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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

My guy doesn't make enough time for me/us!

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2 April 2010 (F age - I am a single divorced woman over the age of 50. I am happy to have found a wonderful man who is also divorced. We have being seeing each other for almost a year now. I love him, and he has told me that he loves me also. My problem is that he does not make enough time for ... (209 words

How do I get over being betrayed by someone I loved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I recently ended things with my boyfriend of a year because they weren't going anywhere. I am not sad because of the 'split' as such; i think everyone appreciates when a relationship is falling apart and I know i did the right thing to get out of it. He made me feel emotionally ... (246 words

How to get him to see we need to be more than friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5135 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - So theres this boy i like alot, and he just broke up with his girlfriend. recently weve been spending alot of time together over springbreak, and he swears its not just a one week thing, but im starting to feel like it is. i feel like im not just a rebound and that his ex ... (138 words

Do you believe my wife's girlfriend claim that her Date sleeps in her bed - but no Sex ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

2 April 2010 (M age - My wife's girlfriend is in her thirties, and recently divorced. She's found a boyfriend online who has no car and lives with his sister. Yeah, he's poor. Lousy job, no education, no future. So she drives to his sister's house, picks him up, and has him over for the weekend ... (193 words

Lust & passion-how fast is too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - There's a guy I like and we flirt loads but can't start a relationship yet because of awkward situations for both of us. We both want to start something when the situations change but for now we have to keep it just on a friendly basis. I'm pretty highly charged with fee... (167 words

3 months married, a football widow and I don't know if he loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I need advice... I got married 3 months ago to a guy I thought loved me. I have never been so wrong. It sounds completely stupid, and judging by the other emails on this site I have no reason to be complaining.... But I am the original football widow. He keeps disappearing, or ... (277 words

LDR--He keeps telling me he loves me but I just don't feel the same

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I'm facing a really difficult situation right now. I have been in a long distance relationship for over 6 months now. When me and my boyfriend started dating, things were really great and I really felt in love. However, with time, my feelings have been chan... (760 words

Am I overreacting? Or is my boyfriend a liar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need an unbiased opinion on if I am over reacting or if my boyfriend is a liar. We have been together almost 2 years, he treats me very well, he is 37 and I live with him, he's had many girlfriends but never been married and never lived with someone before. I also have to... (398 words

I've never kissed, had a girlfriend and I'm worried about messing things up with this girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm really worried about going out with this girl. I'm 16 and she's 17 and she's really beautiful and smart and we really get each other. But i've never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl or anything and i'm worried that i won't know what to do. I don't want to mess things ... (134 words

My friend's family won't let her grow up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello everyone, any advice to this problem would be much apreciated. I have a friend who is 14 like me and there is only me and her in our year who like the music we like, I asked her if she wanted to go to the sugarmill with me to see an Indie band preform. She asked her mu... (128 words

I always dream of being with my teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - i have fallen in love with a teacher at school , he's french and he will not probably be here the next year because he is not from egypy, he has got to go back to his country,right?(i live in egypt)he teaches the big girls ( 15-18) maybe, he teaches them sports , i don't know ... (114 words

Question to the guys who have cheated on their significant others

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have some questions for guys who have cheated before: Why do you cheat? Why have affairs? Why keep the girl you're with in turmoil when you can just let her go? Wouldn't that be easier than having to be sly and sneaky in order to cheat? You apparently don't like th... (91 words

Our lack of quality time and intimacy is frustrating me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - I am a 26 year old male, and have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 7 years. I really don't see her anymore. She works 14 hours or more a day and has a second job on weekends. If I'm lucky I get to maybe spend time with her when we both have a day off but then she ... (174 words

Her parents won't let us date again because of prior problems

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2 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Ok so this girl and I dated for about a year freshman year and things went great at first. We fell in love. However, we made a lot of immature mistakes like getting into fights and it has been about a year since we split up. We have been talking and want to start dating again ... (90 words

