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writes:My girlfriend won't let me see her pussy and we have been doing sexual things for months just not full on sex and she still won't let me see, is this normal? how can i persuade her? Reply to this Question
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (12 March 2008):
I dont think you should try to persuade her. You should let her let you see it when shes ready. If you try to persuade her she may feel under pressure and it will put her off even more. Ask her why she doesnt want you to see it. And let her know that no matter what you will still love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): hon, if you do finally get to look at her there you'd better tell her its the most beautiful sight you've ever seen in your life or she may never show it to you again. Serius here, this matters!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): actually.. this is right up my alley.. i have a major problem letting a man see my cooter, pussy as you call it. the reason i dont let anyone see it is because in my opinion it is not as gorgeous as some porn stars pussys, and so it embarrasses me, but i am getting over that because anyone that has ever seen it has never told me it is anything less than beautiful.my boyfriend has been trying to get me to open up to him, meaning let him see every part of me, but it is hard for me. i just never wanted him to be like "what the...?" but then i just decided yesterday that i would send him pics of it.. i sent him 4 pictures from different angles, and he said it is gorgeous. so now when i really think about it it is not ugly at all. that may sound really wierd, but anyways, maybe she has self esteem problems. tell her that no matter what you will feel the same for her. everyone has a different body and it's not her fault her cooter looks like it does, it just does, well, if that is the reason she won't let you see, which i think it is. then you need to also understand how she feels and just be patient. wait for her. she will eventually let you see, i promise, and when she does no matter what it looks like you need to love it. act like you love it and act like there is nothing wrong with it, even if it is completely discusting looking. let her know that you really apreciate her showing you. and if by chance when you see it it changes your opinion on her or are just completely discusted and cannot be with her anymore (which i really hope wouldnt happen) then you have to wait to leave her or she will assume it is because of what her cooter looks like, and her self asteem thing will get worse, and even though it would no longer be your problem, it will really hurt her. this is crazy cuz i thought i was wierd for not liking my cooter, but i guess im not the only one, and well, i love mine now. i really hope that everything works out for you down there... lol. if you catch my drift.mariah
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): you shouldn't be presuring your girlfrien into things that sexual or sex because if she doesn't want it and your presuring her, she may not want to do sexual activities with you. Plus, sex can be dangerous. There are high risks of deases, infections, or crabs (lice in your pubic hair). Please take precautions in any sexual activity and be carefull of how much you push her.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (11 March 2008):
 It may seem strange to you but some girls are really shy about the way that area looks.
I'm still not comfortable with my boyfriend looking at that area and we've had sex and everything. It's just a feeling that guys are expecting something different to what they're going to get i guess - at least that is the way it is with me. Talk to her about it. She'll learn to trust you and let you see eventually. Don't worry. There's nothing seriously wrong.
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