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I'm 13 and think I masterbate too much! How can I stop?

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Question - (7 May 2007) 10 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *osh123 writes:

Im 17 and like most guys, i masterbate.

I started when i was 13 and have dun it at least once a day, sumtimes up to 4 times a day. All i can say is that i have lost all feeling for it and now i do it because i am either bored or just been watching porn.

I have never had a gf, so im still a virgin, has this got something 2 do with all my wanking. Bit i really need 2 stop. But every time i try to stop i either get a hard-on in embarassing situations or i just 2 toss one off where ever i am.

Does any1 ever had this problem, and how can i do something 2 stop!?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008):

wow, im 19 now and started when i was 14. im goin through the exact same thing, word for word. i noticed that the days i would hang out with friend or play sports i would masterbate at most once a day. i recently moved and have no friends and i do it 1-4 times a day. the only bad thing ive noticed was hair loss. partly genetic though.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

i have the same problem and i havent found a good solution

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008):

hey man i have the same problem and i feel just like you do and and it's the same way to i'm just bored. i dont have a gf either never really had one. and well you'r normal in my book and i have never met you. But hey what is normal anyway? normal is just what society sees fit so i think it's good to be different and to have problems it is what helps keep us from going insane.

so best of luck. bye

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007):

dnt worry about it im 13 and i masturbate alot it is completely normal to do this you shouldnt hav 2 stop

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A female reader, xoTrineyxo United States +, writes (10 May 2007):

xoTrineyxo agony auntYeah your completely normal. But if you do want to stop (not beccause you thinks its dirty) just because you personally want to try taking up sports or hand-releated activities to destract yourself.

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (8 May 2007):

deejuliet agony auntIt is completely normal, you are not excessive AT ALL. Most boys your age do it that often and well into their 20's, even if they have a girlfriend. There is absolutely no need to stop. The only problem would be if you PREFERRED doing it yourself to being with a loved one.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007):

nuthin wrong pulling the pud - entirely natural.masterbate to your hearts content and dont worry bout it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007):

lots of boys has this problem there nothing to worry about. but if you feel you need to calm down take up a new hobby. try and find gf or even try and find out what it is that makes you masterbate

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A male reader, Abacadaba United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2007):

Abacadaba agony auntlol dont worry, 100% normal.

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A female reader, NJmomabear United States +, writes (8 May 2007):

NJmomabear agony auntYou are so normal its not even funny. As a matter of fact, the more you beat yourself up over it, the more you'll do it. Start penciling in routine wanks in your schedule, lol. Seriously. Your not hurting anyone or yourself. But what would be a problem if you continued to wank off to porn everyday after you started to have sex regularly. Then you have to worry about being a sex addict.

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