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female
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30-35,
*oniqueEE
writes:Hi :)Recently I've had my first break up and I'm 21 lol. It's been interesting, my feelings are kinda all over the place, but I believe I'm coping well.My problem is that whilst we are still friends and talk on the phone etc, I'm worried that I'm confusing myself. I dont want to completly break contact because I know I would miss him, if it makes any sense the casual contact we have keeps me from missing him more.I just don't want to confuse my feelings. I dont think I still have feelings for him because looking back I really do not believe he appreciated me as much as he should of. However I miss the attention, as his closest friend we tell each other alot and confide in one another. I could never break that off, but I dont want to be the person that waits for his text or call anymore because lol I'm no longer his girlfriend!I've already backed off, we haven't seen each other since the break up and my distance is reallly helping. But he doesnt want to let go of our friendship, so how do I stay close, but far enough for comfort?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Allow him to call or contact you but if he comes too close,push him off.Pour cold water on him if you have to.
Keep your relationship on the platonic levels.
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