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writes:I'm currently in a dilemma. I'm a college student about to graduate in a couple of weeks and I'm currently seeing this guy that works there. We aren't supposed to be together and he is seven years older then me. He has so many good qualities though that it's hard for me not to like him. I've already seen him outside of school and we are currently seeing each other exclusively but everything is hidden. We can't tell anyone that we are talking and when we see each other in school it has to be like I don't even know him. I want a relationship with him but I don't know if I should be with him now or if I should wait until after I get out. He is older then me and if anyone in my school finds out before I graduate he can get fired. I need some advice I don't know whether I should do this or not. :( Reply to this Question
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reader, youngandconfused90 +, writes (12 March 2008):
 Seven years is'nt that big of a difference. Its not like he went out looking to find someone your age, it just happened. I think your problem has nothing to do with age. In my opinon nothing stays a secret, its hard to keep things hush hush and if you guys really care for each other than wait the couple weeks you have left, Dont risk his job when you dont have to, That will kill the romance! Just tell him how much you care for him and then go on to tell him that you would love to see him after graduation. I hope everything works out for you.
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reader, red1982  +, writes (11 March 2008):
Tell him that you really like him, but would rather wait a couple of weeks until you graduate to see him, in case he gets into trouble. It's only a couple of weeks, if you like each other then I'm sure you can both wait. And then you won't have to skulk around worrying if anyone will see you.
Godd luck with graduation.
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