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15, don't like the life I live, and want a baby

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I am 15 years old and want a baby. I do not beleive i am completely ready to have a baby, but what parent is? I have recently moved away from all my family and friends due to my parents divorce. Having parents that were together was really diffacult for me and my siblings. They ... (521 words

I love her but she's worried about what people would say

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

14 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Hello everyone, am jus writing coz i really need sum advice and hope you can help me. I'm an 19 year old lad who recently has been seein a 34 year old woman for the past two months. I have known her for about three months and i first met her when i went out with my mates and we ... (241 words

It feels like I have a yeast infection ...

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I don't know how to put this.. I'm sixteen years old and I sometimes have 'discomfort' down there. I don't really know how to explain it. It sometimes feel like I have a yeast infection, but can you get those often? It seems like almost constantly I have white/yellow stu... (132 words

Break up or stay together??!

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I have a boyfriend of 1 year. It's been fine for a while, but a few days ago he told his friends that he doesn't like me anymore because I had a "huge butt." One of my friends told him I was going to break up with him, even though I was only considering it, and he didn't ... (346 words

Friend is complaining about the hair style I gave her

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I don't know if anyone will respond to my post but I just feel so angry! Back in January a girl I used to work with asked me to cut her hair (I had qualified in July as a level 2 in hairdressing ). Now I had cut her hair once before and she was happy with it hence th... (299 words

Am I wrong to be angry about her night out in Mexico?

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14 April 2010 (M age 51-59 - My wife is a bilingual ed teacher here in our home state. She took a recent job-related trip to Mexico to finish a certification she needs as a teacher in multiple languages. While there, she and her coworkers also had time to go out drinking and dancing, and apparently had a ... (243 words

Is the anniversary of your first date important?

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14 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - So I was talking to my sister earlier and the conversation went pretty much like this... Me: I've been with *girlfriend* for 5 years soon. Sister: When's soon? Me: May... ish. Sister: *rant that can be summed up with 'how can you not know when your anniversary is?!'* ... (149 words

Could an unrequited love be your soul mate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey, I was just wondering what people thought about soul mates. Do you think it's possible for an unrequited love to be your soul mate, even if he/she has a different soul mate they found first? I like to believe evryone has ONE soul mate, but that's pretty impossible I guess, ... (64 words

Space and breakup!

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14 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - well my girlfriend recently told me that she wanted a break. we have been together for almost two years now. she called me after she said this and said that she thinks we most likely will be together at the end of the break. she wants a two week break and she says she needs her ... (118 words

Can I have the baby blues even though the baby is not born yet?

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I am five months pregnant and i am terrified of being a parent (single parent at that). I love the little one but at the same time i don't want it - i want to run to the hills screaming my head off a way from the responcibilities and hardships and baby in my future. I could ... (208 words

Is he really wanting to break up or is he just being a typical guy that's scared of the future?

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about 3 or 4 months now. He's two years older than me and will be entering his last semester of graduate school. I'm a junior who still has two years of college left. Anyway, when we first started dating we were fantastic. We got along so well, had ... (597 words

Am I too old for sex? What else can I use other than lube to make it comfortable?

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14 April 2010 (? age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I really hope you can help me with this odd problem I am having. I am a 25 year old virgin and have finally found someone with whom I feel comfortable enough to take it to the next level. So for a few nights we have been doing more than usual (normally he ple... (190 words

Two questions about cheating.

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hey there y'all. I was wondering today, as you do, about relationships. I have two questions really: 1. Why do people cheat on the people whom they claim , and possibly do, love with their whole heart. 2. Is it possible to have a relationship where the partner is ... (73 words

I was thinking about showing up at his place with my raincoat on and nothing underneath for the one hour drive to my mom's cabin. Do guys like things like this? Or, is it too forward?

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14 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am a 24 year old woman and single (I hope not for much longer). To make a long story short, when I met my boyfriend, I took a deep breath and went after. The problem was that he was rebounding. Over a period of time, he got over that and came to me. We are going to spend ... (203 words

My boyfriend doesn't trust himself with my best friend and is talking about breaking up!

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - hi guys im gonna try and keep this short but it's kind of a long story.im turning 16 in 2 months and i have been going out with a guy since i was 12.my best friend use to go out with him wen she was 11 i wouldint relly call that dating but it is what it is.she started liking ... (331 words

My ex girlfriend dumped me many times!

