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How do we get out of the same old boring routine?

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Question - (17 April 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am in an almost 5yr relationship w/ my byfrnd. i am 34 he is 33. we live together, but it is more like roomates, how do we get out of this bored routine?

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A male reader, davie Australia +, writes (18 April 2008):

If he has made it clear that he doesn't love you then I don't see why changing your bored routine will make things any better. You deserve to be with someone who loves you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008):

thanks everyone but there is no i love you, he has made it clear that he does not love me, and our last romantic fun was in january. it's like there nothing there, we have talked & nothing changes. thanks for all your advice, i will try.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008):

Unfortuantly routine happens in relationships sometimes good, sometimes bad. If you want things to change then change it. Instead of just coming home and watching tv set up a romantic evening, don't wait for him to make the move. Also sit down and talk to him really talk to him and let him know how you feel and if he feels the same. communication is the key. and if you are feeling bored chances are he is too. GOOD LUCK !

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A male reader, salvation United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2008):

simple do something out of the ordinary taking a holiday together might help or do some traveling change your scenery a bit. Im not saying go totally wild but let loose and do something you normally wouldnt dream of doing and do it together.

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