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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is there any chance for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i was hoping someone could help me. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 and a half years and have been long distance since we met. we’re both 25. he graduated college last year and finally got a job and moved away from home (something he’d wanted to do) for the ... (1173 words)

I love him, but will this ever work if I'm not attracted to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am falling completely head-over-heels for my best friend/boyfriend (we don't really have a title for our relationship). He's funny, he's charming, he's sweet, he's caring, he's loyal and protective and everything I've ever looked for in a man. We get along perfectly. I am ... (118 words)

What does it usually mean when you're dancing with a guy and you catch him looking away? (male opinion preferred)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't ever want to be that girl who is not wanted around. I was dancing with this one guy at a club and it was a pretty crazy night so yes I was drunk but coherent. Everything was all right and then I notice him looking up and away. It seemed to me as if he just wasn't ... (230 words)

I was his good luck charm. Did I run out of luck?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

12 April 2010 (F) - About 6 months ago I started talking to this guy from my home town. He goes to college 3 hours away from me. Despite the distance between our schools over the summer we went on a few dates. We went to the movies once and he came over a handful of times to watch a movie an... (536 words)

I know he can be a player but why is he doing this to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - He is very cute, this older girls than him are "very" friendly around him, he is funny, a grade ahead of me, has kissed me three times just never asked me out so I told him I thought it was wrong and basically pushed him away, after that he told me the next day out of a ... (248 words)

Should I end the relationship with a married woman for someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in a turmoil mentally. I have been seeing a married woman for just over 2 years now. She still lives with her 9 yr old boy and husband (who does obviously not know about us) but their marriage is now one of convenience after 16 years. She says she will leave him but ... (319 words)

He's 2 years younger..is it wrong to date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - is it wrong to go out with someone 2 years younger than you, theres this guy i like but hes 2 years younger than me and im scared of what people may say what should i do ?... (40 words)

She seems lost -- should I talk to her brother about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend broke up after a 4 year relationship because she is always lying and being dishonest with me. She never cheated on me but she does weird things like talk late at night with guys for like 2-3hours and doesn't see a problem with that (and more stuff but ... (337 words)

Is he being *too* polite?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All I had my first date with a guy i met online today. We had been chatting for over a month, texting and talking on the phone. I was really nervous,but we spent about 5 hours together, had a few drinks and lunch and managed to not have any awkward silences. I have... (207 words)

Is he a bad guy for getting mad over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend can be a bit mean. I went out tonight. one drink and played pool with my cousin. he has been in a massive mood over it. I do not understand why? I love him so much. but why would he be so mean as to say fuck you so much over it? we have been together a year and a ... (133 words)

What do men think of make up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, just wondering what people's opinions are of make up in general? As a girl, I know that make up is important to a lot of women when it comes to their appearance but I'm not so sure when men think of it. Answers from all, male and female, would be much apprecia... (58 words)

I love two men. I don't want to make a bad choice, who should I choose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with two men. I wish I could put both of them in one. I married my husband after a ruff two years. I should have waited. But I loved him. I left him after a month of being married.I just couldn't get over all the stuff he have done to me. I met this older guy. That ... (112 words)

How can I stop my feeling of hatred towards my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem that has been stressing me out and causing me to be quite mad and it's making me feel bad... Let me start off, I like this guy ever since I met him in September last year. Ever since, mutual friends had been commenting that we like each other, we would ... (430 words)

I cant stay erect when I penetrate him, and we never use condoms

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys and Girls I am a relationship with this guy and everything is going really well and I love him to bits. The problem is when it comes to penitrating him I cant seem to stay erect, even tho I am really horny.So he always has to do it me. I can't understand it an... (104 words)

My b/f doesn't recognise my voice when I call him from a different line.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I knw it might sound crazy but is a big problem to me. .my bf does not recognise my voice when i call from a different line. .its so confusing and suspicious considering the fact that i talk with him 3 to 4 times a day nd he stil don't recognise my voice when i cal him with ... (82 words)