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14 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - My ex girlfriend dumped me many times. She told me she will back with me again so she will never dump me again because she want to take time. Few days later then she asked me to back with her i was like sure! i am back with her again. I asked her if she will dump me again then ... (236 words

How to make out? I keep closing my mouth?

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I was making out with this guy and i noticed that i do this really weird thing where i close my mouth, while his tongue is in my mouth. how can i not close my mouth while kissing him? what exactly are you supposed to do?... (46 words

I am sick of him throwing a self pity-party

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Sometimes my boyfriend does things that I have problems with, so I address them with him at an appropiate time. The problem with this is my boyfriend cannot handle hearing anything negative about himself. He does not try to work on me with any issues I have pertaining to him. ... (203 words

He never exactly said it, but he didnt correcj me. When is a gray area considered lying...and does it indicate a pattern of deceit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Do you think if a guy lies about what he does for a living it says something more about himself? Do you think he's lying about other things? Or he's just a liar in general? The weird thing is, that he hasn't technically lied about his work. He just sort of implied somethin... (244 words

What is normal...how much is too much

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14 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Quick question, is it normal for a guy to call his girlfriend of 3 weeks, 10 times in 23 hours for a chat, lasting between 4 mins to 1 hour at a time? ... (35 words

How do I deal with the flirty ways of my latin lover...?

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok, i've always been very confident, very independent, and adventurous...my current boyfriend is from south america. he is a big flirt, i know he cares for me, but sometimes when he ogles other women, i get a little weirded out. apparently it's a cultural thing, and i am trying ... (147 words

Is it natural to feel bad after rejecting someone?

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well, I was just wondering. How many people out there after telling their exes to get lost are only happy for a while but the not for long? Believe me, I know my ex isn't good for me. I know there's no way to avoid him but to politely tell him to stop bothering me. We... (172 words

Have I lost interest in sex?

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Something strange has happened to me, after a strange first relationship at 16 I ended up celibate for a year BUT now I have no sex drive and I find sex a chore, argh!! Have I lost interest in sex (i still enjoy the emotional aspet)... (46 words

Symptoms of pregnancy or a reaction to the pill?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - so, my boyfriend and i have been having a lot of unprotected sex, where he also finishes inside me. i have only been on birth control pill for a month now. i just got my period today(when i was supposed to according to my pills) but its just a thick brown discharge thats not ... (182 words

The virtual baby didn't put me off!

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - i am 15 and im craving a baby really badly i feel ready for one, i have had a virtual baby to try and cut me off this situarion but it made me want a baby even more what shud i do can you help me please ..xx ... (48 words

Irregular cycles and now a pregnancy scare!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3104 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - hi there......... i don't know how to put this without making it sound confusing, bu here it goes... I'm irregular in my cycles.and the doctor told me that with contraceptives my cycles would be regular. but i had to wait until my first day of period to start taking them. so... (156 words

She wants sex but it just feels wrong...

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14 April 2010 (M age - I need some advice. I am 60 and my former girlfriend is 33. We have a son 4 months old. I moved out of her home 2 months ago because she declined to be in a committed relationship with me. She has 4 kids from 4 different dads. Sez now her oldest daughters dad is dying from M... (102 words

My cousin and I are in love

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14 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - Moderator note: I suspect your age is not what you claim. yes that is my real age people. it may not look like it but I am. sorry. then what can I do to make it better then? hello my name is as it shows at this time. I got a real problem here and I really could use the hel... (313 words

Is she faking her attraction?

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14 April 2010 (M age 36-40 - Im trying to figure out what to do here. I have known this girl for just over 3 years now. We met online originally but have built quite a friendship and have been together in person many times now. I have fallen for her. Before meeting her in person I fell for her and told ... (604 words

What's your definition of cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I just have a general question here - wanted to hear what everyone's feed back is. My whole dating life, I have assumed and felt that flirtations with other people while in a relationship is wrong. And by flirtations - I don't mean talking to someone of the opposite sex... (128 words

In love with an ex from 20 years ago!

