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*ngel_of_xbl
writes:OK it has been like forever since i came here but i'm back.alrite i'll try n make this as short and uncomplicated as i can.I have ben dating "Katie" for about two mnts now, i am also a female we both are 15 yrs old. i love her very dearly, she is the first person i have actually fallen in love with in over a year. i have just finally healed from the my last heart break. i kno ppl may think we are too young to be sexually active but we are so i don't need lectures on that, i just need help on how to bring up the subject of her returning the "favor". i am teh first girl she ahs ever dated, kissed and so on, and i don't want to make her feel like i am pressuring her into anything. i woudl just like a little sumthin bak. soo my bottom Q is "How do i get my girlfriend to return the sexual favors bak?"i would appreciate any tips or suggestions.thnx to evryone takin the time to read this.XOXO,Angel Reply to this Question
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reader, angel_of_xbl +, writes (13 May 2008):
angel_of_xbl is verified as being by the original poster of the question YAY she finally did. it wasn't amazing but it was a nice change of pace. now she does it whenever were alone n i'm not in control!!!
thnx u guys for ur help n all.
xo,
angel
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reader, angel_of_xbl +, writes (27 April 2008):
angel_of_xbl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsalvation:
yeh i'm tryin it. i was talkin onthe phone to my ex n my ex wanted to talk to Katie so i let her...n my ex asked Kaite when she was going to return the favor n katie said "i'm gonna suprise her" so i'm happy! maybe it'l happen soon. :D
thnx u guys for everything.
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reader, salvation  +, writes (20 April 2008):
hmm then i think all you can do is ease her into it at some point she will start doing it herself so stop stressing yourself overit.
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reader, angel_of_xbl +, writes (20 April 2008):
angel_of_xbl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha yeh rite...i'm way to scard to even bring that up.
i just don't want to make her feel like i'm pushing her into it because of shit in her past i don't want to bring back up. ya kno.
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reader, salvation +, writes (19 April 2008):
its ok to be scared but you will have to talk to her sooner or later just try to relax and dont sound too pushy like your trying to force her just be casual about it and bring it up perhaps after your done with her a simple now you do me would help.
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reader, angel_of_xbl +, writes (18 April 2008):
angel_of_xbl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto: emilysanswers,yeh i think that might be it, but i am wayyyyy to pussy to do that, i'm too afraid of what she mite do. like she'd freak out, and i'de be soo damn embarrased n it woudl b awkward after. but i mite...i dunno.to:salvation,yeh i mite try the whole talkin about it first b4 making hte move, but i dunno. still scared to bring it up in conversation.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 April 2008):
If you are her first girl then she may not know what to do?
Next time you are doing something to her, take her hand and put it on you, guide it to where you want it and leave her to explore.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, salvation +, writes (17 April 2008):
i dont think your too young i was active 4 years ago and im only 16. I would just talk to her about it its the simplst and direct way of dealing with it. Just be honest and explain your not pressuring her etc girls are usually very understanding in my exp
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