Second choice really hurts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well I'm 14 and for like 4 years now I have always been second choice. I no a lot of people have this problem and I am sort of like whining but oh well. Okay I have friends but I am always second choice like of someones not there or no one to hang with it's me. I don't ... (121 words)

He's watching porn -- am I just not good enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently descovered my boyfriend has been watching loads of porn on his computer ive asked him before about it but hes always denied it i had a strong feeling about it so i looked at his history and it came up with loads of redtube sites im so upset and ii confronted him ... (93 words)

He can't seem to have sex with me and it's killing my self-esteem

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is my husband not having sex with me? He says he's turned on by me, but he doesn't stay hard. When it comes to penetration, him touching me, BJ's, or me touching him...he loses it. We haven't had sex in 3 years, but we try... with failed attempts. How can a guy live ... (129 words)

Yesterday he wanted to get married, now he doesn't. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so weve been together for a yr in may. we have a baby girl together shes only 2 months old. we have been talking about getting married for about that long! recently we have been talking about it more his little sister asked us when we were getting marrired and he without ... (231 words)

Are my emotions clouding my ability to make sensible decisions? Or am I falling for him again for real?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice. Over the past year, I grew distant from the man in my life and he had what we refer to as an emotional affair. He became emotionally close to another girl and lied about the time he'd been spending with her. At the time, we felt we'd evolved into fri... (429 words)

I really enjoyed what he did, but still I don't feel ready

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've started giving my boyfriend (who has been in my life for quite a while now) hand-jobs a little while ago and when I did start I very expressly said that I wasn't ready for him to put his hands in my pants. And he respected that and left well alone. We're big on t... (304 words)

I am so lonely, how do I get a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - iam alone i dont have boyfriend for along time and iam now 23 but i feel like i will stay alone all my life and you know all the people say that iam pretty girl but i dont know why guys avoiding me so my question is what do i have to do to have aboyfriend becouse being lonly ... (62 words)

I have fallen really hard, but she is moving 600 miles away. Do I just let her go?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a women at my best friends wedding,we immediately started going out and things were going extremely good. Until tonight,she is going for an interview for a job in a town 600 miles away. What am I to do,should I be calm about it and wish her good luck,only hoping... (77 words)

I get overly emotional when bad things happen

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Why is life so evil?????????? It seems to me that as soon as I start feeling happy with my life something happens to turn it all upside down! I hear all the time life is unfair and stuff happens, but c'mon I just want help! I get overly emotional when bad things happen ... (194 words)

My feelings for my ex are growing, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am sure it doesn't mean much, but my ex and I talk nearly 24/7. Probably we talk even more now than when we were together and found out we have more in common that we thought. I want to let go, but am finding it harder because the better I know her the more I like her. And ... (155 words)

Should I stick around as a friend and risk getting hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. So, I've just come out of a relationship with the most fantastic person I have ever met. We were together for 3 months and she's beautiful, challenging, intelligent, and has made me feel amazing! She broke it off because of a lot of things going on in her life, but mainly ... (288 words)

Made a mistake and took a drug and then he left me! shouldnt he forgive me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up a few months back, we were really good together, we were just the same, same interests, same humour and over all he was a lovely guy. We had the odd problem, and when it came down to an end i made the mistake of taking a drug he was apparently ... (244 words)

How to have a conversation with my sister-in-law?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this is a pretty ridiculous question but I’d really appreciate any answers. My brother got married last year and my sister-in-law is a really lovely person but she’s also very beautiful and very, very intelligent and I find her pretty intimidating. Whenever I go to their ... (169 words)

She insisted she was straight but then she kissed me a lot and now, I haven't heard from her in 3 days, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - dear aunts and uncles. im completely head over heels in love with my friend. she is beautiful, kind, caring, funny, sexy....simply perfect!! i think about her 24/7. when im with her i want to kiss her, touch her, hold her. i told her how i feel. she claims to be straight ... (268 words)

I want to be bf and gf again, but he says no because of the future!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a freshman in college and back in highschool i dated a boy for 6 months we broke up last june because we no longer seemed like "boyfriend girlfriend" just more like friends. We ended up going to the same college and eventually started becoming more than friends and now ... (197 words)