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14 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I think I'm going crazy.... I am madly in love with my ex from 20 years ago. Did I mention we are both married with children? This has been going on for over a year now and it's not getting any easier. I can not stop thinking about him. Know one has every made me feel this ... (226 words

Do I make the first move or wait for him?

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - my friend and me have known each other for 7 and a half years, his the love of my life, i have always wanted to be with him and he knows this. about 4 years make he wanted me to move in with him and i just laugh thinking it was a joke and we left it at that. a few months ago we ... (293 words

Rumours that he is a pervert!

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - well me and ds guy started talking 1 month back things were fine till 1 week then he suddenly started behaving strange he asked me to give him some time i agreed to it then on 1st april he snt me a text saying that he misses me and he will contact me on the 9th of april.well i ... (110 words

My boyfriend's family hates me and thinks I slept with his brother!

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok so about a year ago I was friends with this guy. I had a bf and he had a gf but we were friends and would talk about relationship problems. I broke up with my then bf, and he was on and off with his gf. We started going out on the weekends together to clubs and drinking, and ... (199 words

Do you think this man will every come looking for his child?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - i have dated him for seven years since high school,been there for him in thick and thin,we have had aminimum of 4-5 breakups and he even once left me for another woman.when he came back,i forgave him.he has not been working since we are all fresh university graduates but i have ... (321 words

My boyfriend is a smoker, I'm an ex-smoker, and now I just can't stand it. Should I stop going over to his house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - Well I am in a long distance relationship. we have been together for a year, and so far it's worked pretty well. My BF ussually comes to see mee, and after all this time i started going to his place more often, because I want to show him I want to make it work as well( not that ... (280 words

I'm afraid I'm going to lose the baby! The doctor said 'no sex' for one month, but my husband went ahead anyway...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Last week(8th april) only I came to know that I'm pregnant. Since I didn't get my period on time(3rd april), I went to see doctor. Doctor did pregnancy test and confirmed that I'm pregnant. Doctor advised us not to have sex for next one month. But today when I was asleep, ... (136 words

Help! I think I'm bi. How do I only think about girls?

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14 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - help! i think im bi. i think about guys and girls but i only wanna thik about girls. help! ... (19 words

Do I give him the benefit of the doubt?

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14 April 2010 (F - if you finally start talking with an ex again but he isn't ready to be in a relationship again---is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you? I did ask him very direct questions and made direct comments of how maybe he is just trying to be thi... (156 words

Bleeding during pregnancy

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Heys. I read that during pregnancy you can have bleeding that is similar to menstruation bleeding. But are there also pains in that case and if there are, are they the same kind of pains or do they feel diferent? Basically is there anything that will make them easy to tell ... (54 words

He wants a 'no strings' bit of fun, and I find that degrading

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14 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've done a really bad thing, I told a guy I really like that the reason I was so shy is because my last boyfriend was a jerk, I told him I am frightened to get close to someone because he never wanted to be seen with me and always put me down and he was abusive, none of this ... (163 words

Unsure about the 'friends with benefits' relationship

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Help required regarding friends with benefits - Good thing / Bad thing. The problem is there is a guy I really like and we have been french kissing quite a lot recently and we have took things a little further but he wants me now to go down on him and he wants to pleasur... (597 words

What can I do to make Long distance G/f a little jealous?

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14 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - hi guys. i have a really have an amazing girlfriend, as far as i know everything is perfect with us except one thing. we are in a long, long distance relationship and i aint met her parents yet. 3 months into the relationship they pushed her to break it off and they gave her ... (180 words

Girlfriend wants to be single for awhile

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14 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - So I'll keep this short. Me and my girlfriend were together for almost 2 years. I am madly in love with her and know she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with her. We have had the future talk, and are planning to move in together in june. I know she feels the same ... (156 words

Dreams about a 27 year old? I'm 14!

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I'm 14 years old but I recently have been having dreams about my track coach and in these dreams we kiss alot no sex but just kissing and he is 27! I don't now what to do!... (37 words

He has a baby so that's making me gunshy about getting involved

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - There is this guy whom I have been madly in Love with since I first laid my eyes on him. I just recently found out that he has a baby. I actually had him to bring his baby by one day so that I could use him in a photo shoot. I was trying to see if what I heard was true. I ... (124 words

Are men interested in girls who model?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Hi all. For my future career i want to be a model. My first question is how could i pursue this safely as a 14 year old girl, what agencys etc. any suggestions? my second question is that is it true some men don't like to go out with models? im tall, and obviously models... (67 words

Advice for a new relationship? Also happens to be my first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

14 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I know this might sound kind of general, but I am looking for some pointers or advice for someone just starting out in a new relationship. In particular, I would really like some words of wisdom about how to grow a relationship and make it last. Here are some details abo... (151 words

How much does the quality of marriage affect the children?

