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I have only ever had 3 girls interested in me! How do I get my self-esteem up off the ground?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - im a young adult, have been in a relationship for 3 years and my self esteem is the lowest it has ever been. i feel soo ugly its eating me up and there is very little i can do about it. it never used to bother me before it was just something i could push to the side without a ... (124 words

My husband farts on me and thinks its funny

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2364 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My husband farts on me. He thinks its hilarious, and its really annoying to me. It makes me feel like I am one of his frat buddies instead of his wife, who he might like to have sex with again at one point or another. I don't know how to make him stop. Help?... (54 words

Sneaking around on Adultfriendfinder, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - A while back and I got the Mail and I just open the credit card bills and I just found out that he was charging by adultfriendfinder and he was telling me that I cancel it . so yesterday, I just found out that he still on it. so I don't think he won't ever tell me . so wha... (103 words

Do women enjoy sex as much as men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2838 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I an always wondering cause ladies have different answers.. Do ladies love sex as much as men if not more?... (21 words

I wonder sometimes if I should be more bothered by his cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - my boyfriend told me last night that he cheated on me 3 times with 3 different guys. like any other boyfriend, I sorta freaked out. But an hour later, it didnt really phase me at all. Before I got with him, I knew he had a history of cheating with other partners, and although i ... (215 words

20 year age gap in a relationship..thoughts?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 21 and he is 44. We have been dating for 3 years. We went to tell my parents together about a year after we first started dating but I got mixed signals from my parents on the subject so I decided to wait until I was 21 to tell them. We're both very happy with our r... (176 words

Should I be direct? Or not so direct?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - When I ask a woman out in the future, should I use plain language or fancy language? Is it best to be direct, and simply say "Do you want to go out with me on a date?" Or can it make things awkward if I am too direct? What is the best way to ask someone out? Can... (74 words

I need help to get over on something that never started.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm so confuse, I meet this guys a week ago we really like each other the chemistry and the attraction is mutual, finally we decided to meet and talk after work, on my way there my heart was racing a million mile per hour. The dinner was fine we complimented on each other ov... (422 words

Married man having platonic relationship with a married woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - Is it o.k for married man to have a platonic relationship with a married woman? My husband recently reconnected with a friend whose a girl in high shcool. They've never had any kind of romantic relationship, although my husband had admitted in the past that he had a crush o... (332 words

I get excited by other boy's bums more than I do over girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2493 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - hi, im sorry if this gets a bit long. so im very very confussed about my sexuality. everyday i go to college and i cant help my self i look at all the bums of the boys. i imagine them naked, and in sexual situations. but with girls i dont do any of this. i sometimes try... (148 words

I really like my teacher and he knows

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi i have liked this teacher since last year (I'm in 7th grade)and we've always been cool like friends kinda sorta okay well yesterday i was in his class for health and we were almost done with class and he said we could talk since we finished our work and out of nowhere my ... (181 words

I'm sneaking out to meet older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - hey :) well i am 15 and i am 16 in about 2 months! i am you generall type of girl like to shop and go out with my friends. But i have stearted to go out into town and meet older men which is not good as something happened which i deeple regret.I get a lot of attention off old... (194 words

Drugs are involved, he's lying..do I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for just over 2 yrs. we are living together, I have mate his family but he's not mate mine as I come from abroad. I have recently found out that he has been taking mephedrone and the new drug (cannot remmeber what its called) behind my back, I was ... (324 words

How do you confess your feelings without risking a friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - How do you find the confidence to risk a wonderful friendship for something more? I'm in love with a good friend who is in a relationship. I can't work up the nerve to tell her how I feel. Every time I think about doing it, my heart races and then sinks, because I am too... (153 words

Why does my ex girlfriend keep contacting me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi - can anyone help? A year ago my girlfriend ended our relationship after 2 years. I was certain that she was meeting someone else but could never prove it - she says that she wasnt - but a couple of days later I spoke to her and she said to leave her alone as she was in a ... (369 words

Perfect relationship apart from the forced celibacy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - My GF and I have been together for six years, I love her so much she is my best friend and I am hers. We do everything together, joke around around, travel, camp, hike, nights out in the city, you name it we do it. Everyone who knows us says that we are one of the happiest ... (203 words

Is my boyfriend who is says he is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months and we're pretty serious...We talk everyday and about everything...He is my first real adult relationship and I've fallen in love with him. The problem is that is older than me (I'm 24), my family has a HUGE problem with the ... (198 words

