New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244966 questions, 1084314 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in April, 2010, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (118), 2 (103), 3 (88), 4 (89), 5 (129), 6 (114), 7 (91), 8 (107), 9 (90), 10 (73),
11 (99), 12 (106), 13 (107), 14 (106), 15 (87), 16 (110), 17 (102), 18 (77), 19 (104), 20 (105),
21 (102), 22 (105), 23 (82), 24 (93), 25 (109), 26 (106), 27 (96), 28 (95), 29 (90), 30 (84),

Archived questions from: 1 April, 2010 (see latest questions)

(More questions from April, 2010)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She acts all weird after our encounters and now says she hates me! Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i would like some help. i dont know what to do next in my very confusing life. this is a long story so im sorry but please read it because i need your advice. i met a girl and was instantly drawn to her. id had one previous secret lesbian relationship-nob... (772 words)

6 months later ex deletes our myspace, what does this mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My ex boyfriend and I broke up a around Nov of 09' which was about 6 months ago. A couple weeks after we broke up he had this friend who he vented to about us and they soon after were dating, im guessing it is a rebound after everything i've read about them. They are s... (335 words)

Does my bf want me to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some help with my boyfriend. All the time i am around him he talks about other girls and how hot they are and i am starting to think that he wants me to be a diffrent person. If you think that he wants me to be someone ealsed i mean sometimes i want to say what they ... (69 words)

Sister staying in bad marriage for the kids--should she do this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

- It pains me to no end that my sister married a pathological liar. He lied about everything before they got married. He lied about his childhood, he lied about being in the army, he lied about what his family's line of work, he lied about being an athlete, he lied about ... (417 words)

Our sex life is amazing and he's still looking at porn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does he have to look at porn? Our sex life is amazing. But why does he still have to look at that trash? I NEVER once looked at any of that crap because I know that will only make us get into an argument. We've discussed about this so many times but it's like he doesn't ... (64 words)

My boyfriend found out all my secrets and I feel lik I cant talk to him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend told me that he read my diary and he told me what page it was and it amberrasted me totally! I dont een know if i can talk to him but i should be able to speak to him because he is my boyfriend. I need some edvice please respond to this.... (54 words)

I'm secretly dating my 1st cousin! How do I tell my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im in a relationship with my 1st cousin we meet up reguraly and have an amazing time i love his company and he forever tells me he loves me and i love him we plan to move away together and start a new life i just cant help but wounder what my family will say and how they will ... (118 words)

I love her but I want to be selfish too! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So this is the story of my relationship... I met my girlfriend at work. We became good friends working together. She was going through a tough time with her then, husband. She was planning on leaving him, and at the time I was trying to just be a good friend. We soon bec... (326 words)

Is it ok to make out on a first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Is making out on a first date a no no? How would I bring a chick home after the first date? Ask her do you want to see my room? Once you talk to her for a bit.....just go for the move? Or ask her do you want to cuddle? Then kiss her?... (58 words)

My girlfriend has strict conditins on my involvement with my daughter and her mum

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi There, It's come to this as I honestly don't know what else to try, and I need to know if I am in the wrong here or if it's my current gf. I met my current gf 4 years ago, at this point she was lovely and wanted to be totally involved in my life, this included meetin... (261 words)

I'm 17 and in love with a 31 year old man. How can I tell if he feels the same way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay this will simple question! I feel like I am n lovee but there is a 14 year age diff I am 17 and he iS 31.. I am loud and very out spoken i know everyone iN school and he is almost the complete oppositee.. He iS smart, extremely shy, very handsome, sweet, and super nice. I ... (147 words)

Is it possible for a woman to fake virginity when she marries?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just want to know if it is possible for a girl to hide her premarital sexual relations form her husband (she's been having regular sexual relations with other males for 5 years before marriage). She is going to marry after 6 months ... (44 words)

Is moving near my boyfriend a bad idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it good in a relationship, if your boyfriend will soon be one of your neighbors? I have a boyfriend of 5 yrs, next week i will be moving in apt. near to him. Its not my idea to move near to my bf area it so happen that i ask one of my auntie to look an apt for me then ... (159 words)

