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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

He likes this girl and wants me to like her too, but I love him!

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I attended a university where i met this guy at a little party and I fell in love immediately. That same night he dropped me home. Then he started comin over regularly. We palyed together laughed told stories about our past together. It was jus fun. We went out all the time. ... (273 words

She, me and him--I don't want to be in a relationship with 3 players!

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hands down, my biggest problem with my boyfriend over the past 4 years has been his ex-girlfriend. I want to tell him that I am not comfortable with him maintaining a friendship with her, but I also do not want to control who he can and cannot be friends with. More than ... (500 words

I stay with him even though he's cheated on me and hit me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - ive been with this guy for 11 months now and i feel really attached to him but ive realized that im in an abusive relationship i know its wrong and evreytime i break up its like im forced to go back because he litterally calls me more than 50 times a day and write me 3 page ... (113 words

Hes going back to his own country, should I cherish the last days together or break it off now?

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi I am really bummed out cause the guy I started dating for about 2 months is going to move out of the country and go back to his. I know we have not been dating very long but I really like this guy and started to get feelings for him so this sucks. He said he didn't plan on ... (182 words

Its very upsetting to me that I can't satisfy my partner the way he does me

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25 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - I am gay and my boyfriend and I have been together for almost over 2 and a half years now. I love him with all my heart, so much it hurts when I have to be away from him. As corny as it sounds he completes me, just thinking of him makes me happy, the slightest touch turns me ... (1245 words

Does he like me? How do I talk to him?

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Question one: I recently noticed a guy who seemed particularly interested in me. Though I'm still not sure, I wish I could talk to him. My shy personality is sucking me out of the decision, and even then I wouldn't know what to say. Everytime I conjur up a conversation in my ... (200 words

I want to be as far away from my parents as possible!

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25 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - My parents were fighting a lot and just not being good parents and not spend a lot of time with me when i was a kid. And i was thinking about it i just dont like them at all i got no desire talking to them or spending time with them and when i m with them they are making me ... (172 words

Break up? Stay together? Baby involved now!

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I broke up for a month, she dated this guy, she got pregnant. She told me before she might be, but the day after we got back together it was confirmed, I dont want to abandon her but I dont want her to have this baby, I want to go, but I want to stay. Im not ... (100 words

She went from warm to cold in 48 hours..what happened?

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25 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - Right guys, this will be long, been seeing a girl now for 6 weeks or so, everything was going great. We really clicked, loads in common, she kept saying we should go here and do this go here and do that, which i was cool with. I did the same and said do you fancy doing this and... (366 words

Tried to get even with my cheating boyfriend, and now I am pregnant.

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I hope I will not be judged for asking this question as I made a mistake in trying to get even on my cheating boyfriend- something I will never do again!!!! I am pregnant, my last period was on the 1st of January and I discovered my pregnancy on the 14th of February. My ... (145 words

Limp after foreplay?

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25 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - okay so im 18 years old, and about 3/5 times that im messin around with a girl, i usually get too much into foreplay and exert all my energy and become tired (dry humping for a long time etc) and i guess it tires me out and when we progress and start taking our clothes off ... (107 words

He said I barely talk and thats why he ended things

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25 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - dear cupid,there is a guy i liked and he asked me out i said yes we broke up after 6 days.the reson why is he said we bearly talked and he is about to ask me out again what should i say?... (42 words

He doesn't show his emotions and feelings for me!

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25 April 2010 (F age 18-21 - i think i love my boyfriend, but he doesnt show his emotions and feelings for me. I am starting to like this boy called "N", he is my ex, i told him that i like him, and he told me that he likes me, but he said that he doesn't want to get in the way of me and my boyfriend which ... (128 words

Want to be with older man but I always say the wrong things to him!

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25 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - Well I find myself always having this guy run through my head. i want him in my life and i wanna spend time with him. The problem is I'm 18 and he's 31. I've always thought of myself mature for my age. But being gay and just recently coming out I've never had a real ... (195 words

Why did I sleep with him when I despise him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - A while ago, I started dating a my roommates friend who I hardly knew. I understand what a mistake that was. We ended the relationship after about a month. We didn't see each other again for a while but when we did, we resolved to be friends. After that, another three or so ... (179 words

I'm only willing to date women who are Christian and in my area of attractiveness. How can I get better at dating?

