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writes:Right i have been split up fro exalcoholic for 3 weeksnow ive wrote on here before regarding it and im so happy without him and my life is so much easier now but i cant help checking his emails and its getting stupid now i really dont know how to stop myself.I really do not want to be with him but i still want to know what he may be up to. Any ideas anyone? I could never approach him in anyway because of the sort of person he is so asking him to change his password would give him hope and probs be banging on my door the minute i have any contact with him......
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeh i defo will stop now because i know im only doing it out of habit. I will try alanon as many ppl have asked me to try this. Thanks for your replys.
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (6 April 2010):
You need a NEW hobby, as it seems that keeping tabs on him was your old one. Seriously, if he was an alcoholic, you might want to go to a few Al-anon meetings and talk to women who have been in relationships with alcoholics. It can really twist one's brain (and soul) and it may be beneficial to hear what worked for them. Al-anon is for people in relationships (past and present) where alcohol has been a problem for a family member or loved one. You qualify if I read you post properly.
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reader, raiders +, writes (6 April 2010):
 I would not do that you are violating his privacy. I would advise you to stop.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 April 2010):
Just stop. You're starting to become dangerously obsessed. And if by some chance he finds you, he might well be able to have you arrested for cyber crime. Every time you want to check on him, remember that this guy hurt you and your life is better without him.
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