Is talking about other girls a form of cheating on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend likes to talk about other girls and their boobs. Do you think that he is cheeting on me?... (20 words)

My girlfriend is more interested in partying with friends than being with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. So me and my girlfriend have been together for just about a year and like starting a couple weeks ago she's not acting as cute and cuddly as she always did for the first like 11 months along with not wanting to have sex. To me sex is important and there's ... (173 words)

Is her dad wrong to let them sleep together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My friend is 13 years old, we are both in year 9. I used to fancy her but then I found out she smokes. That's a big turn off for me. She has a boyfriend who is 16 and in year 11. I know she sounds like, well, not a great person but she's cool really. Anyway, her dad let's th... (235 words)

My highschool sweetheart has had feelings for me since 1974!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age - Back when I was in high school, I dated this guy. He planned on marrying me after we graduated. I never knew this until now. We haven't seen one another from '74 until now. But he has been looking for me. His feelings are the same as back then. The problem is he's married ... (169 words)

His hygiene is making me ill. Am I being too picky.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello there, my problem is regarding personal hygiene. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and his personal hygiene is bad. Earlier in the relationship I was quite direct with him and he could listen to me but now he just tells me to shut up if I question him. He does ... (724 words)

Is he jealous because he himself is hiding something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend online, and we have been together for 17 months. We communicated a lot through texts to get aquainted before we met 3 weeks later. I felt I was already deeply conected to him. He also confided he was falling for me. I love him deeply, and I am commited to ... (241 words)

Where can we go on a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I've been with my boyfriend for six months and he promised that when he had the money, he'd take me out on a date. I've only ever been on one date with him; it was to the cinema, I paid. The other day he asked me where my ideal date would be. I don't trust many people, ... (150 words)

Any tips for my boyfriend to make me cum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, ok so me and my bf have been having sex for quite a while now and it's good. But we want to take it to the next level. And I was just wondering is there any special things he can do to me that will make me cum? We both really want me to be able to but we have tried an... (110 words)

Why does my ex always ask about my new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and I broke up a little more than a month ago. I am now kind of seeing this new guy (but we're not in a relationship yet) however my ex constantly asks about it. We would start a conversation online (we don't talk face to face anymore as we go to different schools) and ... (176 words)

Is he full of shit? Once a cheater always a cheater?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my b/f a month ago. Been together for 4 years. I finally caught him cheating. I have dealt with him dirty dancing with two other girls, sex texts to his friend(thats a girl) I have dealt with more sex texts from 3 different girls and his drinking. (acholic... (215 words)

I really love him but I'm scared I'll get hurt again. Does he want to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex for 9 months and we were in love. then we had 1 argument and he called it a day, we hadn't spoken in 8 months and i started talking 2 him on internet. i asked him if he misses me and thinks about me and he said honestly yes, he misses the banter and everything ... (478 words)

I need a miracle!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a major problem right now. There's an extremely long story that I would have to tell for you, reader, to understand exactly where I stand and to be able to give me 'perfect' advice. But right now I don't have the time to write it all out. Basically, about two years ago I ... (546 words)

The big question is... Do we have a future together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age - I have been seeing a married man for almost 2 years, we are very comfortable with each other and both enjoy being together, he has never promised me anything but says he does eventually want a future together. I am seperated from my husband but my estranged husband is now ... (100 words)

I feel like giving up on love and need some encouragement!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like giving up on love and need some encouragement! I finally started dating again last month after being single since Aug '09, when I split with my bf of 9 years(we had lived together for 7 years) after finding out he was cheating on me...again. He'd already cheated ... (325 words)

I want my wife to have the tatoo of her ex removed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Tattoo must go. That's my issue with my wife. My wife never dated much and was a virgin until she met this guy, and even then was while they were dating, however, her parents were a nightmare and she ended up leaving home and moving in with Brandon. Needless to say they them... (266 words)

