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I'm 13 and think I masterbate too much! How can I stop?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 30-35 - Im 17 and like most guys, i masterbate. I started when i was 13 and have dun it at least once a day, sumtimes up to 4 times a day. All i can say is that i have lost all feeling for it and now i do it because i am either bored or just been watching porn. I have never ha... (138 words

I'm scared for my BF, as his mum is really abusive and horrible to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - I dont know who to turn to for this, im actually scared! My bf has an abusive mum, just this morning his mum found out that he missed 4 of his lessons from his school. And wen he arrived home she grounded him for 2 months. She is making him pay back all the money she gave him... (202 words

My confidence is really low and I'm a size 18 (UK), do guys really want a girl this size?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (F - I like this guy alot but my confidence is really low, I'm a size 18(uk) and im quite tall so its kinda spread out but do guys really want this especially when they're like 18? any thoughts? ... (39 words

We were married 18 years, split up, now she is contacting me again but is sleeping around!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 51-59 - I'm a 42 year old guy, married for 18 years and split up for a year or so. We had problems for the last couple of years and we both decided instead of working things out, we split up. After I left she got a boyfriend instantly which told me she'd moved on so I got busy with ... (213 words

My GF was hurt in a past relationship so won't have sex with me! How do I convince her I'm not 'that guy' ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and i have been going out for over 7 months now. We have done a lot of things but never actually had sex. I am still a virgin, but she had sex once a couple years ago. She says the guy used her and really hurt her and she doesn't want it to happen again. W... (177 words

I just found out last night my BF is racist! What can I do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend is racist. He don't think he is just cuz he got black cuzins. He has a problom with some blacks he went out with a black before and he wasn't racist then but now he is. He fights alot and the people he fights with are black people!. He told me that i can go out w... (160 words

My parents don't like my BF coz he does drugs! How can I make them see he's a great guy and makes me happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for a while. My parents don't like him cos he does drugs, which i don't do. Is there anyway that i can make them see that i like him for the laughs and the good times we have together? I feel that we are going to fall out permanetly if i don't so... (66 words

Two guys at work are fighting over me! Who do I choose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - At work I've met these two guys and I don't know who to choose between - they both have asked me out. They have even started to dislike each other because they both want to go out with me and they both tried to play off of each other to win me over, it's sometimes really ... (179 words

I'm not over my ex of 2 years ago and I keep comparing my new BFs to him! How do I stop this once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - i broke up with this guy a few years ago and he was my 1st proper bf. I still always think about him and the gr8 times we had together. Since then i'v never felt the same way about anyone even though i have had other bf's. it's really tough because i met these two guys who... (260 words

Should I wait around for him until he's ready to date again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am really confused and I would really appreciate your help. I have been at university for my first year now and I met a guy within the first few weeks. We were just mates at first and we hung out in a large group of girls and lads. He also had a long term girlfriend ... (648 words

Married 24 years, now separated but we still have sex! Is this okay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age - My husband and I have been married for 24 years. We are separated but we still see each other and are still having sex. Is this ok? ... (32 words

What do I get my GF for our 2 month anniversary?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 30-35 - hey there .. its my 2 month aniversary on saturday and i was wondering what i should get my gf .. any ideas would be greatly appricciated .. thank you :) all the best... (35 words

I don't know whether to do Sixth Form next year or go to college! Any views?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F - Im 15, in year 10. I have a year left at school. Im starting to think about what i wanna do when i leave school. I deffinatly want to continue education. Im not sure if to stay at my school and go to sixth form or go to college. is there much difference quality wise?? i wa... (155 words

Should I stay with my BF who is close to perfect or go for the sexy music student who writes me songs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm really confused me and this guy I've been seeing for a year and a half (lets call him Eric) is great, i love him loads and he means the world to me he does everything in his power to make me happy. He really takes care of me. But I'm still very young and I'm feeling as if ... (195 words

Does this guy really have an interest in me since on our only day off he didn't want to hang out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hello cupid I met a person 5 weeks ago, in the third week we had our first date.We mantain in contact on phone twice or 3 times a day for short period due to the type of job we both have since then. We have both a job that has not allowed us to futher date for the conflict... (159 words

