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Archived questions from: 12 May, 2007 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My best friend cuts, how can I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (?) age 13-15 - Hi! Well I'm worried about my best m8,recently I've discovered she's an emo.She has cuts all over her wrists nd sum on her arms.I don't know if I can convince her 2 stop doing this 2 herself even if she just dresses like an emo I want her 2 stop cutting herself.She's deadly s... (85 words)

She changed her mind about being with me. What can I do to make her be with me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - the girl i like ive been best friends with for about 2 years and known her for many more, i ask her to be my girlfriend she says yes... but today i recive an email saying she shouldnt of said yes .. i love you but as a friend..ect... what should i do... i belong with her.... (57 words)

Is being chubby the only reason to why people don't like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - we had out skool prom... everione was dancin with their partener... i was stood alone... why dont guys like me... wats to bad about me... jus cos im not skinny... people always look down on me and turn their noses up at me... i am 16.. i have neve had... (134 words)

I'm underage and he cheated on her with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - ok i am in a real sticky situation. there is this 18 year old boy and he has a girlfriend but we have been doing some things lately. But he has come on to me first. im 14. he is a real player and he has cheated on her before. what should i do?... (54 words)

I think I caught an STD from cheating and passed it on to my GF. What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - im 21yrs old and have been in a relationship for over 3yrs. basically got drunk and cheated on my gf, cant remember it happening at all, dont even know what i did. i explained everything and she has been kind enough to take me back. recently i have discovered i may have caught ... (112 words)

I'm 14 and going out with a 22-year old. He thinks I'm 16, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hiya im 14 but im going out with a 22 year old and he thinks im 16 what can i do and i reali like him hes diffrent i no everyone says it but ? help please... (37 words)

How can my boyfriend and I improve our communication?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

- i love my boyfriend i really do but he always complains that i never talk to him when i actually tell him everything from the most trivial details to the big things that are really hard for me to talk about. HE however tells me nothing,for example; he fell out with a very ... (140 words)

Now that I've kissed him, how do I catch his interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I kissed a guy at a party a couple weeks ago and we have talk quite a bit since then but it is just and I am asking what I should do to start something up with him, because I really like him?... (43 words)

It was more than just sex for me. He got back with his ex and now I feel so used. What can I do to feel good again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I feel like completely shit!!! I started seeing a guy who i met through a friend immediately after he just finished with his girlfriend.. we spent the night we met chatting about it and i told him that I know how he feel but in time he'll get over it (his gf cheated on him) ... (308 words)

I thought my boss was interested in me, could it be that he actually cares about his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I like my boss who is single and I am single too. In the first conversation, when I made a statement that he is so busy that he probably doesn't have time to date he said he has a GF but it is long distance relationship (going on for 2 years, and he doesn't see her every ... (240 words)

My boyfriend blames me for EVERYTHING, even stuff that is unrelated to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) age 22-25 - When something does not go right my boyfriend gets angry at me. Just like today, he missed the bus and blamed it on me . He swears words at me like F-Off, or F-u 'n many more even when I haven't done anything wrong. When I am angry, I am just quiet n trying to calm it off while ... (120 words)

My girlfriend wants more make-out sessions than I. Is there something wrong with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. Things are going great still, with just one slight problem that may not seem to be a problem. My girlfriend loves to make out ... all the time. She likes to make out way more than I do. She recently told me that she ... (195 words)

It feels as if we're a couple even though we're just friends. I slept with someone else, should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a limbo-state with a man who lives on the other side of the country. I met him during a business trip last year. Because of our stressful work schedules, we are not able to see each other more than once or twice a year. We are both officially single, but when we talk ... (197 words)

Is it okay for me to go out with a younger guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi im a eighteen year old college student, ive had these feelings for a boy who is 3 years younger than i am, ive tried to stop them but i just cant, the attraction is soo intense, i dont usually go for guys younger than me so i just dont understnd why i feel like this, it ... (85 words)

I'm pregnant. I beat him and his mother kicked me out. Now I'm afraid he will be with someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - MY child's father is the best man I ever had.But everyone else sees different. I lived with him at his mothers for 1yr. and at first he had a very serious cheating problem. Now I'm pregnant and I haven't had that problem.He just likes to hang out alot with friends he grew up ... (314 words)

I asked my best friend if we could date. At first she said yes, but changed her mind! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - what do i do? ive been friends with this girl for many years but only been realy good friends for about 2 years. how else can i say it... she is the love of my life... yesterday i asked her to be my girlfriend.. she said yes.. today i get an email saying she she shouldnt of ... (84 words)

Married with young kids...feeling like I want to be with another man! Should I risk it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hi i,m feeling abit confused and don't know what to do. I'm nearly 23 and have been married for nearly 3 yrs and have two children 4 and 2 1/2. i met my husband when i was 17 and have only been with him since. my problem is that i keep thinking about a couple of my ex's and ... (157 words)

