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Tired of getting shot down

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17 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey guys and gals...I have everything I need to live alone and independently, but that's the problem i'm living myself and it's getting lonely. I haven't had any dates in forever and somehow I feel tired all the time whenever I think about going out there to talk to girls just ... (105 words

I would be a success if I could settle down and just do it

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17 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello! In short, I have lived and moved to many countries throughout my life. Sometimes due to my fathers change of job location and sometimes due to my own ambitions. I lost my mother at a very early age and I have never wanted children. That frees me up for a life of advent... (733 words

It's a solid marriage but I miss sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - Can a marriage survive without sex? My husband and me are totally not sexual anymore.. I feel,my sexuality is dead. He is impotent , not medical. He is healthy,was checked out.. And never looks at me as a man,looks at a woman. But he says he loves me.. We have 3 children and ... (155 words

School, exams and controlling friends....

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - i am 16 and doing my GCSEs and i go to one of the top grammer schools in the country and am so stressed because I have become so dumb since i started, i've just been going downhill. My expectations are so high because I used to be top of the class in primary school always and ... (392 words

Is it my fault that he couldn't cum?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for a little over 3 months now. 2 months into the relationship, I gave him his first blowjob, but we had to stop before he finished because we had to go somewhere. I tried again a month later, we were finally able to ensure a long time alone together s... (134 words

Help understanding what women really want

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17 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - When it comes to men why is women picky? why is it women always say they want a good man but then its like you have to be a certain height,certain race, and have all of these materialistic things just to be wit them and on top of that they always want to talk about how t... (120 words

Could I have made her pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

17 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - Help! I'm really scared right now. My girlfriend and I have never had sex, but I went over to her house and she gave me a handjob and a blowjob. I came in her mouth, then we went to wash our hands just in case. I fingered her shortly after. She has missed her period for a while ... (68 words

I really like my colleague, but I'm afraid he might reject me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - I hope someone can help with my problem I am a married woman for many years and I have a massive infatuation on my male colleague. I can't remember how it started, but all of the body language is there from him, deep blushing when I look at him,casual touches on my arm, ba... (433 words

My emotionally cheating hubby has changed, so why can't I trust him?

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17 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I sadly found out just B4 christmas that my husband of 5 years had been emotional cheating on me via emails and texts etc...I had my suspisions and caught hm emailing some random lady on an i phone app, it was quite sexual stuff but it was clear they had never met but it hurt ... (348 words

Wierd, repeated dreams, need help.

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - the past couple of days ive been having these werid dreams about being in my bedroom and it feels like the room is closing in on me. and i have another one where i ring my boyfriend up and tell him im going to hospital and hes telling me to f**k off and that. its really f... (72 words

First time cheater...

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17 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have an amazing boyfriend that I have been dating for 2 years. He is out of the country right now and I am home without him. I cheated on him this week with a friend of mine. We were really drunk and i was indiscriminate, we were making out at a party. He came home with me ... (186 words

How will I make guy friends at my new school if I am gay?

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17 April 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hi Im 13 and also Gay. I realised I was when I was thinking about my Best Friend and realised I fancied him but he's straight and always talked about his relationship problems and said his mum caught him watching porn but Is this just something to cover that he is gay because ... (176 words

Should I tell her about my previous 'relationship' with her family friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2759 days ago

17 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Long story short, I've been seeing girl A. 11 years ago (in high school), I dated a girl B who happens to be close family friends with girl A. That relationship with girl B didn't mean much to me. I was younger and had no idea what a relationship was back then. Girl B is ... (90 words

Why did my shy crush say eww about me and the laugh?

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - She was in their computer room talking to her mom, who was standing at the doorway. Then my friend and I began to walk by, him in front of me. When I reached the doorway of the computer room, I could see her staring at me like she normally does. Soon after however, I heard say ... (144 words

Heartbroken 17 year old. How do I move on?

