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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

She breaks a lot of dates without apologizing. How can I tell if she's playing games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (M) age 26-29 - Before i even ask these ?'s I feel like I know the answers, but sometimes my own insecurities and self destructive behavior cloud my thinking and I just want some non-attached opinions and thoughts. I'll make it as short as possible. We live about 40 minutes apart now, lived ... (592 words)

What does a guy really mean when he says "I'm busy?"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - what is man really saying when he says "i'm busy"? ... (12 words)

Is my partner of 5 years gay because he was texting gay men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my partner of 5 years is everything in a man i have ever wanted, he has very endearing qualities and treats me like a princess.Then 3 weeks ago i found out he was flirting with another women at work and he stated he did not sleep with her and never wanted to it was just an ego ... (287 words)

How do I stop being a sloppy kisser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - my boyfriend said im a sloppy kisser how can i stop it? ... (12 words)

I have a bf and the ex is in town! Would it be harmless to continue seeing my ex over the next few weeks or would be a betrayal of my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm currently in a happy, fufilling relationship that's lasted for almost a year. I have no desire for this relationship to end. I've never, ever been unfaithful before, but last night i cheated on my boyfriend. The reason i did was because an ex-boyfriend of mine, who had... (261 words)

He keeps asking when my parents are leaving so we can have sex! Is he only interested in one thing or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey i kinda hav a boyfriend but we dont see each other much but my parents are goin away soon on holiday and im letting him come over for our first time together im kind of nervous as its my first time and he's been with 1 girl b4 the problem is that i dnt know if he's just ... (130 words)

Period started-had sex-and then the period stopped! Now it has started again! Could I still be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - hey .. im a female .. i know its a males account but its my boyfriends and i cba to make my own .. ok i got my period about a week ago and i had sex .. then it stopped .. and its just started again yesterday .. what does i mean and could i be pregnant.. thank you all... (62 words)

How old do you have to be when getting on the pill or buying condoms?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Can you please tell me how old you have to be before you buy the Pill, condoms? xxx... (18 words)

On the pill and now I am getting brown discharge! What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi im 16 and have been on the pill for about 4 years. A while back i started to get a brown coloured discharge with the odd spot of blood in it but not much. I noticed it again about 2 weeks later and then it went. However its started again now and my mum has made me an ... (204 words)

I cannot have an orgasm during sex. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I cannot have an orgasm during sex. I'm so attracted to my boyfriend, and I feel like I'm about too...I can't seem to get there! It feels incredibly amazing when he's inside of me, but I can't reach that climaxing point. Any suggestions?... (43 words)

When he touches me I think he likes me but he says "he's just horny!" Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok well, I fancy this guy big time, and he would keep touching me, like dragging his hand up my leg and i get really happy coz its like yay u like me back, but he would say later, then he was just horny, god it hurts, and i tell him its unfair and he says he'll stop. h... (77 words)

My ex and I have big problems! For all the allegations and the bad stuff, I still can't picture myself with anyone else. Any advice appreciated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

20 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - After 4 years of being investigated, called a liar, told i`ve been keeping secrets,out of the blue, my now ex accidently sent the wrong number to my mobile. Instantly her face showed an expression i had never seen before. It was now time to do my investigations. Would you ... (257 words)

How can guys tell when a girl is desperate and when she is classed as 'easy'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - I've heard that guys can tell if a girl is 'desperate' to get a guy/boyfriend. How can I guy tell exactly? Is it just when she is constantly throwing herself at guys or what? (Or is constantly throwing herself at guys classed as being 'easy' so the guys will only wan... (86 words)

My friend fears she is addicted to internet porn! What strategies can she employ to stop herself when she gets the urge to view internet porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend is worried that she is becoming addicted to masturbation/internet porn. She believes in only sleeping with men she loves which has been torturous for her at times since she has a very high sex drive so when there was no man she would masturbate to release the sexual ... (283 words)

I need help making a decision to emigrate to Australia to be with my bf! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 424 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi - I need some help to decide whether to emigrate to Melbourne in Australia! A couple of years ago I separated from my husband having been married for 12 years. That relationship was abusive. I have since been seeing a great guy for 12 months who, from the outset told me he ... (345 words)

What is going in a guy's head when he says "we should go out sometime" and then.... he just forgets he said it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - sorry but i was just wondering what going on if a guy says to me that 'oh, we should go out whenever', then when i reply 'yea', he seems to forget that and doesn't mention it again? do i seem desperate or too interested in him? i'm not sure if i'm interested in him even, but i ... (124 words)

My best guy friend got a bit tipsy and told me he loved me but...he's got a gf! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Right. There's a boy with a girlfriend. I'm in love with him. He's my best friend. He always asks me to go places with him on our own and when I say " Won't your girlfriend hate the idea of this?" and his reply will always be " It doesn't matter coz if she does, then she... (319 words)

How do I tell this guy, who says he loves me, I'm not ready for a relationship right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - The guy I am dating has already started called me 'love', saying he loves me, etc, wanting to see me all the time. I like him, and I think he's great, but I'm not ready for a relationship at the moment, and especially not one that is moving this fast. What do you think I ... (59 words)

Why do we argue about the little things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I like this girl more than anything, but we seem to argue about the smallest things. When she asked me, "why do we argue bout little things?" I coudnt answer! Can anyone answer???... (35 words)

My GF is either insecure or smothering me becoz I have to put 'I love you' at the end of every text msg!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

