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*olvne
writes:Okay, let's keep this simple. There's this guy at school who I have a HUGE crush on. Well, here's the story:I started liking him in the beginning of the last school year (Or, that's when I started acknowledging it). He sat in front of me on the bus, and we'd talk every once in awhile... Every time I'd feel tingles run up my spine, and my fingers would go dead-cold. Then I heard him sing in the School Play...Well, let's just say I was sold from there on out. Well, he ended up finding out about my liking him awhile ago, but that was last year...I managed to get his cell phone number.. We texted each other, a lot. In January, his cell phone ended up breaking, and when he got it replaced, his number was changed. I found this all out from a few friends...In Febuary, he ended up getting a girlfriend, and stopped talking to me for awhile.Now, he talks to me, but only if his girlfriend isn't around. Otherwise, it's like I do not exist.I also recently found out I'm moving to another state over the summer break, and would like to keep in touch, but....I'm not sure if I should ask. Or what I should say..."Uh... Hi! Heard your cell broke.."God! It sounds like I'm stalking him! Then again, I might just be overreacting.... Am I?-ConfusedWolven
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reader, Wolvne +, writes (3 May 2008):
Wolvne is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys...
Yeah, I think he might be trying to tell me that too... And I've tried forgetting him, I really have. It nearly drove me out of my mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): He sounds like he's trying to tell you gently and without hurting your feelings that he isn't interested in you in that way. If he has a girlfriend, he has to make it clear to her that she is the one he is with.
It's hard when you like someone and they don't feel the same way. It will help that you are moving away and don't see him, because you will find it easier to forget him.
There will be other people you will like in the future. In the meantime, enjoy the change of a new area and new friends. Your day will come.
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reader, muffy +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Okay,That happend with my friend.She was dating this guy and they broke up.They were still friends but he got another girlfriend and wouldnt talk to her if his girlfriend was around.Now,I think its pretty stupid for him to do that to you.Since your moving,just tell him in person or over texting that your moving to another state.Tell him you want to stay in contact and ask if its okay if you text him.Or,if you have a myspace,imvu,yahoo,hotmail etc.,then contact each other over that.I hope everything works out for you.
love always,
Muffy
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reader, binhquangdao +, writes (18 April 2008):
 keep in touch with him and he's seems confused about his feelings talking to you but remember this if he's gonna leave his girlfriend to be with you he can leave you and be with someone else and long distance relationship don't work out alot of times save yourself the heartache and keep him as a friend and one day if it happens and u move back it will happen
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