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writes:is it okay for my fiance to fantasize about other women?could it lead to cheating?is fantasizing ok?we have a great sex life. he tells me he is very happy. im just worried that if im okay with letting him get lap dances and watch his porn when im not home(he doesnt know i know) that it could possibly lead to cheating.he was the one that told me thats why men go to strip clubs and look at women....becuase its a fantasy of something they cant have
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (6 April 2010):
NO, in fact quite a bit has been written on it and most everyone agrees that it's part of a healthy sex life. Many women fantasize as well (apparently you're not one of them). Gentleman's clubs are just another kind of fantasy, the women are just a bit closer, and want your money...
I vote relax, and use this to open a dialog about his fantasy's, who knows, may be you'll both learn something and get closer!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 April 2010):
Fantasizing is very much one thing. Cheating is another. There is a big difference. It doesn't necessarily mean that he will cheat at all. Far from it, especially if he's only looking at porn. I don't think he will cheat.
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