I pressed charges against b/f for his behavior, but should I drop them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am so confused! Please can someone help me to sort out what I am feeling. Basically, my boyfriend attacked me when he had been drinking so I had him arrested and he is now on bail for 3 weeks, he is getting charged with common assault. But I am not sure if I still want to ... (169 words

Fed up with life - and I'm only 16

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm so sick of my life, I'm 16 and it's Friday night and I'm sat inside which is what I'll be doing all weekend. How can I gain confidence to get myself out there? I feel like I'm missing out on so much and feel there's nothing I can do about it. I have no social life exep... (83 words

G/f cheating? No sex, says I make her skin crawl

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - I live with my girlfriend, but is she having an affair? Weve not had sex for nearly 16 months now, she used to sleep naked in bed but now wears shorts and t-shirt, we argue a lot, she goes out 4 nights a week even for just an hour sometimes, she goes out at a weekend in the day ... (118 words

Should I have a talk with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Alright, we've been talking for 2 weeks and it's been pretty good and a few times she bought up the past...The past she bought up was way to special. It was how we use to fall asleep together. Im like wooww..but yeah It got my interest back with her, and i decided to ask her to ... (399 words

Pregnant and hated, but my ex wants to take the baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - so me and my ex dated for 2 years... it wasnt the best relationship, i loved him but he wasnt too affectionate and we had fights because i was jelous of his ex who was always in the way. he recently moved to another country and after 2 weeks of being there we had a fight and ... (313 words

How do I approach this guy before my best friend steals him?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Every morning when i leave the house and walk to my bus stop, a guy passes me and i see him everyday! i think he's gorgeous and we smile at each other all the time! I told my best friend about him yesterday and she said she knows him a little and she thinks he is rather ... (134 words

Will I look back and regret sleeping with a 46 year old man?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi, thanks for your time, I'm 17 and the guy I'm having casual sex with is man who is 46, with the benifit of hindsight will I look back and think what he is doing is wrong? It's just a pattern I've noticed throught life, as I get older I look back on people that are younger... (93 words

His mother hates me and controls him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am almost 22, and have been with my boyfriend, my third 'long term' relationship, for about two and a half years. We have an amazing relationship when it is just us, he got around a bit before me, but I was the one he chose to settle with. We are madly in love, and never ... (1046 words

Our sex life is one sided!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm in a relationship of 1 year now I'm 25 and he's 28 we love having sex we have a problem with our sex life he likes when I give him oral sex but when I try to get him to give me oral sex he won't do it and its just not fair and I have stopped giving him oral sex and he just ... (143 words

How do I make a complete break from this guy I was dating? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend and I have had many issues, regarding his jealousy and lack of trust because of my past. It's been very draining for both of us, I think. It's been one of those difficult relationships, some of my friends have called it toxic. But we were sure it was meant to ... (955 words

I dreamt I had a penis and had sex with a woman! Why does this all mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - This is a really personal dream. I mean – I feel weird about being open about this but I really want to know what it meant… Before I begin, anyone reading this should understand that I’m female in real life. I’m heterosexual. And yes, I've had a dream where I had a penis and ... (104 words

I really resent what my partner's brother did to me...I need ideas on how to cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have 2 children with my man of 12 years. I have given his brother alot of money and he has never paid me back, he has never told me sorry, and he doesn't come around me at all right now. This is more than $250,000.00 - and I am crushed. It has been so hard on our relationship ... (361 words

He talks to me on MSN, but ignores me in real life? What's up with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi. I need some advice with the guy I like, please?? A guy from college texts me and talks to me on msn every day. If we’re not on msn, he texts me and if he’s online he usually starts a conversation straight away. He remembers stuff about me, teases me but is really nice too... (218 words

How can I tell him rough sex hurts sometimes???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend are in a relationship of 3 years, we have sex very often, all the time he likes having rough sex and I don't know how to tell him that he hurts me sometimes without making him feel bad? What do I say?... (46 words

Partner says he'll give me more sex if I dye my hair!!!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - My partner says if I dye my hair blonde, he will give me more sex but I don't want to dye my hair. He watches a fair amount of porn by the way, which I think interferes with our sex life already. But should I leave him or adapt?... (49 words

