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anonymous
writes:Would you be with someone who said he'll never marry you or refuses to take a holiday with you and your kids? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): Well,just to say thank you to lillibet. As the other half of this argument, you are most neutral and your advice is welcome. Why stay with a man who makes you unhappy? I have asked her this question again and again. no one has forced her to stay with me and she`s the one who comes back. I have no intention of making her unhappy,therefore there wont be any need for complaints and ungratefulness.Hopefully her next encounter will go on holiday with her and the kids,and maybe she should realize the hurt she`s caused others too and accept the world doesnt revolve around her. I`m quite baffled as her ex`s couldnt have,for obvious reasons,go on holiday with her and the kids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): For the sake of everyone around you try and be calm. Gilly,and male anon,just accept its time to call it a day. Gilly39 by her own admission is a little bit sexually immoral,and male anon makes you unhappy. Understandably,he wont marry you and seems to have good reasons. He has not mislead you so just call it quits.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): just like to say thanx for your replys and im not out to hurt nobody and nobody knows exept for me and my x the damage he has done to my family and all for what,because i fell in love,love is blind.
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reader, honesty +, writes (8 May 2007):
well if the relationship is going somewhere then stay with him and if he refuses to take your kids on holiday maybe its because hes not there father thats why he wont but if he loves you he would take you and your kids
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reader, amber sydney  +, writes (8 May 2007):
Gilly 39, you seem very proud of yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): I`m the one whos arguing with gilly39. Firstly,anything good i did was always paid back abusively on the same day. I bought her flowers she turned on me. No matter what i did she turned on me. Constantly jealous. Even when things went wrong for me she had to turn it around to herself. My ex wife is no uglier than she,shes never been to prison like she has,she didnt run me to the ground with her constant demands,never got jealous over me spending time with kids or family. I would take my ex wife back tomorrow than live the horrible life she gave me. She is proud of her wrong doings and brags daily,constantly believing she is impressing people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): I think gilly39 needs a taste of her own medicine.I hope what she does turns back on her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): I can say i`m a married man and even i feel disgusted by this woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): I hope my hubs has better judgement if he runs into you. No wonder he wont marry you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): i am the person whom the anon male is talking about,firstly i did not send pictures to guys half my age,i flirted and teased needed a bit of fun,he aint got fotos to support the allegation,when i went to these sites we was over he dumped me.im not registered at swingers sites,we are registered im not that keen but he is,even txt me 2 weeks ago to ask to really concider swapping,kept mssg and yes i have and will continue to sleep with married men,as this guy is no diffrent,shows no affection,dont buy me flowers never written me a love letter,made me a meal twice in 3yrs,never offers his help,made my bed once in 3 years,never txt me when he`s at home and constantly 1-3 hours late and dumps me if i complain,this is a guy whom married an ugly woman so his kid could get an english passport and he only sleeps with women after dark and in the dark.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): I am the person in question here. As normal,a group of morons are sticking their noses in a half told tale.I have learned through experience and decided i will never marry a woman who sets on me,and accuses me of everything she has done,every time she has been caught out. She has been caught several times,and still continues. She has sent photos of her bits to several men who are half her age (she`s 42).She has several profiles on swingers and flirt sites. She takes back anything she gives.She has been given chance after chance.We have been away together and she even had to spoil that.She has sexed so many married men that she is now insecure that someones going to do the same to her.She is controling,violent and stops at nothing. I`m not stewing in her shit no longer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): there is a good chance that this guy is cheating on you,has he given you any real reason why he wont commit himself?usually in this situation there is always another female lurking somewhere(past experience)you may as well get rid of him as he wont ever change,find someone who wants you and your children,not a loser as you now know
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reader, penta  +, writes (7 May 2007):
 Depends on what you want in the long run, but I have to say I wouldn't want to. Sounds to me like he just wants friendship "with benefits." Run.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): It could be theres some history that youre not revealing. You know the background to this and no one else. If you are mentally cruel,violent,controlling or whatever then thats why. If not then why carry on?
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (7 May 2007):
 I think you know the answer to this. No. What kind of relationship is he hoping to have with you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007): It all depends what you are looking for, sounds as though this guy doesn't want a commitment with you and just wants to keep things casual.
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