and stuff. I had him arrested that night and have not had him back to the house since then. We also have a child together, ... (163 words

Is he being honest with me?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - We have been together for a month and everything was going great, he kept saying how lucky he was to have me. Then out of nowhere, he said that we rushed it and he’s busy with his job and studies right now, seeing each other once a week simply isnt enough. He's failed courses ... (236 words

Why would I have a sex dream about a girl I can never have?

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26 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - My friend is 21 years old and I am 25 years old. My 21 year old friend has a sister that is 14 years old. The problem is last night, I had a sex dream about my friend's 14 year old sister. I know there can't be anything there (for moral reasons, personnal reasons, and leg... (140 words

Told my b/f to move out, get his baggage in order and then we'll work things out! Thoughts?

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26 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - My BF of 2 years has been living with me for 1.5. He was recently divorced and didn't help me out for the 1st year as he was saving to refinance one of their homes from his divorce. By year 2, he had sold his boat for quite a bit and turned around and bought a laptop which ... (278 words

We were fake dating, but do you think he is really interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - First of all, I've never had a bf until now. I have fallen for 2 guys in the past- they both lead me on, even kissed me.. but never asked me out. So, I met this guy, (Bob?) . We met through mutual friends about 4 months ago (I was kinda seeing a guy back then). We never ... (265 words

Unprotected sex that I didn't want, now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

26 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am gay and without me realising ended up having unprotected anal sex. I am freaking out! Sorry for the details but here they are... Things were moving along and I sat up to put a condom on myself and he was like we're not f***ing yet, so I laid back down, and next thing I... (404 words

He loves me but I want to marry and he doesn't

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26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Am I flogging a dead horse? I live with my boyfriend and two other male roommates. My boyfriend tells me he loves me all the time, and does show it sometimes (he is a big tough guy on the outside so it's sometimes rather difficult to get him to open up, and be romantic/swee... (210 words

How do I erase the lie I told him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've done something I'm not very proud of, I have been seeing this guy for a while and I really really like him but when it comes to us getting close I always sort of keep my distance and it's only because I don't have much experience and he can probably tell, I am getting more ... (216 words

My friend had sex and now she is really depressed. How can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I Need Some Help about My Friend. Okay, so she's 15 and had a boyfriend who had sex with her when she didn't want to, and then he broke up with her. she has been really down lately and finds it hard to talk about it. everytime I bring it up or want to try and help her she get... (118 words

Inexperienced and come too quick.. is this a problem?

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26 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - I'm 17 and have only just got my first proper girlfriend, and until recently, sorry to be crude, have never been jerked off by a girl before. So my girlfriend has jerked me off three times, and after rubbing my penis either over my underwear, or last night, she had her hand... (152 words

He seems so lazy I'm thinking of leaving

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi guys, i have a bit of a problem, but doesn't everyone who writes on here! Anyway, i am with this guy, i love him very much, we have been together for almost 11 months, he's lovely, i love pretty much everything about him. There are just a few things i find extremely frustr... (623 words

2 men and I don't know what to do!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay, I honestly dont know where to start.... well lets just jump in I have a 2 month old lil boy with a man i have been with for 3 years but for the past month i have been havin a emotional affair i have not slept with this new man but i have confided in him and have told him ... (236 words

He's stressed, no contact..should I contact him or will it cause more stress for him?

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26 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I ve tried the internet dating thing for a good two years now with a varying degree of success. Several weeks ago I started chatting to a guy and we got on really well. Over the Easter holidays we decided to meet up and had a great time. Since then we ve seen a lot of each ot... (291 words

B/f of 9 years cheated, broke up & now wants to be friends. Could it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - i have been in a relationship for 9 years and he told me he had an affair last month,i forgave him but he wants a trial seperation as he no longer loves me,than he wants to see me as a friend and take it from there,could that work,could he ever love me again,i still love him... (56 words

Is my friend going too far? Will he be arrested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2833 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm worried about on of my friends let's call him mike, he is planning to protest against westboro he told me he was going to wear a costum and offend the westboro pricketers with anything he will think of but on of them he is planning on dancing with the song "f** the pain ... (121 words

Boyfriend always goes along with friends saying he's gay! Is he?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - is my bf gay we've been together for 3 and half years and his friends always joke about him being gay and he always goes along with it. He left one of his girl mates but nail polish on him and at a party he wore a dress as a dare im so confused liek what does this mean?? yet ... (128 words

FInding gay guys and picking them up!