Boyfriend threatening to dump me for being overweight!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I am a 20 yr. Old female I been in a relationship of 3 years my boyfriend has a problem with my weight. I'm not too much overweight but I try to do everything I can I go to the gym I eat healthy and I do it all for myself and him but it seems to not be enough for him I try ... (129 words

Could my girlfriend have got pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi there, I am really scared so let me just get right too it. My girlfriend and I were in the shower messing around...and she lathered me up with soap so I was nice a nd slick then jerked me off...I came on her side. I didn't really pay attention but I was rubbing it with my ... (130 words

I can't bear the thought that I've reached the age of 19 with zero experience.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok so i asked a question here a couple of days ago. The thing is im 19 and a virgin still, and i feel really worried and down over it. The people who answered were great and it helped but i think they thought i was just obsessed with sex and losing my virginity. I'm not, i just ... (198 words

How can I stop his wandering eye?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - hello.. I am married and i know my husband loves me and we have good times together but i get insecure when i find my husband looking at women who dont look all that great but their neckline is low or wearing short skirts and I am ok that my husband looks once as i cant close ... (127 words

Ex-girlfriend haunting our relationship unknowingly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for about 6 years and we love each other (I know I do, not quite sure where he stands any more). The problem started 2 years ago when he started cheating on me with this girl. We broke up and got back together and things are fine, no cheating or ... (254 words

Should I call off my wedding to a man who finds me unattractive?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we're engaged and getting married this summer but lately he's been acting weird towards me he complains about my weight he tells me that I'm not attractive anymore, the sex is awesome, he wants it all the time No problems there, but ... (110 words

Ways to make my online dating add stand out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi, firstly the problem i have is i like a more mature women mentally that is, my idea of a night out is not to go to a club and get wasted (To me this is something i'd do with the lads, Not my gf, im not saying i wouldnt do it im just saying its the way i think) and most women ... (232 words

Bisexual boyfriend has cheated twice but I can't leave!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - So my bi-boyfriend, the man I have loved for the longest time, the man I have sacrificed so much of my time and have given my entire self to, has just revealed to me that he cheated on me twice: once when we just got to gether, and the second with someone else (second time, he ... (267 words

Our bet to see how could go without sex the longest!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I made a bet to see who can go without sex the longest. It is stupid but I just lost my virginity to him and he thinks I'm addicted and always want it. His conditions if he wins is he's using restraints more than once, gettings bjs whenever and how long he ... (151 words

How can I help my obese wife who won't help herself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'm having serious issues right now... I have been married almost 3 years. My wife and I have been together since middle school except for 3 years after high school when we broke up and dated other people. When we first got back together, all of those crazy high-school ... (274 words

Help!!! Is she just not interested in me any more...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My girl hasn't made love to me in over four months and this has never happened before. She allows me to make love to her but she doesn't return the love. Is she using me? or is she just not interested in me anymore? I am so confused. Also I have been having problems with he... (222 words

He says he sometimes can't be himself around me...what on earth does he mean?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1991 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My relationship is good, at home my boyfriend is great to me and we've been together 6 years. But when we go out, there's the problem. He recently told me that he can't be himself when I'm around - he can be more rude and talk to who he wants. I'm not clingy, and we are both of ... (298 words

Married for two years, but we don't understand each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Have been married for two years but we dont quite undestand each other we fight over nothing and sometimes i feel like we were not meant to be together. please help (MOD NOTE: Text edited for clarity)... (38 words

How do I get this girl to hang out with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - There’s this girl I work with who I have a crush on (we’re both grad.-student/teachers). I never see her at school, but we talk on Facebook chat frequently--I usually initiate the conversation. At any rate, she seems receptive, and always has a response, and she thinks I’m ... (81 words

Premature ejaculation help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - when i am doing sex my sperm out quickly so what i do?... (13 words

Is this a new trend? Twenty-somethings hitting on 40-somethings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - To all of the men out there. I am 48 years old and have been getting hit up on by gorgeous guys in thier early 20's. Is this a new trend going on? Are these guys just looking for sex? FYI i have not been going out with any of them because of the age difference... (57 words

He won't tell me what STI I'm supposed to get treatment for!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi everyone l real need some advice.l had sex with my bf and after 1 week he send me an a sms saying that l infected him with some kind of sickness l must go for a treatment. l went to de clinic to get help then the nurse told me that they cannot test me for sti if l don... (233 words

