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writes:I just need a few tips on how to go about this. There's this guy at my college who I like quite a lot, he's in one of my classes, and I've liked him for a few months now. we don't really talk or anything, we just sometimes say hi to each other like if we see each other between classes and stuff. I want to tell him I like him, the thing is I'm not expecting a relationship to develop or anything, I just want him to know how i feel. the thing is I'm really shy! and I don't know how to go about telling him.. I know i sound so pre-adolescent but yeah has anyone got any advice as to how to go about telling him how i feel?thanks :)
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reader, babyminow  +, writes (28 November 2008):
 as this other girl says. just start making eye contact, and if something happens in the class yall share. catch him after class by talking about it. good luck
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reader, getright11 +, writes (28 November 2008):
 go up to him and say "hey" talk about something that happend recently. theres nothing that guys like more than confidence. go for it girl;D
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): would could always take the initiative and ask him out though. it could be he likes you too and has just been too shy to say anything! try getting chatting to him about something, the class you were just in or some up and coming event, then ask if he fancies going for a drink.
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reader, Gypsii +, writes (28 November 2008):
One, it's too early for feelings. You don't know much about this guy except that he's in your class and you speak every now and then. You shouldn't tell him that you have feelings for him because you don't know him well enough to do that. If you're genuinely interested I'd suggest that the next time that you see him in passing, make small talk such as ask him how he's doing in the class or inquire about something more specific such as an assignment. Then, you can say "by the way...my name is Stephanie." If he's interested, that kind of light introduction may open a door of communication between the two of you.Again, it's NOT a good idea to go up to a virtual stranger and express to him or her feelings. It sounds as if you have a crush on him so, if that's indeed the case, allow it to develop more naturally. Even if you discover that he has a girlfriend, etc...at least you'll spare yourself the embarrassment of being rejected.Good luck!
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