I finally stood up to him! But why do I want to apologize even though what happened was not my fault? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - When my bf and I were together I never used to argue with him because I was scared he would stop loving me. We broke up in October but I still have feelings for him, I'm currently trying to get over him as he moved on almost instantly. The other day we had an argument over... (315 words)

She doesn't like me sucking her nipples because her breasts are sore. Could she be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - When I'm having sex with my girl I love sucking her nipples, but lately she's been saying she doesn't want me to do that to her because I'm acting like a child feeding off of her and she has said that her breasts are sore. Is this normal for a girl. My mate said that girls ... (87 words)

He treats me like a sister...should I risk asking him out even if it things won't be the same, should he say no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

- Ok, so i really really like this guy. We've known each other for around 6-7 years from school but we only started talking 2 months ago. We're both 14 and we're already SO close its unbelievable, i started developing feelings for him in the first week. At first i thought h... (197 words)

He's my ex and we admitted we miss each other..is it worth telling him how i really feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Split with ex 12mths ago. Slept with him twice since. He split with his gf 3wks ago after i told him she'd been calling me. Now we've been to lunch. We speak regularly and we've admitted we miss each other. He admitted he thinks about me a lot. He's just stubborn. He's even ... (82 words)

Why are my female teachers so 'touchy-feely' with me all the time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - what are these the sign of when i encounter these occasionally? i'm 17 and a female. WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT A TEACHER (FEMALE TEACHERS TO FEMALE STUDENTS, LIKE MYSELF) IS FLIRTING WITH YOU AND TENDS TO LIKE YOU? these teachers are both females and are good looking. they pu... (104 words)

He kissed another girl but said he pulled away immediately. Why can I not forget about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I know there are a ton of questions about this, but.. my boyfriend and I had a long distance relationship for 8.5 months at the time, the longest we went without seeing each other was about 3 weeks though. After my birthday, which he came to see me for, he told me that a week ... (199 words)

Why won't he let me go out with friends? I feel like a prisoner!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I would like a little bit of advice about a slight problem that i am facing with my husband. I am 23 and my husband does not want me to go out with my friends or my sister (I go out once every 2-3 months not often at all) he always tells me to be home by a specific time. I ... (126 words)

We were engaged 3 years ago and there's still no sign of us setting the big date to get married yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - We got engaged when we were both 20, now it is 3 years later. We have lived together for a long time, and he says that we agreed marry few years later. Well, it is now 3yrs on going, and no sign of marriage yet. I love him, and treat him as if he was my husband, yet, I think ... (191 words)

How should I handle this? Am I being too insecure here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) - am I being too insecure? Like at restaurants and stuff--my b/f is easily able to talk to people he doesn't know. This doesn't happen all the time but for example the other night we went to eat with his friend and the place was somewhat busy--we were going to get seated and the ... (174 words)

Is there any hope for my boyfriend and I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - me and my boyfriend broke up last night.we had been going out two years.he said he didnt want to be in a relationship with anyone but he loves me.i really love him .is there any hope?... (36 words)

I would love to have children one day but my boyfriend has other ideas!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I met a year ago. We went on a few dates and I realised I had fallen for him, but after a couple of weeks he told me he had decided to move to Italy (from Spain) for 6 months. We stayed in touch, and he came back after less than 2 months and we talked about our ... (163 words)

What is she feeling about our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - What is she feeling about our friendship? I have a problem with a really sweet girl at work. She's been working there for a while and we've known each other in the work place. Earlier this year we started to get on really well. She then offered to join me as my dance p... (791 words)

What drives a person to have a romantic relationship with someone who is married?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (M)

- What drives a person to have a romantic relationship with someone who is married? I pose this big question because I want to raise my daughter so that she is not predisposed to cheapen herself through an affair with someone who is married. On the one hand I desire a bet... (96 words)

What can I do to get him to buy what we REALLY need for our home?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My fiancee and I have been living together in our own place. Money has never been an issue but there are things we lack that we need in our place, and no matter how much I try to talk to him about it he just doesn't get it. Over the few months, we have saved lots on money to... (249 words)

Where can I meet a nice shy, quiet girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

12 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - i seem to be attracted to quiet and shy girls - the thing is, how i do meet them, since they never seem to hang out much in bars etc? where would i be more likely to meet such a girl?... (41 words)

I have a very strong feeling he wants to tell me something. Should I be the one to say something first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a guy that I work with. He seems to be attracted to me. He is very attentive and my co-workers have noticed this, too. He is very shy, and I dont think he wants to risk getting involved in a scandal at the work place, so he never comes right out and says anything. But ... (91 words)

He gives the impression that he isn't bothered about me but his body language gives it away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Ive got a dilemma! I've had a thing for one of my male friends for nearly 2 years. At first he knew about it but had a g/f but they broke up nearly a year ago. Since then we have been flirting and pulling but then he seems to go cold on me for a while afterwards befor... (409 words)

