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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I'm wondering if I should go to the prom with my ex bf..should or shouldn't I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey, im 17 and my exboyfriend asked me how you tell someone you no longer want to go to prom with them. he then told me he wanted to ask me instead. we broke up several months ago. im not sure if hes asking me as his last resort but he is very attractive and any girl would kill ... (121 words)

I can't ever touch his cell phone. Why would he hide it-is something going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - why would he hide his cel? i can't touch his cel ever if he comes in my house, he makes sure he doesn't have his cel with him,he reasons out he is avoiding arguments that will spark if i try to see who calls. he said i might call his co-workers or friends and ruin his relation... (240 words)

Is 16 too young to be engaged?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

- Is 16 too young to be engaged? I've been with my boyfriend over a period of 4 years. (I understand 12 is a young age to get with someone and for it to be on going for 4 years) and we recently got engaged. I understand 16 is a very young age to be commiting yourself to somebody... (271 words)

Is being too nice-- boring in a relationship? Should I be more bitchy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Do I need to become a bit more bitchy to have a long term relationship? People always comment on how nice, sweet, easy to talk to I am, and I treat people well, but is that bad for a relationship? Too boring, perhaps? I know people who are really not very nice people who have ... (232 words)

Having money problems and feel like I can't afford to go on my friend's birthday night out... can I??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Im in a real dilemma all advise welcome!!! its my friends birthday next week and and shes arranged to go to this place up london, the problem is im having real money trouble at the moment (she knows my financial situation) ive already told her i cant afford to go out. shes off... (154 words)

He told me he "loves me in God's way". What the heck did that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

- Hi, I'm a bit confused on something, and I thought maybe you all could help me... I'm seeing this guy from NZ and I'm from the states, so naturally things mean different things there than they do here... But recently I told him I loved him and he told me he loves me "in Gods ... (95 words)

Worried I'm going to lose my erection when it comes to the crunch!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - ok. im really scared to lose my virginity. im 16 and have done other things with quite a few girls. in fact ive been naked and doing things with them on many occasions. however im scared of having sex. for some reason i think i will lose my erection (especially when its ... (123 words)

I sent him an email telling him he's dumped, if he wants me back he better try harder... did I do right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hello again. My current relationship still isnt going as well as I would hope. My boyfriend tells me he loves me, but never acts as though i am his girlfriend. I feel like another one of his friends. I want affection in the relationship, but he just doesnt give it to me too m... (300 words)

Why do I feel empty whenever my bf isn't with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey me and my bf have been together for 5 months and we see eachother everyday at school. he comes round my house every weekend too but when its time for him to go home i suddenly go really quiet and i feel really upset. once he has gone from my house i feel sort of empty. i ... (79 words)

What kind of sex dreams do guys have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi what kind of sexual dreams do our boyfriends have?... (10 words)

We seperated for two months and he slept with two other people... can this be overcome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am new to this lifestyle but after 3 years my partner and I ran into so tuff time, we sperated for 2 months, I so loved him but had serious jealousy issues, He would come to see me often while we were apart, We had gotten back togeather and I found out that he had 2 sexual ... (158 words)

I always here that couples tease each other in a relationship, sexually. What does that imply?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

- It might be the same for a girl but I say this from a guys point of view. I always here that couples tease each other in a relationship, sexually. What does that imply?... (34 words)

When I try to give her a little peck, she squirms and says that my lips are too "wet".. ! Yet she lets our dogs lick her face!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dealing with intimacy and self-image.... I am 32 and my girlfriend of two years is 26. Our relationship is good in that we work very well together as a team, running our household, get along well, have very similar senses of humor, tastes in things, ideals, friends, etc. U... (296 words)

Bf thinks that I talk nasty to him. I disagree..what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F) - Was I really nasty to my fiance? We were driving and I almost crashed so I asked that we not hold hands why I drive and he flipped out. I just needed my space. He also told me a story about at the gym and I just replied "Sure, and his name" and he said I said it in a very nasty ... (75 words)

