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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My boyfriend told me today that he does not want to see me any more after a 5 year relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend told me today that he does not want to see me any more after a 5 year relationship. we've been experiencing problems recently but he does have really bad mood swings...i dont know what to do. i do love him and i know his hurting now. im not sure if i should move on ... (77 words)

I'm a 19 year old male and I've never had sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

13 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm a 19 year old male and I've never had sex. i've went to do it twice now but both times i had troubles finding places and am very embarrassed about it. i don't know if it is because i have a lanky shape or if it's just nerves but i'm scared to try it again because no ... (99 words)

okay well a friend of mine has been obsessed with this guy for nearly two years now, and i know he doesnt like her like that

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

- okay well a friend of mine has been obsessed with this guy for nearly two years now, and i know he doesnt like her like that (because i am also a friend of his) the last few weeks ive really fallen for him, and i told him how i felt last night and i was on webcam to him and he ... (137 words)

My girlfriend told me she hadn't done anything "naughty" but I just found out today she has!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - hi.. right .. my GF told me that she hadnt dun anything 'naughty' lol... with another boy and it made me happy .. but i just found out today that she has .. not sex just other stuff and i was just wondering what you would do.. i know she didnt do anything wrong and ive sed i ... (77 words)

I don't know if he's just being friendly or he really does like me! Can you guys help me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Dear Cupid, There's this boy friend I've had since we met in Junior High School, me in 7th grade, he in 8th grade. But now he's in high school,and I have a crush on him. The only problem is, I think he may also have a crush on me too, because sometimes when I talk to... (152 words)

We've been married for 6 years now we have a good relationship but my husband never seems to want to kiss anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - We've been married for 6 years now we have a good relationship but my husband never seems to want to kiss anymore... is this normal in relationships as the years go on.... (32 words)

The reason he doesn't want to sleep with me yet is because he wants to live with me first!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I am ready to have sex with my boyfriend. I have bin with him almost a year now and feel really ready. we have discussed it and was planning to do it at one point then he said that he'd changed his mind. then he bacame all distant and we had a big fight because he stopped ... (164 words)

How do I get over someone I am in love with when I know that he obviously doesn't feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - How do I get over someone I am in love with when I know that he obviously doesn't feel the same. We have a kid together but we have been broken up since before he was born. I've been in lo with him for all of my adult life (9 yrs.). I'm tired of hurting and I deserve to be ... (72 words)

What's the best way to dress to attract men that genuinely like you

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 311 days ago

13 May 2007 (F) - What's the best way to dress to attract men that genuinely like you - and aren't just after you for 'one thing'? I had 'advice' from a girl a while ago about clothes to wear to attract a guy but I thought they were a bit trashy/slutty and I wouldn't have felt comfortable in t... (157 words)

My marriage is in tatters!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My marriage is in tatters - i always moan about money and in particular what he spends, when he spends it and on who or what. I am hugely jealous of his time, how he spends it, who he spends it with and what he does - we have been together 10 years, and married for just over ... (100 words)

I told my boyfriend I got the morning after pill but I didn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - dear cupid................................... i think i mite b pregant coz 14nyts ago my boy friend and i whos 2 years older then had protected sex but half way through we both heard the comdom split. I told my boyfriend I got the morning after pill but I didn't coz i was 2 sc... (73 words)

I think I love this woman but I'm not sure if she likes me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Im 17 shes 24 I think I love this woman but I'm not sure if she likes me. Its hard to tell since shes flirty. We make Eye contact, she smiles at me. She's real interested in my goals in life too. We have lots in common both real big music fans. help me please... (60 words)

We were together a long time and I am still grieving the loss of the relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

- I hope someone can help me here...a lot of good advice on this site. My boyfriend basically dumped me about a month ago..it was awful at first but it really is getting better. I have not seen him or spoken to him in that month but I will see him tomorrow as I am giving a ... (158 words)

I wrote a few hours ago about my partner wanting me out of our house to live with my mum.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote a few hours ago about my partner wanting me out of our house to live with my mum. He is now threatening to treat my daughter (from previous marriage)who lives with us -horribly. He is saying he can't stand me and needs me to go. He has promised me a lump sum ... (165 words)