What's his game? Is he hiding something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he hiding something? He was out of town for the weekend for a work trip in Las Vegas. He usually at least makes contact with me once a day, but while he was gone I didn't hear from him at all. Even when I contacted him, he didn't respond. When he returned he seem... (198 words)

Should I try again with my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - 2 1/2 years ago I asked my husband for a little space to evaluate our relationship and work on our problems. After a month he started a physical relationship with another woman. I was so hurt and devastated by this, that I took him back and even though we went to counseling, ... (199 words)

Chemical pregnancy, did I miscarry or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey!dearcupid, My period was on feb 26 - march 7 or 8 . I had sex for the first time on march 19 but we didn't use a condom and my boyfriend only pre-came. After that a few days later I felt kinda sick started having lower tummy aches, slight nauseous, headaches and my period w... (228 words)

Lunch with an ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age - I have been dating a wonderful, very attractive, (but slightly stubborn, perfectionist), lady for one year now. We are both divorced, she for 12 years with over 10 sexual relationships that ended for one reason or the other, and me for 1 year, her being my only sexual ... (822 words)

I miss the "old him". What can I do to make our relationship right again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 1.5 years now and he has been perfect but he's now starting to taking me for granted. I.e. he used to buy me tiny gifts like a chocolate bar, or send a nice phone message during the daytime, now if this happens it's rarely and only if I ... (132 words)

He's my fiance and the father of my kids - Am I losing him? Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I've been with my Fiance for about 18 months now. Things got serious very quickly, partly because I already had a 4 month old baby when we met. He bonded with my son brilliantly and now sees him as his son. He's a brilliant dad, and a month ago our second son was born. I... (353 words)

Why is my husband being so nasty?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there Agony Aunts and Uncles. My Agony is my husband who keeps telling me I have 'large saggy breasts' and also that my upper lip and face is looking 'old and haggard'. I am feeling so down and so I decided to get a boob job done. The doctor told me (I am 44) that my ... (475 words)

Am I blinded by love or just plain stupid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... I am at a crossroads in my relationship. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 18 months. But we have known each other for over 2.5 years. When we met, we were both in relationships, and began as friends. We BOTH cheated on our partners at the time, my ... (390 words)

My girlfriend won't give me the same chance she gave her past boyfriends.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've been with my girlfriend for a while now. I truly am in love with her and she says she's in love with me. Not too long ago, she told me that she had anal sex with two other guys. she only tried it though, she didn't do it over and over. this hurts me because I've always ... (466 words)

What do you think? Is there something going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so my wife works at a bar and she has this guy that stays after hours while she cleans up. On one note I feel more comfortable knowing that someone is there with her, on another note I don't fully trust this guy. She has known him for 9 years and SHE has not done anythin... (527 words)

I really need some tips on how to forget about this guy once and for all...

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in love with this guy since I was 12 years old. Now it's been 10 years and I still love him... Relationship was initiated by him... but he soon ended it... we still talk a lot but he doesn't love me... i want to forget him and move on but I just cant help it... I'm ... (81 words)

Flatmate trouble!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, just would like some advice as to what to do regarding my selfish flatmates. I signed a lease for a flat with two girls last June but things didnt really go well and i didnt feel welcome in my own home. I basically moved in with my boyfriend while still paying rent and ... (202 words)

Boyfriend gaga for Gaga!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi folks. This is a bit of a silly one but how do i get my stupid boyfriend from bringing up Lady Gaga every day? I had no problem with her apart from the idiotic and attention seeking things she does but obviously it doesn't affect me so it was fine. Until that bloody ... (163 words)

Sorry... wrong hole!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my GF were having sex last night and I slipped in to the wrong hole. Well she winced at first but didn't yell or object too strongly, so I rolled with the punches and continued in her rear. I thought it was great and she seemed to enjoy it for the most part. Howe... (125 words)

Would you be offended if someone put you in a situation like this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Imagine this situation: you are walking down the street with a close friend, lets call her Jane, and the two of you run into an old friend of Jane's, whom you've never met before. The two of them start catching up and end up talking for half an hour, completely ignoring you, ... (148 words)