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - So I was dating this guy for the last 2 and half years and I love him so much. But he has this horrible Jekyll/Hyde personality. He can be sweet and romantic and suppportive, but you say the wrong thing and he completely snaps. He makes me cry daily, and he used to hit me but ... (143 words

Why would a shy girl appear to be looking through you not at you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3039 days ago

17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - When I gaze into her eyes, it looks as though she is looking beyond me. An example of this is when she was with her friends just chatting it up, but at one point she started to look in my direction with aforementioned smile. Like I said though, her eyes seemed to be going right ... (184 words

Unprotected sex, morning after pill, still no period! I'm worried about pregnancy and STI's!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Ok. basically i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time about 5 days ago. We didn't use a condom and now i feel stupid and all my friends have lectured me, at the time he said he would pull out and everything seemed fine. I really liked him, trusted him etc, and we were ... (352 words

I'm really insecure about my latest boyfriend and need advice. Help, please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been in relationships and I've been cheated on most times, I think I go for the bad boy sort of thing, always have haha. But even thought they're like that I usually get with people who get quite attached to me and don't talk to many girls and always just want me etc. N... (444 words

I'm not completely satisfied with my girlfriend, need advice.

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I'm confused about what to do with my girlfriend. We have been together for approximately 4 months. It has been a wonderful experience, but in so many ways I'm not sure if I'm content. Many would consider her very attractive but certain features of hers do not appeal to me... (183 words

I'm confused, am I in a serious relationship?

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17 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Im meeting a guy for last 15days and we have long conversations everyday. We dated twice and on first day he was holding my hand and was trying get closer to me.Even I enjoyed it but we never speak about any relation or he never said that he likes me neither I said. I am not ... (185 words

Does he have feelings for me, and that's making him jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3038 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi sorry to bore you with the story but the event of last night have left me seriously confused and quite upset. We went out, me 2 mates(a couple) and a guy that ive liked for ages. Thye have always said he likes me but is to shy, apprantly its obvious. We got there we bar... (793 words

I hate Facebook.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Well, I really need advice. My boyfriend and I had been together 2 years. We started having problems and needed time apart. The arguments were about money and stress and living in a too small apartment. We both loved each other,but then one day everything escalated and we ... (581 words

Am I a friend or someone more, to her?

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17 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have a situation in which I can not understand where it will go. Recently an old ex from high school contacted me after 8 yrs of no word (Bad breakup). Since then we have hung out twice in the last month. I would love for it to be more but she is about two hours away. I ... (235 words

Is it cool to text a date request?

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have a crush on this guy at work, he knows about it. I think he likes me too, but has never admitted it like I did. Well yesterday I texted him to see what he was up to, and got no reply. 30 minutes later I jokingly (but it was text- hard to tell, right?) text him again and ... (259 words

I really like him now, but how to I get his attention again?

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17 April 2010 (F age 18-21 - So one of my guy friends told me a while ago that he likes me. At the time, I didn't like him and told him so. But now, I do have a crush on him and I'm not sure what I should say or do... I would really appreciate any advice you can give me! Thank you!... (57 words

I've finally told myself I'm gay, but I need help because everything confuses me, now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

17 April 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hi I'm in my Teens and I'm Gay. I've been thinking I'm gay for so long and I've just made the step if telling myself I am gay. My Problem is that I am not experienced at picking up guys or even how to know If the guy is gay. I have friends that are all straight and I'm not ... (111 words

Dos and don'ts of a long distance relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I am in a long distance relationship with my girl for over two months, how do we survive, what are the dos and don'ts,because i have heard that it rarely works. If u have been in one before,your help we be appreciated. ... (42 words

How can I find someone in my school who is gay?