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26 April 2010 (M age 18-21 - The thing is I am gay! and I've been wanting a boyfriend for about three years and I can't wait anymore! I need a boyfriend or I'll go Nuts. The thing is I have friends that are straight a I don't fancy them I see them as friends but the thing is if I did fancy one of them it ... (138 words

After almost 3 years he says he likes me alot but doesn't love me "YET"???!!

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok so I have a question. I am 21 years old and he is 24 I have been with this guy for almost 3 years. I would think he loves me but when I ask him he always says he is not in love with me. He always says he really likes me a lot but he does not love me yet. So I realized th... (255 words

I'm married but still talking to and thinking of my ex. Why do I do this?

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26 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am 20 years old and married, I have been married for about a year and a half now. I am from Mississippi and joined the army about two years ago and now I am staioned in NC.before I started dating the girl that is now my wife I had a girlfriend that I cared for a lot but I had ... (119 words

If fiancee was drugged said no, and doesn't remember, doesn't that qualify her as a virgin?

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26 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - My fiancee and I are both graduating college next month and getting married this summer. We are both virgins and both wanted to stay that way for marriage. Problem is my fiancee had a situation about 3 years ago, and now she's saying things to me like she's not good enough ... (295 words

We're getting married but when we go out its always "dutch"???!

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26 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for over two years now. we are now getting married. he was unemployed for over a year. i payed for our entertainment. some of this was expensive at times. he just recently got a job again. this job does pay well. i thought that now ... (108 words

Give me some advice on how to trust again!

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey all this is kind of long so thanks for taking the time to read it if you can. Been with my partner for a year now. i love him so much as he does me. there is just one thing that is ruining us, and that is my trust issues, i got hurt badly by past boys, one broke my heart an... (298 words

I'm falling for my boyfriend's best friend!

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - ive been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have two kids we have been falling out for 2 or 3 years. i met his friend 7 years ago to and instantly fell head over heels. then him and my boyfriend got into it and quit talking for a long time. they started talking again about 4 ... (211 words

I guess she thinks that I only want to have sex with her but I don't!

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26 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - Ok I've asked this question before but I don't get many answers so I'm asking again. I'm sort of in love with this girl. She is one of my best friends and in many ways she is my best friend. I mean she is the only one that supports me when I say I'm going to do something. You ... (387 words

Is it normal for me not to go ahead and sleep with other women when she says it's ok?

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26 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I don't know what to make of this. I have only had sex with one woman. She and I are together and we plan on getting married. Although we haven't set a date we are serious. She has had sex with seven other guys before. She keeps telling me that I should have sex with a ... (194 words

Do I just see her and wait to see if the counseling and meds have helped her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3031 days ago

26 April 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi I met a girl through work last year and did allot of work together. We both went on seperate holidays and missed each other like mad. We got back and i left my partner for her and moved in with her. After a few months due presure she had a bad bought of depression a... (256 words

Can you ever get over a guy who stole your first kiss?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Up until recently I brokeup with my ex. We were only together when I moved away from his city to go uni so we actually never got to go on a proper date while being a pair since i broke it off cuz i couldn't handle missing him so much and neither could he. However, this ... (251 words

Confused about my feelings for my best friend's husband!

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26 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - hi.i have best friend.she loves me a lot and so does her husband.i am haapily married but have feelings for my best friends husband and so does he feel the same.also my friend is aware of this and doesnt mind if there is an affair between us...at times i wonder wats ... (56 words

His kinkiness is freaking me out a little!

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26 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - I met a man through a friend. We have not met yet. We have been trying to get to know oneanother though emails and text for several months. I am very attracted to him probably because opposites attract. i am on the conservative side with a little kinkiness to me and he is super ... (257 words

Ex texted me acting as though we never split up. WHY?

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26 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have an update to a previous situation with my now ex girlfriend. I'm seeing a new girl, she's more my own age and really nice, we're getting on well and I'm optimistic. There's none of the games that my ex played but I put that down to the age difference (my ex is 16 years ... (167 words

He acts interested but then always leaves without saying goodbye!

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I met this guy in January through a good friend of mine on a night out clubbing. He kept eyeing me and made a pass at me but I was quite shy at the time, and even though I was attracted to him I stayed away. After that I added him on facebook but we didn't really keep in ... (442 words

I ripped the shirt off his back and he broke up with me but I want him back!