Should I stay with my fiancé? He makes me have sex with him and do the dishes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F) - Is my relationship with my fiance worth working out? We argue over things like how he refuses to do the dishes. He does cook, and buy the food, but I also do those things, and yet I always do the dishes! We both have jobs, and his pays more, but due to the fighting I moved back ... (222 words)

What can I do to make my mom stop spying on my when I'm with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Because I spend time with one of my best friends ( who happens to be a guy and he's got a gf) my Mum spies on me when I'm with him to check that nothing happens. She had a go at me because I hugged him ( in a friendly way) I just enjoy spending time with my best friend. ... (120 words)

We split and he said..we'd try again once school was out. School is now out and nothing has happened! What is happening here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't know what to do, I split from a guy around a month or two ago now, we were never really that serious, but I liked him so much, and loved spending time with him. When we split, he said that perhaps we could try again once school is out, as this will make things a ... (242 words)

She doesn't want to have sex as frequently as I do. It makes me feel rejected. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - okay so i have been with my partner for almost three years now. we have had our ups n downs..break up..but it only made our relationship stronger, im very happy with her, and our communication over time has gotten better, when we first started dating we had sex every weekend ... (304 words)

I can't be with him because of the age difference. So how do I forget him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I really,really like this guy but he's 9 years older than me,(me being 16, him 25) i know that i cant be with him because of the age difference, i see him everyday and its making it really hard!....... Has anyone got any ideas on how i can not think about him so much and kind... (61 words)

I have slept with my husband's 18 yearold cousin. Should we stop or carry on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 24 years old and I started sleeping with my husbands 18 year old cousin, I dont love the cousin it kinda was something that just happened. It is fun and exciting havent felt like this in along time. What do we do keep on or stop? Kinda want to do both... (53 words)

I lied a long time ago to her, she forgave me but now, she can't let it go. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - we were together for about 3 years, ups and downs of course. at the beginning of our relationship (about 2 1/2 years ago) i made a very bad mistake by lying 2 her about a situation. the situation was i had another woman in my room and she caught me after i kept lying to her ... (227 words)

He has dreams about me but won't tell me what they are about...could they be sexual dreams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey im 16 and so is my boyfriend who i have been with for 5 months. today we were talking about our dreams and i was asking him if he had any about me ever. He said he does but he doesn't really want to tell me what some of them are. Then he said 'well cant you guess why I'm ... (122 words)

If he and I live together and his daughter visits us...what role will I play in her life? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

- I’m going to sound very evil, but please read on and understand how I’m feeling. My bf of 2 years was divorced and has a 7 years old daughter. The daughter lives with the mom as my bf gets to see her every other weekend. Instead of spending the weekend at my bf’s, the little ... (329 words)

How and when should I tell my best friend that I am in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - I am in love with my best friend but I don'tknow how to tell her. We are going to see a movie tomorrow and I was wondering if I should tell her then. If I should tell her what should I say. Should I ask if she would like to be my girlfriend. But what if she says no. Please some ... (78 words)

I'm pretty but I can't seem to attract anyone at school. The oneguy I like at school isn't sure about dating me..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - why can't i get a bf? i mean people come up to me and tell me i'm pretty but i can't seem to attract anyone at school. right now i'm crushing on this total hottie a lot of other girls at school like him to, how do i compete? we've never talked but i catch him staring at me all ... (140 words)

I 'll do anything so others will hold me in high regard! I fear failure- any views on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I unconsciously try to anything that i can feel is providing me a sense of being highly regarded by others in society. May is be a job, a good education degree or even a girl. Basically i want to feel bigger and better than others and developing a feeling of attachment with ... (170 words)

I'm straight, however I am attracted to my friend (non-sexually) Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/was-he-attracted-to-me-or-what-is.html (The whole story) One night, I was drinking with a good friend I have known for 3 years. He is 15, and I am 18. We got rather drunk, and he ended up getting close to me. I never thought that he ... (504 words)