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17 April 2010 (M age 18-21 - I'm 13 and Im not sure if I am Gay or Bi. Recently I've been looking at half Naked pictures of Boys and then Girls when I look it the boys I go hard straight away and usually think their really hot but with girls I look at the boobs and don't get hard. I had a girlfriend last ... (185 words

Please help, I'm dreaming about my teacher

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Im a junior at highschool yes im young but i have had a crush on my anatomy teacher, i used to just think he was an interisting humerous man untill my best friend(who had him for biology her sophmore year) confided in me and told me she thought he was extremely hot i was ... (343 words

Things were going well until I told her I was interested

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17 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - I recently started a college course and met a girl who had very similar interests in life. I got her email address, but it took us a while to arrange a drink. Eventually it happened, and on the second time we went out I basically told her I was interested in her as more than ... (247 words

Friend suddenly stopped talking to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Iv'e been really good friends with someone for about three years, theres quite a big age gap in our friendship but thats never been a problem. I was really close to her and we shared alot of things. She has helped me through some really bad times and ive been there for her as ... (92 words

Life of misery

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - i hate the people hurt me and every day i get sadder and sader and more unhappy no body cares about me home.i have be going counsellors since i could read,i have been bulled,attack,called names, rejected,ingorned,even stacked,no body cares abut me at home and how unhappy.i have ... (130 words

Terrible pain when trying to finger myself

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm a virgin 16 year old girl and when I try to finger my vagina I can't because IT HURTS A LOT.I can't even stick my entire finger in my vagina,I have tried but I can't,I have been trying to finger my vagina since I was 12 years old(when I discovered masturbation) and this ... (389 words

I want to tell him I'm interested, but don't want to seem desperate

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - This ones for the guys.so I'm a young good looking female that tends to get the attension of men and lads from around 18,and believe me I'm not complaining,but it never goes anywhere(relationship wise).I'm only 16 and I really like this guy,I want him.I'm not afraid to make a ... (91 words

He accused me of cheating when I wasn't and then broke up with me!

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - How can he do that?? thats soo cruel:(? my ex boyfriend and I were together for 2years..he started accusing me of cheating when i wasn't and then the other he told me hes got a girl/wifey and he has given her a ring, he loves her soo much. he said am a nice girl,lovi... (130 words

In My New School Should I Tell People I'm Gay or Not? and Advice

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17 April 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hi I am 13 and Im gay. Recently I've been getting more and more attracted to men and not at all women and I have been looking at gay sex and straight sex and I've always been atrackted to the penis never the woman and although many people say that your not gay when people ... (171 words

3 weeks without sex-is that normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - When my b/f is under pressure at work; or has too many bills he just shuts down in the sex department. We have sometimes gone 3 weeks without intimacy. Is this normal in a happy relationship? I guess it's frustrating to me because for the first 3 years of our relatio... (122 words

Will she know that I've had sex with someone else?

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17 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - dear cupid, i had girlfriend that i broke up with. meanwhile i had anal sex with this other woman. i want to get back with my girlfriend, but if she wants me to get tested to know if i had sex or anal sex with other women, will she be able to know that? if she goes to the ... (62 words

I feel like I have to be with him all the time so he won't cheat!

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - ive been seeing a guy for nearly a year now and since the beginning of the year we've started having sex. and ever since then ive become incredibly attatched. before we started having sex we'd only see each other once or twice a week.and it never bothered me not seeing him as ... (306 words

How can I build my confidence in meeting new people?

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17 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - After a six year relationship my boyfriend and i have decided to break up. I feel i commited more than he did, i always went to him, to see his family and friends, so now i feel a big space in my life. Im realising how lonley im begining to feel at times. I think i can be a... (211 words

At 25, I still haven't had sex, but I think about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

17 April 2010 (? age 30-35 - I am 25 and not sure about sex. I am still not ready to take that extra step and actually have sex. I have had two serious relationships so far and thankfully they have been with men who respected me enough to wait. I am still with one of the guys but although I feel ... (106 words

He cheated and now I have trust issues

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17 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - i have been seeing my boyfriend for 9 years now he as all ways been a kind and caring person but last december he cheated on me 2 days after he came and told me.i could not believe what he had done so i kicked him out and we finished for about a month.i was heart broken and ... (191 words

One night stand last night

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Was wondering if anyone has any thoughts/advice. I am currently living by myself and my boyfriend of 4 years has moved away for work. In the last month a guy at work (not same department) and I have been texting and emailing. He has a longterm girlfriend too. After t... (213 words

How to make my ex miss me?