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - boyfriend of a year and a half doesn't want me anymore :( everything was perfect when we first got together but he was doing all of the running as i could take it or leave it but now it's the other way around. he's really down and depressed and takes a lot of it out on me and i... (442 words

How can I tighten my vagina

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - i m 29 years unmarried girl and lost my virginty 2 years back.i m still having sexual relation and my vagina become very loose.now my parents fix my marriage with another guy so how can i tighten my vagina faster.... (40 words

How can I catch my wife out?

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26 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - i am in uk. my wife living in her mothers home in india along with her brother. i am suspecting she is doing sex with her own brother while i am doing phonesex with her. how can i caught her please help me.... (43 words

I've not known him long and I don't think I can trust him, but I'm 7 weeks pregnant! What should I do?

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26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - well, in a bit of a mess met this guy not known him long, he said he wanted our own place which we got and wanted a baby, which has now happened.. im now 7 weeks pregnant and he does not want to know, he has 2 children with his previous and has cheated on me once with this ex, ... (258 words

What did he mean by this comment?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - What does this mean?? sex question..x? when a guy and girl have sex and the girl enjoys it herself does that mean the guy did as well?? cos when i have sex with my bf i really enjoy it..he'd would be smiling would seem alot happier.. hmmm weird cos i didn't say anything...... (123 words

Why doesn't my brother want me to visit him?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - i am 19 and my 13 year old brother has anorexia and he has been hospitalized as his heart rate is very low so he has to stay in there for 2-3 weeks. I was going to see him today but he told my mom that he didn't want me to go. I know he is unwell but it hurts as we are best ... (79 words

My boyfriend has cheated on me and told me he does not love me anymore, but he will stay with me and pretend he has feelings for me!

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - What do you do when your bf of over a year tells you even when he doesn't love you anymore, he'll keep you and lie that he still has feelings for you. Later on you find out that he's cheated on you with a girl from his university. ... (48 words

Should I tell my family how I feel or just keep my distance from them?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey all im really fed up of my family and i need some advice. Im 18 and im fed up of my dad's side of my family. There bitchy, spiteful and selfish and ive basically had enough now. My dads's parents have 3 children, my auntie, my dad, and my uncle. They also have 5 granddaug... (619 words

Is she interested in me even though I always have to initiate contact with her first?

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26 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I got a facebook page and I put this one girl who I went to school with I think she liked me any way I. Put her as a friend now we friend we texting back and fourth it going good the thing is she does not really texts first she waits tell I texts to her then she text back to me ... (68 words

Why was my ex so eager to talk to me but now she has made no more attempts to talk again?

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26 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I talked to my ex for the first time Friday after almost 2 months since we broke up and a month of not talking even though we were in NC for over 3 weeks. I have some earlier post on this site where I mentioned how she initiated contact with me, confessed that she missed ... (365 words

How can I tell him that I like him as a person and would love to get to know him more?

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26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - OK. So good news is, i finally took the guts to end things with my ex-bf in a good way.-Been Four months and i finally decide to do this. Done also, i stopped contacting a guy who's just using me as a booty call. i accepted his flaws and all till one day, he set a date with ... (592 words

Will my parents kick me out of the house for being pregnant at 15 like they did with my sister?

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26 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am 15 and I went on holiday for 5 days with my boyfriend and his parents, we had sex once. Now 4 weeks later and I took a pregnancy test because I'd missed my period completely. The test came out positive. I am absolutly terrified about what my parents would say because when ... (111 words

Will masturbating make my penis bigger?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

26 April 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hi! I am Gay and in my Teens and have an issue that I need help with. The thing is that I am unsure about the results of masturbating. I have a regular size penis but I want to know if masturbation or time will change my penis to regular size for my 20s? Please Help... (56 words

Porn is taking over his life! What can I do?

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26 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - My husband spends more time looking at and downloading porn than he does with me. He wont even let me watch it with him. What do i do? ... (28 words

Should I ask out my hair stylist?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi guys. I happen to have a huge crush on my hair stylist (no, he is not gay) and I REALLY need some help. He and I talk a lot everytime I go there and have become sort of friends, or at least that's how I see it. The last time I went there we started talking about relationsh... (453 words

Should I forgive my ex and continute to hope she will come back to me one day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I love my ex, we were together for almost 4 years. We were always arguing for probably 6 months (which was 1 of the reasons to me getting depression). The problem mostly was we never gave each other space, especialy her as she in very clingy. It was hard losing her and i didnt ... (220 words

How do I undo the damage I did by keeping contact with my ex wife?

