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Archived questions from: 27 May, 2007 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I worry in case I can't get and erection and it's ruining my social life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

27 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hi, this might sound like a weird post but i was just wondering if anyone knows where im coming from or could offer me some good advice. its a little embarrassing and i dont know quite how to put it with it making sense but i'll try. o.k. this is my problem. when i was 1... (531 words)

My friend is getting too flirty with my girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - okay i had had a problem with a friend that i felt was too flirty with my girl. my girl said she told her to stop and that she would.now n the past i had really really insecurities... my girl helped me to grow out of them. but now after this problem with my friend my girl kept ... (261 words)

Has he got this sort of body language wrong and the bloke is just being friendly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I asked my husband the other day that if a woman he knew winked at him what would he think and he said 'I would think she wants to know me more, she fancies me'. I asked him what he thought if a bloke winked at me and he said 'I would worry'. He said that if a male friend ... (153 words)

I'm 14 and pregnant but don't know if I want this baby... I'm not ready to have kids yet.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, so im 6 month pregnant and getting a ban on my ex for abusing me, i feel real bad as if IM in the wrong for him abusing me? but as many people said he was putting my baby in danger, im thinking about letting him come to the next scan with me is it a good idea? does he ... (215 words)

Why do I never feel like having sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and things are great but i never feel like having sex... other sexual acts are ok... but wen it comes to sex i never really feel like it. its not that hes bad in bed coz he's really good but i just never really feel like it. any advice ... (61 words)

I can't just stop liking him. He's so perfect... one in a million. What do you think I should do?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

- Ummm well my sister has this friend Ray. And I really like him. Majorly. Everything he does is completely awesome. But he is probably the least liked guy at my school, simply because of the way he dresses. He doesn't really care about that and neither do I, but I'm worried he ... (252 words)

Is it wrong at the age of 22 to have the desire to have a baby and get married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

27 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Is it wrong at the age of 22 to have the desire to have a baby and get married? I'm not with anyone at the moment, and I know that I need to get a better job and a house, but the feeling has been overwhelming me lately, and I don't know if I'm wrong for it. Thanks, DV1... (61 words)

Why did he kiss me for so long when I know he doesn't like me in that way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - Recently I had a passionate kiss with my best friend that lasted hours. My friend kept pulling him away because she was drunk and stuff, but he kept coming back to me. But I know he doesn't like me in that way...so why would he kiss me for so long? Please help, x... (54 words)

My girlfriends are so bitchy to me because I have always liked football!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Sorry for the length! I'm a girl and I love football and I've always been into it since I was little. Obviously this always made me popular with the guys and I've got loads of mates who are guys, who I really get on well with. I've had no problems with this up until recently. ... (292 words)

He's gay but is giving me all the signs that he fancies me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I work closely with a man who is gay but recently he has been flirting with me so much that i dont know whether im coming or going. He stares into my eyes for longer than normal, looks at my mouth when i speak and just says and does things body language wise that say 'i fancy ... (66 words)

I would really appreciate some advice on how to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hello all, I would really appreciate some advice on how to move on! dont get me wrong i've had break-ups before but this time i'm finding it difficult. i'll try to keep this brief... i'm almost 50 i've been married twice, the first lasted 15 years, +(8 yrs together prior t... (454 words)

He's just stopped emailing me out of the blue, no reason, nothing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, need some sound advice. I have recently got out of a 12 year relationship and it was a good decision i feel like a big weight has been lifted off of my shoulders and enjoy being on my own i have never had the oppertunity to actually experience life as an individual on my... (371 words)

Why do I feel attracted to other guys when I have a wonderful boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am currently at Uni. I have a wonderful boyfriend who i love but sometimes i get attracted to other guys and wonder what it would be like with them. It makes me feel awful and my boyfriend has picked up on it. Any advice is welcome. ... (47 words)

Do we have a chance at getting back together? I really thought he was the love of my life and I don't want to let go.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I can send you the whole story if it will help to give better advice. This past week my bf of 2 1/2 years broke up w/ me. He said he was bored although I had no indication anything was wrong. I was never given any info about how he was feeling and so it was a huge shock to ... (188 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him but I would NEVER do that! I'm at the end of my tether with this, what can I do to prove I'm not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a 24 year old girl who is having trouble with my on off boyfriend i love him loads but he keeps breaking up with me because he thinks i am cheating on him i have never cheated and never would but he just doesnt believe a word i say, how can i get him to realise i am ... (121 words)