Is there a family connection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey this is confusing but here goes,my bfs cousin is my mothers uncles son...so what does that make my bf? im not really good on family relations ... (34 words

Is he embarrassed by me or bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I got a question. My boyfriend been acting distance lately but he don't think so. I would ask him to do stuff with me and he be like no. He download games for me on the computer but when it comes down to us doing stuff together we don't. We play with each o... (233 words

Why am I not welcome to socialise with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3 years never invites me out with him. He goes out every friday night with his work friends and has only ever asked me to join them once in 3 years. I always invite him to join my friends and I but he never feels inclined to have me along too? I'm confused as to ... (61 words

What's the best way of telling my parents I am pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi guys, ive just found out that im pregnant and i want to tell my parents but am scared that they will be dissapointed in me. How can i help them understand that its what i want to do. ... (39 words

Move on or try to win him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - im really suffering because it may sound stupid but im madly in love with my ex who i havnt even spoke to or seen for 2 years but its getting me so down we were so close and went through a rough break up wich shocked every one please give me advice i need to know how to forget ... (70 words

Are his looks lustful or appreciative?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - what kind of looks indicate that a man is looking at a women lustfully..? if he finds a girl pretty and looks back to her several times does it show he s lusting her or just attracted to her beauty..? please help..... (42 words

What should my next move be to win back my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2954 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - To start off, few days back I posted a quesion on here regarding the fact that my ex contacted me and confessed that she misses me incredibly after over 3 weeks of NC and a month and half since the breakup. However she was confused as to whether or not talking again will make ... (427 words

Miss my boyfriend but end up exhausted by trying to keep myself busy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Morning peeps. Just looking for some uplifting advice really. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for the past 4 years. We see eachother every few months which is better than it used to be as we used to see eachother twice a year! Now what I'm struggling wi... (220 words

Our first sex toy - any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2943 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm new to this site and just wanted to introduce myself and ask a question. Recently me and my partner have been having alot of sex, and we wanted to make things more interesting. Like bringing sex toys into the bedroom. Neither of us have used them before A friend ... (123 words

How do I go about getting in my first ever gay relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - First of all, I'm a 21 yr old college student. I came out to myself 3 years ago but only started to get more involved with the the gay community last year when i started living at school. Last weekend, me and a few friends went to a party. We met up with a few more peopl... (517 words

Work colleagues don't care that I'm ill!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm probably going to be told to grow up and get over myself but it's made me feel even more down. I've been off work for 4 days with the flu- ok, no big deal, i'll live! But what's upset me us that not 1 of my colleagues has bothered to txt me asking how I am. I know it ... (140 words

Closeted lesbian, homophobic society and loveless relationship, please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am a 30yr old lesbian from a small town in India. I have a problem which is weighing my heart down because ending my 5 yr relationship seems to be the only solution, i can formulate. I hope you will be patient in reading my letter and giving me any advice you can. Here i... (535 words

In love with my friends mom but getting mixed signals!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi Im 32 Ok what started out as a crush , over the last few years I developed feelings for my friends mom 53 at first it was innocent . I once left my cell with her because we cant talk in private because her husband found out I slept with one of the family friends and warned ... (137 words

I'm married, but confused by another man that I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - A year and a half ago a long lost friend came back into my life. We started texting and I found myself falling in love with him. I'm married and but there is something about him that I don't want to let go. he told me on a few differant occassions that he used to be in love ... (157 words

I'm not in love with her but she doesn't want an abortion.. I don't want to hurt her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - ok here goes. im from scotland and i got my american girlfriend pregnant. at the moment both of us are living and working in south korea ware we met about 7 months ago. our contracts run out in august and she wants me to move to america with her. im not in love with her. and... (141 words

My husband's bipolar and PTSD, watches porn more than alot, and nothing I do is good enough..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2937 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - the bottom line question is Where do I go with my marriage and how much more do I put up with? So here is the background leading into that question My husband and i have been together for 10 years and 9 of them have not been easy. The first was a breeze because I did no... (929 words

Am I being ripped off at the moment, or is this how couples operate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - 2 years ago I moved in with my boyfriend (we have now been together 5 years) and he owns the house. I pay half of the mortgage but it is as rent, I have no legal claim to the property. I also pay half the utility bills and taxes. However I have/do not: a) paid any depos... (498 words