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14 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - How much the quality of marriage effects the outcome of children;s life? I think,me and my husband never really loved each other,and instead of divorce,he escaped from family and love,to his work. Now, my grown children are all having serious problems emotionally,and with ... (111 words

Will she ever trust me and stop punishing me for the actions of her old boyfriends?

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14 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I’m having problems with my girlfriend. Let me start by saying that I love her very much and can’t imagine living my life without her. However, she has a lack of trust in me that I find very upsetting and hard to tolerate. In my youth I led a somewhat promiscuo... (637 words

I'm confused! Does he have an interest for me or not??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (? age 26-29 - I'm moving back to my hometown in a couple of months, after 3 years. Thought I would try out this mobile site to meet new people from there. My intention was to never find anyone, but I had an interest in this guy I found, and it has peaked highly. For the past week we've be... (283 words

He hasn't contacted me in over a week. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - A week and 2 dayz.. Wth!!!? help!? Okay so ill try to be short and sweet,My bf and i been together for 13 months Im 21 he's 24 we usually see each other twice a week.We usually text each other "ALL'!!! the time(about random stuff) and call each other sometimes but not as much ... (321 words

Why can't my husband understand that I don't want any more children! We have 2!

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14 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 15 years and have 2 beautiful children with my husband. Unfortunately, my pregnancies were not easy, 4 pregnancies, cyst removal on one of my ovaries, 2 miscarriages between my 2 successful ones, no natural birth only c-sections. When i am pregnant is ... (486 words

Why did he betray me in front of the judge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Im going to clarify my question. me and the "Kid" went to court and yes he is my boyfriend still. and when they asked me if i had any contact with him since the previous court date, i told them no, then he told them that i was lying and that i wrote him notes recently and he ... (201 words

Sex before marriage?

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - do you believe in sex before marriage?... (7 words

Still in love with my baby's father!

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have a really "BIG" problem. Ok I'm 18...I started dating this guy in august 07'...we broke up in feb 08'...we were so in love....I never knew I could love someone that much. I broke up with him in feb 08'...for what reason? I wish I knew...i guess i just wanted to see what ... (312 words

Boyfriend's daughter doesn't respect me!

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - i feel that my bf daughter is disrespectful to me. when alone with me she will misbehave and as soon as anyone else is around act like an angel e.g. Screaming and running away when i am dressing her, lying down when i am feeding her and tell her to sit up so she doesnt choke. ... (274 words

Husband says he wants only me so why is he still looking at personal ads?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I had a huge disagreement over a chat I was having with a friend of the oppistie sex and he wanted a divorce. He joined an online dating site and even tried to meet girls from personal adds. After long talks we decided to work it out. He told me he got rid of the ... (182 words

When I like a guy I get scared and block them, so at 25 I haven't been in a relationship yet!

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - i'm 25,i haven't been in relationship yet, i'm good looking and i have a job and freinds,the problem is that if i liked a guy i get scared and i blocked him as if i'm guilty or feel ashamed that i liked him,i avoid eye contact or smiling even because i feel that i'm sending ... (60 words

The sex is very bad. I have to keep reassuring him about his penis, he has some annoying habits in bed and he keeps forgetting where my clitoris is! I'm tired of faking it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - When I have sex with my boyfriend he does some really annoying things. He likes to listen to the radio and sing in my ear while he's on top of me. I hate that. I told him that I didn't like that and he got his feelings hurt. So every now and then he still does this. ... (311 words

My boyfriend has become close to another girl!

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I need help! My boyfriend has become close to another girl after helping her with some advice. He's been open with me about it and says the feelings he had for her were NOTHING compared to what he had for me. Nothing really happened between them physically. He's told her... (207 words

How can we get past his emotional affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I really need some advice. A few months ago, I found out the man in my life had been having an emotional (non sexual) affair with a friend of his that he's had for the past decade. This girl is absolutely besotted with him and he was giving her advice about her messy lo... (562 words

Is it wrong to want to dance with other boys if I have a boyfriend?