He needed time to think and decided we still love each other, but now I'm not so sure...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyrfriend didn't talk to me last week because he needed to clear his head. It was okay that he needed some space, but I just felt out of the loop when he failed to communicate this to me. Well I took the time to think about things too, and I realized that I really d... (488 words)

Paranoid about pregnancy! how soon can I take the test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i had unprotective sex friday and had forgoten to take my pill 3 days previous( yeah its stupid) and i no the risks of pregnency, even tho i did take it the day i had sex But anyway i think im being paroniod about this, but since saturday my nipples seem to be sore, not boo... (168 words)

Broken up - how cud I have been so stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I loved my ex soo much.. i thought he loved me to cos he'd look into my eyes like he want to say something but he doesn't he just smiles and my hearts melts:) when he smiles and whenever he kissed me my heart would just jump. he was really sweet.it took 2months to ... (231 words)

Is it possible my bf is gay? what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question...its been bothering me alot. Ok back in febuary this yr...i started working with my boyfriend. I met sum of his friends and 3 are gay. I love gay men dont get me wrong. But when he sees them it seems his day gets better, like he laughs alot and is more laid ... (326 words)

Can you be in love with someone if you're cheating on them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 26 and have been with my boyfriend almost 9 years. My problem is, I have been cheating on him with the same person for almost 7 years, on and off.. almost 3 years straight now. He has a girlfriend he has been with almost 9 years. I am very much in love with the boy I am ... (177 words)

Why am I having dreams about being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months, we have never met each other, we met online and hit it off right from the start. We're very much in love although were both still teenagers (We'll both be 17 this summer). Next Christmas break he'll be coming to visit me ... (277 words)

Is it weird that my boyfriend likes to look in my eyes all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend always looks at me..every time i turn around hes looking at me..not creepy but in a cute way..i don't know to say to him. hes always looking to my eyes.. he can look into my eyes for Long. ike he want to say something but he doesn't he just smiles and my mel... (108 words)

Mouth of magic or just something tragic? (Bf quick to ejaculate)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, I'm having a slight problem with my boyfriend. We've been dating for a few weeks now and we've yet to have sex...which is perfectly fine considering I'm a virgin. Anyway, to make a long story a little bit longer, he can't last long at all when I give him head. He cums ... (185 words)

Would a girl ever try to get back together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Lets say that you are in a long relationship (over 2 years), and are adults (over 21 years old). You break up, time passes, ect. Would a girl ever ask/initiate the conversation to get back together? Or would she just try to get back in the picture. I think it is hard for ... (113 words)

Why am I cramping after period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my period started on the 30th march and finished on 4th april and i have been cramping ever since. the cramps feel like period pain and not ibs pain i have never had cramps after my period finishing it has always been during my 8-9years of having my period. i am ha... (84 words)

Are there no strings attached? Can I date other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, im 19 and in college. "john" and i have been seeing each other for a couple weeks. he still goes out on the weekends and wants to see me during the week. he says he "likes what we are, talk all the time go out when we want and no title". usually i don't have a t... (198 words)

How can I show him I'm not still cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, i cheated on my partner earlier this year. I feel like a slut for doing it. He is always saying to me that im still cheating. But im not. I made a massive mistake once. Im not gonna do it again. Im scared that he'll leave me. i wanna try and make it up to him to prove ... (91 words)

I feel like a cheater, how can I get rid of this guilt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a great relationship with a wonderful guy for the past 14 months. About 8 months ago ( 6 months into the relationship) I was in a club and spotted a guy I knew. I started chatting to him as I am very friendly with everyone when I am drunk. Yes I flirted mi... (470 words)

I feel cheap because I've done so much more than my b/f

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started a relationship with a very close friend of mine. We just had our second date and he kissed me. Last night we were doing 20 questions. He asked me how far I had gone with my last boyfriend who I had a year and a half relationship with. I told him everything ... (253 words)

His masturbating is affecting our sex life, ...and my confidence!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We have had a pretty decent sex life (2-4 times per week) until about 3 or 4 months ago and then everything changed. He says he's just not really in the mood for sex ever but I know that he watches porn and masturbates ... (261 words)