Is a 38DD bra size at 15 years old too big?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 2170 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am 15 and a 38 DD is that normal. i think i'm to big for my age?? hElP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (19 words

Am I just taking the brunt of external issues or does he really not want to be with me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

7 May 2007 (F - Hi, I really need some advice from some of the readers of dear cupid. I have been answering problems on here a while now and have got some really good ratings - the only problem is, im useless at sorting out my own problems! I've been seeing this wonderful man for nearly a... (488 words

My BF is so vain and spends too much time looking at himself in the mirror!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear cupid How do you deal with a boyfriend who you feel very self conscious about his look. He doesn't like to eat anything fat, always keep things very healthy and working out. I have no problem with that, except whenever we have to go out, I always have to be the one who w... (122 words

My visit with this friend went badly-she annoyed me immensely! Should I have handled her differently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F - Hi all.. Hope you are all doing good and enjoying the beautiful weather (for those like me, who have and hate the snowy cold winter). Over the weekend, I met one of my closest friends' girlfriend after about two years. She was in town for a business trip and we were both ver... (626 words

Should I tell him that I like him. It would be incredibly awkward if he doesn't feel the same! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, im a member of a sports club that i go to every day, theres a guy who works in the shop there that i like so much, the only problem is im 16, hes 24+. I talk to him everyday and it sort of seems to me that theres playful flirty banter between us. The other day i went... (205 words

I cheated with my ex bf's brother! Should I tell him what I did?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F - ok so. my boyfriend and i broke up a little while ago. things weren't working out because he lies and has cheated a while ago and never knows when to tell me anything. just not trustworthy i guess you can say. but anyways i went to this social and his brother was there and i ... (178 words

I wanted to believe her that she was my perfect girl. Am I wrong to be stressed about her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 41-50 - Ah well, here goes, lots to tell... I met a wonderful girl 2 and a half years ago, she was beautiful and sexy, and was interested in me, however, the months before we actualy got together people were telling me to stay away, and suggesting some pretty outlandish stori... (826 words

We talk about marriage all the time but still no proposal after 7 years together!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 51-59 - 7 years into a relationship and no proposal... I don't know what to do. up until last year I have had no real urge to get married but since hitting 34 I just feel a need to settle. My boyfriend and I get on brilliantly. We've travelled a lot and lived abroad and so up ... (416 words

How can I tell my Mom,that he's 24?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi, im a 16 yr old who is dating a 24 year old and my parents dont know because my mom will throw hom in jail, but i was wondering how i could tell my mom.... (36 words

I have this 'saviour complex'-I try to help her all the time but it got to me! Did I do the right thing by saying, I can't be her friend anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 36-40 - I will start with a little information about myself. I seem to have this "savior complex" due to which I seem to be automatically attracted to people who need my help. Also, I feel guilty..ALOT. About three years ago I met this amazing female friend of mine who was going ... (496 words

I know I'm not going to live up to my parents expectations with my school grades - how do I talk to them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm leaving school in a week and im really scared....my mum and step dad expect A's and B's in my GCSE's and i know im not getting them and i dont wana let them down!...i need 2 talk to them but im worried! i also am nearly 16 and never allowed out my friends are always ... (76 words

Guys, what type of undies do you like and how do you like her down there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 41-50 - This is a question for the guys to anwser - only guys please! What kind of underwear do you prefer? Thongs, g-strings, boyshorts, french, bikini, granny?! And also, what do you prefer 'down there'? Bushy, trimmed, Brazilian (with a 'landing strip'), completely waxed/shaved... (49 words

I've never met his family or many of his friends, do you think he's embarrassed by me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship now for 7 months with my boyfriend. We usually see each other 3 times a week, but lately I've noticed things that are niggling away at me. Firstly in the seven months that we've been together I've only met one of his friends and this is because he ... (453 words

Why don't guys like tall girls?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - ok, im 13 and ive never had a boyfriend because of my height. Why don't guys like tall girls and i masturbate a lot it that normal?... (28 words