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25 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hi, First off, I'm not too concerned about this, I'm more just curious if there is anything else I can do. Secondly, I'm a Christian man really only willing to date women who strive after Christ with my passion, and are in my area of attractiveness (I'm a realist in that ... (349 words

I'm 15 and a virgin and I want to have sex. If I don't wait for the right person, will I regret it?

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm 15 and still a virgin. All of my friends have had sex, i think im ready to but i really don't know what to do. i m not sure whether to wait for the right person or just go ahead and do it. if i don't wait for the right person will i regret it afterwards ?? somebody ... (65 words

Why does my boyfriend have such a one track mind?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay so i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and everytime were alone he always trys to have sex with me its so annoying! Some days i just want to hang out watch a movie and cuddle but he just wants to have sex.... and when i tell him no he just gets so pissed and starts ... (77 words

I've never had a boyfriend but get asked for sex all the time. Why?

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - hey guys :) basically i am 16 years old and i have never had a boyfried!! i mean i have got into someone and done other things but i have never had a boyfriend. My friends say its because they are to scared to ask for a relationship because i am out of their league. But som... (142 words

Friends with benefits, but I want more!

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25 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, I am in a physical relationship with someone without any word of love ever being said. We are just good friends (with benefits!!! - tho I hate to say this). I am not happy because I am only with him because I love him but he probably doesn't know. I wish I could tel... (102 words

Does he really like (have feelings for) me or am I just some form of "female companion"?

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - This is going to be long, but I will try to keep it short. So I met this guy about two weeks ago through an internet dating site, we talked for about a week before finally meeting up. Our date went perfectly well, a lot of talking/getting to know each other and lots of laug... (612 words

He doesn't treat me with respect,, but I don't want to lose him

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend does not treat me the way I want to be treated he belittles me al the time. I believe is my fault because he has been doing for a while now and I have never been able to defend my self. Now I'm beyond tired of it. I don't even feel like he respects me. The treat... (245 words

Very confused, am I over analyzing?

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25 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello Sorry if this is long winded I "met" a nice guy online 6-7 weeks ago and we began online chatting, then texting(lots, quite flirty too), email and a few long phonecalls, seemed to get on well and have a laugh, so finally met up two weeks ago (his suggestion) and ... (450 words

What is the secret to a lasting relationship?

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi there, My sister and her bf have been together for 4 years, my aunt and uncle have been together for 15 years, and my grandparents for 38 years. I want to know what is the secret to maintaining a good relationship. What do u do in order for the other person to not get bored ... (71 words

There seem to be strong feelings, but he won't spend time alone with me

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - How can someone supposedly want you or love you and not want to spend time with you alone?? I cant get my head round it. People we hang out with have often said 'he seems to like you but he seems like he's just too shy to tell you or even show it.' So he acts the total opposi... (372 words

Feeling lonely with boyfriend working long hours

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now. He is a chef and works long hours which means we don't get to see each other much and we dont live together yet. Lately I have been feeling very lonely and been finding his job and hours even harder! I have a few clo... (211 words

Why does my ex act angry and hostile?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok so i havent talked to my ex boyfriend in months. He contacted me and said he saw a car like mine in his neighborhood he swears it was the same license plate everything. I explained to him it wasnt me i even have proof and i was in a whole different part of town 30 minutes ... (230 words

Are fetishes a normal part of a sexual relationship?

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25 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hey guys and girls, Are fetishes a normal part of a sexual relationship? ... (19 words

How do I tackle this problem with my friend?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey all. I need some advice as my friend is being very pathetic for a 19 year old girl. Ive known this girl since i was born, our dads were next door neighbors when they were little and they remained good friends, until recently where my dads grown tired of her family's lac... (665 words

How do I play hard to get?

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - i've known this guy tom for a few months now and he told me he loves girls with a sense of humour, brunette (which i am) and have blue eyes (i have blue eyes) and when we met up with a few friends he did flirt with me for a bit. And he told my best friend he does kinda like ... (123 words

How do I overcome my fear of losing my best friend?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hey guys, i am scared of losing my best friend, i need to trust him and i am trying. I am scared he is going to find a new best friend, how do i over come this? He has told me many times that i am being silly. HELP. We have been arguing a lot recently and these fights start ... (144 words

What should I do to keep myself occupied while he is away? I'm determined to make it work this time!

