New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

67693 questions, 298226 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in May, 2007, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (75), 2 (62), 3 (64), 4 (62), 5 (35), 6 (58), 7 (75), 8 (78), 9 (58), 10 (83),
11 (62), 12 (52), 13 (59), 14 (62), 15 (69), 16 (50), 17 (56), 18 (53), 19 (50), 20 (54),
21 (68), 22 (67), 23 (71), 24 (84), 25 (51), 26 (45), 27 (48), 28 (60), 29 (73), 30 (72),
31 (56),

Archived questions from: 11 May, 2007 (see latest questions)

(More questions from May, 2007)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Does anyone have any idea why my periods are so strange?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi its just a short question, does anyone have any idea why my periods r strange?? i dont ge period pains but they kill me with pain it doesnt hurt or give me stomach pains but i get a pain i can not cope with when the blood actually comes out:S sorry for soundin gross i ... (120 words)

Is it okay to have sex with my guy friend and will he still look at me the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Is it okay to have sex with my guy friend and will he still look at me the same?... (19 words)

We will be getting married in Aug. but we have a slight problem he continues to converse with his ex!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) age 22-25 - What do you think i should do? We have been together for 3 1/2 yrs. We will be getting married in Aug. but we have a slight problem he continues to converse with his ex. Should we be getting married?... (41 words)

DO you think I should just wait it out, perhaps I still have a chance with him? Or should I just forget it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I really like this guy, and when he found out he said he liked me too. Thing is he kept me hanging for ages, and I had no clue where I stood with him. Turns out he also liked one of my best friends, and she happened to like him back. Nothing happened though, my friend moved on ... (288 words)

Is it possible that he really is going to leave her for me...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am involved with a married man who claims he is leaving his wife. He has told other people this as well (friends, family). We spend a good bit of time together (3-4 nights a week) and talk on the phone a lot. This was only supposed to be about having a "boy toy" for me but ... (114 words)

I know this is a silly question... but should I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - should i break up with him ? first,i don't trust him like i used to.secound,i don't feel that he actually understands me like he used. third, we fight alot. fourth, i don't feel that he listens to me .fifth, i don't feel that he cares about me !!!ya i know i should break up but ... (81 words)

He tells me he wants me and stuff but does he or is he just using me for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - well im 15 and hes 30 i really like him i feel like im in love with him and i dont know what to do he tells me he wants me and stuff but i feel used just for sex and im really unsure what to do... because i like him and dont no what to do, he has made me so ill iv been throwing ... (84 words)

Why can't I get over my Ex even after 20 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Why can't I get over my Ex even after 20 years ? 20 years I met this wonderfull girl. We went out with each other for 2 years. She was my "soul mate". I was 16 and she was nearly 15 when her parents caught us having sex. We were forced to split by both sets of parents. Both... (247 words)

I've been thinking of moving in to my own flat and leaving my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very fond of my boyfriend and care for him a lot. We have been living together 3 yrs and my feelings for him have always been the same. I have been on my own for most of my adult life and am ok being single. I am a loner and enjoy my own space. I am in the process of ... (141 words)

He keeps making excuses that he can't see me. Does he really like me or is it all an act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - I am going out with this boy who I really like !! But Sometimes I get the impression he doesnt like me that much :( because he uses a lot of excuses that he cant come and see me, like for example he sent a text saying " Ive been feeling really ill is it ok if i can come dow... (114 words)

What can I do if I am too shy to speak to a certain girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - What can I do if I am too shy to speak to a certain girl?... (15 words)

Who should I choose, my husband or my mate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I found out that my husband of twelve years has had an affair with my brother's wife for just over a year. My brother and i were devastated by the news and trying to work through our marriages. Problem is that only a couple of days ago (even more recently that when i ... (120 words)

What do you do if you're in love with someone who you know might like you but there is very little chance of being together?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I really need help, what do you do if you're in love with someone who you know might like you but there is very little chance of being together and your friends don't understand and your mum would proberly say that your not in love its proberly just a crush. Please I need hel... (62 words)

Is this relationship worth wasting any more of my time on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

- Hi im a 23 year old female. I have been with my bf for 4 years now and we have a 5 month old baby. im really unhappy in this relationship and have been for some time.he is 11 years older than me and has a long past some of the more explicit details of which he has shared wi... (224 words)