Do you think we'll ever be one happy, united family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age - I have 2 daughters(11 and 14) and have been separated 28 months. 3 months ago i met a guy and we started a relationship. He's divorced with 2 boys(13 and 16) I seem to be attracted to dominant, controlling men and "D" is no exception. However he is very supportive and loving a... (214 words

He woke me up, put his penis in my mouth and told me to SUCK!!!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much, but my friends think he's no good for me. He always tells me how sexy I am and how he thinks Im amazing in bed. I don't see how this is 'using me' as my friends think. The only thing that disturbs me, is that when I was staying over with him... (138 words

Would you be with someone who said he'll never marry you or refuses to take a holiday with you and your kids?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - Would you be with someone who said he'll never marry you or refuses to take a holiday with you and your kids?... (22 words

My teacher kept me in for detention, kissed me and had sex with me on his desk.

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

7 May 2007 (F - I need urgent help! I'm seeing my teacher during and after school. He gives me detension so I can see him at lunchtime. He's one of the nicest guys I've ever met, so I don't want to end this. The other day at lunch we were kissing and had sex on his desk. It was so amazi... (82 words

I found pictures of someone on his phone, thing is I'm 4 months pregnant and don't know what to do about this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - i've been with my boyfriend for a year and im 4 months pregnant. he already has another child who's 5. Lately he has been secretive with his mobile and panics anytime i go near it. when he was sleeping one night i went into his texts and seen that he had sent his ex videos of ... (77 words

Do you think I should get married to him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi i been with this man for 9 years, i use to live with him and his four kids they was bad and he got the other one with an other women i was all the time mad and i try to live by my self an other apartement. i lived there for 6 years but i keep him as hes my fiance and he ... (805 words

I'm miserable with my agressive boyfriend. What shall I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - I dont know what to do anymore i am the end of tether, me and my bf have been together nearly together for a year and its getting worse than ever. He has such a short fuse and gets angry so easily to the point that everytime im around him he can reduce me to tears at the drop... (169 words

I spoiled my son's party which I regret, now I feel as if I can't live without them.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 51-59 - i met lucy 12 years ago just after I split from my first wife she helped me through a messy divorce. We have had a steady relationship, just the odd argument here and there. Until now we have got 2 kids one boy who's 8 one girl who's 1 and a half. Unfortunately we had ... (584 words

My friends told me he really liked me, so why did he go and get himself another girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - i started good mates with this lad about 3 years ago and i really liked him but he was giving me mixed signals, we drifted apart but now he's back and tried it on with me a couple of weeks back an ive started feeling back how i used 2, im best mates with his sister and she ... (94 words

I have feelings for 2 guys... what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well I have a problm. I'm friends with a guy, we'll call him J, and J is perfect amd amazing and deeply in love with me though we are currently not dating. I think this could really turn into something, but there's this other guy, C, whom I'm really attracted to. I don't feel ... (86 words

My sister is missing and my family lies to keep her disappearance a secret.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - my sister is 19 and she left home without telling anyone. i was the last person to see her before she left and she didn't even say goodbye. i used to pick her up from work and on that particular day when i went to pick her up she just didn't show. i tried to ask her workmates ... (365 words

Is my boss saying "no", but meaning "yes"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 41-50 - Ok here goes!!!! Im in a bit of a pickle, I am totally in to my Boss. one of my friends told her that I like her and she is cool with it,and said she already knew. she is also one of my best friends. we spend alot of time together in and out of work and im totally confused... (343 words

Why can't I stay faithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for nine years and we have a 4yr old together. I do love my partner, but i cant stay faithful. Whenever someone shows interest in me (which is usually his friends) and i feel attracted to them i cant say no. Im good when i am sober, but as soon as i ... (145 words

Will he mind that I'm actually not as toned as he thinks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - ok im 20 and last when i was out in a club, i met a really nice guy who asked for my number and said he would call me this week to take me out. Problem is ... i was wearing stomach-holding-in pants so i looked really toned. im scared to meet him now because im actually really ... (62 words

