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writes:Will this man ever ask me out?I am a member of a sports club,he is a teacher there, we are both single and in our 30s. Have known him since august and its doing my head in not knowing if anything will happen with him! He gives me all the signals, massive eye contact, looks at me when he thinks Im not looking, a little "excuse" touching, whispering in my ear, pays me a lot of attention, treats me differently to the other girls, but he is shy and so am i, he is reserved too, takes a long time to get to know him. Sometimes he doesnt say much..everybody thinks the reason why he will not ask me out is because Im a member of this club, but I cant see a problem,maybe he doesnt like me in that way. please help.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Hi,
shy guy syndrome can be a tough one to overcome. This coupled with the fact that he is working there could easily be the reason why he hasnt done something.
Why don't you ask him out for a coffee or something, at least that way its not asking him out on a serious date. Take it from there, but you will probably have to do the asking as he may not want you to feel uncomfortable if you turned him down.
good luck
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (17 April 2008):
 why dont you do the simple thing and ask him out?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Maybe he is not sure about you? You spoke about the signals he sends. What signals do you send?
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reader, xxtinkerbellxx  +, writes (17 April 2008):
if he wont ask you you have to come out of that shy shell and ask him...
Iv been in this situation and i know how hard it is when a guy gives you all de signals YET does nothing about it
So you be the strong person and aks him out its a YES/NO situation you'v nothing to lose by asking him....
and listenin to other people tell you "He wont go out with you because you work here Bla Bla Bla" Dont listen to them only one person can tell you is him so ask him before its to late and he moves on wothout askin you....
Let me know how you get on and weither my advise has helped in anyway..
xxx~*~TINKERBELL~*~xxx
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