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relationship help and advice

Gf is finished with me! How can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - my girlfriend finished with me because she doesnt want a boyfriend nomore,what can i do to get her back... (19 words)

If he stares at you does that mean there could be 'love there"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - When a men stares at you and you look at him that mean there could be love there. when a men says hi two you everytime he sees you does it mean the like you.... (35 words)

After we had sex he said, "we are seeing each other, to see how we get along". What did that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hiya, slightly confused here. after to speaking to a few people i still have no idea so i bring the question here if you are seeing a guy, does it mean its nothing serious but really just sex? the line i was given was' we are seeing eachother, to see how we get along... (82 words)

I get angry when he looks at other female forms! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey im 16 and i have a boyfriend of 5 months. and we went to the beach 2day with loads of people nd girls in bikini's and stuff. and he kept looking at other girls boobs and legs and stuff. this drives me crazy and i just wanna shout to him and say 'stop staring at her l... (111 words)

Update: She's never been kissed before so how do I tell her I have feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey, this isn't really a question im just writing to thank everyone for the advice they gave me and to let you know how it went. Well my question title was "She's never been kissed before so how do I tell her I have feelings??" Well i went back to hers after we had been out... (685 words)

Need advice for bristley pubes! Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi, A couple of months ago I shaved my pubes (I know stupid idea!) and now they have grown back horrible and stubbley. My boyfriend wants to touch me down there but im so embarrassed about my briskly pubes. Does anyone know how i can solve this problem, or get rid of... (70 words)

Frustrated because my bf never is home for me and the kids. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all wondering could i get some advice/opinions with wat im experiencing right now, to be honest feel like im cracking up. all replies welcome and thany u in advance. ill be brief, with my bf 3 yrs,we have 2yr and 8yr old boys together, bf works from 6am til 10-11pm six days... (238 words)

My selfish ex bf won't talk to me now, because I didn't leave work to pick him up with my car. Should I call him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - Me and my ex broke up and became friends but he's till selfish. We broke up about 5 months ago and didnt speak. He called me after mayeb two months. We started having casual sex without the strings. We hang out from time to time. I used to let him use my car when we were ... (193 words)

My friend is really misjudging my bf...should I still be friends with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend who treats me great. He is kinda weird at times but i tell him that and he agrees. Everyone does weird things it's just some don't care to show it. Well, to get to the point, My friend was hanging out with us for a few times then yesturday she was saying how ... (267 words)

I don't think we need to have sex at this stage of dating. Any tips on how we can slow it down a notch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I am nearly 17 and my wonderful grilfriend is 16. We have been togetehr for nearly 10months and i am completely devoted to her. And i madly love her. Recently, we have been more passionate. Kissing and 'groping'. But i am becomign worried that this may evolve into something ... (188 words)

Angry dysfunctional relationship...should I call him or let it go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please, I am reposting my question again because I am desperate for help. Thanks for taking the time to read... Hi all, I have been in a romantic affair with a lovely man for 9 months. He was the one doing all the running, and gave me a lot. I never gave him the... (593 words)

I like her and we play sports together. She's not as good as the rest of us...so do I make it easy for her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi. I play sport with a few mates, but one of them isn't that good compared to the rest of us. I like one of them as more of a friend, yet she isn't as good as the rest of us. She finds it hard when she plays with us, and its clear she gets a little annoyed/upset. ... (105 words)

I like this guy but I 'love' my teacher, Mr. D. So who do I choose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I like this guy, let's call him Peter. But I love my teacher, let's call him Mr.Dreary. I just met Peter, and we talk online sometimes. He's nice and seems cool. We like the same things too. But I have loved Mr.Dreary for almost two years now, but he has a wife..so, yeah t... (375 words)

Is my female teacher coming on to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, I need some advice about this teacher at my school. Well the thing is am a girl myself and the teacher is also a girl, the thing is that I think she fancies me but Im not sure, she isn't my teacher but I do talk to her now and again and we get on fine. The only reason ... (224 words)

I called my bf while I was on holiday and he told me to"f**k off!" Should I go back to him or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am visitng my family for 3 weeks, and away from my boyfriend of 4 years. I have called him today on his cellphone and he was getting ready to visit his dad at the hospital and was in a hurry. While talking to me, he said that "im bugging his life and then tells me to f-of... (120 words)

She told my mate on msn she loved me--so why didn't she just tell me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hiya there been a development i fill you in on the details, A few days ago my mate on msn said that he had spoken to my ex-girlfreind on msn and she told him that she loves me this was about 2 weeks ago, so why not tell me this,since them about 2 days ago she removed her... (88 words)

With friends, I'm pretty shy even when talking, and all this has put my self esteem down low.. Just wondering how I can overcome this fear/anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - So I love to hang with my friend and she knows a lot of guys as friends. We wil usually be a group of a few guys and other girls. I dont care about not bf but having ale attention is always nice to know but seemingly when im in this group I drown. They all have such beauty that ... (264 words)