What do you think she is getting at, is she bi sexual or is this just a fantasy for her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend of 9 months is lateley being really weird towards me and just in general. We've always had good sex, but now she has gotten well into the show called The L word, which is mostly about lesbians getting off with each other. I've watched it a few times with my mates ... (229 words)

Can fancying someone or being in love affect or damage your body in any way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Can fancying someone or being in love affect or damage your body in any way? I'm asking this as whenever i'm in love with someone or just fancy them i get butterflies in my stomach. Can that affect you? And the beating of the heart can also be so fast that it's painful.... (53 words)

How can I get my ex to understand that his son doesn't want to see him???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex-boyfriend has been harassing me, accusing me of not letting him see our young son. I broke up with him because he was always drunk and had poor hygiene. However, my son does not want to see him, and says "Daddy is a bad man!" "Bad daddy!" and gets frightened if he... (125 words)

I am in love with a friend I know has a girlfriend and we have fooled around a few times to the point of almost going too far.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a friend I know has a girlfriend and we have fooled around a few times to the point of almost going too far. I also have a boyfriend but have not been happy in the relationship for a while. Im confused because i know this guy likes me and i can't get him out ... (90 words)

Does anyone know how I can convince him that this is not a good idea?? What problems can result from penis enlargement??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - For a few weeks now, my husband has been going on about how he wants penis enlargement and he claims that it will make our sex life hotter. It's all because of an email he received about it, and he believed it. I've tried telling him that penis size is unimportant (to ... (167 words)

Sex doesn't feel like I think it's supposed to feel. I like it, but mostly because I love feeling close to him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I lost my virginity to my boyfriend (who I am very much in love with) about 2 months ago. I obviously didn't know what to expect, but I know that something is lacking. Sex doesn't feel like I think it's supposed to feel. I like it, but mostly because I love feeling close to ... (169 words)

I have an anxiety disorder which means i can't stop worrying about what people think

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ok so i am in love with this amazing guy, as cheesy as it sounds, i feel as though he is the other part of me. he is so understanding. i met him because my mum started going out with his dad and then we met, we are both adults and told each other we had feelings for each other ... (150 words)

Is it unfair of me to want him to get rid of pictures of his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost five months and are very committed to one another. We are even planning to move in together this summer. Everything is great between us but one thing keeps bothering me. He was with his last girlfriend for 2 years and they had a ... (192 words)

its either break up and never get back together or work it out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ive been hurt a lot in the past and once i was single i told my self i wasnt going to settle for less because i was sooo tired of being taken for granted. So 2 to 3 months later i found this really nice guy. A lot of my friends knew him and said that he's a really good guy. ... (378 words)

I lack confidence and I am so paranoid in public that I feel sick. How do I overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I lack confidence , i cannot be myself around my boyfriend or anyone else, i struggle to talk to people , he knows the situation and tries to help, so many people say they fancy me but i can't see what they see in me , i am so paranoid in public and make myself feel sick. ... (75 words)

My friend is 14 and has slept with guys aged 13 to 30... how can I get her to stop!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - im realli worried about my friend!!! she is 14 and she has slept with loads and loads of guys, all ages too. she is sleeping around ti make her self popular and i cant get it through to her that thats all they r after, she thinks havin sex with loads of boys will make them all... (167 words)

How do I make my gal pal realize...I am the right guy for her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - what do i do now? theres this, ive been best friends with her for a while and known for years. i asked her out the other night and the day after said she shouldnt of said yes, and she loves me to peices but as a very very best friend. what realy upset me is that she didnt e... (268 words)

I am not cool with my bf having a stag with strippers! Am I strange for thinking this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - just wondering, when you get married to a lad and they go for a stag do, do they have to go to a stripper, cos when i get engaged i really aint cool wiv my boyfriend seein a stripper? i mean if his mates prepared it id like him to say no and go somewhere else, id b alrite if ... (102 words)

He's younger than me and my friends say I shouldn't date a schoolboy! Should I listen to them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 379 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi There. I'm in urgent need of help. Im 21 and I'm seeing a 16 year old. He acts much older and is such a nice guy. I really love him and want this to last. We made love and it felt amazing. I though I might be pregnant and he told me he'd stand by me no matter what, but i... (135 words)