My best friend says she needs space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, my best friend recently fell out with me and i still have no idea why. We have been very close friends for as long as I can remember and one day she sends a text saying she doesnt want to be friends and she needs her space, and I have respected that and not contacted her ... (93 words

I don't know how to tell my old fashioned parents that I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi im 21 and just found out im pregnant, im ok with it but im so nervous about telling my mum and dad, theyr very strict and a bit old fasioned and i feel that they might not approve as iv not been in a proper long term relationship, how can i break it to them gently, i'm ... (72 words

Should I let him go out with his single male friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am happily married. I'm 17 years old and my husband is 20. We're very in love and supported by both of our families. Things have been great. I love it. We do everything together including cooking meals, and just sitting back watching TV. The situation lately is different. He ... (109 words

Are areolae sometimes not brownish/reddish in color?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi I'm 20 and I kind of have an embarassing problem with my body and it's really affecting my sex life. Most people have a brownish areola pigment at the nipple of their boob but I don't, and I've been dumped because of it. Is it not normal or am I freaking out over nothing??... (55 words

Controlling/abusive boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey there i don't know what to do i have been with my boyfriend a while now and i lost everything because of him my friends don't want to know me and my family don't want anything to do with me anymore. my boyfriend tells me what to do and what to wear also he don't let me w... (122 words

Is it okay to frequent chat rooms at my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 15, and i use chat rooms to release my sexual tension.... Is this normal? i find it a real turn on... Im confused. ... (27 words

Not sure of my sexuality

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Im getting really confused about my sexuality. Im female, and im definatly attracted to men, but i think i may be attracted to women aswell? I dont know, and im getting really confused and upset as i grow up... can anyone helpp me? x... (47 words

How do I find out if this married lady loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (M age 51-59 - My earlier question posted on 20th March has not been replied. Now, myself being more specific on my problem would like to state that what should i do to know that the very married lady loves me? I have told her several times that she is special for me but she does not reply ... (86 words

My boyfriend makes me pay for hotel rooms to see him and I'm tired of it. What can I do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2301 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i go to hotet rooms to spend time alone. Neither he nor I are working right now. I am a college student and he so is he. We both hate having to ask our parents for money for anything. But my dad gives me everything so he expects me to get money every week to go ... (420 words

Signs are pointing to boyfriend cheating! Do you think he is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for the last 4 years and have been living with each other for the last 3 and a half years. I am worried that he has cheated on me several times but don't have any evidence - just gut feeling. The 1st year we lived together (our last year of... (633 words

How can we be friends when he doesn't treat me like one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I told my best friend who I like a lot today that I'm done. I'm sick of him not talking to me or caring about me. Me and Bob are close we have known each other for 2 years now. He smiles at me and I gave him a hug. If I smile at him he laughs and smiles back. This friend of Bob ... (180 words

Why won't he just ask me out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - i like this boy and he know that but before when he liked me i wasnt to keen but now i cant get his name out of my head. why wont he just ask me out? but im scared that everybody will make a fuss..i need help?... (47 words

A rough diamond? Compliment? or Insult?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

2 April 2010 (? age - what If your boyfriend says (your' a rough diomand )rough aound the edges.is that insult .or cheeky towards me.?... (19 words

How do you know when someone will change their player ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have seen womanizers become good husbands and I have seen players become faithful. My question is how do you know when someone is ready to change there ways? How can you tell if a women/man really loves you? I have asked many different people and received different answers. ... (57 words

No longer find husband attractive, and ended affair, I'm really hurting

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - (MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined) I no longer find my husband physically attractive anymore. I married him aged 24 I am now 40 years old. The last time we had sex I hated every second of it. I have two children, and honestly feel I am now only with my husband for their sakes.... (171 words

I find myself wanting to cheat on my husband!