My bf wants to wait until I'm 18, but I want sex now!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi there im a 17 year old female and i have a boyfriend who is 32 years old we love each other very much and my parents know about our relationship and adore him. we have been seeing each other for 6 months the only problem is i really want to have sex with him but he says its ... (101 words

I lied about myself in my profile, should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - ok i met this guy on this website and we started chatting on MSN every day. However, at first it started off as a joke when i set up my profile so i lied about my name and used a different photo but everything else i said was true, just my name and picture isnt, oh and my age ... (189 words

I can't find any good singles to date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - I never seem to find a single guy to date because in the past the only guys that fancy me are divorced, engaged, married or in some sort of relationship. And they are all older than me a fair bit. I have no clue why this is. I don't want to be with losers who i know will treat ... (144 words

my one year relationship has recently turned long distance and it's not as easy to get together as it used to be.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - Basically, my one year relationship has recently turned long distance and it's not as easy to get together as it used to be. It is more important to me that we see each other frequently than it is to him. He agrees. Is this the typical male and female roles or is this the ... (65 words

why am I upset that my friend has found a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (F - Can I ask your opinion. Do you think that I am stupid or is there something in this? this is what i want to know! I am 20 and dating an absolutely lovely guy, we have been going out for over 12 months and we get on so well and I think I love him and he wants to spend the rest... (327 words

My husband is controlling and abusive, does he love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - My husband is controlling , physically and emotionally abusive with me. He is only like this when we are fighting. He acts like he doesn't care about my feeling and doesn't care when I cry. He goes around acting like he doesn't care for me. Can you tell me if this is normal, if ... (101 words

My ex treated me like dirt, how will I ever trust a man again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 41-50 - I want to enter the dating scene again, but I don't know how I will ever trust a man again after my ex dumped me nearly 5 months ago. I was utterly shell-shocked as we had built up a strong friendship over quite some time and he had been the one convincing me this relationship ... (569 words

Is it stupid to provide advice to those who don't treat me fairly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 41-50 - I provide moral support even to those people who do not treat me fairly or sometimes even abuse me. Is it just being stupid? ... (26 words

How do I tell mom I need to make my own choices

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 41-50 - I want my ex back!! My mom doesnt think hes the guy for me. I love him with all I have and he's got so much to offer and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. She has always been involved in my relationships and I dont know how to tell her that its my life and Im the ... (76 words

What if he is seeing somebody else??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi there I am in a fairly new relationship, its been two months now. I am happy a bit, because I feel like I cannot ask more from a r/ship at this stage. My current boyfriend is a very busy person. He is forever at work or outside the city, because of the job he does. I... (740 words

What are the chances im pregant??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - What are the chances that i am pregant? -he didnt cum / orgasm inside me -we had sex around the time i was due for my period -we used a condom -he was only inside for a very little while -i bled for a day afterwards but then stopped bleeding. i'm not sure whether it was my... (136 words

If I tell my partner it's over, he'll smash the house up as he's very manipulating and controlling. I don't know what to do???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi i am 19 i have been in this relationship for 3.5 years. I have a little girl who is 2. Kevin is very manipulating and controling. He gets angry and shouts at me right in my face calls me names says he wishes i was dead. I want to end it so i can be happy but i always make ... (131 words

I've been a total fool here! Do you think he really wants to be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 41-50 - I need some advice please. I dated my boyfriend while he was at uni but it was long distance. He found it hard to be faithful and often wanted to be single like his mates but eventually he met a girl from his uni and so dumped me. When he graduated a year later he returned ... (203 words

I have feelings for her but she only seems to want my friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 36-40 - I will start with a little information about myself. I seem to have this "savior complex" due to which I seem to be automatically attracted to people who need my help. Also, I feel guilty..ALOT. About three years ago I met this amazing female friend of mine who was going ... (500 words

She's leaving to do volunteer work and I'm devasted about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 41-50 - I have a bit of a problem at the moment that I'm not sure now to handle. I've been with my GF for several months now, and I think the world of her. We hit it off straight away, and things have been going as well as I could have wished for in the time we've been together. Howeve... (341 words

