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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My 22 year old BF cheated on me with his 41 year old neighbour with 5 kids and got her pregnant! Should I stay with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, i was with my boyfriend for 5 months. I'm 21 and he is 22. He cheated on me with my neighbour she is 41 with 5 kids. I dumped him on st. patricks day because he was spending too much time in my neighbours house. I was heart broken to find out about theIr ... (170 words)

Married 7 years, 1 child but someone else has captured my heart - do I stay for our child?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

17 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - For the ladies..... You are married for 6 or 7 years. You have one child, 9 years old, which is adopted. Your husband is a good man. Your marriage is best described as living with a roomate or friend because of the lack of intimacy. You meet someone that makes you feel lik... (85 words)

Guys: is making noises during sex, especially when its our first time sleeping together, sexy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

- Stupid question really. Having sex with someone new is always abit weird when its your first time I think. I just wanted to know what people think. Do guys prefer it when we make sex noises or not? x... (43 words)

Can getting fingered with pre-cum on my BFs hands make me pregnant? I'm scared I am!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hi i have been dating my boyfirend for a year now and love him very much. We are both head over heels and are very close. We have decided not to have sex because we are underage but mostly because we are scared of the risk of getting pregnant. Last month i was 2 weeks late on ... (178 words)

A question about a possible pregnancy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

17 May 2007 (M) age 18-21 - Hi thanks for for reading. i have a quick question about pregnancy. a friend of mine (18 yrs) had unprotected sex only a week and a half ago and she is experiencing nausea and lack of appetite. She said she hasnt eaten anything in 3 days. She says her period isnt supposed to ... (97 words)

I'm not really into seeing him or having sex anymore - is it time to break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I think my relationship might be coming to an end. Ive been seeing my boyfriend for 10 months now and the last month or so I have been feeling unhappy and we have been talking and trying to fix things, but i still feel unhappy. I dont know what to do, and i dont know when ... (308 words)

Should I pursue him again even though we don't talk that often anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 433 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i like this guy and we were sort of seeing each other and we really liked each other, but we're not seeing each other now. when we split, we didn't talk for a while and we've just started talking again and I really want him back, but we don't text each other very often and I ... (86 words)

Been in a lesbian relationship for 4 years but now I don't think I'm actually a lesbian! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my partner for 4 years. We are both females and is the first same sex relationship either of us have had. A year ago I would have said I love her more than anything but now im not so sure. I have had alot on my mind recently. Im also thinking about the future ... (109 words)

As long as he and I are happy, isn't it right that my family stays out of our business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

- I am very bothered right now. I’m from an Asian background and my boyfriend is British. We have been dating for almost 2 years and we know we want to be each other’s life long partner. First ridiculous thing is my parents just started thinking that we are serious about each ... (206 words)

Dating 4 months and she ignores me to talk to another guy, online! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend have been together almost 4 months now. But lately shes been talking to this guy online. And its been non stop. She hardly talks to me anymore. She said to one of her friends about how she was thinking about going on a break from me, and to meet up with ... (145 words)

I miss him and want him to move here with me...Do you think it was wrong for me to move because of my job.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Do you think it was wrong for me to leave my mate and move because of my job. We are not married but very much in love. We have been dating for a year and some months but known each other longer? I cry everyday cause I miss him so I want him to move with me. Did I make the ... (63 words)

Should I forgive my boyfriend for cheating and lying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - should I forgive my boyfriend for cheating and lying?... (9 words)

He just cut me off and said we needed a break! How can men switch off their feelings so easily??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How can men switch off their feelings so easily????? I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, he is everything I have ever wanted. We are both 48 and I am divorced, he a widower. We have been so happy all this time, absolutely perfect. Though he wont include me in hi... (149 words)

He been pulling away the past two weeks! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for the last 5 months who I thought was the "nice guy" I was looking for. We actually met through my ex and were REALLY just friends until after a couple of months after my ex and I split. We have so much fun together and we have told each other we ... (274 words)