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Now, I won't lie to you, this is a very peculiar relationship predicament I find myself in. And it's as painful as it is unusual. I first saw this man several years ago, when I was very young indeed. And he was, well, not very young. I watched him from afar until, when I was ... (424 words

I think my ex still loves me!

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25 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - my ex and i have been divorced for 2 years, he is in another relationship and very unsettled, we have an intimate relationship that he "hides" from this woman, we still love each other, am i wasting my time waiting for him to take me back and forgive me for leaving?... (51 words

Do you think he's afraid to fall in love with me because of how he's been hurt in the past?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Sorry this is so long!! Help meeee! I've been with this guy I met almost a year ago (we're in an online relationship), and when we met I really, really liked him. I crushed on him like a little kid.. always wanting to be around him and make him laugh, offer him things that ... (510 words

I cant get over his past! Why sleep with so many women when he is gay, not bi?

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25 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I'm a twenty-year-old gay guy. I'm a virgin and I've waited my entire life to find that one right person to share sex with - something so important to me. I understand that sex doesn't have to be something extremely important and that lots of people can find pleasure in casual ... (434 words

My boyfriend is boring! Help!

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Kay, well i've been seeing this guy for a while and he is lovely. We get on well, he's a gentleman and i love him and i used to love spending time with him. But recently things have just gotten boring. The last relationship I was in was really fun and spontaneous, me and my ex ... (97 words

I really want to start something with her but scared to make a move just in case she thinks I'm insane or causes trouble with her boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

25 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - hello, i have a major problem; having left main school 2 years ago obviously there are some people that i have not seen for a while. randomly the other day my old friend asked me if i was up for going round to her house to keep her company, so obviously i did because i always h... (355 words

I cant let go of her! How can I get her back or at least find out what went wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2741 days ago

25 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - Hello everyone, I'm in great need of advice in contrast with an ex-girlfriend. Her birthday is right around the corner and even though I'm great with words I just don't know what I shall write in her card, there are reasons behind this. One of them sticks because my feelings ... (699 words

He says he loves me more than he has loved anyone but cant be with me because his mother hates me!

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriends mother hates me. She has no reason to, and if he asks her why, she responds by shouting at him that she doesn't want to talk about it. On wednesday last week she banned me from their family home (she did last year for 4 months). My boyfriends texts were cold aft... (652 words

Will he think I am bad in bed because I am a virgin?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. A bit lame I know but I've been waiting for the right person. Recently I've started kind of seeing a man i think might be the right person, the only problem is i really dont want to tell him i'm a virgin or inexperienced in any way...wha... (190 words

I woke up and found she'd left me taking the 2 kids with her...

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25 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I really dont know what to do any more, and I need help. I have 1 son with my partner and I have brought up her other son from birth as my own, cos at one point we split up and slept with someone and got pregnant but since then we sorted things out and got back together, things ... (344 words

Why is she even with me?

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25 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok, I'll try to summarise this as best I can. We've been dating almost a year, and within the past 4 or 5 months, my girlfriend seems to have actually grown to detest me. She refuses all physical contact, I can't even kiss her on the cheek nowadays. She chooses only to ... (432 words

We texed one another for over 5 hours! Does this mean he likes me?

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25 April 2010 (F age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, I like this guy and I told him but he said that he already talks to someone. I told him that I liked him over a text message and since then we've been texting. Does that mean that he likes me? We've once texed for over five hours, I need help as I really like thi... (62 words

My boyfriend won't move out of the house he shares with is ex because of his child! Help!

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi Guys, I'm new to the site and I need a bit of advice. I have been with my boyfriend for approx 6 months (doesnt sounds long I know), We were friends before and it grew into a relationship. I knew that this guy lived with his ex and 5 year old child before I got in... (564 words

I don't think about sex when I masturbate?

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - First of all, sorry for the explicit nature of this question. I'm just wondering if anybody else feels the same way. I'm a virgin (female) and when I masturbate, I can't think about having sex or doing sexual things with another person. Well, I *can*, technically, but it isn't ... (228 words

What should I do when I am having sex without a condom on?