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2 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my husband 4 11 yrs and married 4 3. He has cheated on me twice that i knw of and got hiv. I tested neg, thank God 4 that. That was 4yrs back. I stayed bcoz i love him so much. I did think of living but i couldn't imagine life without him. About 3mnts back i lost ... (160 words

G/f lives across the street from her ex and I hate it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age - I am in a long distance relationship which has been working out for me and my partner, we had plan to move together next year which my partner will relocate, the only problem i have with my partner is she live directly across the street from her ex, whom at one time she was so ... (147 words

Why won't he communicate with me but he does with others that he claims to not even like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok answer me this. Believe it or not :) Why is it that someone you like never comments on your statuses, activities or clicks "like" on them on your facebook and other netowrking sites on your profile. However on other peoples, people which he doesnt really talk to or even ... (125 words

How do I explain to my bf that I'm done being upset about what he did without coming off as a pushover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My bf did something about a week ago that made me very, very, very suspicious. Since then, however, I've used my own techniques to keep a very watchful eye on whether or not my suspicions were right, and at least so far, they aren't, so I'm ready and willing to back off a bit. ... (240 words

How do I deal with this ex who won't let go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

2 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend has called once or twice a week for the past 2 months (I caught her cheating, again, with the same guy), but I never returned her calls. She Emailed me a few times, even invited me on a week-long trip to LA (2 weeks ago), and I haven’t responded. I let her ... (276 words

Help! I don't know if I should dump him or not.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok so, this may get a little complcated (and long, sorry!) I met my boyfriend 6 years ago and, at the time, I didn't think that he was my type. However, I was intrigued to get to know him and decided to give the relationship a go. I was also curious by the 'opposites attract'... (347 words

Left ex to shield child, now new hubby is 10 times worse???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - This is the first and only time I think I'll post anything about this situation. I'll just lay it all out and pray I get needful responses! Bare with me, theres so much to say!!! Back, 4 years ago I began dating this charming man I met at work. We fell in love quickly and... (975 words

I defended myself against a high school bully and now my girlfriend has broken up with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - [Moderator ote: Obviously the age posted above is incorrect] I am in the 10th grade. My girlfriend broke up with me and I don't understand why. My family moved and at the new highschool, this 11th grader started to hassle me. He wanted to initiate me. I was going to my ... (258 words

How can I track down a police officer I fancy with only his first name?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age - I am very interested in a neighborhood police officer. He is also interested but is always on duty when we see each other and can't ask me out. I would like to get in touch with him but only have his first name. When we introduced ourselves we only gave first names. How ca... (63 words

We've been talking on the internet for 2 years, should I meet him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Should I meet up with a guy I met on the internet when I travel to his country later this year? I met this guy on a facebook application about 2 years ago and we've chatted very regulary on msn ever since. We have lots of common interests and I am friends with his brother... (165 words

Boyfriend is bothered by our gap in ages

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 6 months, not long admittedly but its been a pretty intence 6 months. we met in uni halls so weve lived together longer than weve been in a relationship and we plan to move in together when we have to leave halls (in may) im... (298 words

Is it right for an 18 year old to date their teacher?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've got a little problem and i need help urgently. . I just agreed to date my teacher and i don't know if i did the right thing. .pls advise me on it.... (33 words

G/f says I called her a bad mother and now she's cold to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - have benn with my girlfriend for two years and we have had a few fights over the last few years notthing to serious that wasnt fixed within a few hours but in those fights she has takin that i have called her a bad mother out of contexr and now she is being very cold and ... (82 words

My boyfriend is the complete opposite of my "normal" type, will I regret dating him later on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - This is something I've been thinking about and hopefullly some of you can give me opinions. I've always had a 'type' of guy I go for...light hair, boyish features, confident, athletic etc. I always find myself checking such guys out...I'm just drawn to them. I've dated a few... (268 words

Separated pregnant and not thrilled about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I started dating this new guy and im recently separated and pregnant. The baby is certainly the new guys. I cant stand pregnancy because I get so fat. plus its summer too. The guy that father my child has four other children and four different mothers. My husband and I talking ... (59 words