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now, we've known each other for 2 years though and were bestfriends untill we decided to start dating, he constantly tells me he's in love with and never wants us be apart, I know we won't last forever. I went to a club with my ... (139 words

He's changed so much

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Why is my boyfriend doing this? my bf was really sweet.it took him 2months to kiss me. i asked he said hes got respect and didn't want to scare me off. whenever we made Iove it was beautiful, passionate and really tender. he was everything i could ask for. now he has realll... (196 words

I love her but she slept with so many men

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

14 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I was dating someone a couple years ago that I cared very deeply for. We were having a great time together. During the time we were together she was sexually assaulted by someone she knew. She didn't go to the police or tell anyone for months. She finally told me what had ... (412 words

So many things are getting me down right now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - so me and my boyfriend of 6 months broke up last week and were staying close friends which im happy about but we were going to move in together after we had to leave uni halls obv now were not. i dont want to live in halls again or a house share and theres no one else i can ... (193 words

My Dad treats me like a child

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - my dad is too controlling. i'm 19 years old and i'm at uni and i've moved 30 miles away from home. i live in a flat with 4 other girls and i look after myself and take responsibility for all that i do. my problem is that whenever i come home for my easter or chris... (198 words

Is my boyfriend on a dating site?

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I recently found an Adultfriendfinder.com email in my boyfriends yahoo account. I have not asked him about it yet but the user name is his initials and some numbers. It looks like he's had it for a while. The only thing he put on the site was the "looking for" part and ... (138 words

What is going on with this boy? Please please help?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - He liked me for months and showed it and I started liking him back too. But the problem was that a close female friend of his started liking him too and began to give me the cold-shoulder. We used to talk and she was even one of the ones to tell me that he liked me. But over ... (237 words

Should I be there for him or give him space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - My ex-boyfriend and I had been gong out for a year and a half, and then about 5 months ago his 18 year old brother was diagnosed with leukaemia. We broke up about two months ago, when his brother starting to get really sick. Around this time my ex got arrested and is due in ... (157 words

Is there any way to get over the pain of a break up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I met that guy, he was so sweet and nice I likes him alot, then he was never there, we go out he dances with every girl but me, I used to get mad everytime, and he calls me and be sorry and promise he's gonna change, but he never did.. I had to break up with him, for the way he ... (132 words

He broke up with me and now wants to be friends. Is this a good idea or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I just got into this relationship and have been with the guy a month. He was telling me a week ago how he was so glad he was my boyfriend and making all these fun plans for us in the summer. Then the next week he was telling me he was confused and knew he was going to hurt ... (175 words

Why would my ex make up so many hurtful lies about me?

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - Why would my ex say all this horrible stuff about me? Hey I just found out that after my ex boyfriend broke up with me he was saying these horrible lies about me. We had a good relationship but he ended it when he got back into drugs. He was saying that he never loved me and ... (185 words

Am I wrong for considering abortion over bringing a child in to an unstable environment?

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14 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - Well, I been dating a guy for about seven months. I notice that he had several woman friends. I have issue with trusting him. I went by his house and notice a car park in his driveway, next to his. I knocked on the door several times he didnt answer the door or his phone, for ... (145 words

Sexual dilemma with my cousin...

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14 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - *OP's own title* I'm having quite a dilemma at the moment. Me and my cousin have been really close since birth; we can talk about anything and we are the closest out of all cousins. At a young age, we'd often freely talk and explore the topic of sex. Now, we're both 18 year... (160 words

Since we moved in together we have been growing apart.

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14 April 2010 (F age 51-59 - i meet my bf on a dating site 2 years ago. i moved into my boyfriend's apartment last year. since i moved in it seems like we are growing apart. we used to be flirtasious, intimate, romantic daily. it is like we are strangers now. we haven't been intimate since christmas. i ... (170 words

My girlfriend has been cheating on me

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14 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Well since the beginning we were cool, at least I thought so. Then in the next month which is Christmas, I am currently in Canada for the year and i went back home to NY for the holidays and to be with her. She seemed fine and she had previously told me about any guy she like... (548 words

How much time should I give my girlfriend to sort herself out?