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25 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - i'm a virgin , and i have been wondering what to do when im having sex without a condom and im about to cum, do i cum inside her or tell her im about to cum or what? HELP!... (39 words

Is she just using me to help get her marriage back on track?

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25 April 2010 (M age 51-59 - I have being have a relationship with a married woman is is a work colleague. Im single had have been for about four years, having come out of a 18 year relationship.She was having problems with her married life and later admitted they were not having sex and she had found out ... (275 words

He keeps receiving pictures of semi-naked girls and texting them but claims it is only "like porn"! Should I forgive him or will it happen again?

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. After 3 months of going out i found pictures of other girls on his phone with no top on they had sent him. I also found very forward texting to one girl in particular who he was speaking to on msn , She was going on webcam to him a... (443 words

There are 3 guys in my life and I love them all! Who do I pick?

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25 April 2010 (F age 18-21 - 2 people; my boyfriend and S (i hate him but at the same time i love him). i love my boyfriend but i also love S. S told me that he loves me but doesnt want to love me. my boyfriend says that he loves me but he doesnt show it at all, he is very quiet and is very shy. S wanted ... (349 words

Male advice needed! Will my stretch marks put guys off?

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - i am 16 and i have stretch marks on my upper legs and on my sides because i lost a lot of weight really fast when i was ill , now i am afraid that guys wont want to be with me because if this am i just over reacting ? (can i have male advise to please)... (58 words

Does it sound like he could be falling for me too?

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I guess I'll start from the beginning. My friends and I were sitting in the lunch room when the art teacher came over and started chatting. I'd never had him before, so I wasn't saying much. But he turned to me unexpectedly and said "Are you taking art next year?" and I told ... (668 words

My teacher's suggestive actions are beginning to atract me to him. Help!?

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - So, I have written an article like this previously, but I feel like I need to revisit this issue, because nothing has really gotten better, and this 'craving' I am feeling towards my teacher has increased at a very excessive rate. I will re-explain my situation to tho... (724 words

Is she cheating?

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25 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - i recently found out that my girlfriend dont want me to read her smses nor listen when she talks on her cellphone.when i asked her about it she said its a dude that wants her.they stay in the same town while im at university,should i dump her?... (47 words

Can anyone please interpret this girls behavior?

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25 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I have a extremely complicated and messy situation here it might not make perfect sense but I will try to explain the best I can last march i went to visit a friend of my ex's in Seattle because she said if i ever wanted to visit america i was welcome to use her as a contact... (1536 words

Are there any places I can turn to as an 18 year old who is 8 weeks pregnant?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi im 8 weeks pregnant and want to get away from my family and boyfriend. are there any places i could turn to? i have no where to go and want to get away. please help! ... (38 words

What kind of problem would a young girl have that stops her talking to one she claims she loves?

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25 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - this is the height of this love thing.pertaining my past post questions on how i thought i had offended my gf after asking her let go of me but instantly sought to reverse it and take back my words.but she kept silent and getting me frustrated for the past one month.finally ... (237 words

I think I am in love with my best friend's boyfriend!

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - i am in love with my gay best friends boyfriend lets call him jake (not his real name) me and jake had become really close and the other day i stayed round my bestfriends called alex (not his real name) and while i was round alex's jake was there and we was watching tv and alex ... (191 words

How do I go from here; best friends - to more?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey... just wanted to put my story out here and get some opinions. Basically, I've been at a 6th Form college since September '08 and will be leaving in June this year. During my time at college I've become friends with a guy who I did not see as anything more than a frie... (330 words

I've tried to forget for 3 years but I can't!

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey Im so confused about what to do I go to this place on holiday, and for three years i've fancied this lad that lives there like mad. Two years ago, i started talking to him and got his number. During that two years so much has happened, he told me he liked me so i was chuf... (304 words

The baby seems to be ruining his life and its all my fault

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. and now i am 9 weeks pregnant, at first he was happy and over the moon, now he seems so distant. he said its alot of getting use to, but i cant believe he can say that, im the one who is going through it. lately he has been ... (197 words

I like my friend but he doesn't want anything to do with me!

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - im feel so empty right now...i like a friend of mine and starting from yesterday...he stop talking to me...its been like killing me and i want to cry...i couldn't seek help from any friends...he seems like he dont want to have anything to do with me already.... (47 words

Can I ask my soon to be ex to father my child?

