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writes:Ok new info. We havent talked in almost a month, and she texted me for my birthday. I had been ignoring her calls for the pas thturee weeks trying to get some space. Ahe texted on my b day and wanted to know why we hadn't talked. I told her she could call if she wanted later and she did. We talked for 1.5 hours and she kept bringing up old times, and sex. I'm in law school and part of our problems were how busy I was. I'm not that busy anymore and she said that she wished I had things figured out last semester like I do now. I tried to keep the convo short but she kept talking and making jokes/flirting. I got off the phone bc I wanted to keep it short. About an hour later she texted saying how great it was and wanting to meet up soon. We couldn't meet up because of our schedules and Easter so we decided we would have a rain check. two days later she called when I was at dinner and later texted saying that she had heard I wento out with another girl and it bothered her. I told her it was just dinner to which she replied " I'm sure, just dinner. I'm sure it went great!". I took this as sarcastic and said look it was just dinner. She replied "yah, that's great!". She seemed mad a out it and I think she still wants to meet up later. What are her motives? I still care for her so much but don't know what she means by all this. Why is she doing this? What is she thinking?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): If you think shes the one after everything then she must be but it will take much time to get to the next step. be patient and take it slow, slow is the key. seriously you both will appreciate that later
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reader, lawguy170 +, writes (5 April 2010):
lawguy170 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionP.S.... This girl is my ex of over 2.5 years. Otherwise I would think its no big deal. We broke up a while ago, and well, I still think she is the one for me. We needed space because I became so caught up in law school she felt ignored. I have definately reprioritized and want her back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): But the question is what do you really want? I can tell you want her but you don't know what to do. Maybe she wants a relationship and is trying to start something. She is either jealous of your other date or just wanted to know more about it, because sometimes the smallest things will change a girls mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): DUDE. She is way into you. Just keep playing it cool. Go out with her. The only way you can mess this up is if you break down and become a needy wuss boy. Made in the shade. Keep talking to her but keep seeing other people until you're sure she's the one for you.Of course she's jealous of the other girl! Do you want her to not be?
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