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Alright, so its been like a week that my ex bought up the past between us. The past she bought up went beyond the limit like crossed the white line here. The past was that she bought up was how we use to fall asleep together. That's way to special to be bought up ya know? So... (110 words

Why don't guys like me? What is wrong with me???

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - What is wrong with me?? why dont guys like me? guys never wanna get serious with me.. they always make me think if they even like me.. they are nice and sweet, calling, texting then they just change and move on without even breaking with me they just disappear from my life.... (228 words

Why was making love this time so intense?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

17 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - I need a woman's advice here! I was making love with my girlfriend last night and as usual the sex is great, we have been together for 3 years now and we have had lots of fun in and out the bedroom!! but as we were making love we both came together which isnt unusal but this ... (126 words

What should I do about my live in boyfriend?

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17 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend who is 42 moved in with me 5 months ago due to his business going under and was pretty much broke. So I felt I needed to help him. He had high quality furniture and mine was not that nice but it suited it's purpose. Well since he is a christian he does believe ... (311 words

If you asked your boyfriend if they had been seeing someone else and they didn't answer you, would you presume they had been?

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17 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi. If you asked your boyfriend if they had been seeing someone else (because you had a feeling they had been) and they didn't answer you, would you presume they had been? My ex boyfriend and I were together for 2 1/2 years. He had been working so hard in an attempt to qu... (396 words

Flirting games...

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17 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - This is about a guy I work with, I knew him for 3 years and a week ago we were just joking around about flirting. He's married and I'm married so he asked me a question in a message "do you want to satisfy my curiosity? so I reply back to him "Yes" and he never replied back to ... (65 words

Since we moved house my husband seems to have lost his sex drive...

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17 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My husband is 25 years old we have always had a great sex life. Recently we up and moved to the other side of the country for his job. About 3 months after moving he totally lost his sex drive! I dont know if it is me or what, we have talked about it and he says he thinks ... (102 words

Can you undo a lifetime of conditioning???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

17 April 2010 (M - I'm very uncomfortable around gay people. I'd hate to describe myself as Homophobic but maybe that would be accurate. I know the usual answer to something like this is: maybe youre secretly gay yourself. But I'm 100% sure I'm not secretly gay. I mean women do it for me big ... (185 words

My fantasies, wont somebody support it?

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17 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - I have lot of fantasies, many wild fantasies, but I enjoy it. I tell this to my wife too and she does not complain. Some of my fantasies involve me with some of my close female relatives. Having a threesome or foursome including me and my wife with one of our friends.... (111 words

Do I try to work through it with her, or should we call it a day?

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - ive been going out with this girl since september and ive known her for about a year. the thing is she broke up with me after christmas because she said she wasnt happy and felt it was over and then asked me to get back with her 3 weeks later once we were back to college which ... (200 words

Please help! Should I move in with a roomate for now, or trust how my husband is being?

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17 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi, we have been married five years. My husband and I recently moved two yrs ago to a different state to start our business and that didnt work out. He has been unemployed the whole time and became very depressed. We have basically lost all of our material objects very fast due ... (309 words

Stress is affecting sex with my wife, why am I so negative in life?

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17 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - I always lost out in my life be it be the studies or any thing ,married for over 12 yrs 2 kids and a very att wife i get alot upset when i think about my future my business is not as good as i want though the people around me find me very sucessfull but i know that i am not ... (135 words

Boyfriend told me he'd leave if I got pregnant, and I tested positive.

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am 15 and i done a pregnancy test this morning it was positive.My boyfriend said he would leave me if i ever was what should i do?... (28 words

Should I keep giving him chances if he comes back?

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Right so my boyfriend dumped me last night and claimed things weren't working any more even though i had offered to do something about it like us going out together. Being the school holidays i havent had lots of time to see him. I cried when he dumped me and i really like him ... (225 words

Is he distancing himself because we're going to university soon, or for another reason?