Why do men go limp at times?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - HI I AM JUST CURIOUS..WHAT CAUSES A MAN TO GO LIMP?DURING SEX AND BEFORE SEX?... (15 words

My mom in one corner, my husband in the other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am so confused. I have been with my partner 4 yaers now and have a 3 year old son. My mother hates my husbands guts and vice versa. It all started 1 yaer ago at my sons 2nd birthday my mum was sick of seeing me crying because of my husband ignoring me, not working and just ... (387 words

Engaged to one man but still love another.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Please bare with me. This is a rather long one. I had been dating two different men for a brief time. It was not at the same time, just back and forth. Man number 1 was the one I was absolutely smitten with. He had commitment issues. Man number 2 was a sweet man who wanted t... (835 words

How can I feel more like this is going to last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years now. We have had lots of problems so he moved to florida to try and fix what he needs to fix and i'm in michigan working on the things I need to fix.It's been 45 days now since I've seen him we both work, him during the day and me ... (106 words

Should I look for a new woman or wait for one to enter my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I am a 22 year old male and I recently went through a breakup with a girl that I had been dating for two and a half years. She broke up with me very suddenly about a month before I was going to propose to her. I had bought her a diamond engagement ring and asked for ... (293 words

My boyfriend drinks and won't be consistantly decent to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been dating for around 4 months nearly now and yesterday we got into a bit of an argument because he needed help with something and I turned it around on myself because I was in a mess too (I suffer from severe depression and always seem to ... (471 words

He's gay but he bites me alot and I like it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

23 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - me and my best friend matt spend every waking moment together. we go to the park behind his house play on swings etc. lately weve been spending alot of time sitting in my car talking and singing and hes started to get a little sexual. we hold hands,flirt, and he bites ... (111 words

Is he gay or not?

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Should I feel guilty if my girlfriend's personality changed, and as a result, lost my attraction to her?

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23 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - Should I feel guilty if my girlfriend's personality changed, and as a result, lost my attraction to her? My girlfriend, who has anxiety, was prescribed some prescriptions to calm her recently. But I am worried they may change her, into a woman I did not fall in love with. ... (129 words

She used to love me, now I love her.

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23 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - I have a huge crush on my friend and she USED to have a crush on me. She claims loves me as a brother now, but I think she likes me as a boyfriend. How do I convince her that she loves me in a different way?... (47 words

Odd Relationship. An Unbalanced Relationship? How Do I Balance us/ Make This Work?

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23 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm a little confused my "bf" and i have an odd relationship.We see and speak to each other almost daily.I go over at night mainly - we go out, watch movies, play pool etc.When drunk he practically loves me and seems insecure, jealous..fiesty. He says things like how much he ... (418 words

Can a married man have a platonic relationship with another woman?

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23 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - My husband reconnected with an old high school friend whose a girl. The've had two lunch dates together since they've met in Sept 09 and they continue to communicate over the phone or facebook. The girl is also married and my husband tells me that besides another male in the ... (133 words

Should I date him even though I don't want to be seen in public with him?

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23 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - OK.. last year my best friends always used to try to make me hook up with this guy and they didn't tell me if he was cute or not so he just came up to me or whatever and i didn't think he was that attractive so i just pushed him to the side and walked off(i know it was rude!) ... (119 words

Should I remain friends with her after she sold me out to a teacher.

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23 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Okay well before my question, I guess I have to explain first lol. Well I met this girl S this year and we are friends...or so I had thought. We do everything together and we know mostly everything about each other and when I asked her to cover for me in 6th hour in school, ... (149 words

Should I start charging my boyfriend rent?

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23 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 12 years and I have 2 children together. We have moved to 3 different houses in our years together all of which I paid for with cash. I am happy in the 3rd home I have purchased, we live in a lakefront home, have a boat, and the kids love it. Every December I ... (279 words

How can we make kissing more fun?

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23 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Okay so my boyfriend and i are getting more used to each other.. Lifes not so complacted right now.. Everytime we make out we dont really move much we dont make it fun.. its like we just sit there.. i need help on how to make kissing him more fun for me and him!! I love yo... (79 words

Is there any hope for this marriage after 25 years?

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23 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, i last wrote for help around a month ago. I was so desperately sad for my husband and the situation that we were in as a family. My husband lost his mum around a year ago and was treating me very badly, so bad I would just cry for days and feel my heart was breaking... (845 words

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