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writes:Hi, I've just split up with my boyfriend who i was with for 8 months and my ex before that has always been there for me. He's always come round when i needed him and gave me a shoulder to cry on, he's been like a big brother to me (:The other week though he asked me to have sex with him. I understand everything about protection and the risk of STDs and getting pregnant and i know that i should use protection. I'm pretty sure I'm ready but I'm really nervous and don't wanna lose him as my friend. Does anyone know what I should do?Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your help. (: I didn't go through with it and he has now got another girlfriend!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): dont do it!
just dont.
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reader, xxbecksyxx +, writes (27 November 2008):
 Personally, no. For one, you're still young. Have fun and live. You shouldn't be thinking about having sex; instead, hit the books, study more and get a firm hold for the future.
If you do end up having sex with him, trust me, you'll end up regretting it. He is probably only using you for sex. Most guys your age get very hormonal - they all want to the boy to bed the most girls. And if you fall into the trap, you'll only get hurt.
So, in my opinion: study, have fun and live your life like a kid; spend time with friends, chill out and take up a hobby.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (27 November 2008):
 Go out and have fun, you are just a child. You shouldn't be having sex at your age. Isn't there something out there you could be studying in your spare time to get a better education and future for you. Don't end up just another statistic for society to blame. good luck. hope this helps.
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reader, clee750  +, writes (27 November 2008):
Do not do it. You will mess up your friendship. He is just using you and it will make things strange between you.
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