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female
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36-40,
*amar
writes:In response to an article i wrote about not knowing my boyfriend's family, it seems hopeless to me. i have asked him about the situation again and his response is that he is not on good terms with his family, i don't know any of his family members, none of his friends, he always tries to keep isolated, he is very jealous started searching my phone and he wont mention anything about his family. i have had friends just friends and i have met at least one of their family member. it seems like I'm on a hide out, if we decide to get intimate we have to go to a hotel or he stops at my place. he is very secretive he says he feels bad that i don't know his folks yet he gives me the same story all the time, even my family is saying that he might be hiding something.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 He sounds either married or just nuts. Or maybe both. I'd drop him like a hot potato.
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (11 March 2008):
 It does seem that way - what reason would he have for you to be a complete secret to every other aspect of his life??
Your gut instinct is generally right, if you feel he is hiding something, he probably is.
He sounds very paranoid and troubled, and it also seems that this attitude is rubbing off on you!
You are suspicious of each other, it doesn't sound like there is ANY trust...Personally, I would get out of that relationship.
You want a man who will PROUDLY show you off to family and friends!!
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