Am I crazy? Or is he a cheater in denial?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - For a while now, I have had suspicions that my boyfriend is cheating on me. No concrete evidence, just overly flirty texts, rumors etc. So I have asked him multiple times and we end up fighting every time and hE always denies it. I recently confronted him on a rumor I hea... (135 words

He keeps me on the side! Should I walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my x dated for 2 1/2 years we were friends years before and were 21 and 22 not really partiers, during that time i use to get in alot of trouble with friends and lost my job he also lost about 80lbs. He said we were going downhill when i lost my job and we werent on the ... (172 words

Why does his family treat me so badly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - i have been in this relation ship for seven years and things still havent changed see lets say mike is a great gye untill he is around his family he don't even act the same and he treats me different,for some reason now his family don't like me either and when i ask him why he ... (940 words

I love her but the sex and attraction aren't there!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

2 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have an ace of a woman but I don't really lust for her and the attraction and sex is lacking. Everywhere I look, I see women who drive me wild inside and all I want to do is have sex with all of them. What should I do? I'm already with the kind of woman I want to marry, ... (68 words

I haven't forgiven my mother for grounding me when I was 12!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am a 23 year old, married, new mom. My mother contacted my husband after the baby was born and is wanting to get together. Now, he is pressing me to have my mom in our lives. I have not been on speaking terms with my mom for years. When I was 12, I was grounded for a w... (319 words

Torn between two men. How do I let one down easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need help ASAP, answers by like noon today. hahaha Okay, well, I was set up on this blind date with this guy that goes to my college. We have been fb chatting, texting, and we talked on the phone for an hour and a half one night. Pretty much, I lead him to believe that I w... (285 words

His love for me seems to be fading. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - basically my relationship is slowly falling apart, and i feel like there is nothing i can do to stop this. its been a few months since i knew the love is fading, its not that my love for him is fading, its the other way round, i feel his love for me is fading. i have to keep ... (302 words

How to respond to a rumour

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello i am huffygirl88 many of you might have read my problems some probley havent. My problem now is that i think that some people are obbsested with me i mean someone started a romar that i did something that would make me fell violated! Very violated!!! So now i am pissed a... (163 words

Have I been scarred too badly to love again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I watched the guy i love ruin himself. he was the most intelligent, most funny, but he went down a path of drugs and completely destroyed himself slowly and my heart. these days i cant recognise him, literally. I'm completely over him. the thing is i've never really liked an... (122 words

Men & affairs--what's it really all about?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - Do men who have affairs really enjoy having another woman or does it all become a bit of a chore keeping everything secret? Plus do these men just latch on to anyone who'll have them - or is there always an attraction there?... (43 words

Are all men just about sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok so he's a teacher while I was his student before and we're in love. And we have already agreed to wait until the right time comes. I just want to know if this guy also looks for sex like most of the other men do? I can't say because he acts decently all of the time and never ... (68 words

Am I just his rebound?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Is he on the rebound, I need a wake-up call if that's what I need... I am 31 yrs old and have been seeing this guy since mid-Jan. We met on New Years eve. I was out with friends and he was a friend of a friend, who was staring at me all night and (I was with someone else at ... (1609 words

After getting back together, how should I behave towards my boyfriend despite my trust issues?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Guys, Me and my bf broke up 1 week ago because of trust issues.. Then I was the one who broke up because I couldnt trust him.. but I am still in love with him.. during the period of one week, he texted me to get me back together but I told him I cant because I dont trust hi... (236 words

My boyfriend is gross, do you think he wants someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend does stupid things and i think he is showing off for me. But the things that he does are pretty stupid like he fights a lot. He talks about naked women and boobs and that stuff. Do you think he wants someone else?... (45 words

I'm in love with someone but I'm in a relationship! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok well i'm in love with another guy. but i'm in a relationship. my now boyfriend is an alcoholic and tends to treat me lik crap when he's buzz. but the sex is great. the other guy is romantic and sweet don't drink an very very sexy. what should i do?... (51 words