My gf's past much-older lover used her! It bother me, knowing that. How do Iet this go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - After seeing each other for a week, I asked my girlfriend to tell me everything about her past, as did I. Turns out we were both molested as children, and felt out of place growing up. Then she told me about her sexual partners. Her first was 37, she was 17 at the time. There ... (330 words)

I have a bf and 2 kids but love a married 50 year old man. How do I convince him to leave his wife for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 22 with a boyfriend who i dont love but we stay together for our 2 children, for 6 months i have sseing a married guy who i am desperatly in love with, he is 50. his wife has recently caught us so our relationship is now over and i feel so is my life, how can i convince ... (116 words)

Met up with an old flame for lunch and he ws nervous! What was going on with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 29 year old woman, been married almost 8years with a 4year old son, fairly happily married. Recently i bumped into an old flame from high school(first love) haven't seen each or had any contact for 14years. We exchanged numbers and met for lunch a week later. The conv... (118 words)

How can I build more confidence to talk new people especially boys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

- hello im a 15 year old girl i live in the uk, and i have very low self confidence and i am very shy. So because of these factors i can't talk to boys, over the net like msn i am fine but when it comes face to face i reali struggle with it. It never used to bother me but i start ... (126 words)

How do I deal with the hormonal and family pressures to get married and have kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am thirty years old how and completed my Masters of architecture degree last year at 29. I have always been unsure about having children because i am not sure i can be a good mother. Now at 30 i am experiencing so many hormonal changes and the only way they will go is if i ... (155 words)

Neighbor is wanting to call the police as his kid looked in our window, and saw us having sex! I think you should be able to do what you want in your own home! Any views?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My neighbour has threatened to call the police as his 11 year old son saw my partner and I having sex in our living room. he also says it is illegal to walk around naked. The boy must have been in our back garden looking in the window so surley he is in the wrong not us. I d... (112 words)

I am suspicious of other people and their motives when they want to get close. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) age 22-25 - I find any act that is aimed to come close to me physically as being something that is a hostile move from a human being to hurt me, disturb me or harm me in some way. It is rarely a move that is aimed at showing affection / respect / love or acknowledgement of my achievements, ... (109 words)

My partner of 6 years looks at a lot of online pornography... can't help but feel degraded by it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my partner for 6 years, and in most aspects of our relationship we are a normal happy couple. However, I know he looks at a lot of online pornography. I am quite open to this, and feel quite happy looking with him sometimes and respect his right as another ... (194 words)

Gf told me to go find a 'sex' partner! Does she not love me and is she looking for an easier way out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I live with my gf. going out for 5yrs. No sex for 2yrs since we started living 2gether. have been to therapist. no help. she says it hurts-(physically). im 25 and cant take it anymore. too embarased to admit it to any1. A guy my age should be having sex. Especially if he lives ... (129 words)

I want to be there for my father bc he has cancer, but my mum and son are making life so hard! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I live at home with my elderly parents and my 3 children. My 25yr old son is an alcholic, my 18yr old is well adjusted, but this gets the family down. It will obviously affect my 10yr old daughter. My dad has cancer he hasn't told mum. My mum takes over. I've told my elde... (169 words)

He said he had a bad day and cancelled our plans - now it's been three days and he still hasn't called! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, can anybody offer me some advice please! i started seeing a guy 2 weeks ago and he paid me quite abit of attention for say the first 10 days, taking me out for something to eat at night and a quick drink and things like that. then a couple of days ago he changed and set he ... (229 words)

Should I tell her I like her now or later? I don't want to fall into the "friend" category!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Im an 18 yr old guy. I've been single for about a month and a bit and I'm totally over my ex. At this party, I met an attractive girl who was positive and seemed to be interested in talking. I got her number and sent a few messages but nothing more. A couple weeks late... (155 words)

She cheated on me and left me for a player! I'm still in love with her. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Please help me, i was seeing a girl and we had some really special times together we really made a connection, i fell in love with her. However from word go there was another guy constantly on her case, he's the local desperado, he's actually been infatuated with ... (571 words)

I think I fancy by bf's brother - I dream about him all the time! My bf says it's bc I'm stressed. Then why do I like it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I think i fancy my boyfriends brother. I have been with my boyfreind almost 2 and a half years and up til about 6 months ago i was sure i was in love. Ive been getting dreams for the last few months about my boyfriends brother at least 3 times a week. i thought it was nothing ... (199 words)

Is this legal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I seperated from my Internet lover after 7 years because he told me that he has 2 Korean wives of which he married in Korea then brought them back to uk to live, Is this legal?... (36 words)

My penis is uncooperative when it comes to girls. Are there any excercises I can do to make it stand for a longer time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - hi i am sabbir from bangladesh...i am 22yrs old...my problem is that before i starts to have sex...my penis doesn't stand straight for much long...at some point it says straight for few minutes and sometime it doesn't stays more than a minute...even when i am not with a ... (143 words)

Breaking up with my boyfriend will probably cause me to fail the exams. What shall I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

- I've been really hurt. I had to split up with my first proper boyfriend 2 days ago. We were together for a year and had all our 'firsts' together. During the last month of our relationship, he had started be really rude to me, saying stuff like 'I'm not sure i love you any ... (199 words)

