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writes:i've been seeing this lad for like 7 months now and we have a strong relationship, the thing is he said he might ask me out anytime soon. i want to go out with him, but my friends dont like him and im worried they'll fall out with me or call me names for it. could you please help me with this one. much appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, Blod +, writes (5 April 2010):
 If you like him then go for it. Obviously try not to fall out with your friends but if they kick off then it's their problem, not yours. Calling names is harsh. Good friends are meant to support you. As your friends, they should respect what makes you happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): I think this guy is messing with you. You've been friends seven months and he said he MIGHT ask you out? That's not cool. You should look around for some other guys and ask THEM out.
When I was your age, I worried what my friends would think about the girls I went out with. I think you'll find that you'll be much happier if you live for you.
If you go with a guy and your friends make fun of you, firstly, they're not really your friends, secondly, just don't let them see that it bothers you. Shrug it off. They'll stop making fun of you.
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reader, advice angel +, writes (5 April 2010):
 if there yur real frriends they will understand you really like this boy and that if it makes you happy they sgould be happy for you,or if they dont tell them to put it in there perspective,
your mate starts seein this lad you dont particualarly like,but because shes happy you smile an get on with him for her,to be hnest i'm n that boat now,so if you need help just email me,good luck x
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