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25 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I am 34 and on way of getting divorced,I am desperate to have a kid,Would it be right to tell my soon to be ex husband to father a child ... (34 words

He makes me so happy but he's sleeping with other girls!

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone..i am so very confused about this guy. I started to see him in November-everything was great, he even brought me a lovely gift after a week of seeing him. While he was on holiday over christmas I found out that he was sleeping with someone else and had a gf back at ... (307 words

Am I pregnant or did the pill mess up my cycle?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My menstrual cycle for the past six months has been 28, 37, 32, 24, 25, 26, 26 days. This month, I had sex with my boyfriend on the 25th day and the condom slipped. He noticed it on time and pulled out of me and came all over himself. The condom was still inside of me and when ... (180 words

I don’t want to get over her, I just want her back

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25 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Right, OK. This is probably going to be very long so I apologise for that... I’ve recently split with my girlfriend. We were in a relationship for four years. I can’t stop loving her and thinking about her all the time and it’s got me really down and I seem to be thinking a... (1204 words

What is a clever way to deal with people?

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25 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, This is a theoretical question but an important one all the same. I find often when I reach out to people to work with (business wise or even as friends) they are reluctant to work together, in fairness I'm pretty bold and don't see anyone beyond my reach, I don'... (242 words

In a twisted situation......

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months 16 days and for a period of time,recently,i felt indifferent towards him and wasn't calling him like i did before. Before all this, i had developed a lot of affection and like for a guy who i befriended when i went to ... (191 words

Is there a chance we'll be okay again?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I had to move away, a few months ago, and things were still okay between us, this time last year he had asked me to marry him, I'm 17, he's 20 I know it's young but anyway. We've been very happily in love, and well t... (403 words

My mom doesn't like the fact that I'm a lesbian!

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend broke up last year and I took it pretty bad. My mum had an idea I was a lesbian through knowing other people I have liked but last year was my first gay relationship. My friends stopped talking to me and I had no one. My mum seemed to understand but today ... (148 words

He doesn't want anything to do with me! How do I forget?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - How to forget a person who doesn't want anything to do with you? it just hurts so much that we didn't end on good terms and I really wish to talk with him again but its not what he wants and I need to respect that so I want to completely get over him.... (54 words

I'm getting more and more anxious about sex

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey, I have been having sex with my boyfriend for about 10 months. We both haven't had any other sexual partners. When we try to have sex it still is very hard for him to get in, even if I am aroused and lubricated I still am tight, and there is one area around the opening of ... (158 words

Why do men make suggestive comments?

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25 April 2010 (F - Why do men make suggestive comments. I have known a man for 6 years and we have flirted on and off over that time. He says he likes winding me up from time to time. More recently though he has made more suggestive comments and when I have jokingly told him off he says I don't ... (87 words

Did I say the wrong thing?

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25 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - In my previous post I talked about how disasterous my first conversation with my ex was after being in no contact for over 3 weeks even thought it's been a month and a half since the breakup and 4 weeks since the NC period since I had put her off for a week. I needed time to ... (409 words

How do I clear him from my mind?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi, i had a relationship with my best friend. we were friends for a few years and then fell in love. but after sometime we broke up.he said that it wasn't love he had for me.we were in contact. a few months later he came back and said he still had feelings for me. we got p... (174 words

I like him and want to know if he's gay

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25 April 2010 (M age 18-21 - Hi I am in my teens and I'm gay. Recently I've accepted me for who I am and now I am excited to have a gay relationship maybe to much though, the thing is when we walk around our local City I can't help but look at guys and check them out and wonder if they're gay too. When we ... (105 words

Does my friend mean it when he says this is our last chance?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - my best friend came on to me jus 2day ago, i said no, so he got angry and told me to leave, he came after me two minutes later to apologise and he apologised for the rest of the day. I felt rubbish when i got home cried my eyes out, i still was not over it by the next day so i ... (220 words

Separation has ended..how long do we wait before having sex?

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25 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - How long do we need to wait to have sex again now that we have ended our separation? My wife and I went through a separation for February, March and the first part of April before we got back together after successful marital counseling on my unemployment and other issues. I am ... (300 words

My dad is married to someone else but my mom is sneaking around to see him!