I have a boyfriend but just lately I've been having lesbian tendancies... I'm so confused.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Im straight and have a boyfriend but lately i have beeen thinking about being a lesbian i look at pictures of naked women and feel the need to masturbate. after i have masturbated i feel dirty but i still like boys :S im confused please help tara xo... (49 words)

I recently had an affair but now he's dumped me and I don't know how to deal with it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently had an affair. It was very intense and I thought we both loved each other deeply. I was preparing to leave my partner for him and them abruptly he finished it, claiming he couldn't destroy my family. He wanted to remain friends although I was deeply hurt and still ... (166 words)

What are the signs of falling out of love with someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - HI i am in a bit of a dilema. My husband and i have been married for 2 yrs and 3mths, but we've known each other for 4yrs. I am not happy any more. My husband and I want different things in life! I am 23 and he is 32 he wants kids, and i dont (not quite ready) he wants to save ... (282 words)

What tips can you give me about making sex better for my boyfriend and I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Please help. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six months and we have started to try and have sex. I can make him come by blow jobs but so far he has only given me handjobs. These used to be very intense for me but recently I just haven't got turned on. And so if we try ... (115 words)

Does taking the pill at different times depending on when I wake up, affect it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

- I take the pill and my boyfriend and I have used the condoms and the pill. but now we want to just use the pill. my boyfriend lives in another country where the time difference is only on hour ahead. and i take my pill in the morning. normally as soon as I wake up. anyw... (120 words)

I'm in love with an unhappy married man!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with an unhappy married man and he wants to leave his wife but she is controlling his every mood. what should i do to help him get out of that and be with me were he want to be?... (42 words)

Why am I always so nervous when it comes to pleasing my guy sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - dear cupid, I am going out with this guy and things have become serious and i think he wants to have sex. he knows i want to wait and he respects that but he does want me to pleasure him in other ways. i want to but i get so nervous when it comes to it and i dont want to sca... (106 words)

My girlfriend is trying to steal my bloke! I don't want to fall out with her so what do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

- Hi! I really need some help with this, so I'm going to do my best to keep everything straight so you don't get confused...lol Ok, so I have this best friend, we've been friends since preschool, and we're both now 27. I'll just call her J. Ok, so I've met his great guy onl... (544 words)

How do I tell my husband I KNOW he's been cheating on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have just found out my husband is cheating on me. I have computer eveidence so I am sure. I hurt so much. How do i tell him i know the truth?... (35 words)

Why can't my girlfriend get pregnant? Is it me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

27 May 2007 (M)

- hey all i've been with my girlfriend now 11 weeks on tuesday (29 May) nearly 3 months and for the past 2 months or so we've been haveing sex without comdoms and i've not made her pregnant at all. shes not on the pill could there be something wrong? i know sometime... (547 words)

Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?... (11 words)

My is my ex boyfriend constantly keeping in touch with me after our breakup a year ago?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - What do you think an ex boyfriend wants when he stays in contact with you for over a year since you broke up (his choice) say once a month just saying hi. Then in the last month he has been texting nearly every day and apologising again for his behaviour and saying things like ... (132 words)

I've realised my girlfriend is very spoilt and has gotten worse in the last few months.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (M) - I've realised my girlfriend is very spoilt and has gotten worse in the last few months. She takes her mum for granted a lot and she constantly asks her to buy her presents. She asks me what I have gotten her for her birthdays and christmas before the occasion and tel... (150 words)

I think I'm in love with her......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hi i met a girl on msn, she lives about an hour away on train, ive met her loads now and i think ive fallen in love, problem is that i dont see her that often and the longer it goes on the more painful it is not seeing her, what should i do?... (54 words)

My mother caught me masturbating and now I feel soooooo ashamed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - am i normal? im extremely curious and i heard some girls in my class talking about masturbating so i decided to try it, i was in the shower one day and out of curiosity i layed on my back and let the water drip onto my 'area' and i pulled back the skin and moved up and down and... (97 words)

Will going on my laptop all the time affect my eyesight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

- hi im 14 and on my laptop all the time if im not going out ill be on it all the time im awake. Im quite worried about what will happen to my eyesite its perfectly fine at the moment but what will it do to me and how long have i got till it starts going blurry. The screens not ... (106 words)

I'm 22 and I have always found it hard to be friends with guys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I just wondered if you guys could help. I'm 22 and I have always found it hard to be friends with guys. If I get to know a guy then I can't be just mates with him, I'm always looking for it to be something more and if they don't find me attractive I feel like I'm doing ... (197 words)

