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male
age
41-50,
*erisier
writes:Never in my life love someone like that the way I love my boyfriend well I don't think if I should call him my boyfriend cause thing are different between us now. When I wana talk about our relationships or sex life, he always he doest like talking about those things. And when he said that, I really get mad cause relatioships built by communicate to each others and honesty. I'm always honest with him but he doesn't trust me. why, because 2 weeks after we became boyfriends I cheat on him, specially on a day we were suppose to be on date, he called me a lot that but I ignored his call but after a couple hours later I lied to him by telling that my part time job has call me to come to work so I was working that is why I didn't pick up the phone. But after 2 or 3 days I didn't feel good about it, I felt so bad and ashanm of myself, cause he the first boyfriend I ever have. So I decided to tell him the truth, So I did. He was mad but after a while he was cool. So I thought he was over it, so I was wrong cause everytime we are fighting, he always mention that. I had no idea he still has that grudge against me. But he right, what I did was wrong so I guess I'm just gona have to deal with it. But my bigest problem is him and the guy he call hus bestfriend. Trust me I wana believe that they never done anything to each others, but it the way they talk on the phone that get on my nerves. Whenever he talking to him he is like they making love on the phone, they talk to each others on the phone to many times in one day. And when I ask him why does he has to talk to him all the time he said that itls bestfriend and stop controling him. So I decide to come to a conclusion. Trust me I love him, I really do but I'm to jealous, cause everytimes I will them talking on the phone it is gona hurt me, more and more and when I get jealous I'm like someone else I'm not myself so avoid all that, I think I'm gona give him space. I don't want to tell him to chose between me and his bestpal after all he knows him before he knows me. Either way I will lose. Anyway do you think me stepping out is the right thing to do?
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reader, honestheart  +, writes (17 April 2008):
You hurt him and he's obviously not over this. If he was cheating he could be discreet but it seems to me his 'best friend' and he are doing their best to wind you up and think the worst. Relationships nee dtrust or they will never work. If he had truly forgiven you he would not want to hurt you in this way. Who knows if he is cheating or if he is just trying to give you that impression. You're still young, you have your whole life ahead of you. I think it would be best to walk away and start afresh. There will be someone out there for you, who knows how to forgive completely and who will treat you with love and respect.
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