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - This situation involves my mum and estranged dad. Basically before I was born my dad was married to this woman and had a 6 year affair with my mum. He never left his wife for her and she ended up raising me herself with no contact with him apart from child support. On my 9th ... (358 words

He's still staring at me but doesn't appear to be as eager as he was in the past

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - i need help.. there is a guy in my locality. long years ago we were in same school together.. in school days i was came to know this guy is always staring at me. my all friends sawed him looking and staring at me. because of his such behaviour i fall in love with him. now the ... (118 words

How do we move on?

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25 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 18 months. We are both 'second time round', both with kids and live apart. We talk about growing old together and six months ago bought a holiday house that we often go to at weekends. We love each other and tell each other this all the ... (184 words

Did I do the right thing by ditching her?

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25 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - hi. im in some trouble here. I work at a hardware store in the garden department. a girl my age works as a cashier. we became friends instantly and playfully flirt quite a bit. lately there has been a growing sexual, emotional tension. awhile ago she asked me too send her a pic ... (378 words

Could married colleague love me back?

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25 April 2010 (M age 51-59 - what is the best way to know whether one of my married lady colleague to whom i love very much love me or not? ... (24 words

Should I pursue this secret relationship with this teacher?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok, so I need some help. I'm 21 years old and just got a job at my school 2 months ago to help out another teacher with some things. I work in an office house, where there are 6 or 7 teacher offices. I work in the kitchen, so when teachers pass they'll always pass by my office. ... (749 words

14, never made out and don't know how to use my tongue

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl and I've never made out with a guy. I'm single right now, but when I get another boyfriend and if we get to that point to where we want to make out, I don't want to be all scared and embarrassed. I want to be confident. So, how do I make out and do I ... (65 words

I want more than friendship and I think she does too but she has a very low self esteem

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25 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - I have really liked this one girl for about 6 or so months now, and we have got to know each other quite well. But i want more than just friends. i have tried hinting to her, but we are both rather shy and she has really low self esteem. My friend who is also friends with her... (120 words

He didn't ask me to move in with him. Is this a warning sign?

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I (23) was talking to my boyfriend of 8 months (26) the other night about apartments, as I am moving out of mine as soon as my lease runs out in the summer. He was giving me advice of different neighborhoods to look into, since i was going to be moving into his city (easier ... (165 words

I'm not attracted to my girlfriend but I don't want to hurt her

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25 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I dont know what to do with this situation? I have a gf that is funny, pretty, smart, but i am not attracted to her sexually. I have never felt a spark between us since weve been dating. My friends like her and find her attractive, my family likes her, and i really do care ... (186 words

I'm convinced my ex-boyfriend still loves me even though he says otherwise

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25 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - hi I meet the guy on a webisite italiansingles in october we talked online then we started to talk on the phone we talked everyday and night we fell in love but we never meet but we saw each other on webcam. we talked all night on the phone. everything was prefect then one... (278 words

How can I get my ex-boyfriend to stop talking to me?

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25 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - How can I get my ex-boyfriend to leave me alone? He broke up with me by text message telling me that he has another girlfriend and a baby (news to me). He was never all that great as a boyfriend. We only dated for a couple of months. I thought he was my friend before we starte... (384 words

My boyfriend broke up with me but now he doesn't want me to see other guys

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25 April 2010 (F age 18-21 - i been datin this guy for 8 months,he broke up with me last sunday and i begged him and cried sayin i didnt want anyone else. i now know this was a mistake as i have been reading that begging pushes them away but anyways he talks 2 me some at school. i started dating t... (390 words

We want to have sex but my poor body image is getting in the way

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I just started dating this guy I've liked for over a year and he's very sexy and wants to go further than I feel comfortable. Well it's not that Im uncomfortable, I'm more self consious. Half because I'm afraid he won't like the way i look or feel and another half is that i ... (59 words

Broke up with my boyfriend for another man who I later learn is married

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I m a 22 yr old undergraduate and had a normal lifestyle. I m considered simple and naive as describe by my peers . I have a boyfriend (aged 25)of 1 year plus but I was not very happy in this relationship. He treats me well but we often argue over small little things. I... (660 words

I don't know if he likes me anymore after my friends started texting him

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I got asked out by my cousins friend and I said yes, but we live on opposite sides of the country so we decided not to date until I went back to where he lives in June since I'm going to stay with my grandparents for the summer in his town. When he first met me and we decided ... (181 words

What is this mysterious bulge in my lower abdomen?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - About a week ago, I had my period. (This is nothing new to me). My period lasts generally 3-4 days at most, then has a day of a little bit of darker, old blood (from old periods. not concerned since this is normal.) However, one of the days, I left a tampon in all day becau... (439 words

Boyfriend threatened to assault me!