I have 3 kids from a previous relationship and I want another one with my new man...but he doesn't want any! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i have met a wonderful man that i love with all my heart i have 3 children from a previous relationship the problem is i always thought i would have more children one day as i am only 28 but my new man says he cant have children and i have now found myself longing for a baby my ... (74 words)

Found out my bf has ordered some really, really sick porn! Is he a pervert and what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

- I have found out when on my bf's computer, that in an email he had in his inbox, he has ordered 9 hardcore sick sick sick porn.!!!! What does this mean? is he a perve? He never seems like that. does it mean i'm not enough for him? I feel like i realy dont know him!... (58 words)

I'm an unhappily married man who needs to know why this young woman I like, no longer contacts me? Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello All! This is a kinda complicated story (aren´t they all?!?). I met a rather attractive but considerably younger woman (I am 37 and she is 22) and we flirted for a while and then about 5 weeks ago, we got together. We haven't slept with each other yet and I am pla... (324 words)

He doesn't have sex with me. But he says he loves me! Is it because of the porn he watches.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has been secretly watching porn, and this has taken over our sex life, for months he was not interested in me, then when I found out why, he wanted to have sex with me to prove that nothing was wrong between us, what, I'm confused, but since then which was a few ... (269 words)

My husband still talks to his ex-mistress! He says there is no harm in it...Am i being unreasonable here to think otherwise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 17 years has been having an affair since last summer, I found out in February and he hasn't seen her since. But they still phone each other up several times a week which I find really hurtful. I have asked him to stop ringing her and to ask her not to ring him, ... (78 words)

Fallen for a mate of mine, but he doesn't see me in that way. I can't get him out of my head! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, this sounds daft but, im a 35 year old gay man, and a mate of mine for 4 years, i fell for just recentley, thing is i cant get him out my head. ive been single for so long now, nearly 8 years, and i just really found myself growing close to him. anyway, the last year we ... (288 words)

Took the emergency contraceptive pill 5 days ago. How soon can I take it again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i took the emergency contraceptive pill 5 days ago the condom we used broke so how soon can i take it again?... (22 words)

We were dating and he took his ex gf to the prom and I heard rumors he cheated. When I questioned him on this, he broke up with me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hiya i really do need help with this my bf of 4/5 months has just broke up wiv me becoz of a lil mistake he went to the prom with his ex and i didn't mind until he started to be funny with me, People then came to me and said do you think somit happen at the prom and he said he ... (294 words)

Why would he lose inerest, post-sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

18 May 2007 (M) age 22-25 - Why would a guy loose interest in the girl once he had sex with her? ... (17 words)

My three friends are all mad at each other and I am stuck in the middle of it all! How do I get out of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm in a messy situation. Two of my best friends started dating a few years ago. It was both of their first really serious relationship and it ended badly. They hated each other and I got to hear about it from both sides. Last month, they started talking again at a party and ... (218 words)

He's a workmate and he has a gf! I have strong feelings for him-what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - theres a guy at work that i have known for about 2months, and i have started to have really strong feelings for, obviously he has a girlfrend (just my luck) and has been with her for a while now, we are always flirting and arnt shy around each other. we have both told each ... (82 words)

She has anger issues and we split up. Am I doing the right thing by letting her go, with my new son?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Am i doing the right thing? After a turmoil beginning, she got pregnant and we had a love/hate relationship. We had a son. After he was 3 months I asked her to leave, for what I consider his sake. I consider my relationship abusive meaning she didn't hesitate to g... (149 words)

Been in a one and a half year exclusive relationship... but never met

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - what should i make of this?I am in an understanding with this guy i have met online one and half years ago and tho we have not met in person yet,cos i live in asia and he in the US,(we have plans to meet this year)we had an understanding to be exclusive and to see if we really ... (462 words)