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14 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - My ex-girlfriend basically is feeling guilty for treating me so badly in our relationship. She says I've never done anything to hurt her intentionally but said she has hurt me constantly and doesn't know why she does it. She never cheated on me but she does things that wou... (195 words

I'm about to run away

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14 April 2010 (M age 22-25 - [Moderator note: this post has been edited for clarity] my mom promised me a phone for christmas. She said the place was too busy and she said we'd get one 'tomorrow'. That happened again and I still didnt get it. Today she got a phone (for herself). I'm 13 years old and in... (124 words

My boyfriend says he loves me but he doesn't act like it

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - Okay. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and he claims he loves me very much. Up until the last month he has been the greatest boyfriend. He would talk to me everyday and every second and compliment me and tell me how much he loves me, etc. Well, starting... (621 words

My gilfriend becomes furious if I don't chase her

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14 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i have been dating for little over two months now. Im 32 and shes 26. We are both in a long distance relationship wih her being in Nevada and me in Hawaii. She constantly wants me to text her and if i dont she gets furious and sometimes blows things out of p... (181 words

Atracted to my best friend's cousin

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I like my best friend's cousin. When i first saw him, i was like... oh it's kinda weird, but then i started to hang out with him and my bff and we used to talk everyday, by msn, but i don't know what happened, when suddenly he stop talking to me and i didnt understood why... i ... (192 words

Does she fancy me or is she just using me?

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14 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - I like this girl for 3 months and she seems she's interested in me. She asks me about homework a lot and most of the times, she wants to be my partner. I know that Im not the smart one but yeah, Im kinda good about studying. We talk more and more. She gives me her numb... (452 words

He thinks I lied about the number of relationships I've had

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have been dating a man for six months. We dated each other last year however not seriously and I ended things without an explanation after 5 months last time. This time around things are better and more serious. Initially I contacted him because I was lonely but realized ... (290 words

Is sex something bonding for women?

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14 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - Do women become more attached to men they've had sex with? I've had a drawn-out flirtation with a woman. We are never single at the same time. I sometimes wonder if she thinks about me (we were pretty inappropriate for a while at one point when I was in a relationship). ... (159 words

I'm 16 and want to date a guy who's 19

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - i jus turned 16 3 days ago and i want to be with a guy whos 19 since december, matt. he graduated from my school last year (im a sophomore right now), hes ridiculously sweet, always tells me im beautiful and that he would do anything to be with me. the problem is i am scared to ... (241 words

I want to leave him, but he might be dying

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - Sorry this is so long, but I think details should be known. Hi guys. I'm going through some really hard times here. My boyfriend used to make me incredibly happy. He'd try his best to please me and everything for the first couple of weeks we got together. This is a long d... (384 words

Are they laughing at me?

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14 April 2010 (M age 26-29 - Every time I hang out with this girl and her sister, they laugh at all my jokes, but they constantly look at each other like there's some sort of in-joke. What's the deal??!! Are they laughing at me? She keeps asking me to do things, so I don't think she thinks I'm goofy. I ... (79 words

How can I save my marriage after cheating on my wife?

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14 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have been in a 13 yr marrage and now I have distroyed it by cheating on my wife. I had paid for an erotic massage and I am extremly embarresed about it. My wife says that I am upset because I got cought. I am not I am distroyed because I hurt her and I never keep up with ... (142 words

Boyfriend in jail accused of rape!

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My on again off again boyfriend of three years has been in jail now for a month he keeps calling, having his family call, and write me i dont think i want to be with him anymore because he is accused of rape and kidnap but he has yet to tell why is in jail he just keeps ... (102 words

I want to be with someone my own age, but can't afford to leave my older boyfriend.

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14 April 2010 (F age 36-40 - I been dating my boyfriend off and on for ten years now and have been living together for the last six, not only has there been no mention of marriage, he is also very dull and boring, see he is 41 and I'm 28 and he never wants to do anything or go anywhere his excuse is either ... (204 words

My boyfriend went nuts after I checked up on him using a fake facebook account. We have split over it, but I want him back!