Does this text mean he is brushing me off?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi, So I get this txt from a potential love interest to say....Could'nt get your call, in a meeting, thanks for your email, all the best for Easter, Will talk next week, Take Care, -----. What does take care mean? This is the first I have ever had. Is this a brush off?... (53 words

Is this guy a jerk or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - i know a guy. we met online 3 yrs ago. he gave me his no. and asked me to call him up. i did and we would talk regularly. but then we had an argument and we stopped talking. i liked him but he had said something rude. he was 18 then i guess. we lost contact. then he started ... (392 words

I have a sexless marriage and I am in love with my work colleague, how do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Question 1 I love him so dearly but can never be with him, how do I cope? My work colleague of 12 years, has become my best friend...over the last 2 years we became extremely close, became on a... (339 words

I told him I want to sleep with him, but then he tells me he is a virgin! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - So there's this guy who goes to my school and we've fancied each other for years, and we dirty text quite a bit, and last night I slipped out that I really wanna f**k him, and that I'm not the type of girl to sleep with just anyone but I'd make a serious exception for him ... (189 words

He never wants children, I definitely do, and I don't approve of his job!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend never wants to have children, and I absolutley do, and lives a lifestyle I know I would not be happy with living in the future. (he is a porn director!) I know he won't change and I know I can't change him. For now I have a fantastic time with him, we get along ... (188 words

Why do some (most) men want soo much to have sex with many different women when they already have one beautiful, loving, sexually adventuress woman who loves them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Why do some (most) men want soo much to have sex with many different women when they already have one beautiful, loving, sexually adventuress woman who loves them? My (now ex) boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me with several women. All just quickies, no romantic attachm... (138 words

An overwhelming feeling of sadness when I orgasm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Lately, I've been having an extreme fit of sadness when I orgasm. An accurate description of the feeling would be; an overwhelming sense of extreme sadness, hopelessness, and a feeling of desperate longing. The strange feeling only lasts for the duration of the orgasm, after ... (191 words

Why do men only want fun?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - Why do men just want fun?? - Is there anyway to go further or are they all just destined to only want fun? - Why is it only when they want fun? - why do they want to catch up but never make time available?... (45 words

Boyfriend forces me to have sex with him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - i've got problems with my new boyfriend.first time when we meet..everything was consider okey between us.but,one day...he start to talk about sexs.everytime he text me..he always said.."i want you baby"...plss....sometimes i feel fedup with him.then,he force me to have sexs ... (94 words

BF and I broke up but still slept together but he also slept with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - so my boyfriend and i dated for 9 months and broke up because he wanted to sleep with other women. but after we broke up, we were still sleeping together because we were having a hard time getting over each other. we got back together about 2 months later (all the while still ... (199 words

I'm 13 and want to have a baby and have even saved up the money for it!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 690 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - helloo please could you help me! i realy want a baby and i'm 13 but i will be 14 if i have a baby all my mates are sick and tired of me going on about it. i have told my boyfriend and he agrees with me 100% he wants a baby and he has said he will stick with me no ma... (281 words

Is he using his new girlfriend to make me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - hello a few months ago i hooked up wit this guy..his older then me by five years i thought we hit it off well but i didnt hear from him. few days later i messaged him apoligizing about the hook up he said it was okay that it was fine :). few weeks ago i saw him at a club he ... (228 words

Couldn't keep it up for sex and now I'm all freaked out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

2 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey guys, i have a problem... when i went to go have sex with this girl, i got all nervous and such and went completely blank. Like, the Johnson deflated. Idk what to do, ive been freaking out about it all night... the last time i slept with a girl, this happened the fir... (201 words

3 years of dating and now he wants to spend his off time alone, is he falling out of love?

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2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for almost 3 years now, we love each other I often talk about our future together. Over the last 2 months though he has been working more and then when he has free time it seems like he would prefer to spend it with mates or by himself. We used to spend ... (134 words

Will he drop me when he tires of my exoticism?