His ex gf wants him back and he let me go until he can decide what he wants to do! Do I have a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ive been seeing a guy for a few weeks and things were going great, until of course his last girlfriend came along and told him she wants to give them another go! he has told me he is confused about how he feels and until he decides what he wants its not fair to carry on seeing ... (88 words)

How do I keep her interested until I can be with her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - me and my girlfriend had been going out for 4 months, but ever since the start of our relationship it was kind of hard because i wasn't able to drive to see her as often as i wanted to because my license was suspended. and lately it has been really hard on her because i ... (158 words)

How do I best deal with my bikini-line?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a secret shame...body hair. I have olive skin and long dark hair that grows really fast - great on your head.. not so great on your bikini line. I don't know what the best way is to handle this problem. I've tried shaving, hair removal cream and waxing but none of them ... (116 words)

She slept with someone else just to get back at me. Am I correct to have doubts about getting back together with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I broke up (mutually agreed upon) for irreconcilable differences. No cheating on either part. However, after I moved out (having lived together for two and a half years), I tried to get through the split-up as best I could, after having relocated from New ... (281 words)

Suddenly he's so busy with his job and doesn't want to talk about marriage. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my dilema is that my bf of a year now has a new job and it appears to be stressing him out and taking up all his time, not to mention he will be teaching as well during the summer months. when we first started dating he made so much effort to spend time together and wanted to ... (250 words)

Is a condom enough or should it be combined with pills?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Is using a condom enough whilst having sex or should I go on the pill too? ... (16 words)

Did my girlfriend do something with her ex? She had a bruise on her inner thigh.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

17 May 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - my girlfriend went to her ex-boyfriends the other night to get some of her things. she said she would be home later and didn't come back till morning. the next morning her and i were getting intimate and i noticed a golfball size bruise on her inner thigh. when i questioned it ... (67 words)

I have low confidence in my looks. Should I just dress like all the other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i don't think i'm pretty enough coz all my m8s and most of the girls in my yr all wear make-up and rolls their skirts up and i don't see the point of gettin in 2 trouble for it so i neva 2 it. and after nine yrs of bein bullied for the way i look its hard 2 think i may be a bit ... (70 words)

All my friends have made out with boys and I haven't. How do I get my claws into that really popular guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 13 and all my m8s have been out with out with/hugged/kissed a boy and i haven't. there is this boy and i really like him and i can't get him out of my head, but hes really popular and I'm not and i don't know if he would ever go out with me. but he always says hi to me ... (81 words)

He's picking on me all the time. And he threatens to make my daughter's life miserable if I don't get out of the house.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - tonight my partner gets back from his work trip. we aren't getting on and he keeps asking me to go away for the weekend - so he doesn't have to pay to stay in a hotel which is what he has done the past 2 weekends running, as he doesn't want to see me or be around me. It i... (368 words)

He keeps disappearing for hours without explanations. Should I just leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) - Should I stay or should I go I been with a man for five years now and we break up and get back together but for the past 2 months he has been leaving for hours and then i get mad at him we don't talk and I let him back but I have tried talking to him and I tell him if it ... (229 words)

I got drunk and said something nasty to my bf. I've apologized many times, but he is so stubborn. Should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

- I got drunk the other night and apparently said some things to my boyfriend (I don't remember) and feel terrible. After three days, he still would not return my phone calls. He finally broke up with me, stating "no one talks to me that way". I really love him and made a ... (116 words)

His mom wants us to break up, what do we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) age 13-15 - hi i know people say i shouldnt be having sex at this age or thinking about it but we all do. My bf and i have already talked about sex, that we are both not ready and both feel comfortable in the relationship we are in. But his mum wont believe us about this. I want to... (103 words)

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This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

17 May 2007 (M)

- Message from Andrew, site founder: (let me know your comments!)... (11 words)

