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41-50,
anonymous
writes:ok so i sort of started seeing this older guy. i guess i am wondering how to get his attention better? he does work and is busy but, i rarely hear from him by phone mainly text and internet chat. he does say he cares for me but, i will only see him on a fri or sat night. what should i do? is this a waste of my time?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 If he is always busy and have no time , then you are going to
need a long time to build up this relationship.
If you think , time is a big factor, you should give him a
miss as he cannot give you his time.
Is he worth your time?
Only you can answer that.
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reader, Artistry +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Hi, First of all, I am wondering,if you have made sure, that this gentleman, is completely available. How you go about that would be questionable, but one way would be to ask him, is there anyone else who is involved in his life? A man who is only available at certain times, and text messages or only telephones you, on a limited basis, would appear to me to be spreading his time around among different women. I could be wrong, but you should determine, where you are on his priority list. The other point could be, that he is only going to give so much physically or emotionally, and you must then decide, if this is what you want in a relationship. You don't appear to be satisfied with what is going on now, so it is up to you to talk to him. Make a special appointment with him to talk, ask questions and get some answers. Then, decide based on those answers, what you will do in the future. Sometimes, as they say, love may not be enough. Everyone deserves to have, what they feel is mutual consideration and an emotional connection with an indiviual they care about. If you are in a relationship, that is lacking in those factors, you feel neglected and is not healthy. So take the bull by the horns and set things on the right path to fulfillment for you, this gentleman might not be the answer to your having a healthy relationship. Good luck to you in the future.
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reader, AceBlizzard +, writes (17 April 2008):
I dont really know how to answer this unless I know the ages......
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