How can I show my boss a hot kinky time?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I posted on here a few days ago regarding my casual sex relationship with my 33 year old boss. Today, she expressed an interest to visit me one night. So far we have only been having sex around hers but she wanted to spice it up a little. My parents are out tomorrow night, and ... (141 words)

I slept with a guy who then told my friend he was seeing someone else! Why didn't he just tell me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - to be hinest with you and very screwed up at the moment, And also compleatly devistated Ok i really liked this guy(still do) And this is whats making me really upset, ive met him 3 times, speak to him most days on line and sometimes txt and we always seem to get on, on fri... (239 words)

I would not give him sex so he got it elsewhere.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Than you for welcoming me, you know what I was in love with a guy for 3 months and I didnt slept with him so he cheated on me for not being sleeping with him and when I said its over he accepted it and said he cant carry on with me , I was so hurt thats why i said t... (104 words)

I'm in love with both my ex, and my new boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I'm still in love with my ex. I had a very quick relationship with him where nothing really happened, after many months of flirting and becoming close. After we broke up, We still carried on like we were going out, So nothing really went anywhere, meanwhile, I was star... (242 words)

Childhood stalker is claiming I am her daughters father - but I am not!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I think I have an original story. I was 19 and away at college. When I came home for the summer my dad took me over to his friends house. I went to school with his kids. We all took the bus together. I was friends with his son who was one year younger than me. He played ... (1438 words)

Any idea's on kinky things that don't include sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i don't want to have sex. oral or real.we just believe we should wait. so i was wondering what kind of kinky stuff we could do that doesn't include sex/oral. thanks xxx... (35 words)

Is this normal after having sex for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex for the first time two days ago, he didnt properly go in fully, but he went in a little bit cos it hurt so much but since, i've been having a lot of discharge :S is that normal? ... (46 words)

Boyfriend has anger problems.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with my current relationship that i cannot figure out the answer to. I have been woth my boyfriend for over 2 years now and things were great for a while. Well for the first year and a half. The problem started when he moved back in with his mum after i fini... (442 words)

Is this a big age difference?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there is a man who is 11 yrs older whants to marry me ,,iam 22 and he is 33,,is it a big age diffrence??... (24 words)

My husband stopped wearing his wedding ring after 10 years, should I worry?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband always wore his wedding ring for 10+ years. about a month ago he stopped wearing it for a week when i first noticed and looked at his finder he put his hand in his pocket..when I asked about it he said "it bothered his finger" he would leave the ring in his car ... (107 words)

Why are we arguing more than ever? I don't understand why this is happening

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age - I am 57 years old divorced after 30 years. I now have a new partner who is 33 years old. We have been together for 3 years She is German I am English. We moved from the UK to jobs together in France. We have a 5 month old baby that we love a great deal. We are arguing mo... (82 words)

When he links arms with me and squeezes it tight, does that mean he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This may just be me but ive always found it weird. When you link arms with a guy and he squeezes it tight next to him does it mean he likes you? He doesnt do it with anyone else if they link his arm but he does with me. he always pulls it tighter towards him. He is also gener... (88 words)

Should I do something or stay out of it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I went to a birthday party of someone, #30, I know from a theater group my son belongs to. The birthday girl's party started at her house, then went to a local bar. There was a small group of people there including one father, whose son is also in the group. ... (418 words)

Should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am having trouble trusting my man, before i was with him, he was in a relationship,and also seeing somebody else. when i got with him over a year ago he had ended his relationship, and told me he was no longer seeing the other girl. later i found out that wasnt the case, not ... (190 words)

Should I continue to try and see him even though he has said he is very happy with his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy from germany through an internet and now he's here in the same country as mine.However, he will only stay here for like 12 months for a community service. Months after, he arrived in my country and we've been texting each other since he came here. I was real... (373 words)

We're seeing one another but he tells everyone we're "just friends"!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known my guy for over a year, we get on real well, do all the "couple things", he has been living with me for the past 4 months, sometimes he introduces me as a friend, other times he introduces me as the girlfriend, if any body asks him to describe 'us' he says we are ... (134 words)