Can anyone tell me exactly what she means?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 36-40 - i round about asked this girl out. and she said she would get back to me about it as soon as she could. can someone shine some light on what she means? all she said was "i'll get back to you about wensday". because thats when i offered to buy her dinner and just sit and ... (60 words

What is the part of a man or a woman in starting a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 41-50 - Should it be the man or the woman making the first step? What is the part of a man or a woman in starting a relationship? What is their part in continueing the relationship? And what if it comes to an engagement/wedding? And so on? What is your opinion?... (49 words

I really like this girl but I am confused as to how she feels about me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 36-40 - i really like this girl i am 23 she is 21. i don't know how she feels about me. when we talk there seems to be nervous silence. also she says something then a couple of days later she says i imagined it. but i still want to admit my feelings for her without putting our ... (65 words

OMG... we didn't use a condom, could I be pregnant!!!???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i had sex today and when finished he went to clean up and throw the condom away and he came back and we just laid together in the bed. after a few minutes we started making out and one thing led to another and his penis was inside me for about 10 seconds before ... (142 words

I have a cousin who is 17 and hotttttt!!! I want to have sex with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi, i have a cousin she is 17 and hott. i want to have sex with her. when i was 8 we kinda just rubbed and felt each other. I jack off to pictures of her. what do i do? please.... (42 words

Is this product safe to use???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am a bit worried. I bought this fade cream by the brand AMBI. This product contains hydroquinone 2%. I was wondering if this product is safe to use for whitening my face even though it has hydroquinone 2%? I heard this is bad or maybe cancerous. Please help! Thanks.... (50 words

Should I be with a girl who lies all the time or drown in this feeling of loniness...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend in October as I felt I wasn't being treated right. She only wanted to see me when it suited her and was too flirty with others. We meet now and again as we have been close all our lives. After I spend time with her (nothing sexual) I feel a huge ... (105 words

I cant seem to have an orgasm with my boyfriend at all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6145 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am 18 years old. I cant seem to have an orgasm with my boyfriend at all. I can have a orgasm by my self but not with my boyfriend. Hes the type of guy that doesn't like using vibrators and stuff like that. He only want to use his mouth or fingers or just sex. I can seem to ... (88 words

My parents have told me if I go back with her they will disown me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

7 May 2007 (M age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend broke up a month a go i am 19 and she is 20 i told my parents about the break up and they said i could do better well 2 weeks later and my girl got back i tried to tell my parents but they said that if i go back to her they will disown me a son i really ... (103 words

His son is all sweetness and light when he is around but is down right nasty when he's not. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 51-59 - I love my husband but his son is trying to break us up. His son bends over backwards to the nice golden boy when his dad is around but when he is not around his son is completely disrspectful and mean. How do I deal with this when my husband has never seen what I've ... (56 words

My boyfriend is away on a trip for 3 months and I want to have cybersex with him but how do I instigate this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has been away on a trip for three months. He won't be back for another month and a half. We have been emailing and talking on the phone when we can. I have never had cybersex or phone sex, but I really miss him and I want to. I don't know how to instigate it or ... (63 words

I really fancy my cousin's mate. How can I win him over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - My cousin's mate and I talk a lot on MSN but we have never met. We both admit to fancying each other. If I were to go to the cinema's with them both and I sat by my cousin's mate, how could I eventually kiss him? The thing is; if my cousin and his mate are talking how can I ... (101 words

Do guys just assume that you're dating even if you don't have the actual talk? I'm confused.

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7 May 2007 (F age 36-40 - I feel kind of stupid asking this question but here goes... I had a crush on one of my guy friends for a long time, and recently something happened between us. He admitted he had feelings for me, we kissed, and he told me that he'd been in love with me for ages. Things ... (126 words

Do you think anything more will come out of this friendship I have with him?

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7 May 2007 (F age 30-35 - Basically I have fallen for a guy and well he says he likes me an we've spent time together, call and text each other every day without fail etc Anyway to the point, whenever i bring up the subject of us actually getting together properly he just says that he has come out of a... (213 words

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