I cheated on her. Should I come clean before we get married?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My fiancé and I have been together for about 13 months. 6 months ago we separated for a few days and I slept with three different woman trying to ease my suffering at the time. one of them was my ex who was always a worry of hers, one random stray from a bar and another was a ... (309 words)

Is there still hope for me after I had sex with him on our first date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - is there still hope for me?.. i made a stupid commen mistake and i had sex on the 1st date and made it easy for him. i really like this guy but i don't know what to do.. most days he will call me and usually it's very rare if he doesn't call like today he didn't.. well an... (94 words)

How do I stand against the pressure of my culture to treat women as objects?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) age 26-29 - Though treating women as sex objects by men is quite common and widely accepted norm in my culture, i frown upon the concept and genuinely like to respect women before making any intimate connections with them. However, there is too much pressure against it. I develop feelings ... (113 words)

My husband doesn't want any physical contact. Can we save this marriage?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 51 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Is there anyway to save this marriage? I have been with my husband for over 4 years. I noticed a real change in his romantic and physical expressions of love after just one year. We used to have a great sex life, kisses and hugs "hello" and "goodbye", and holding eachothe... (215 words)

I want to stop being gay because it is destroying my life!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Alright i need a lot of help here. I want to try to get over my gay tendencies and stop thinking about guys. Being a gay guy has just destroyed my life, it has completely left me empty inside. I can't find friends like me because to tell you the truth all the gay guys i meet ... (468 words)

I get aroused whenever I get involved... how can I stop it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

25 May 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I don't know about most other young teen guys(I'm 16), but every time i get intimately involved with a girl, or just very close to her physically, i get somewhat aroused. What can i do to prevent this from "ruining" the moment? ... (42 words)

people seem to judge me because I'm confident. How do I deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) age 26-29 - I have shaped my personality in to being a person, a part of which people in my family and some members in society have rejected or find it inappropriate for the fear of being criticized, abused, etc. But i am quite confident in the way i am and this becomes a challenge for ... (97 words)

How do I talk dirty to my husband in bed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, me and my husband have been married a year and we've been together for about 3 on and off and he wants me to talk dirty to him during sex but i always try but i always get this feeling of embarrassment when i try to how do i get over that?and what should i do so that i ... (77 words)

He led me to believe he accepted my son..now after 2 years together, he says 'he isn't a family man'..should I end this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

- Tell me what you think? I am female, 51. My son is 15. My bf, 49(not my son's dad)..we all live together. My bf seems to sabotage any quality time I spend with my son. I finally had to say to heck with my bf's petulance and pouty behaviors and did things with my son anyways. ... (423 words)

Should I stay friends with her even though we've broken up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - alright I'm a male and I'm nineteen and shes fifteen we've been together for almost a year we just broke up and were both virgins by the way she says she loves me and i love her but now she says its not the same we don't see each other that much and it really sucks the ... (89 words)

My parents split and I'm having a rough time. What can I do to make my life a bit more cheery?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - so im 13 almost 14 and my parents split. its really hard ya know? my dad looses his temper alot and puts me down alot and my mom is never around. I'm on anti-depressants but they're not really helping. i don't know what to do. without my parents support and with out friends ... (103 words)

I think he's living with someone else. He only calls me during weekends, or when he wants to have sex. How do I let him know I'm not happy with our relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - So ... I am going out with this guy ... he is nice ...few years older than me ... everything was great ... until I found out,he lives with someone. Anyway .. he told me they are breaking up .. and that she is moving out .. so I gave him a chance ... we were going out aga... (234 words)

How can I break up with my married lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - what do i do? I am 25 and I love a married man that is 52, I know this situation is awful, but i love him so much, everytime i yell and fight with him saying its over and i cant do it anymore, within a few hours we are talking again, I know it is wrong and I hate myself, but ... (134 words)

Is it too soon to be planning kids and marriage at the age of 18?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 410 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I just turned 18 and my boyfriend is almost 21. We've been dating for almost 2 years. We keep talking about future plans to get married, have kids etc, and I really want to, but is it too soon to be thinking about those kinds of things?... (47 words)

What can I do to show him that I miss him during the weekdays?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 408 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I met my boyfriend in Uni and we have been dating for a couple of months. The term ended about a month ago and he moved back home for the summer. He lives about an hour and a half away and comes to visit me on the weekends because I don't own a car. So is there any little ... (126 words)

how can i telll if he actually loves me like he said before he came over or if he is just using me to get on his feet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 411 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - my partner has recently shifted from a different country to be with me he has known me for about 9 years. i currently feel like i am being used he had decided in january to come and live with me when he arrived he had next to no money we have just rented a house to which i am ... (120 words)

My crush seems to have taken to my best friend, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 405 days ago

25 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - were can i start? A couple of years ago i got close to this boy and he told me he liked me but i was with someone and he was more like my best friend and didn't think of in that way but i realised bf cheated on me so i ended it. Me and that boy started to get close again but ... (102 words)