Should I just isolate myself from women forever?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I unfortunately lost my virginity at the age of 30 to a prostitute, and I have gone through a lot of mixed emotions since. Does this mean I am abnormal? I feel disgusted with myself. Can someone say something to put my mind at ease? I am still 30 and male. She was a nice person ... (106 words)

Embarrassed about what I weigh...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all last week i took two home pregnancy tests because my period was 2 weeks late , i took one in the afternoon which came up postive really quickly, then i took another one the next morning just to be sure and that also came up positive right away, so now i take it im pregn... (202 words)

Should people continue to work on the relationship because of a "mistake"???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I just need an opinion on whether or not to continue a relationship with someone who cheated on you. Express your thoughts and everything... should people continue to work on the relationship because of a "mistake" (and he was COMPLETELY conscious of wha... (62 words)

How can I cut ties with her completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i used to be friends with this girl called... say um Chelsea We had a fight and I havent heard from her until last week, she called and acted as if we were friends, she is nice but i just dont want to be friends with her, i also dont want to be mean... Can you help!? please... (59 words)

My best friend told me she loved me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - My best friend told me she loved me. She also knew that I knew she just broke up with her boyfriend. I dont know if she actually likes me or if i am just the rebound guy. I love her too, but it felt weird when we were together. I told her that she should choose whoever she ... (129 words)

I am preganant and my husband continues to look for sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so this is my problem. I am 25 and I have a five year old daughter. I have been married to her father for 3 years now, been together for 6. Our relationship was great (so I thought) until I started to find out things about him. Such as hidden phone with texts from girls, ... (289 words)

I don't want to compete with her for his desire...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5126 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Thanks for checking this out and I appreciate any advice you might have for me in advance, because I really need it and I'm long winded, sorry. Ok, well my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now and I love him dearly. He's says he feels the same for... (621 words)

How can I give my fiance an amazing handjob?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I give my fiance an amazing handjob? he currently likes it when I take charge and sit on top of him and use two hands on his penis, constantly moving them up his penis, then switching hands, kinda like juggling, this makes him cum pretty fast.. what can I do that will ... (131 words)

What does this mean? Is he just not into me?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - please help.. I hooked up with this guy a year ago little awkward he was a little tipsy and i was completely sober. then few weeks later i saw his friend had tried adding me. A few months later i contacted him and i apologized for my behavior he said it was fine.. few weeks ... (344 words)

I'm afraid of being in a relationship again

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a sophomore in high school and I feel like I'm losing myself. All my relationships have been utter crap. I have had five relationships and through all but one of them I have been cheated on, abused mentally and physically, drugged, and all in all screwed over. I am still a ... (163 words)

He makes me feel good but he's my cousin

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My cousin and I have been making out for about a year and now he want me to have oral sex with him I am only 14 and I can't tell my parents everytime we make out i feel fine till I am alone I know it so wrong but when we are kissing all my problems feel so far away....he's ... (99 words)

My best friend doesn't like the guys I date and says I pick "losers"

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So theres this guy, i really like him. We work together...we ended up kissing and hes just so sweet, hes had a hard life and is a few years older than me. He has kids and is divorced. I really like him and he really likes me. My problem from this almost picture perfect ... (310 words)

Am I just being jealous and holding on to his mistakes?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having trouble trusting my boyfriend. We dated once before, for two and half years, and I was the one who broke it off. I felt like I wasn't ready for such a serious relationship, and I was unhappy and wanted to go back to school and get my life in order. However,after we ... (475 words)

I find women attractive and had dream about my teacher, does it mean anything?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a female, I'm straight, and I could never imagine myself having sex with another woman. But I do find some women attractive, such as their personalities, the way they carry themselves, the way a woman's body is shaped, etc etc. Anyways, I was freaked out the other ni... (124 words)

I wake up and can't remember if I'm at my boyfriend's house or at my house!