I'm really confused he doesn't speak to me any more and all sorts which is making me miserable.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - basically me and this guy were friends then i went to another frends house who happens to be his brother and we started pleasuring each other and we were gonna have sex but I bottled it. I'm really confused he doesn't speak to me any more and all sorts which is making me ... (66 words)

Am I totally stupid thinking there is hope for us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner recently had a bit of a fling - (about 6 months ago) but wont talk about it except it is over and he wants to be with me. He has been and is working away alot and I have been feeling insecure. I have rung his cell phone quite alot when he has been away, although h... (365 words)

I feel like I am consumed with anxiety and anger because of my relationship with my husband.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I am consumed with anxiety and anger because of my relationship with my husband. He has hurt me in so many ways, mentally and physically. I can't get over all the crap he's put me through and it has made me me so angry inside. My fear is that I am taking some of ... (189 words)

I'm having a problem with my cousin and this guy I like at work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey, I'm having a problem with my cousin and this guy I like at work. Me and my cousin started work at the same place, and on our first day there was this guy there who was really nice to me. We got on really well and I really liked him and it seemed he felt the same way about ... (230 words)

She said she had made up her mind, that she doesn’t want a boyfriend and feels I should meet somebody else and get on with my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Please help I need some advice. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 7 months, we get on well and everything seemed to be going along fine. Then last week she told me she felt we should stop seeing each other. Her reason was that she had a lot of work to do, is going to be ... (337 words)

What is REAL love???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - how do i know if he loves me?... (8 words)

How can I stop falling for my ex again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

- i think im falling for my ex again, she used me last time and im afraid the same thing might happen if anything would happen, and i know i wouldnt be able to stop myself, and i can see something happening...any advice on what i could do to make sure nothing happens? thanks... (53 words)

I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 418 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My situation is about some trust issues. I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past. When I am with him, and he goes out with friends (without me) I am perfectly fine. When I am away from him, this is where the problem is. I had called him long distance onto the ... (136 words)

I love him but sometimes he speaks to me like crap and he can be really inpatient with my kids

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I love him but sometimes he speaks to me like crap and he can be really inpatient with my kids. i have 3 kids two teens one 4 im 36 hes 28 we have been together almost 9 months and he lives with me.He has got drunk in the past and gets really moody. I cant win sometimes. We ... (151 words)

My ex bf is always logged onto messenger...is waiting for me to chat to him or is talking to other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) age 22-25 - me n my bf were used to chatting on yahoo msger. he would log on for me and me too. now we've broken up but I dont know, I cant get over him. he too on the either side had some family issues and so broke up, not willingly either. but I still see him come online. he acts ... (132 words)

I need advice on handjob/blowjob techniques...any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is into hand jobs and blow jobs and was looking for either recently. ... (15 words)

We just broke up and I wish I could stop thinking about it all the time! Any advice on how to stop doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Well, I'm on a bit of a downer. I've blown a relationship with a girl that I loved probably more than any other. She had qualities I've never seen in another woman which where so similar to myself. We had so much in common, liked the same things. Just got some good advice f... (256 words)

Just found he cheated when we were dating.. but do cheaters change after marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband cheated on me (more than once) while dating me 2 1/2 yrs. I married him not knowing he had cheated during that time. Do you believe cheaters really can change and only cheat during dating but not cheat after marrying the person?... (46 words)

Should I tell my Dad that his friend is touching me inappropriately?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - my dads friend always touches me in inapproiate places when my dad isnt around he told me not to tell anyone what should i do ? should i tell my dad ... (31 words)

Had unprotected sex with my bf...what are the risks that I am pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi im a 15 year old female and had unprotected sex with my boyfriend wednesday night. he didnt ejaculate inside me but what are the risks of me still becoming pregnant...can anyone help or give some advice thanx... (38 words)

I find it uncomfortable to make any first sexual moves toward my gf...how do I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) age 22-25 - Hello, I am 24 yrs old virgin guy. Am sort of confused on sexual matters between me and my girl. I find it uncomfortable to make any sexual moves towards my girl, simply because i have been compelled to be suppressive of all such desires of my own. It is something that ... (197 words)

I thought I loved him. I'm not physically attracted to him What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

- I have been with my boyfriend nearly 3 months now and i really thought i loved him. However im not so sure. I knw it seems shallow but im not really physically attracted to him. I have been wondering if i can do better. My mum is always saying my bf never shows me any res... (234 words)