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26 April 2010 (M age 51-59 - I must have done everything wrong that I could do in regard to my ex-wife. Even though she is now in a rebound relationship with the man she was secretly seeing for several months. The affair has brought out the worst in me. I know I wasn't the one who cheated. She lied and ... (1048 words

Is it wrong to end an unhappy relationship for a happy one with an ex?

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26 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - if someone (already involved in a long term relationship that saddly brings that person mostly unhappieness) happens to reunite with an ex from ten years ago, found that the feelings for their ex was still very, very strong, would it be wrong to persue their feelings? by the ... (58 words

In love and hurting - should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 17 and as dramatic and cliché as is sounds, I love someone. He is dating somebody else and they aren't really serious, but all the same, I'm pretty sure he doesnt like me. In four months I will leave for university so I want to tell him how I feel before then. I think he ... (119 words

Should I be open about my past or keep quiet?

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26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok I'm in a major dilemma.. I'm getting married to this really wonderful guy and we have been seeing each other for over a year now.... I have been in a relation before this and have kissed my ex boyfriend but I have not revealed this to my fiance scared that I'll lose o... (127 words

Does he go limp because of me?

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26 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am having a problem with my sex life. Almost everytime me and my husband have sex he goes limp. He gets off within two minutes sometimes less, but he stops himself quick and once he does that he goes limp with in seconds. This is fusterating and make me feel like he dont love ... (99 words

Why does he keep our relationship a secret?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - So me and my bf have been dating for 2 months officially we have known each other for 5 months. After everythin is official with us he has changed. I feel like I'm not the only person he is with and he has a bigg issue changing his relationship status on facebook. He didn't ... (137 words

Should I choose love and appreciation over money?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am for now a single women. I have been getting to know two guys that I really like. One guy is going to be very successful but I'm afraid he won't have time for me and our relationship. The other guy is just your average Joe but with him there is no time limit to which he can ... (135 words

No more feelings or too busy?

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26 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - i met this really nice and cute guy. everything started out like a regular friendship until i had problems with my ex. i was very stressed and upset but somehow he was there for me. he made me feel better, telling me all these sweet things and our friendship became more than ... (444 words

Is he wanting to date me or not?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have known this guy for almost a year now but we've never really been close friends. A couple of months ago we were dancing at a party, it was getting pretty steamy and we ended up making out in front of everyone. I was afraid that it was just the alcohol but he actually ... (195 words

Girl rejects me and then wants to talk to me. Whats her deal?

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26 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - So I ask this one girl out very nicely (just asked if she wanted to go to a show my cousin is playing at and grab dinner or something) and she said she had something to do. So i dint know if she was rejecting me or if she actually had something to do. So I was like, 'well ... (372 words

I want to make her my first priority

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26 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - My ex and I started hanging out and talking again. We flirted, but I know she is dating a new guy (from just after we broke up, her best friend). I told her to stop stringing me along bc I still have feelings for her (i was pretty mean). It turns out she was trying to ... (215 words

Will he leave me? My past says so

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26 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Me and my BF have been dating for almost 7 months and i have this insecurity that he is gonna leave me for someone better. He tells me all the time that he loves me and for me not to worry cause it wont happen but yet I still worry because the past realtionships have hurt me. I ... (82 words

Strong feelings for my first cousin

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26 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - ok i need some advice, you see i like my fist female cousin more then a cousin and i think she feels the same way because when were around each other we hold hands and hold each other. we also say i love you in person and over the phone. we dont talk much over the phone but ... (109 words

Boyfriend doesn't trust me, but I want him to be happy

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My ex broke up with me over a text message, and I told him it was over for good (we had a habit of breaking up and making up). Now he texts me and calls me everyday, telling me he's sorry, and how I'm making a mistake, that why can't I give him one more chance, that now he ... (468 words

Is it possible for a man to become addicted to sex with a particular girl?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I had sex with this guy whom I thought would be a one night stand, but he is calling me nonstop, texting me all the time, and asking me to be his girlfriend and if I will commit to him etc. He's already telling people I'm off limits and "his". But I think he just wants me to ... (166 words

I can't feel love. What should I do?