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This may be a weird question but here goes. So the background info is that I've been with my BF for 8 months, we're sleeping together but I never stay over at his, I always go home. My parents don't approve of me sleeping over...and yes I know I'm an adult, I can do what I wa... (206 words)

I can't marry someone who doesn't have trust or faith in me

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and i have been together for three years we love each other very much and have a beautiful son who is two. Im not happy anymore though and i want to leave, he doesnt have any faith in me and never has. he has always told me how he thinks im going to leave him and ... (270 words)

Passing gas

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is it awkward to fart in front of your boyfriend? Does it turn them off?... (15 words)

Am I a normal size?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going to be 15 in August and I am an adult 34A. I've always been really self conscious about my little breasts, I was flat chested until I was 14. I'm not saying I want double D's, a friend the same age as me has them (not fun) she hates them. I've just always been slow ... (75 words)

I would do anything to see him smile

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. There's this boy in my class and I have a major crush on him but he doesn't even notice I exist. I wish all the time that he loves me the same way I love him but that would never happen. I'm not good enough for him. I love him to death, I would do anything to see him smile. ... (65 words)

I know size shouldn't matter, and yet...I just can't do it

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Background: I'm a 20 year old college student, female, only slept with two guys who I was in relationships with. Haven't had sex in almost a year after breaking up with my ex. My problem is that both of the guys I've slept with were larger than average, both in length and wi... (173 words)

I became an adult a long time ago, why cant they see it?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, My relationship is with my aunt, we have always been very close and she does alot for me through out my life, I dont think I ever would have gone through college with out her. Her whole life she has been a 5th grade teacher, she spent most of her life there working ... (364 words)

Is it too soon to tell him that I love him, and how do I know when I'm ready to move forward in our relationship?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really sorry if this is too long, but I really need some help. My boyfriend and I have been together for about two and a half months. We became good friends before we started dating, so we kind of had a strong connection right away. We've become even closer during the past ... (559 words)

Do I wait for HIM to contact ME?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man over 3 years ago, first we just talked( as friends) then we dated then we were FWB, i fell for him HARD...........he is sweet, well mannered, easy to talk to and he made me feel so good when we slept together BUT he was not ready to settle down and was still ... (267 words)

I'm 21 and to be blunt I'm a virgin. Heck I've never even kissed a girl.

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12 April 2010 (?) age 30-35 - They say everyone meets their true love one day, but the way things are going I'll never find mine. I'm 21 and to be blunt I'm a virgin. Heck I've never even kissed a girl. The thing is I really dont understand why. Its not like I'm a bad person, I am generally one of the ... (260 words)

Should I just keep it to myself until I know for sure?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone... I am just looking for some advice with my current situation. I recently started sleeping with my ex boyfriend who I still have strong feelings for and he is not in a place where he can he give me the commitment that i want... this is besides the point.. I am... (240 words)

Could Iget pregnant like that?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - did i lose my virginity? his penis went in sort of, like it hurt like hell, but only like a quarter of it went in, does that count? could i get pregnant like that? we used a condom jus wanna know for definate , coz i dont think my hymen broke thanks xxxxxx ... (60 words)

First time sex-- now it hurts when I pee!

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have just had sex for my first time and now I feel kind of strange and it hurts when I pee. Is there something wrong with me? ... (28 words)

Am I falling for my friend?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've know this guy for around 3 years, we've been the best of friends and we're friends with each other's friends. And lately we've especially been talking a lot and telling each other that we love each other and at first I was meaning it in a friendly way. He's always on my ... (110 words)

Not able to look at husband whilst having sex.

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - (Mod note: OP's own title) Why cant i look at my husband whilst having sex? i struggle to overcome this issue. I love him dearly, and have no problems about his looks. What are some helpfull things i can do to overcome this issue? I also struggle with my labbedo too for some... (54 words)

Differences in how you interpret the guy checking you out.

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12 April 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Case for the female reader, discuss the following: 1. you walking in the store, shopping for something - see a guy and not exactly paying attention. He is checking you out, but you see noticed that after and he turns away. 2. same as 1 but only you are with your bf. - ... (73 words)

How can I get this guy to notice me a little more?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, So there's this very good looking guy 2 grades ahead of me. Who i think is very cute. We are both in track which helps with talking. We text and also talk in school a little bit here and there. I just wanna know how can i get him to notice me or like me more?... (61 words)

Emotional cheating with the tourists.