In my culture, a woman must surrender to her man's libido when married. This is not my view-but can a woman's desire for a man mean fidelity in a marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I am born in asian culture and sex is a highly debatable issue when it comes to male-female relationships here. Typically, a woman is not supposed to have any desires of her own and have to surrender to her man's libido when married. She is to be treated as a service provider, ... (156 words)

My gf is so spoiled by her Mom--will she ever change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

11 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend is very spoilt, i've only just come to realise. She gets 'everything' done for her by her mother, such as breakfast in bed every morning and college work on occasion. She also gets a ton of gifts and stuff from her mum and her room spotlessly tidy every day. And I ... (121 words)

He's married and I like him alot! I am down because I know we'll never date...what should I do about my feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have very strong feelings for a married man(38) with 3 children. I think about him all day, everyday. I work with him through a charity organisation so am in touch with him now and again and am always trying to think of reasons to contact him. I tried avoiding him for a ... (145 words)

He wants me to wear little skirts, and during sex he tells me what a 'good girl' I am! Is he perverted?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone help with this one. My boyfriend is 49 , I am 47, we both have grown up kids, both divorced. We have been together 10 months, and everything is going well. Is is normal though for a grown man to want me to be extremely skinny to the extent that I have no boobs? and ... (92 words)

I can't help but feel she would compare me to other partners. Does this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Im having trouble when im not with my girlfriend I worry about every little thing, for example the other day we were shopping and a guy she only says hi to on the odd occasion came running up to her from across the shop (it was a big store) just to say hi? I know im being ... (247 words)

She told everyone else I liked this guy...and I'm afraid I'll get teased! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - My friend and I both like a guy, everyone knows she likes him but no-one else apart from her knows that I do, but we were cool with it until she told all my friends that I liked him when I wasn't there. Now I'm scared he's going to find out, and the others are going to tease ... (63 words)

Its all collapsing, how do I know if I'm still in love with my husband and what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married to my husband for 7 years and have 2 kids age 3 and 4. When we first got together it was amazing but over the last few years things have changed. I have changed. I was happy with my life and now i am not. I feel really bad as my husband does alot for us but ... (134 words)

I'm married to her but she has become moody and she's hard to love. I met someone else and I want more-what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been married 9 months to someone who used to be lovely, but over recent months has become easily annoyed and moody, and very hard to love. just recently I met a girl who I get on really well with and we connected, but altho were good friends we both want more, but i'm a ... (59 words)

Depsite being in a 2yr relationship I'm checking out other guys on the web!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been in a relationship for 2 years now, its the longest relationship i have ever had. But recently i have started going on dating sites speaking to other men. Nothing has come of this and i am glad, i just do it to make myself feel wanted as my insercurities about myself ... (185 words)

She said all we had going for us was the sex! We broke up but are trying again but shes so cold and distant, what should I do to make it work ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi my girlfriend and I split up about 6 weeks ago after 3 1/2 years together. The major reason for our break up was probably because we didn't see enough of each other due to work. We didn't contact each other really for a month but Over the past two weekends we have met up and ... (400 words)

I'm getting married to my gf, but I'm madly in love with a coworker.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am getting married in less than 2 months to a girlfriend of 4 years, she has 3 kids from a previous relationship who I get along with well. The past year has been very rocky: we have argued quite alot over everything from sex to money, the usual! In january this all changed ... (229 words)

Am I right to feel insulted he called me weird when I said I'd sleep with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ok today i was texting a guy who i work with in my part time job and he said something about feeling ugly and i said he shouldnt because hes really popular at work. He then asked me what i meant so i text him back saying there are quite a few girls at work who have said they ... (133 words)

Did I loose my virginity the second time I had sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

- The first time I had sex, I didn't bleed, and it sort of hurt, not that much really. I waited a while, (almost a year) and with a new guy I had sex again, only this time i bleed and it was way more painful... why would this happen, it's like I lost my virginity the second time ... (61 words)

Now that I've found someone new, my ex suddenly wants me back and cries every day because I'm not there...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi i was in a relationship of almost two years in a half i broke up with him because he would lie and hang out with girls and never answer my calls and never write back to my text and then all the sudden everything was my fault its been 8 months since we broke up and i finally ... (150 words)

Because of the past I have a hard time trusting my bf. How do I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i am currently with this amazing guy, who treats me well, and everything with him feels soo right! but, i have a past of bad relationships, being used, and being dumped.....and i have alot of anxiety because of all of that i worry about everything, expecially cuz i rea... (121 words)