I don't trust my sister around my man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my sister is kind of jealous of me and I really don't teust her ! I like this guy in my apatrment complex I thought was so cute so she went to him and ask him and we staryed kicking it and of course we had "relation" wasn't nothing serious. I noticed she would ask me ... (452 words)

How to get him to talk to me after our break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My bf broke up with me a month ago. He said he wanted a break and needed time apart because we were arguing. Iv tried txting him and calling him but he wont reply . I dont know what to do as i really love him and we had a real connection. I really dont want to lose him ... (75 words)

Boyfriend gave weird answer to my money questions and now I'm confused!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i m in a commited relationship...its a ldr..well jst for fun i asked my bf.. How do you think a woman and a man in a relationship should handle money together? n the reply which he gave i found completely irrelevant...he said that Money organisation will be done by noone. I... (253 words)

Confused as to how to act w/her..she's so busy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was introduced to a girl over a month ago, we initially exchanged text messages and then spoke on the phone for over 3 hours then met up the same weekend for a coffee where we chatted for over an hour - i then text her the same evening and said that i found her easy to talk ... (393 words)

Will I be able to find a girlfriend in a male dominating career?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Can you still find a partner/girlfriend even if you do engineering as a career? I ask because I do Civil Engineering as a degree and I'm just curious since I don't have a girlfriend at the moment. Moreover since it is engineering, wherever I work, it will be probable that I w... (68 words)

Girlfriend accusing me of cheating and I haven't done anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok the last few days before school went on break my girlfriend is acting really annoying because ima be going out of town and singing at venues. she keeps saying ima be messing with girls and im going to forget about her. i dont get it i haven't showed any signs of cheating nor ... (80 words)

Boyfriend touring admitted he cheated on his ex and now I'm afraid he'll cheat on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is in a band and is currently on tour, he calls/texts me everyday to see how iam and tells me how his day goes. in his previous relationship of 6 years, he cheated on his ex twice. he only told me this a few days before he left on tour and said that he wouldnt ... (362 words)

Do guys ever just want to stay friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Will guys ever CHOOSE to be just friends with a girl? If he finds her beautiful inside and out- nice, sweet, amazing looks, smart, etc- and they're both single? There's sexual tension. Can he ever just want it to stay platonic? Happened with the guy I like. He's told me I'm... (148 words)

Can I get my son's father out of our lives? He's a jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I went out witht his guy for 5 months, he told me he couldnt have children because of his medication he takes for his epilepsy. Lo and behold I became pregnant, I decided to keep the baby and split with the father N, because to be honest the guy is a complete loser and conman. ... (810 words)

Should I wait until I'm finished with college to begin dating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a freshman in college and I'm going through my first breakup ever. Yeah, pathetic, I know, but even though I'm 18 I've only been in one relationship. He was the only guy I'd ever flirted with, kissed, held hands with, all of it. He was my first everything. I go to colleg... (214 words)

Did I lose my virginity... or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know if I'm still a virgin! His penis slid on my vagina but not inside. Does this mean I'm a virgin still? He didn't cum, there was a condom, but he had pre cum and it lasted literally a minute coz I wanted to stop. I'm so confused about it.... (57 words)

How can I stop being so shy when I'm around guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always been a shy person but lately it's getting ridiculous. Like I'm not shy towards girls, it's just guys, it doesn't matter who it is, I can't talk to any fella coz as soon as we start talking I freeze. I don't know what to say and it's worse with guys I fancy, I just ... (95 words)

What signs do boys give to girls if they like them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What signs do men/boys give if they like somone, if they don't come right out and tell you? The guy i like at school- i'm getting the feeling he likes me back but i can't tell really. There's a lot of eye contact going on, and we talk sometimes (we're in different ye... (108 words)

I have a gut feeling my boyfriend has the hots for my sister...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit worried about my relationship lately. me and my boyfriend been together for more than a year now, we cuddle, kiss, tell each other we love one another a lot but i think he has a thing for my older sister, i dont know why but its just the way they are together and it a... (289 words)