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I can't feel love. What should I do? My parents didn't love each other. I am the product of physical affinity and emotional malice. I remember when I was one years old, my parents got into an argument and my mom got a knife out and held it my father. I didn't know what they w... (247 words

Confused on whether I made a mistake

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26 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my bf for 2 in a half yrs.. When I found out that he had cheated.. I confronted him and he had said yes he did.. I ask him why he didn't tell me and he said beacuse he knew I was going to leave him... Then he told me he knew he had fuck up big time and that I ... (195 words

Should I kiss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi, I have what may seem like a weird question. There's this guy I've really liked for three years now, and he likes me back, and we've known that and hung out for a year, but I'm not technically allowed to "date" . . . but we pretty much have a relationship, if that makes ... (159 words

Life full of unrequited love

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26 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am not sure what I am doing wrong but I always seem to get into unrequited love. And it drains me both emotionally and physically. I am in love with a woman currently but she sees me as a good friend and I have asked her a couple of times but she keeps telling me though she ... (287 words

My shy boyfriend makes me feel stupid

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - ok, so me and my boyfriend of about 6 months are still going strong but i have a few issues that i would love to have some answers to. ok first off: he is really really quiet and that's not always the best. I love him and want to be with him for a long time but i just don't ... (182 words

I am self conscious about my breasts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - my breasts are sagging. is there a simple way to prevent it from sagging and get it to the previous normal shape. i used to have firm breast. is there sone exercise that can help me make it to good shape. i am really concerned about it. please advice.... (49 words

Emotionally Intimate then he vanishes - huh?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3031 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I bought a house with my BF. Two months later turns out he's a sex addict. A year goes by and a lot of emotions trying to come to terms with it (I stay). Finally, I reconnect with a guy from 20 years ago. A nice guy. We spend 3 hours a night on the phone, we meet f... (420 words

I don't want my sister to date my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3034 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I really need advice. My problem: My sister is constantly texting my ex-boyfriend and hanging out with him. People that don't even know them or me have come up and asked me if they are dating. It's really awkward for me. Plus, one of my friends is ok friends with him, not cl... (225 words

How important is it that a man is fit and attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

26 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ladies do you think its important for a man to be physically attractive in a relationship (marriage for an example)? I know there are other more important factors, but don't you think its a least important for the man to be physically fit and attractive? If you do agree... (62 words

I wanted him to take it slow, will he come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3031 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for almost 4 monthes. From the very beginning we were together (we moved pretty fast...but I followed his lead). He asked me to be in gf about a month in and we've been going strong. He kept saying things like "I almost love you", "I'm falling in love ... (402 words

I feel guilty about what I did.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3034 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am in a committed relation for 4 yrs and also have a friend since then, though never so close in past, now we used to meet a bit more often but things were very clear about our friendship. lately i got a little physically involved with my friend, though we discussed later ... (127 words

How do I get a good orgasm through masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Is it ok to masturbate with anything and to do it every day, and how can i make a vibrator or get a good orgasm?... (25 words

Confused and wondering what this means.

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26 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend told me last night that he will not leave me for another woman but will for his son. Then he said I'm honest just don't ask me if I slept with, what does it mean. We were suppose to get closer after his court with his ex nut it's made us more distant. Please help. ... (57 words

Self conscious me is worried what she will think.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

26 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - hi I really like this girl. But there is a problim I have a very small penis, I am 33 and never had a girl friend or sex because of this. Like i said I really like this girl. Don't no what to do I am afraid she might just laugh at me if we ever have sex. ... (58 words

Does my old crush like me? How can I find out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3031 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - When i was in primary school I used to have a crush on this guy since I was 6 till i was 15. He was such a nice guy my parents got on well with his and my sister used to be friends with his older brother.We were always quite friendly towards each other and everyone knew I ... (286 words

I'm waiting for him to end it but he isn't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3034 days ago

26 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - why do the guys dont tell to their gf, if they dont want to be with them? instead of doing this, they do not text to their gf.. Here is my situation, me and my bf start not to text to each other and he texted to me today asking me, if we still couples or not... and I told him... (132 words

I trust him just not his friends.

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26 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months, it's been a long distance relationship the whole time and I only get to see him every 2-3 months. My boyfriend is going out with his friends next weekend, he's getting drunk etc. Thing is I don't normally mind him going o... (419 words

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