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My ex and i were together for just over 1 year, we were very much in love but we argued quite a lot and decided we needed a break. This break lasted for about 4 months although the whole time we were still in contact (we did see other people). We started seeing eachother again ... (198 words

What if he's perfect, but the sex is horrible?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Quick question: What if the guy you dated was the nicest fellow in the world, educated, intelligent, good looking, treating you amazingly etc but the sex was absolutely HORRIBLE? (some of the difficulties I am talking about can not be fixed, like size or being adequately hard ... (49 words

I fell in love with him then found out he was married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - i am a seperated woman with 1 daughter of 5 years old. my husband left us 2 years back and has filed a divorce case. i'm contesting against it as i want him to come back home. in the meantime i met a man who is 3 years younger than me on the net and we started meeting each oth... (273 words

The death of my one love makes me hesitant to date.

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - hi there. I've been on here many times. I have gotten great advice. I have one question too ask. my back story. thru highschool I had many girlfriends. after a few casual relatonships I started gettin into bad relatonships. I've been used, hurt, cheated on, broken hearted, left ... (377 words

He won't let go of his separated wife for me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, i am a 41 year old woman, i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and it has been a very up and down relationship, he has always been a very angry man and i have found it very hard with him, we have a 2 year old child together of which he never wanted, he tried to get ... (708 words

I'm pregnant and he stresses me out.

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - im 7 and half weeks pregnant. ever since i found out i was pregnant me and my partner were really happy and excited (still am) but we have been arguing alot lately, to the point when i dont hear from him for a few days, i get sick with worry wondering where he is and what hes ... (183 words

Is he confused?

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Lately my bf has been stressed and distant. i go to his place on the weekends and end up sitting on the couch all weekend because he has no time or money to do anything. i told him how i have been feeling neglected and he got angry. last night i went to a concert with my ... (191 words

Do guys get erections over any girl, ... or just ones they like?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey there, Just wondering, when I've kissed boys they've all got erections afterwards. Do guys get erections with any girls or just ones they like???... (28 words

Why does he ignore me altogether?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I was dating a guy for about 6 months. Recently, he broke up with me. I was pretty confused and hurt. We had a pretty healthy relationship, great sex, and a great connection. He broke up with me the day before he moved a couple of towns away to "The City". He used terms like "I ... (277 words

I'm 17 and in love with my friend's father!

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi, I have a huge deliemma and I'm so confused. I'm in love. One of my close friends loves me, but I am in love with his father!!! I am 17 and my friend's father who we will call Max, is 36. He loves me back as well. I know it is absolutly insane, but let me explain. I often ... (692 words

Celibate marriage.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - *OP's own title* I am also in a sexless marriage. I have been married for almost 6 years. My husband has some very deep issues and hang-ups about sexual intimacy. Through these years he kept saying to me that he will go get help. He finally sees the writing on the wall, and know... (229 words

Is this relationship over?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

17 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - *Op's own title* Okay its like this, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 4 and half years now, i was working abroad in Malaysia for the first 2 years and we were together, for the past few years i visited reguarly from UK to malaysia to see and we were talking ... (548 words

If I didn't know she was married at the time I flirted with her and felt her up, could that get her thrown in jail on an account of prostitution?

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Last March, a 21-year-old girl I met let me come down to come see her. She was my girlfriend, and this was the first time I was meeting her in person. However, I broke up with her a week after we met because she was teasing me and all of that and it was really getting way out ... (154 words

So how do I get to know a guy I don't know?

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've seen this guy at my school around and i suddenly have taken notice in him. I've talked to him about once or twice, but this was last semester, near the beginning of the school year. And then I got transferred out of his class so we never got to actually KNOW each other.... (101 words

I don't like living in sin, our lack of time, or feeling like roles are reversed in our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3041 days ago

17 April 2010 (? age 30-35 - hi, i am in a 2 years relationship with a guy i really love. however, we are very different from each other. one: i hate living in a sin (sex and all). he wiling to put hold off of his sexuality just because of this. but when he put off, he totally putting it off. it i... (825 words

I am having a very hard time maintaining interest in other men. What should I do?