Mismatched sex drives...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my partner have mismatched sex drives and attitudes to sex. Mine is high, his is low. He is 41 btw, and says he's gone off sex. It's not a sgood as it used to be. We have a LDR and I've been back with him for 5 days, after 2 months apart. Last night before bed, I'd play... (546 words)

Should I believe he is being genuine when he said he doesn't want to be anyone's boyfriend right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) - First off, i have been dating and trying to keep busy. Was with my ex for 3 and a half years..it was petty stuff i think that broke us apart.. fighting over things i regret.. no one cheated.. we did have alot of love.. he broke it off... a year later i leave him a vmail and ... (1074 words)

If the chlamydia test comes back positive how should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - been with my man for almost a year, when i first met him we had a one night stand together (at that time i didn't know i had chlamydia) after i found out i had chlamydia and i went and got treated for it. a few months later me and him started going out together and we have bee... (260 words)

Can my boyfriend tell that I get really turned on when we are making out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when my boyfriend and i are making out i get turned on really easily. is this wrong and can he tell? ... (21 words)

I think my friends ex is starting to fancy me and I don't know if I feel the same!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my friends ex is starting to fancy me and I don't know if i feel the same. Me and his ex used to be close but i found out she,s been lying to me for ages about how they broke up. He wants to stay friends with her and he texts her and she never texts back. He then told ... (287 words)

The break-up that brought me to my knees

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years and just recently broke up with my girlfriend. We had been really close for almost the entire time we were together. She was 17 when we started dating and now she is in college. I loved her with all my heart and I know she loved ... (1637 words)

M head over heels in love with my best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I can not ask my question until you can have a full understanding of the situation at hand. About 7 years ago now, my best friend(At the time) "Fats" and I had been passengers in a friends car. The friend got a phone call from a very dear lesbian friend of his asking for a... (875 words)

Should I throw away the 2 years we have spent together and move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years And 2 months... In the time that we've been together we've had 3 major arguments that almost led to us breaking up. I love him so much and I've been so faithful to him. I've talked to him about it but it's like it goes in one ear and ... (123 words)

Should I contact the girl I suspect my bf of "e-cheating" on me with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Yeah, I know, I should probably just give up on the guy entirely considering I "apparently" can't trust him, but oh well. My bf showed me an e-mail where this girl was hitting on him. He did this indrectly, of course, as he was showing me something else in the e-mail and I... (555 words)

Why do men cheat on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age - am i a fool about wanting to be trully loved. i am the best women a man can ask for. i am hot and sexy, smart and loving great in bed. why do men cheat on me?... (37 words)

I'm afraid the man I am having an affair with wants me just for sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy in a meeting room during a business trip. We exchanged namecards as usual for contacts. he send an email about an enquiry i made, i did'nt reply as i know it before he emails me. Then, he send a text message regarding the same info. which i replied and then we ... (305 words)

My husband feel trying to concieve has made our sexlife impersonal!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I suffered a miscarriage in January (we hadn't been trying, but it was still devastating) and I was under the impression we would start trying again in February. Well, my husband told me he wasn't ready even though prior to actually stating that, he had been ... (313 words)

I think my girlfriend likes another guy more than just friends.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear readers, i’m with my girl friend a logn time –maybe 3 years, and everything wen well sinc from october she went to study in another city, and this will happen till mai.At the beggining it ws hard, and we were happing,only the last 10 days we had arguing every day, cause of ... (192 words)

How can I tell if he fancies me too? I have very low self esteem so I am scared to come out and tell him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Guy troubble! :s There is this guy I really fancy in my school but I don't know if he fancys me!! We are friends and he is in some of my classes! When ever he sees me in thos classes I catch him at the corner of my eye looking at me, if he talks to me it will always be ab... (216 words)

My boyfriend is depressed. How can I help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - age 34... Shit!! now my boyfriend of three years ias depressed and just says f#+"* it! and i know he means it. hes angry at me for pushing him away in our relationship(no communication skills. we were stuck.) he hates his job. hes talking about trucking. Noooo! now i feel bad. ... (110 words)