My boyfriend wants to wear my bikini's all the time but assures me he's not gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23. He wears my bikinis all the time, and even says he wants to wear them in public. He also insists he's not gay, or a cross-dresser, and that wearing bikinis is right - and that men should do it. What should I do?? HELP!! suzy in florida... (63 words)

I feel like no guy can ever win with me and I am so confused because of it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like no guy can ever win with me and I am so confused because of it. My ex said for ages that he didn't feel like having sex and although I accepted it because he had been in a long term relationship that he was struggling to deal with and we wanted to take it slow, I ... (404 words)

My cousin wants to come over to visit me but I'm gay and am very attracted to him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

27 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Am a gay guy.(male) I travelled abroad about 4 months ago and met my cousin who I have not seen for 15 years. I was very attracted 2 him. My cousin is straight. Anyway am back in London now. We are very close and he knows about my sexauality. He wants 2 come visit me in Lond... (137 words)

I saw my girlfriend and another female in a VERY intimate position!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (M)

- i went round to my girlfriends, friends house (she is a girl as well) last night as she left her phone in my apartment. however as i went to knock on the window i saw the 2 of them in a very, very intimate position. they also were half naked. i feel angry and embarras... (103 words)

How do you go from dating someone to actually being in a relationship with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (M)

- how do you go from dating someone to being in a relationship with them? i know that sounds stupid but i honestly don`t know. do you say after a couple of dates "so should we start a relationship together" or what?... (41 words)

My ex girlfriend of one week has just asked me over to her house for "some fun"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey, I've posted a couple of times now, you might recognize part of the story. Basically my gf dumped me last weekend, and in favor of some guy online. Shes meeting him this friday. But the friday thats just been, she started emailing me about coming over saturday for som... (226 words)

I had no choice but to file a restraining order against my daughter's father.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) age 26-29 - I had no choice but to file a restraining order against my daughter's father. He's so unpredictable as well as his actions. I am tired of his threats, verbal abuse, etc. He just showed up at my place of employment harassing me about our daughter's medical bills he refuse to ... (365 words)

Any ideas on what I could buy my boyfriend for his birthday next month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My bf's birthday is really soon but I have no clue what to get him. Ive never gotten a gift for a boy so some things would help....he likes magic but many people give him stuff and I dont want to follow what everyone else gives him. please help his birthday is June 14 so soon ... (61 words)

I am seriously considering breaking my engagement with my fiance

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 413 days ago

27 May 2007 (?) - I am seriously considering breaking my engagement with my fiance. For those of you interested there are a few background posts on the OW thread. But the issue right now is that I am fed up with overlooking everything he does. I'm tired of pretending that I agree with every... (946 words)

Tip needed..on how to cope with razor burn!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I like to maintain my pubic hairs, but when I shave I always get razor burn. Any suggestions?... (19 words)

My boyfriend is forcing me to have sex with him and it's scaring me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 19 year old and I have a current partner who's 36. I really like him although he's kinda pushy a little bit sexually. I told him I wasn't realy ready to have sex with him, that I could do oral and other stuff instead but yesterday he really scared me. After we had like oral... (142 words)

Should girls ask guys out on a date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Is it all right for a girl to ask a guy out, or is it only supposed to be the guys who do the asking?... (25 words)

How do I hint to my ex's dad that I'm not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am abit worried my ex's Dad fancies me and I am not sure what to do. My ex and I split nearly 6 months ago and contact with him has petered out; my ex wanted to stay in contact but I didn't since I don't think he treated me at all well. Anyway, his Dad and I share a mutual ... (265 words)

My friend has just got married but says she can't ever imagine having sex with her husband.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi there i need some advice its not for me its for a friend of mine. see she just recently got married and she says that she loves this guy but she just cant bring herself to have sex with him they've never had sex. she said she thinks its cause she knows that he was with our ... (170 words)

I feel used! Had sex with me but wants to date other females! what's wrong with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 425 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i have slept with one of my mates from uni four times and have fallen for him. i thought he liked me because all the signs were there but he kissed someone infront of me the other night and keeps saying things like "i could shag her" (about other girls) in front of me. its ... (90 words)

My dad and uncle have raped me! I'd be better off dead..........

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

27 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - im in a despreate postion my uncle and dad are not good people they rape and beat me they are drunk all day long please dont laugh this is my last hope to talk to anyone im 15 now and was 12 the first time i slept in the woods alone so i didnt get raped when i got home i... (144 words)