My bf acts very differently with me whenever his brother is around. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi, well i have a boyfriend who i love loads i have been with him for 2years now he is 16 when we are alone he is really nice to me but he has a brother who works away and when he comes home he acts really different and doesnt do anything sexual even tho his brothers room is ... (80 words)

Am I in a hurry to pursue a relationship or is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I recently met a man on a dating site, he said that he would love to talk to me if I am interested then I said yes I am. We hit it off from there. I have been on the site for 4 months, he for one year and I was going over other sites, I found out that he is a member o... (194 words)

My boyfriend's ex hasn't been sending their son to school. Bf refuses to deal with it. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i need some advice on an ongoing problem with my partner and his child from previous relationship.ive just sorted one crisis out{he was spending far too much time round his ex,s with the 14yr old being the excuse}this took 3yrs and basically drained me.now theres a ton of ... (243 words)

I slept with him and then he didn't want to have any more contact with me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - well theres this boy right...and i met him a few weeks ago and i think iv fallen in love with him? I'm 15 and hes 17 the past week we have became really close and hev kept coming down 2 see me etc..i slept with him the other day and since then he havnt been down he aint ... (99 words)

He wants me out of the house but half of it is mine!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Today my partner has just got back from another weekend away to get away from me. He wants me to move to my mams as things are bad and he doesn't want to be around me. The house is in both our names and i keep refusing to go until he gives me my share, but things are getti... (284 words)

should I feel insecure because my husband is watching porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 404 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I caught my husband jacking off to internet porn. This makes my so insecure about us. Should it?... (20 words)

Should I try to get together with him? I'm scared of getting hurt.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hiya my name is Ruby and I am 22. I've been single for just over a year and a half now and i think i may of fell in love (which sounds fantastic but it's a bit more difficult that that!) I met the most amazing guy last July as soon as I saw him I just thought wow he's hot! So ... (361 words)

how do i get over my best friends boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - how do i get over my best friends boyfriend? this guy is amazing, he has told me he has though about us but he loves my best friend too much, he doesn't know i like him but I'm sure he suspects it. my parents want me to go out with him but considering they don't l... (105 words)

Did my boyfriend give me an STD?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

- I have had lumps come recently around my vagina. sores really. which seem to have a yellow hole in the middle and are very sore and stay around a week. They usually come after me and my bf have sex. WE always use a condom. am i alergic to condoms or is it an STD? I have ne... (119 words)

How do I work up my confidence to do more than just kiss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I've had lots of boyfriends but i'm always to scared to do anything with them, i'm in a relationship now and i want to do more with him but i'm scared what he will think, i don't have the confidence to do anything else than kissing and none of my friends seem to understand ... (57 words)

He never knew I liked him and now he has a gf! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - i really like this boy. but he has a new girlfriend. i am real good friends with his best friend. his friend told me that he liked me but he never knew how i felt about him. thats why he never did anythinng about it. what should i do.... (50 words)

I love him but he keeps letting his gf make a fool out of him. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F) - I have two friends, I'll call them Jack and Sarah. We're best friends and its always just been us three since we started high school. This year they started dating in January. Jack was completely in love with Sarah but Sarah never really liked him. Sarah was really horrible ... (168 words)

I like my friend's ex, but she is still in love with him. Should I forget about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I like this girl but she recently broke up with a mate of mine, but she still likes him. Last night i told her that i like her but she said that we could only be friends because of the situation she is in. should i just forget about her and what i said and try to move on ?... (61 words)

I want my friend to accept my new style, but she calls me name. What can I tell her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 416 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm starting to turn into an emo. I have dyed my hair black and I really feel like one but My best mate that I have known for 8 years doesn't like them and she doesn't like what Ive become and I hang around with all the goths and emos now and She doesnt like them and I cant ... (101 words)

One day I feel for her , the next day, I don't! Help me to understand what I am really feeling here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - dudes, can you help? A while ago i became close to a girl, and asked her out. she wasn't sure, and we drifted apart, and maybe things are a little awkward between us now. now, i have very mixed feelings over what to do. somedays i really feel for her and feel i should a... (112 words)

I love my 40 year old teacher but he doesn't know it! How do I forget him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm eighteen years old. I also love "my" teacher...He's fourty one years old..This sick feeling least already for two jears...This is obsession...I can't live without him(so how prodigy I'm still hee???????) I can't stop loving him...I never thought somebody so serious like ... (158 words)