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2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am of mostly Indian origin and a bit mixed. I have always been considered attractive and have always had men after me because apparently I look exotic. I have a Swedish boyfriend who is absolutely lovely and is what I've heard from friends quite taken in by me. Howeve... (150 words

I don't want my brother to marry this girl!

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2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi ! Please help me. Im an orphan and i stay with my brother whom i love and care alot. My bro's girlfriend stays with us....she doesn't help me in the housework neither does she take care of my bro. Stil my bro loves her alot. But i know my bro wil suffer in future if he'l ... (110 words

I threatened to ruin my fiance's life during an argument and now he doesn't want to talk to me or see me!

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2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - My fiance and I just had a fight recently and I'm quite confused about what I feel now and I don't know what to do. It started with a small argument with me kicking a fuss about some small issue. But then I threatened to tell his colleagues and bosses that he was looking for ... (637 words

Boyfriend of only 2 weeks wants sex and I think its too early!

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2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - HELP my boyfriend of only 2 weeks is saying that i'm driving him nuts cause he wants to have sex with me and i said no. He says he will not force me but me playing hard to get is really driving him crazy he said he wants me really bad. I'm a little scared cause when he kisses ... (242 words

Never too old for heartache and being foolish

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2 April 2010 (F age - at age 66 I find myself alone again after a 4 1/2 yr relationship. Altho I ended it, it was because he treated me poorly. He was selfish, selfcentered and emotionally unavailable..and yet I stayed hoping if I loved him enough he would be more loving and giving. After just 2 m... (139 words

Why did he say he wanted to see me but then act rude when he did see me?

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2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - there is this guy who i am really confused about. Please help me! Firstly, I really like him. But thing is, I'm not sure if he also likes me...we talk online a lot and a few days ago (online) I told him i wanted to meet up with him and a few other friends I hadn't seen in... (181 words

After his ex called, he just dropped me! Will he go back to her?

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2 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been in love with my coworker the past year. He had a girlfriend his first love the past 3 years. She left him because she found out he had feelings for me. Well to make a long story short we got drunk together and went out a couple times when she was at work. Now tha... (218 words

How can I hang out with my secret boyfriend?

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2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - so i have a secret boyfriend, not going to tell my parents, and we reeeally like each other. but we don't know how to hang out over summer vacation, any suggestions?... (31 words

Living with and loving my cousin but now he likes someone else!

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2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - >ok,so, i have a problem,I'm in love with my cousin,i live in the same house as he does his 18 and I'm 24 yrs old, i live with my 2 aunts, and the thing is that i don't look 24 i look like I'm 17 or 18, OK it all started one day wen we decided to stay home cause we didn't w... (504 words

She's changed but I keep remembering our good times together.

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2 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - im 16, i really love my girlfriend, i know im young and may be too young to understand love but i am lost. lately ive realized that my girlfriend and i have the rest of our lives ahead of us. we have been arguing a lot lately, when i met her in 8th grade i fell in love.. she ... (194 words

What does it mean when an ex talks badly about you for no reason?

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2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - What does it mean when a relationship ends and then 6 months later your ex is talking crap about you constantly or brings you up in conversations constantly? We have a mutual friend who has told me this. It didn't end on bad terms, he actually dumped me and I didn't want to ... (204 words

I'm torn between 2 men and my marriage is falling apart!

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2 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi i am a 27 year old female, i have been married for 6 months to my husband. When we first got married everything was fine and dandy , he treated me like gold and was romantic, now after just 2 months after the wedding he changes. stops being affectinate and romantic, i ... (276 words

My boyfriend of 9 years cheats and talks down to me!

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2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - I been in a 9 year relationship with this guy and we have 2 kids together and he has hurt me so many times. Is it even worth it trying to make it work? He has cheated on me numerous of time and I constantly forgave him and try to make it for my family. He treats me like I'm ... (85 words

How should I respond to what he said?

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2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - What does it mean when a guy, who i have been going for couple months tell me that "with me, you are so innocent" after making out with me? ( i did not touch his ****) Second, he said he is so frustrated everytime i left him there after our making out, he wants something ... (90 words

Is he going to tally up all the times we argue?!