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have dated this guy for 2 years, and all of a sudden he just changed. He flirts too much on facebook, it was more like i didn't exist at all. Ok, i know i did a bad thing when i created a fake facebook account about a month ago, and jeez, he said all sorts of things in just a ... (326 words

I was almost raped by my ex should I tell my new boyfriend?

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - *OP's own title* Ok. I'm not sure how to do or say this. It's too hard for me to even talk about it. Writing it I think I'm ok. A year ago I was in a relationship with a guy a year and a half older than me. Kissing was as far as we'd ever went before. Then one day outta the blue... (397 words

First kiss left me feeling molested!

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14 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have a question about my first kiss. It happened some years ago. Here's some backstory: I'd met this girl in ychat, and we just started talking. Turns out we had a lot in common. We hit it off. We arranged a meeting. Anyway, that night(Halloween), we hung out at... (186 words

What did she mean with this comment?

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14 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - I have known his girl for about a year we talk on the phone or text each from time to time. I thought I would take it to the next level, so, jokingly I asked her "How come someone like you does not have a boyfriend"? Her answer to me was "I don't know you well enough to answer ... (81 words

Underdeveloped virgin hates his genitalia and sexual feelings....

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14 April 2010 (M age 41-50 - *OP's own title* Hello all, before I go on, here's some specs about me. I'm male, mid-30's, still a virgin. I have an aversion to sex. I do think it's become way too mainstreamed and stripped of any passion and love in today's society; look at today's popular entertainment if y... (180 words

I confessed I had sent fake pics to my online boyfriend, ..now he wants to see the real me but I am scared he wont like what he see's.

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I've been in a long distance relationship for 9 months. We're recently broken up, and I showed my boyfriend fake pictures, and only JUST showed him my actual self a few days ago. I was terrified to tell him, but he actually took it MUCH better than I thought he would. He was a ... (377 words

Is it too late to back out now I have filed for divorce?

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14 April 2010 (F - 13 April 2010: I filed for divorce last week. Is it too late to back out? Have I made a horrible mistake? I am so confused! My husband was a good man. He treated me like royalty I just lost my attraction for him. We've been separated for 5 years. So what is wrong with me? I am... (67 words

Could I be pregnant from oral sex?

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - I recently gave my boyfriend oral sex and he did the same for me, but since then I've been feeling strange. Could I be pregnant?... (27 words

Friends' is not an option, I want all or nothing, ... should I tell her ?

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14 April 2010 (M age 30-35 - I talked to my ex today, we had hung out last week, and it was like we were together again (she admitted this). I told her that I had feelings for her still, and because of that I couldn't be friends with her right now. I told her that I would want to be a part of her life, ... (184 words

I was all excited and ready to start my new life with the man I love, ... until his wife emailed me!

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - I entered a relationship with an Scotsman 3.5 years ago. We met and started dating online and he's visited me in person in the USA approximately 11 times since he asked me out via email. The plan was for me to move to Scotland when I receive my PhD in Medicine and marry him ... (320 words

He does not even speak to me when we cross paths, ... so how should I tell him he got me pregnant?

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14 April 2010 (F age 30-35 - A few weeks ago my friend introduced me to the guy she's dating bestfriend. The 4 of us ended up chillen together. Drinking, playing games, just enjoying ourselves. At the end of the night me and the friend ended up sleeping together, unprotected. And it happened again 3 ... (227 words

How long should you be with somebody before meeting family and friends?

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - I have a feeling this is going to get pretty long so apologies in advance and thanks in advance to anybody who manages to get through it all. I left school in '08. My last year of school I had a new teacher. She was nice enough, always late, set a lot of homework, really... (323 words

I'm scared of getting pregnant at 14, but I really want to have sex!

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14 April 2010 (F age 22-25 - me and my boyfriend have been together 7and half months, he means everything to me and we've started to touch each other but i do want to have sex with him but we're not sure, im scared of gettin pregnant at 14, but do you think im pushing to far with the sex he doesn't know i ... (73 words

Is it wrong that I'm glad my brother has been sectioned?

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14 April 2010 (F age 26-29 - My younger brother(17) has had anorexia for the last 2 years and he has always resisted treatment but he has got so bad that he was sectioned yesterday. I was talking to my sister and I said I was glad as he will finally get the help he needs whether he wants it or not so hopef... (107 words

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