He spends too much money and I think he's gay. What can I say to make him listen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 21, my b/f's 27. I was told that my boyfriend spent £4,000 on going to see a male stripper called "Rogue"... and on going to see male strippers in general! I confronted him about it - but he said I should "take a chill pill" - and said "don't be so f***ing silly, girl... (128 words)

why am I always jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hi! i have a serious relationship and I'm always jealous. i think I've been jealous for almost all the girls we know. please help. sometimes it is because i see in his actions towards other girls that he's sweet and i get jealous. am i wrong or I'm feeling it because it is ... (66 words)

The cousin forced us to break up, what can I do to get back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 416 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - my name is fiataua. Well my boyfriend and i have a wonderful relationship but something is still bothering me with is that the cousin doesn't want me to go out with my boyfriend,and he gets mad to me and he said that he doesn't want a curl anymore what can i do just broke up ... (65 words)

Why do young women disgrace themselves so badly in public?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dont think me a prude, I am far from it. But at 42 I cannot believe the way young girls carry on when out at night these days. Last night in a pub, I saw a girl of about 18 pull her dress up over her head and show a group of boys her bum complete with disgusting dirty g string ... (114 words)

Is my super-low self esteem preventing guys from being interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend, and I don't know why. I'm intelligent and even went to and placed in state track this year(as a freshman). Unfortunately, my self-esteem is practically non-existant. Could this be preventing me from having a boyfriend? I know that I ... (54 words)

I like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. Can we have a relationship anyway?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 415 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My best guy friend(for about 9 years) has been paying a lot of attention to me this school year. He always gives me high fives and occasionally pokes and hugs me, and we always talk to each other. My friends say that we would look good together. I kind of like him, but I don't ... (64 words)

how can I make myself last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm 19 boy, i have to thank you'll for the last reply u'll sent, i cant have sex with my girlfriend for a long time, coz my things(u know what i mean) go out quickly (sperms), how can i avoid that? Is there any way out without taking any medicine. If cant send me the pills ... (58 words)

How do I french kiss him if I'm wearing braces?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 40 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - How do u french kiss? please tell me... my boyfriend said he wud try to french kiss me on the last day of school and the last day of school is about a week away and i got braces also i haven't french kissed anyone in a long while!!... (51 words)

My wife has some interest in other women, would it be a good idea to have a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - k so heres the thing....my wife has in the past had mild interest in other women. one time she even kissed one of our friends. i guess what im getting at is that i would like to try adding another woman to our sex life once in a while, just wondering if anyone would have some ... (59 words)

I was raped, got pregnant and I CANNOT let my family know about this. Please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 417 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hope someone can help me or offer some advice! I know its terrible that I'm having to ask this here... but I really dont know where else to turn now. I'm 19 and living in the UK. I was raped at university several months ago by someone I hardly knew. I found it so hurtful an... (237 words)

How can I tell my boyfriend I don't want to have anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend has started suggesting anal sex and while I happily enjoy a little anal stimulation, I don't want him fully penetrating me with his penis; I have a terribly low pain threshold. I don't feel I can say no however as he often lets me use a strap-on on him; how can my ... (74 words)

Why can't I find a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - can anyone tell me what is wrong with me? i've been in search for a boyfriend for 2 years and i can find him!! i do have a couple of options but i don't know how to get them. i get so jealous when i see my friends cuddling and kissing their boyfriends. I NEED A BO... (94 words)

How do I get him to trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - new guy finding it hard to trust me. I've met this new guy he's great i like him a lot but people have been telling him bad things about me and he is having a hard time trusting me how do I get him to start trusting me?... (50 words)

Should I tell mr Amazing how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

13 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Dear Cupid, For about two months now, I've been crushing on this really amazing guy. His name is Ethan, and he lives in the next town over from mine. He's seventeen, and like I said, he's amazing. Do you remember how, when you were a little girl, you would always fantasize... (210 words)

Do I approache him or not? His kid complicates matters a bit.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

13 May 2007 (F) - Okay here's the deal. I'm 18 soon to be 19. my last relationship lasted about 2yrs. and it's been forever since I've had the chance to meet anyone. I just started a new job a few months ago and I have been developing a thing for a co-worker who is 23yrs., but he has a two... (186 words)