Does anyone know the best way to meet girls.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 May 2007 (M)

- Does anyone know the best way to meet girls. Im now 30 and lets say i have had a fair crack of the whip. I have had a couple of long term relationships, one of which i was engaged, and both ended badly. I consider myself to be a good looking guy, and i do get alot of attention ... (136 words)

I love him a lot and want to be with him forever but I don't know if he feels the same way??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - how do i stop my self!!! well me and my boyfriend have ben going out now for 8 and a half months. we have slept together loads of times. like 3/4/5 times a week every week sorta thing since we were together for 3 months. I love him a lot and want to be with him forever but I do... (351 words)

How can I control my anger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend split up with me due to the fact that he couldn't continue with the stress of work and a relationship. We concluded to be friends. I soon found out that he'd lied to me about a hell of a lot of things and he'd said some stuff about my best friend ( who I w... (221 words)

I am thinking about asking my boyfriend to marry me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 411 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I am thinking about asking my boyfriend to marry me. i know many people will think this is weird. we have only been together for ten months but i do believe i love him and i know he loves me. i am 16 and he is 20. the mythical day for the woman to propose is 29th feb on a leap ... (137 words)

I'm in love and need help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hi i am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 16... i really like him. we have been dating for a year now and i feel like i love him!!! he says he really really loves me. i've met his parents and he's met mine. but we are in a long distance relationship. he's always angry at me ... (97 words)

He looks at porn all the time, I feel as if I'm losing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, on a few occasions I have found out that my husband was looking at teen porn sites or pictures, i asked him about it and he denied it, looking back from before we were married and not living together he had been paying to go a a few sites through his visa car, ... (167 words)

He said he can't make love to me if his heart isn't in it. Where do I go from here???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been living with my partner for 30 years over the past 5 years our sex life has gone downhill. we have tried talking about it but we go round in circles. my libido is higher than his and more sex would be nice but for some time he has not wanted to make love to me and i ... (104 words)

Why do I have dreams such as these?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Why do I have dreams such as these? sometimes i do think about my female teachers. both are pretty and good looking as well as young: 27-30 years old, i'm 17 and a female. yet i have dreams about them sometimes. i have no intentions of having dreams about them, but they j... (81 words)

If a guy takes a long time to ask you out, does he have doubts about you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - If a guy takes long to ask u out,does he have doubts about u? All he does is stare at my hair, earrings, lips then back into my eyes, when he's close by he will look deep into my eyes.. Its been going on for months and i doubt he knows that i like him, or is it because i'm ... (81 words)

Are these warning signs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Are these warning signs? After two years of being a couple, my boyfriend still doesn't remember my birthday; doesn't notice if I get my hair done (and I'm talking blonde highlights on otherwise dark brown hair) I've had my hair cut, highlighted, and straightened and he's never ... (269 words)

He started to do stuff to me like touching my breasts and my legs

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - This probably has nothing to do with sex or relationships, but I need to ask someone. My biological father is an alcoholic. I don't live with him, but I have to go out and see him sometimes. The last time I went to his place he was drinking and he told me it was okay. that nig... (151 words)

Am I being jealous, or is he abusive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) - Am I being jealous, or is he abusive? I just broke up with my finace last night. Three nights ago I went out with my friends and was discussing how I didn't know if I loved him anymore. He was out with his friends somewhere else, and before we parted he said he might stop by. ... (364 words)

What types of things can you tell a guy to do while he is masturbating???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - What types of things can you tell a guy to do while he is masturbating. What would guys enjoy doing and girls enjoy seeing?... (24 words)

My new girlfriend of 2 months as not been on her periods for a month

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (M)

- My new girlfriend of 2 months as not been on her periods for a month. she went to the NHS walk in centre to do a test on a tuesday they told her to come bak friday she went bak friday they told her " the test says no but u still maybe pregnant so come bak next week " ... (505 words)

I was never the only female (yes sexual) friend in his life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with a guy for 4 yrs. During this friendship I was never the only female (yes sexual) friend in his life. Although i accepted it i never liked it and i have never told him this - i have put up with it i guess because no one that i have really liked has ... (247 words)

I got a phone call off my son's high school yesterday and the content was worrying

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a mother of two: my youngest son's 16, my oldest's 23. I got a phone call off my son's high school yesterday and the content was worrying. The teacher told me that my 16-year-old son has been suspended from school over allegations he raped someone, but he claims t... (103 words)

What do I do here... stick with my boyfriend or give this other guy a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi there! Hopefully you guys can help me. My question is: What do I do? My problem: I have a boyfriend whom I like a lot, possily even really love. He and I have been going out for a year and a few months, much longer than any of my other friends. Unfortunately, I think ... (178 words)

I'm 14 and this 17 year old guy has been all over me lately I really like him but I know all that he wants is sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

12 May 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - I'm 14 and this 17 year old guy has been all over me lately I really like him but I know all that he wants is sex. What should I do?... (32 words)