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17 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Late last year I was approached by a man in a pub and he offered to buy me a drink. I initially declined but my friends pushed me to accept so I did; at the end of the night we exchanged numbers (he asked, I gave). We began to text, then spend some time together and were on the ... (364 words

What should I do, continue or break it off?

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17 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - dear cupid, Recently i have broken up with my partner of 22 years and have been contacting my ex-lover who which we broke up over 25 years ago we have now decided we want to get back together agian because we still love each other a lot. the only problem is she is married ... (127 words

Should I tell my husband I have had sex with his brother?

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi, i had a question just before. the matter was about my husbands sex with his aunt during his early ages. he tells everything to me openly. but i do have a big secret and i really cheated him. his younger brother stayed with us and was very playful. he used to hug me ... (392 words

20 and never been kissed!

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Twenty and Never Been Kissed…. Ever since I was about 15 I’ve been on a “waiting quest” . What’s a “waiting quest” you ask? Well a “waiting quest” is a journey of sorts that doesn’t involve searching or moving or action…it just involves time and waiting. Now, this journey... (546 words

I feel sick that she might be cheating on me.

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Well this is what I got. My girlfriend and me are getting married next year hopefully. She will every once in a while go out with a girl friend and go to parties and what not. I know she loves sex this trust me i know, we both do we are very healthy sexually in our relationship ... (202 words

How do I let a guy know I want to go to the formal dance with him?

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Tonight I had this thing at my school for games and stuff things that are fun to do. Anyways, my friend kinda ditched me so I hung out with my friend and her bf. Later, my guy friend came along and we were flirting and being kinda sexual (talking). We were sitting by each other ... (213 words

I want sex, ... but never when my boyfriend is around.

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my bf for 2 and half yrs. When we get to together we always have sex. But lately I have been wanting it when his not around. When his around I jus seem like I haven't been interested. ... (43 words

I want to be free!

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17 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - *Op's own title* Can someone help me? I've been with this man for four years, through alcoholism, abuse and tears. I stay with him because I have no where else to go. I just need someone to listen to me please. Even if you don't reply just listen to me. I am 28 years old and ... (214 words

The "we'll still be friends" thing blew up, was I in the wrong or not?

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - *OP's own title* I dated this girl for about a month, before that we were good friends for a while as we were in the same class at school. Everything in our relationship was awesome for the first few weeks and I really thought that things could one day become serious between ... (535 words

Should I stay with my bf or start searching for someone who treats me the way I treat my boyfriend?

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been having some doubt lately. My bf and I have been together for almost 4 years, in a long distance relationship. He's my first boyfriend, and I've never had much experience with guys... the truth is I feel like there's something missing, like, there's no depth to our ... (251 words

Anal sex - to do or not to do.

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Should I let my boyfriend give me anal sex?... (9 words

Is it wise to propose given our age difference?

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17 April 2010 (M age 51-59 - I am 45 years old and love a girl of 27 years age. We date each other but never discussed marriage. I have never found out whether she is interested to marry. Is is wise to propose a marriage ? Is there an issue with the age gap ? ... (49 words

Drank. Cheated. Stupid. Confused

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - *OP's own title* I have been dating an awesome guy for 4 years. We are amazing for each other. i mean amazing but i've recently gone to college and he's in the military and that combination seems horrible. Everything was perfect but i decided to be the college kid and ... (386 words

Frustrated by the lack of sex!

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17 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I have a bit of a long winded problem but I'll explain as quick as I can. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years we both love each other very much and we are best friends. The problem is he has no sex drive due to medication that he's taking and he doesn't ... (385 words

Horrible Pain when trying to finger.Help Please!!!

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - *OP's own title* I'm a virgin 16 year old girl and when I try to finger my vagina I can't because IT HURTS A LOT.I can't even stick my entire finger in my vagina,I have tried but I can't,I have been trying to finger my vagina since I was 12 years old(when I discovered mast... (291 words

Is a 4 year age difference too much?