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12 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf is a tour guide and meets a lot of male tourists. She keeps in contact with them after they go back to their countries - using MSN etc. The problem is that it makes me feel uncomfortable for her to be sending photos of herself to them and seemingly leading them on. They ... (199 words)

Why do guys cheat on their girlfriends?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do guys cheat on their girlfriends! I just found out that a guy I had met a few times and who made it obvious liked me had kissed me when he had a girlfriend of a year or more. To make it worse he had been out with her that night and she had gone home. He has got in touch ... (105 words)

I'm very disappointed in my father

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents aren't divorced,I have always lived with them but I was raised by my grandmother therefore I don't have a good relationship with my parents,I'm not close to them.I know my mother loves me but I think my father doesn't love me because he is not an affectionate dad.He ... (487 words)

G/f tells me she hates her ex so why do I find emails from her to him?

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12 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, i am stuck between a rock and a hard place. My girlfriend keeps telling me how much she hates her ex, But just a few minutes ago i got on the computer to check my email and her email was still on the screen (for the second time this month)so i snooped through it and there ... (128 words)

She suffers from depression, and doesn't think anyone can love her, but I do. Would a shock tactic make her see how much she means to me?

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12 April 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My best friend and I are both 26 (I'm male, she's female). We have been best friends for 12 years and I see her maybe 3 or 4 times a week. I'll pick her up from work, we go shopping together, basically we appear like we are a couple but have always denied this saying it is ... (642 words)

I feel so lonely cause I have no one to crush on.

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got over the crush i had for the last 8 months. It ended really horribly. Now i feel really depressed and sad. When i usually have a crush on someone i feel so happy. But my school has no great guys other then the one i just got over and all my guy friends are like "if ... (141 words)

I've formed a bit of an emotional attachment to an older guy; do you think my situation is ok?

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Here is my situation: I am 17 years old. I have known this guy since I was 14 - let's call him "Michael." He is in his late 40s. For a couple of years I saw him once or twice a week, only in passing (it was ages before I even learned his name), but he was always ... (637 words)

My girlfriend said I gave her HIV, but my test came out negative

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12 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship that is 2years now,recently my girl friend is behaving strange.In february,she came crying to telling me she has gone for Hiv test and is positive,and that she visited a habalist who told her i infected her and that he can cure it that i should bring a ... (125 words)

Being a virgin is depressing

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12 April 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Being a 22 year old virgin is so damn depressing sometimes.I just wish i knew how much longer this must go on.People always saying being a virgins a good thing but I myself have just become more bitter, sarcastic, and introverted as the years go by. I do not like being this way ... (96 words)

We've only dated for 7 weeks and he's asking me to move to his country

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi my boyfriend from another country asked me if I would go there with him. We have only been dating for 7 weeks and he says he is falling in love with me. I told him that I was flattered but not just to jerk my chain cause he just met me and how could he love me that fast? I... (236 words)

I want to leave my boyfriend for the man I'm having an affair with

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - DearCupid, I am 20years old and have been with my boyfriend 4 years, I am in love with a man that i have been seeing for the past 2 and a half. The other man is 30 and has a girlfriend and a child, our relationship continued (even through his girlfriends pregnanc... (81 words)

My father loves my mother more than he loves me

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12 April 2010 (F)

How can he want to reconcile with me, then hook up with another girl?

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12 April 2010 (F)

- THIS IS LONG-ISH SO TO THOSE OF YOU THAT TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS I REALLY APPRECIATE IT, THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!!!!! Grr okay guys this is kind of an angry post, so I'm sorry to send bad vibes your way *insert sad face here* ugh.. Three months (which ... (361 words)

I'm very attracted to him but I know his strict Indian background will get in the way

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12 April 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This year I started at college, and was ambling along, not really worrying about finding a boy but more enjoying being free and single and away from home. But then there was a guy that lived beneath me and is doing the same course I am. I had known him for 2 months, and alwa... (399 words)