My friend is trying to make my other friend jealous all the time, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well my friend number 1 fell for this boy, then my friend number 2 knows this and keeps hugging him and hanging around him. Friend number 1 cried about this. Number 2 then kept doing this day after day and it's making my other friend really upset! (since friend number 2 already ... (66 words)

I want to ask her out but I am a coward. How can I conquer my fear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's this girl i really like, she's really beautiful and funny and smart and i really want to go out with her. the problem is this: basically, i'm a coward. I'm usually an outgoing person, i have loads of friends and i'm great at making people laugh or just making good ... (145 words)

Althhough I am married I still cant stop wanitng a man from my past.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok when i was pregnet i went out to eat with my grandmother and was completly swept away buy our waiter. he told me i know where he is if i ever become single. we didnt exchange no. the next day i thought about him alot so i looked him up on myspace and he have of his no. we ... (165 words)

Special friend vs. lover

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Someone told me if a woman calls you her special friend, she's not attracted to you at all. My friend called me her "very special friend" while her guard was down due to some very hard problems. She's usually really snide and we have a sort of back and forth making fun of ... (126 words)

Are abusive men more prevalent in certain geographic locations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need advice. Any advice would be WELCOME! Ever since I was young I always had a good group of friends and always had guy friends who were cool and GREAT guys. Treated us with respect etc. (I grew up in a pretty cosmopolitan area). When I went to college I moved to... (559 words)

I thought I was gay, but agreeing to date a guy freaked me and I backed out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16 and i thought i was gay because i like to masterbate to men and not women so i thought i was gay but yesterday this boy in my class amitted he like me and we called each other and he said he wanted to date me and i havent had no one since about third grade and i thought i ... (283 words)

I'm developing feelings for my "friend" and would like it to be more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I had this girl that liked me, messed up, enough said... Now we talk and she seems to want to open up again, says she misses me, lost her virginity to his other guy she hates and says it was horrible... She talks about sex to me and she is very attractive and a lot of ... (119 words)

Should I stop butting into his business, even if we're so close?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I've known this guy since I was four years old--all my life practically. He's smart and one of my best friends. He has always been. We stay in touch and confide in each other--no matter where life takes us. We're complete opposites, but for some reason, it brings us closer. We ... (413 words)

She says she does not trust me, but I have not really done anything to cause this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend left me because we could rarely see each other ever, but we both really cared for each other and were open to the idea of getting back together when the situation between us improved. We kept in contact and kept talking every day or every other day and just ... (753 words)

He says he loves me and wants me in his life but he doesn't know "how much" in love with me he is. What is going on in his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age - i have been seeing a guy for 6 years. we have been through a lot together. i love him with all my heart, but the other day he said i love you but i dont kmow how much in love with you that i am. and then he said but i do love you and want you as a part of my life. this man is ... (80 words)

How can I hug him first without making it too obvious that I fancy him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys! I want to hug my best guy friend, he always hugs me first, and because I am caught off guard it's kinda awkward like his arms are around me but I'm sideways or My arms are squished up in between us, and he smells my hair, and sometimes I get butterflies! How do I ... (83 words)

Different sized testicles.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My left testicle is a fair bit bigger than my right one. Am I not normal?... (16 words)

She lives on the other side of the country and has a boyfriend, how could things get any worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Last year, I went to an overnight camp on the other side of the country and met the most amazing girl I had ever laid eyes on. It was love at first sight. By about the time that i was about to leave camp, we knew we were into each other but we didnt do anything about it. Later, ... (158 words)

I suspect I could be pregnant, should I take a test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It is five days before my missed period, but I suspect I could be pregnant. Should I take a test and if so how accurate will the test be?... (29 words)

We have been in a relationship for 2 years but we have not had sex. What is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, This is my first time ask question on this website. I am a chinese girl and live and work in Canada now. I have been in Canada almost 10 years and I like canada very much. I came to Canada and met my boyfriend who is German. I really really like him, however, in the... (316 words)