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2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We broke up once or twice because he was unsure, but he came to me 6 months ago and poured out his heart to me and told me he wanted to be with me, and hinted at forever. We rarely have huge arguments, maybe on... (694 words

Do my dreams mean I'm gay?

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2 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - So I've never been in a relationship before. So i really don't know what I am. I'm 15 and I've always had weird feelings.Always felt different. But I have a close friend named Joe. Now since like the new year I've been having weird dreams. Not every night but like every once ... (176 words

Do girls just not search for guys online unless they are really desperate?

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2 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Something doesn't make sense to me. I can't figure it out. My friends were joking about signing up for the online dating site plentyoffish. Anyways, I signed up for it with a fake picture and just looked at and read a lot of the profiles of the girls in my area. I don't w... (340 words

He doesn't know what he feels and I am between the sword and the wall

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2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My life has changed since i started to go out with him, and i knew this would happen some day. When I started to go out with my boyfriend two years ago, I thought about not being with him more than three months because i knew that it will hurt me just like other broke ups i've ... (832 words

Bi-polar boyfriend really depressed and its taking a toll on our sex life!

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2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid! I've got some issues that I'm really not sure how to deal with. My boyfriend is very bipolar and it's really starting to take its toll on me. I'll try and keep this post as short as I can. We have been going out for about 9 months now, in the beginning eve... (643 words

I know he'll really hurt me but I don't want to be just friends!

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2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Can't get over someone i know is no good for me. He's a lying cheating scumbag but we are really good friends and i have fallen completely for him. i can't break the friendship off, that's not fair to him but i can't control my feelings anymore. i know he has some kind of ... (114 words

I'm gay, don't know if he is and don't know how to go about finding out if he is!

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2 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hey guys, I really need help, there's this guy at work I really like, he's such a sweet guy, very cute and kind, we talk kinda often and he always gives me mixed signals, here's the problem, I'm gay and I have no idea if he is straight, bi, gay...I just can't tell but I have a ... (127 words

Are there any faithful men out there?

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2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone! I was wondering ....Is there such a thing as a faithful man? Even after so many years? No offence guys just got myself out of a bad and long relationship and I am worried/scared : / What are your experiences? Thank you ... (55 words

G/f slept with 2 guys while we were broken up and I can't get over it

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2 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I split from my partner after seven years, her choice and took this really hard. We spent 2 months apart and all I could think about was her. Finally I managed to win her back which really made me happy. We are now 6 weeks on and I'm finding it real difficult to deal with ... (181 words

Boyfriend obsessed with pole dancing!

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2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi if you are reading this i totally need some help. My boyfriend talks about pole dancing and i think that thats just gross. But he always talks about it. I am starting to think that he wants me to do it. I need some edvice on the subject. I think he is obsessed with it.... (56 words

What's the best way to contact an ex?

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2 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - i want to contact my ex after 6 months of no contact. whats the best way to do it?... (19 words

Problems in the work place, how do I deal with them?

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2 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - a guy at work fancies me, his mate came and told told me and now everyone in the office knows, he is not even talking to me after that, why?? another problem is, he's nice but i already have a boyfriend. i am really stressed what do i do?? he is really nice to me and i dont w... (68 words

My boyfriend shows off by getting into fights

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2 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend allwase gets in fights around me i dont know why but i think that he is defending me what if he is just showing off to me? Well i dont know because i didnt ask him and i dont have the guts to ask him.... (47 words

I like my best friend's cousin

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2 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - I like this guy, but he is my Best Friend's cousin. I want to tell my friend how I feel about her cousin but I think it might get kind of weird between the two of us because she and her cousin are like really close to each other and I don't want to ruin my friendship with her ... (72 words

I feel my fiance should pull his weight financially

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2 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - My finance has been living with me and my 2 children for about a year and a half. We make the same amount of money but he only pays for food. He says he won't help with the house payment and utilities because I would be paying for them if he wasn't living there. This really ... (107 words

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