My current gf nags me all the time and I find myself falling for my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I have a girlfrien who nags me all the time, her mom doesnt like me because im a lil bigger... and she makes the biggest deals about everything...... i find my self falling in love with my ex, weve been talking for about a month now... and im not sure what to do.. my ex and i ... (109 words)

I liked her, and now that I've found out she's 13 I feel like a monster!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - This is tearing me apart... About a year and a half ago, when I was 17, I met this girl. There's no other way I can describe it, but it felt like we just "clicked" instantly. She was with another girl who I knew to be 15, so without much thought, I assumed she was as we... (326 words)

When we made out his leg started shaking

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - When I was making out with this guy his leg started shaking is that a bad sign?... (20 words)

He's miserable in his marriage-how long should I wait until he decides to leave her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - (This below was my question 2 months ago) We have been friends for 1.5 years. He has been miserable with his marriage (he has no kids with her but she has kids from a previous relationship). He recently told me that he is falling out of love with her, he may leave her and th... (388 words)

suddenly he seems to be drifting away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been with this guy I've had a crush on for quite some time, for nearly three weeks now. At first it was easy to talk to each other, but all abruptly he seems to be drifting away from me. Whenever we talk, there's always some slight tension between us it seems. I mean, he ... (107 words)

I like my teacher, but I don't want to ruin his job.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok, so this is a kind of "backwards" question it seems for this site.. but.. I'm 16 and my teacher is 33... it seems as if he's more or less attracted to me.. so let me start from the very beginning: About a month into the school year, I was in class crying and I didn't rea... (528 words)

I'm in love with my daughter's friend.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I know this may seem wrong, but I'm in love with my daughters friend. I divorced my daughter (Ashley)'s mother about 2 years ago and I guess I've been looking for someone to be with. But there's more than one problem with that. First, She's 17. Second, she's my daughter's ... (81 words)

Now that I've left this drinking navy dropout, he's making my life miserable. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) age 26-29 - It's been pretty crazy for the past few months. My daughter's father and I have been going thru a child custody battle and I am emotionally strain from all this. My daughter's father decided to come to my place of employment announced and decided to "act a fool". I told him ... (296 words)

Is he pulling back because he's not interested or because of ex-wife issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 38 and been dating a single dad now for just under 3 months. We've had a passionate dating relationship for the first 2 months and we are have so much in common. He verbally treats with with the utmost respect and is very considerate when we're together. Even though w... (1216 words)

Is this really love, or is it just our hormones ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Real love or hormones? I am 18 and have been dating my GF for 5 months now, and I want to know if our feelings for each other are real, or just some teenage hormones. We have have a great adult relationship full of deep conversation, feelings of security, and willingness to c... (82 words)

Whats the best time to get my Fiancee pregnant ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - what can i do to get my fiance pregnant. Like i been trying for the past couple of month to get her pregnant but everytime her period comes on. Am i missing her most fertile periods or something and when would her most fertile periods be...?... (46 words)

He cheated on me, but we share a uni flat, I still fancy him, but know hes bad, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I broke up with my ex 4 months ago after he cheated on me. Unfortunately we live together in university halls at the moment so it's taken me absolutely ages to get over him considering we were only together for 3 months. I forgave him at the time and tried to be friends with ... (335 words)

Im pregnant, I slept with the father once, how do I tell him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 443 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 22 years old and just found out I am pregnant. The father is a recent college graduate. He and I slept together once after unfortunetly letting alcohol impair our judgement. we have hung out a couple times since and we have kissed a couple times. He text messages me often ... (70 words)

Does my much younger colleague fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 443 days ago

11 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I am falling for a younger co-worker. He works in a different dept so we do not have to interact much but we IM eachother everyday all day long. This has been going on now for over a year. He usually initiates it. He is 25 and I am 42. I have never been married and he ... (319 words)

Is she hinting that she likes me, or just being friendly ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

- Hey Guys, Well this is jus a general queation I think, I'm friends with a girl called R, she is everything I want in a girl and were both single, we connect on every level just perfectly, we have loads in common, text each other day talk online aswell on MSN. Were going... (143 words)

How can she go from asking me to marry her to kicking me out!??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

11 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My exfiance basically asked me to marry her and move into her home. Suddenly, she kicked me out stating her kids werent ready and she wasnt either. Can you explain how she can go from loving enough for marrige to no feelings at all? I cant stop loving her that way.... (53 words)