Could there be any consequences with my job for marrying one of my students father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a first grade teacher who found myself attracted to the father of one of my students. He has shared custody of his son and is quite involved in his son's life. However, he maintains almosts zero communication with his ex. I maintained a professional relationship with both ... (388 words)

He never invites me out, and then expects me to pick him up drunk at 6 am!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does my husband do this?? He goes out with the guys about once a month. Most of them are the guys he works with. He never invites me and I know that there are other women there because when he calls me I can hear the laughing in the background. Back to the question he stays... (178 words)

What are the main signs of spotting a "player"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you spot a player? What are the main signs ?... (13 words)

He told me he needs time to think and clear his head, what does this mean for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend finally broke up with me. My actions had gotten the best of him, and he couldn't do it any more. It is now that I want him back,and it's too late he is saying..I'm going to keep trying and trying because I love him so much, I just don't know how much is too much. ... (107 words)

How can I stop feeling so lonely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know, it is just that I feel so lonely. A friend just told me that her dream boy asked her out and she's so happy, and I am really happy for them, but it just makes me feel so lonely, I know it might sound needy but I am just so sick of being lonely.. What can I do?... (63 words)

How do I stop carrying on with my best friend/FWB when I don't want a relationship with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My FWB and I are like soulmates. We get along so well together and live together and make each other very happy. We've been content being "just friends" and although I'm pretty sure he would like an official bf/gf relationship with me, he doesn't pursue one and says he is happy ... (152 words)

My friend is having problems with her boyfriend, and now I have feelings for her boyfriend and I think he feels the same way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and her boyfriend have been having a lot of fights lately. But her boyfriend like me and I like him. But the problem is that he flirts with other guys with him not around. He also knows it. What should I do?... (44 words)

Should I tell him how I feel despite living so far away from each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive been speaking to this lad for about a year, but hes from america and im from the uk. ive never met him but we've texted and we speak on msn all the time. and recently ive been getting feelings for him. its like i really REALLY like him but i dont want to ruin out friendship ... (97 words)

Is he my boyfriend? Are we going out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, we have been going for movies, lunches, teas and walks since the end of Jan. He hasn't made a move on me physically yet, however we connect like crazy and have the most amazing conversation. We can sit in cafes drink tea and talk for hours without realizing how time passes. ... (200 words)

The men I met online seemed interested in me, but all three disappeared all of a sudden!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age - Hi everyone. I'm dumbfounded. In the past six weeks I have met three men on a dating site, established good email communication over a couple of weeks, met and had a wonderful time. Spent 3 to 5 hours talking, dining and having a very good time. All three have me signs that ... (272 words)

My girlfriend is begging me to give her another chance......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people, Thanks for following and helping me out I really appreciate it. This morning I told her how I felt about everything and how I feel like I'm being slapped in my face etc. etc. The last thing I said to her was "Your breaking my heart. Goodbye______" And since th... (535 words)

What do women like done to their breasts?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok random question i know but.......what feels good for girls breastwise. You see all these hyped up examples and now im not sure what to think. My girlfriend says that rubbing her breasts is slightly arousing but i dont know how much or what will make it better. Any h... (67 words)

I feel like I married a pimp!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Before my husband and i were married we were out one evening drinking and i picked up a woman mostly to please my husband. We ended going back to her hotel and even as drunk as I was I was very uncomfortable when I saw him touching her and I ran out. He ran after me and I ... (564 words)

How do I tell if my new bi friend wants to be more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I tell if my new bi friend wants to be more than friends? He's nice to me, an I've heard rumors about him. He hangs out with me an his girlfriend together. What should I do about him? ... (43 words)

Husband left and now he wants me back, but I"m pregnant with another man baby.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - *OP's own title* I have been married for about five years now. My husband left me eight months ago. We have a daughter together. My husband states that he needed to get his life together. Meanwhile got rid of his wedding band and ask for mine. The first two years were dece... (166 words)

I know I did the right thing leaving, so why am I crying over his new girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 12 years and father of my 3 daughters. I was good until i heard he was dating this new girl. I know that i did the right thing by making him leave but ever since i heard that i find my self sad, crying uncontrollably and feeling ... (70 words)