I want the relationship to progress... She wants to keep it low key!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Im extremely conflicted. I have recently met the girl of my dreams, she is kind, funny, smart, and i find myself more relaxed around her than most other people in my life. We share, interests, and i feel a GENUINE connection between us. She originally had a boyfriend of two... (228 words)

My BF of a year is flirt and I'm worried it will lead into him cheating on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Its a simple question. We have been together for a year now I love him but he is a flirt. It has gotten on my nerves kind of and gotten me worried he may have or is going to cheat, yet I dont want to put boundries on him as his house is not a happy one a lot of the time. It is ... (80 words)

My husband of 10 years is very loving but lately I don't want to go near him or have sex! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have problem with my husband. Recently i don't want to go near him. He is very loving and i also love him very much but i dont know why i dont want to have sex. We have 3 kids. 10 years of our marriage life gone. I'm very worried it will cause a clash between us. Kindly help ... (63 words)

I've had 2 abusive relationships in the past and now I like a guy but I'm scared of the cycle repeating itself once again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

- Hi I'm a 26 year old woman who starting at 18 to 21 was in two seperate relationships, both partners were physically, emotionally and mentally abusive to me. I've really liked this guy for the past 8 years, and we've become good friends and nothing more. He knows how I fe... (136 words)

My BF put his computer game before me! Why would he do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend have always had a shaky relationship, that has now gone on for almost 2 years, but somehow we always recover from any arguments we have. For the last week we've been on and off, on and off...Just the smallest things would have us wanting a break up, but we ... (154 words)

My long-term BF is going away with the Army for 3 years and wants to marry me when he gets back, but what if he comes back a changed man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my bf had dated for 3 1/2 years off and on. The last time we broke up i left him for another guy. Now me and him are back together and I'm for real about us this time and he says he is too. We have been dating so far for 4 months now. When we first started dating h... (155 words)

I met the female work colleague my BF has been spending time with and she acted really weird! Why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

- I just want to know if it's normal for this girl that my bf works with to come to my work and not be able to look at me or introduce herself. We have had problems about 5 or 6 months ago because of this girl and my bf going to her house without letting me know. She didn'... (168 words)

I want to ask my good friend to the movies, just as friends, but I think she's worried people will see us together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

18 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i have a good female friend. i often tell her about my problems etc. she thinks i fancy another girl. and i know for a fact she doesn't fancy me. i want to go with her to cinema just as mates nothin else. how can i ask her without her makin excuses? i think she's worried w... (77 words)

Am I considered a slut if I gave one guy a blow-job and kissed another who has a girlfriend, both in the same week?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I am so confused!! In the last week i gave a guy a blow job and made out with another guy who has a girlfriend! I dont really try these things but i like both of these guys and they came on to me. Would i be considered a slut?... (50 words)

Together 10 years, broke up, continue having sex, but now I've met someone else and I don't know how to tell him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was involved with someone for over ten years and over the years that we were together we broke up numerous times. It seemed that everytime I asked where are relationship was going he would find a million and one reasons why he did not feel comfortable taking our relationship ... (316 words)

My ex keeps sending me emails telling me he hates me! Does this mean he's not over me or what!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I had been dating a boy for about 3 years and we recently broke up for the second time about 4 months ago. He constantly calls me and emails me and when I respond with a casual answer, he turns around and insults me. He tells me to leave him alone when he's the one who ... (137 words)

I've just realised my BF is only 16 years younger than my parents! How do I tell them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

18 May 2007 (F) age 22-25 - Hiya I'm 20 from Reading and the man I'm dating is 27 from London. It's never bothered me before until I realized something.... He's only 16 years younger than my parents! My Mum is 43 and my dad is 45. I'm afraid to tell them about my boyfriend because he's only 16 y... (67 words)

Am I overreacting because my BF spends so much time joking with other girls online and ignores me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

18 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - So my boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years now and we are very much in love. The thing is, lately I have been becoming increasingly jealous of the girls that he talks to. He talks to one girl all of the time online and I know that he would never ever cheat on me ... (186 words)