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hey all, we all know that love got no age limits and stuff like that BUT. what you think : when a girl is 4 years younger then a guy (guy is 20 and the girl is 16), can they date? and im not talking about sex and stuff like that. when a girl is 4 years older then a gu... (102 words

It feels like he chooses his friends over family.

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17 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My fiancee(22yrs)of three and a half years spends a lot of time with his friends. Together we have a 13 month old and I am always the one left home to take care of her. When I try to talk to him about it he tells me I am nagging and that I take the time we do have together for ... (115 words

My ex finally contacted me after over 3 weeks of no communication, do I respond back?

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I've already posted this question earlier but I'm posting it again. My ex finally contacted me after over 3 weeks of no communication. This is something I didn't expect would happen but hoped would happen. Now I just don't know what to do. Most articles I've read explai... (224 words

I love my mum, but she irritates me to the bone and I am not able to forgive and forget.

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - How not to hate someone that raised and gave birth to you? Yup you know it I dislike my mother very much. Why? I don't know why I have so many grudges against her. I love my mom but the sound of her voice trying to tell me that she loves me irritates me to the bone? I wish I ... (392 words

My daughter puts hurdles in my personal life!

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17 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello all, this is my first story-problem I would like to share with you all and expect your comments and advice. I am almost 37 years old woman and i have a sweet but bossy teenage daughter.I live outside Detroit just with her, since im divorced from her dad 4 years ago.... (811 words

I'm a virgin, waiting till marriage, but I want to lose it with him!

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - So I'm a virgin and I've been wanting to wait till marriage for that special night but recently my boyfriend of about 2 years has been wanting to have sex with me. He says he really loves me and I really love him as well. The other night while hanging out in private, we started ... (97 words

Am I a sex addict?

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I need to masturbate at least 4 times a day to feel ok and this started since i was 11. Now i m 19 and i think this might affect me in the future somehow as i allready cum more times than someone in whole life. I m worried about my health and mb when i m 40 if i will be able to ... (140 words

Does anyone thinkshe might like me?

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17 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - okay, my question is about a girl (Go-figure) I play piano, guitar and I sing, and one day at school I was playing the piano and singing sort of a love song, I don't have a girlfriend, but as I was playing, this girl that I could never see wanting someone like me was watching ... (185 words

I have a boyfriend, and I love another... just as equally, I assume?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2830 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello, I have been having an issue for about a month. I am in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) and I really only do believe in LDR's more than I do in real-life-all-the time-dating. The situation: I have a lovely boyfriend in Denmark and he's very nice, sweet, true, and d... (271 words

The love of my life actually hates me...

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17 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I was in a relationship with somebody for a year. Don't laugh, but it was only ever an online relationship. We talked on the phone, we talked every day on messengers, we had webcams, all of that stuff. Honestly, she was the first person I've ever loved, and don't give me the ... (294 words

Why won't he give it to me?

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17 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have been with the same guy for over a year and half and when we first got together he had sex 4 times in like a month then all of a sudden he says he aint intrested in sex and im just the opposite i would love to have it and i do everything for him . buy him EVERYTHING he ... (96 words

Should I pluck up the courage and say "hi, it's been ages..."?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Basically, about two years ago, i met this guy Conor on facebook through some friends. we got talking and we became fairly good friends, and our conversations were funny. he would tell me Love you xx at the end of almost every comment etc, and he always helped me out when i ... (682 words

How can I approach this guy?

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17 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hello and thanks for reading my post.I'll try to keep it as short as I can.(wee!) I've been talking to this guy on a website,he always initiated the conversation.We sent messages back and forth,never talked on IM or phone.He's smart,with a good sense of humor,and i alwa... (342 words

Would you let your just-turned-16 year old daughter date a 19 year old guy?

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17 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Answers from parents are especially appreciated! would you let your newly turned 16 year old daughter date a guy who turned 19 a few months ago? im scared to tell my mom because i havent even mentioned a word about him and we`ve been talking on the phone and txting for ... (139 words

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