He said I could surprise him, what is he expecting and how do I surprise him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy, he likes me too, he's a virgin and a little shy. he knows i want to sleep with him. but he is i dunno, afraid? on the phone one night, i asked him if i could kiss him, and he said, yes, and i could do more, like Surprise him, what does that mean? how do i ... (71 words)

Should I get involved with a guy who has another women pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I get involved with a guy who has another women pregnant? Hi I started hanging out with a guy and we really hit it off it's only been a week and 2 days but I really like him and he makes me laugh. The only thing is he told me that he has a women pregnant. He sai... (302 words)

I just want to know how long before I feel whole again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have written here in the past because my husband was going through some very troubled times. I thought I had been living with an alcoholic only to recently find out he has borderline personality disorder which caused his erratic impulsive behavior over the past few years. I ... (437 words)

I lost my job and nearly lost my boyfriend and the place where we live and our pets. I'm ready to burst, please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be long... I'm sorry about that! Basically my life completely went down the drain. I lost my job nearly a year ago (fired as I was late often and not showing up couple times despite fact contacting them because they promised me a top manager position in stor... (767 words)

My LD partner lives across the street from her ex, I am jealous, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age - my partner and i are in a long distance relationship i am so in love with my partner, but there is one problem my partner live across the street from my partner ex- i am threaten by the distance my partner is the god mother of her ex grand child so i get extremely jealous when ... (129 words)

Will having sex with him make my hurt worse? I don't think I could handle he has had others.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F) age 30-35 - This is a bit of a long story, but I'd really like some advice. I am interested in someone who is older than me and I know for a fact that he is interested in me as well. I asked him recently how many sexual partners he has had, and his answer was "3, I guess" (I am not... (365 words)

Am I still a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know if im still a virgin or not i had some sort of sex today lol his penis didnt go fully into my vagina, it just slide on my vagina, n mayb a tiny bit went inside, and that lasted like 2 minutes lol i still think im a virgin but i just wanna know for sure and... (89 words)

How can I change his mind to try for a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend met one of our friend's sons today, and he was beautiful. My boyfriend knows I want a baby, but he just doesnt want to have one yet. It upsets me, because I just want to be a mum. I know that there can be a lot of complications from being a mum and I know... (96 words)

How can I tell if my cousin is attracted to me, and what should I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My cousin and I have know each other since we where kids. We are both 7 years apart, I'm first born and she is the youngest in the family. Growing up as kids we did not hang out around each other that much until our late teens, and after that we became like good friends. Her ... (508 words)

Everyone is blaming me for my ex boyfriends behaviour.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Right i have wrote on here about alcoholic ex bf. well to cut a long story short i am not with him anymore and dont intend to be i am so glad i have finally seen the light,although i fear when he gets out of jail(for smashing me and my mums house up because i finished with him) ... (263 words)

I'm hurt by his betrayal and don't know how to move past it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - O.k so I found out about his betrayal 3 weeks ago, and I find it hard to move forward with him. I find myself throwing things in his face about what he did. I know I shouldn't do that because he will get tired but I don't know what to do. I don't know how to move forward and ... (205 words)

I'm feeling lonely , empty, and unloved. How do I get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I think i am dieing , i am sick of my life , i am 28 years old guy , single , got fired from my work last month ,i live away from my home , and i have to stay in this country for 6 month more , the good luck left my alone , it seems to be that my 28 years of making friends ... (328 words)

Is it normal to have thick brown discharge after a colposcopy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - *OP's own title* I had my colposcopy two days ago and I have noticed an increasing amount of this thick chocolate milk-colored discharge. It doesn't smell foul as though there is an infection, but it definitely smells strong. Like, I'm not a woman who smells very strong down... (72 words)

Why do people always seem to want sex straight away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

1 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't get it. Why do people always seem to want sex straight away it just wrecks a relationship and your body especially after when you realise you weren't ready. Here's a tip, save yourself until you know it's the right person or just until your married. It's the best thing ... (56 words)