What can I do to make him want more sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, i am 22 and my boyfriend is 20. We were living with roommates so our sex life was scheduled around when they were gone. We just moved into our own house and I thought it would get better, but we still don't have sex as much as we used to. What can I do to make him want to ... (78 words)

Site problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i was trying to add an answer to a question i posted and it keeps saying oops redirecting me to the home page - please help thanks... (27 words)

Does he like me or does he just want to be my classmate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 17 years of age and I fallen in love with someone at college but don't whether he's the one 4 me i know im young but all i think about is him i even dream about i used to text and phoned him before but due to people getting in the way our relationship has become intense ... (202 words)

How do i become friends with a guy without giving him the impression that I want a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

- Hi, this may well be a silly question but i thought id ask just in case you had any good advise. Well I'm a single 19 yr old female and i don't have any real guy friends which bugs me because i love guys company. I've been told that I'm quite flirtatious in my nature which I ... (181 words)

should let him hang out with who he pleases? even if they've had an intimate past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am dating this guy, we get along superbly. We met and totally fell for each other extremely fast. We are extremely open in our relationship and are able to tell each other everything. Learning from past experiences we decided to hold out on having sex until a set date, and ... (277 words)

I would like to work on a proper relationship with this man. But our slim wallets and the distance between us make me doubt our chances.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 434 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I've recently recovered from depression, and this guy came into my life just at the right time as I'm planning on making a fresh start. We're not in a relationship but I told him I would like to be in the future, and he said he was expecting it (which I guess is a yes). I made ... (257 words)

Was she passive agressive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Hi, this message is about trust issues. I need to know if I was wrong here. I went out with a girl for 6 months, during the first 3-4, she'd be sarcastic but in a funny way. I never read too much into it and just laughed it off or gave as good as I got. I always considere... (399 words)

Is my boyfriend addicted to porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) - my boyfriend of 3years has stopped any sexual contact with me what so ever and the second he gets to be alone he looks at porn on the computer well the 40inch hd tv computer screen that is (great)! he got his pc last september and weve had sex about 3 times if that since xmas! ... (123 words)

If they split up she will tak the baby to cyprus, and if he stays she will get him further into debt. What advice should I give my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (?)

- hey guys. i've asked for a fair amount of advise on here but this one is not for me. i have a friend who's girlfriend is very deceitful. she has stolen £700 from him, and got him into alot of debt. now normally people would say leave her, which is what i believe he shoul... (164 words)

What can I do to make my friend get over his embarrassement after our masturbation session?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - yesterday a mate and me decided on doing a mutual masterbation. so we got naked and jacked off together. but now i feel that my friend is ignoring me and avoiding me. I wonder if it was because he was either embarrassed incase the subject comes up or what, maybe it was penis ... (73 words)

I'm in a very sticky situation. I just recently decided to tell my friends that I was bisexual.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

- I'm in a very sticky situation. I just recently decided to tell my friends that I was bisexual. I always had a feeling that I was, but I didn't want to tell them till I was completely sure. The first person I told was my very good guy friend- who's also bi. He didn't mind too... (318 words)

Why do people turn their noses up at me just because I take pride in my self.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (?) age 16-17 - Why do people turn their noses up at me just because I take pride in my self. like everyone i wash twice daily and i wash my hands all the time. i get up at 6 on a morning have a shower, dry, dry my hair, straighten my hair, do my make up, get dressed into clothes that i feel ... (231 words)

Would it be wrong, unfair or deceitful to accept this dinner invitation? Do I need to explain how I feel to my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (M)

- My girlfriend has invited me to dinner with her family to celebrate her mother's birthday. Whenever I'm with her and her family I feel anxious and guilty, like I really shouldn't be there, but reassured by their kindness, interest and hospitality. They are good fun and I ... (179 words)

he took his babie's mom to cedar point in my 25,ooo dollar car right after he slept with me,