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - What should I do? my bf and i have been together for 8 months. Today, he threatened to assault me. He said "I am glad u are far away so I cant hit you" I am very scared of him. He has a temper and I feel like it is escalating to violence. I do not feel like I can be ... (112 words

So many failed relationships. What am I doing wrong?

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm almost 23 years old and have had a lot dating experience over the past 4 years of college. I have no problem attracting men. They start off very interested, always telling me how attractive and smart and great I am but they always end up breaking my heart, lying to me, ... (124 words

My husband is selfish, ... or maybe it is me?

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - My husband is a good man he works hard and takes care of me and our daughter. He is a good person but, sometimes he is just selfish or maybe it's me. All we ever do is go accross the street and hang out with his friends and I watch him play computer games. I take care of our d... (211 words

Is this guy settling for me?

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I've been in a relationship for a year now. I feel that I love this guy and told him but he hasn't said it back, he said that he needs more time. My gut feeling is that he is settling for me because he told me that he cares for me deeply but has also told me he never wants ... (532 words

Can I have my fertility checked?

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25 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - does anyone in england know where i can find out if i can have babies? cos im so confused about this problem :\ i missed a period last month, and then i have come on this month. and me and my boyfriend were so worried. but i want to check if i can have babies. does anyone ... (76 words

I was strong enough to leave, but don't feel strong now I have.

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone I have recently left my b/f of 4 yrs. He kept writing sexual messages to other women and he did eventually cheat on me. It has been 2 months now and I am holding up. But I just found out my friend has a bf now. She is in ontario 4 school but was coming ... (183 words

Do I try to forget her, or try to stay friends?

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25 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - Quick history: I Met my wife 15 years ago. Two years ago I met my once-in-a-lifetime crush (I am in mid thirties and I have had my share of crushes, but this is way beyond anything I have experienced before). First year I tried to ignore/forget her. Didn't help. Then I tried to ... (589 words

He wants to be friends, I want more. How can I change his mind?

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I was seeing this guy for about 7 months...after going away on vacation for about a couple of weeks, he became distant and a bit withdrawn. I should also mention that there is a 7-year age difference between us. I am 24 and he is 31. I brought up the issue to him, asking if ... (350 words

Confuison about sexual orientation

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25 April 2010 (? age 22-25 - Hi I have a serious problem on my hands,at least to me its a very serious problem. I'm extremely confused about my sexuality(orientation). I've been having serious contemplation in my head about sexuality, and questioning if I'm straight or not? O.k. so i have a girl that we're ... (186 words

Should I un-friend my ex-girlfriend on Facebook?

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25 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex-girlfriend about three days ago, and I am now just starting the very hard, heart-breaking and emotional healing process. Every time I log on to the computer, I have the urge to check her Facebook page, to see how she's doing and what she's up to. ... (138 words

I accused of him of not being over his ex and we haven't been the same since

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25 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I had been dating a guy for a little over one month. He definitely went above and beyond to show me he was totally into me. I have a marketing company and he owns his own business. After a few weeks of dating he asked if I would like to put in a proposal for his new website.... (433 words

Is it rude for two people to have sex while you're in the room?

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25 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Does anybody else think it rude for two friends to have sex whilst your in the room! It made me uncomfortable, but, I perhaps I'm taking life too seriously or something. How would other people react? Btw it was a group if us sleeping at a mates flat and there were three ... (74 words

Is love at first sight real or a myth?

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25 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - Is it possible to fall in love with someone literally as soon as you see them? I use Facebook as my main way of communication with my friends. My cousin changed his status and a friend of his commented on it. The comments between my cousin and the girl and myself and the girl... (195 words

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