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i understand that a man needs to talk to his kids but my husband and i have not even been together 4 a year but in that time he managed to break me down he does stupid things like he took his babie's mom to cedar point in my 25,ooo dollar car right after he slept with me, had a ... (79 words)

What should we do about our relationship? Break it off? Keep it going long distance? Return to just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - What do you do when... - your boyfriend loves you beyond love itself and you are 100% certain that he would never leave you or fall out of love with you - you realize you don't love him as much as he loves you but you still love him a LOT and hurting him would be the last thin... (323 words)

Why is he avoiding me??? That is tearing me up completely????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, In dec i met the most amazing man, the moment we saw each other there was something there. We get along so well and we're so close without even trying we understand each other and trust and confide in each other. We live 5 hours away from each other. Since dec we hav... (1052 words)

I'm missing the passion that I don't feel with my current boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, I need some advice please, i was with my ex for 18 months the relationship was hard work to say the least, but now im with a new partner we have been together for 4 months early days i know, but i find it too boring even, i hate to say that but theres no passion at all, ... (141 words)

Should i move on because I feel am wasting my time on a relationship that is going no where, and yet am getting older....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear aunts, i have been in a relationship for close to three yrs with a muslim guy, am christian. Two yrs ago he proposed to me but my mum failed to accept it so i postponed the wedding for a few months. when my family finally accepted him, we set a date and had started on the ... (158 words)

He seems really decent and for once just doesn't want to jump into bed... but is he too old for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi. im a 17 year old girl that about 5 months ago ended a long relationship with a boy for about two years. he just wasnt right for me i didnt have that special feeling you know it wasnt the same. well there is this guy i met recently..i have never felt this way before i now ... (100 words)

I never knew I felt this way about her until a few months ago

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my best friend, who is a girl also, just told each other we liked each other... I never knew I felt this way about her until a few months ago, and I go to school with her... what should I do...?... (43 words)

So confused, how do I choose and what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 434 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) age 16-17 - Ok so here's my problem I'm in high school and I think i'm totally in love with this guy but at the same time I have another guy who is a mentor type guy who i will come up with any excuse to talk to and also find myself randomly mentioning him as well as i had a dream about ... (71 words)

He has a profile stating that he is single. Am I right not to trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i love my bf so much...but i don't trust him, i was informed by a friend about a profile of his which states he is single, looking for fun and includes 'private pictures'. i discovered his password and i have been checking the site every day for messages.a friend of mine has ... (142 words)

Does it mean that he likes me if he picks on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - If a boy picks on a girl does that mean the boy likes her or not?... (16 words)

Why do I blame myself for my husband messing things up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - my husband thinks i dont love him but its the other way around he messes up alot but why do i blame myself? ... (25 words)

His ultimatum: move in or break up... but he's still married!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 33 and my boyfriend is 39. He is in the process of a divorce (she won't sign the papers, and his attorney filed for a motion...) and he has 3 kids 15, 12, and 9. He wants me to move in, we are not engaged, tho he wants to marry me. He live 45 minutes away from me. I don't ... (104 words)

Should I stay and keep working on it, or should I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in a really bad place in my life. My husband and I have been married for almost four years now. I have two girls from a previous marriage (it did not end well, he was very abusive) and one two year old boy from this marriage. In this four year time he has had three ... (343 words)

How can get to go out with her alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

17 May 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - i'm dead crazy in love with this girl. i asked her if she wanna go cinema she automatically thinks about bringing her mates, i dont know if she does it on purpose! i want to ask her to the cinema alone! so i want to ask her out to cinema alone tomorrow. any ideas? i'll only... (94 words)

How do I overcome feeling so nervous in having to give a presentation in front of my class?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

17 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I need help on how to overcome my nervousness. This week I am doing a presentation to my English class, and I am quite scared. I don't like to speak in large groups. There are at least 25 students in the class. I'm afraid that the students will laugh at me when I present. I am ... (69 words)