20 May 2007 (M) - I think my girlfriend may be smothering me slightly but im not sure. In the past year and a half we have literally put 'Love you' after every single text we send even when we text 10 times in 5 minutes...And I have gotten to the point I hate doing it and would much rather say ... (278 words)

My BF keeps going out clubbing without me even thought we used to do this together all the time! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, i have a slightly complicated situation at hand. i started dating this guy back in January. we get on really well and he even moved to my city so we could see eachother more. but recently the relationship is hurting me a little. he used to take me out clubbing and tak... (266 words)

I think im bored in my relationship and its really irritating me. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

20 May 2007 (M) - I don't know whats wrong with me but I seem to think negative about my relationship and girlfriend. Im not sure but I think im bored in my relationship and its really irritating me. All we ever do is the same and now my girlfriend won't even visit my house anymore and has ... (157 words)

I percieve the act of sex as something 'dirty' rather than something pleasurable. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hiya. I find it easy to talk about sex but i find it very difficult to be intimate with someone. The thought of being intimate in a sexual way with someone does not appeal to me and for some reason i see it as dirty rather than something pleasurable. Has anyone else had ... (63 words)

Is it too much to expect him to be a dad every now and then, and perhaps a husband occasionally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 12 years and we have 3 kids. He has his own business and it has always taken up a lot of his time, though in the early days there was less pressure and he used to take a day off each week and we used to have a holiday every year. The business is ... (340 words)

Still uncertain that our breakup was the right thing to do. Is this just a sign of the grieving process or something else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've ended a relationship after over 4 years as I knew deep down that we had reached the end of the road. I had been confused over my feelings for a good few months and could never see a longer term future for us. It was my feelings for him that changed and although we tried ... (114 words)

Even though he says that his 'texting other women" was all innocent, he wants to get his own flat, now! What is up with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - just recently found out my patner has been secretly texting another woman. i lost my temper and threw him out .he says it is innocent and now says he wants to get a flat because he cant handle the kids im so confused please help.... (45 words)

He says he's never felt like this for anyone-but, he is a player! Should I believe him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Well I’ve been friends with this guy for about 3 years, and we were always very close. He’s what you call a player, and hugs all the girls at school (including me). In the last year, he’s said he fancies me, and I like him that way too. In the last 2 months or so, we’ve be... (204 words)

My finacee resents my new online guy friend from NZ! He has female friends...so why can't I have male friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

- Hello, I really need help here... I'm engaged and living with a man for the past 3 years now..things are going well, and I really only have one complaint. He works these crazy hours and I almost never see him..now I know everyone has to work, so I'm not faulting him on ... (350 words)

Without being rude, how can I get it across to him--that I won't stand for any messing around or cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) age 16-17 - I like this boy and he likes me. He has gone away for a month. I have a feeling he is keeping something from me, even though he said he only had eyes for me. What shall I say to get across the message that I won't stand for any messing around or cheating? Without coming a... (70 words)

I am worried that my fears of my ex not being honest with me will get worse. What can I doto overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I am in need of some relationship advice!! I broke up from my girlfriend approximately 1 and a half months ago. My relationship with her lasted just short of two years, which for both of us was the longest time we had committed to anyone before. One of the ma... (313 words)

We will still date but he's leaving to another state! I hate this and I told him..why doesn't he listen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hello, My boyfriend is going to Missouri, leaving me. We will still be together, for the most part, but I can't stand having him leave me like that. I'm going to Boston on a trip so I'll be gone for three days out of around like 6 or 7 he is. What can I do? I hate this so ... (75 words)

He's looking a nude pics of his ex who models on this website! It hurts-what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend since Nov 2005. We currently live together. Last week I found out he was looking at pics of his ex on the internet. She's on this website modeling in the nude. Thing is we had loads of problems with him before chatting with other women etc, and i've ... (349 words)

He likes me more that just a friend! I only want a friendship with him-How do I tell him without causing him hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i know is guy and weve been friends for like a week. hes awsome. he makes me laugh. hes kind. etc the problem is that i think (as all of my friends have alredy told me) that he wants to be more than "just friends" with me. I dont im fine with he being my friend and i don... (175 words)

Am I being selfish by not telling my bf, I have cheated on him twice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi there I have been dating this guy for 3 years and we are still madly in love. The problem is I have cheated twice during those years. I feel bad but dont want to lose him. I have changed my ways and dont cheat anymore, the relationship is still wonderful. Should I tell ... (117 words)

We split after 4 years and I didn't see it coming. I can't stop crying--please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have recently split up with my boyfriend after 4 years i didn't see it coming i feel so alone and confused i can't stop crying, now he's started to treat me as if i never matterd to him he used to tel me all the time that he loved me more than anythng in the world what should ... (61 words)

He seemed to be into me and now hes lost interest!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - What should i do in this situation?I like this guy ALOT,we used to work together,all he ever did was to look at me,but it never led to anything..I stil see him as hes a technician,im really into this guy yet it seems like he lost interst,i still see him so it hurts....And ... (57 words)

She says she is 'confused' and we are arguing all the time!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having really bad problems and am looking for some help. I have been with my civil partner for 6 years and we had a civil partnership last August. The past five months have not been pleasant as my partner renewed a 'friendship' with someone she knew from Sweden 6 years ag... (366 words)

How can i find out if my ex is calling me names??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hiya, I am 13 and recently i just broke up with my bf but i still like him. However, hes been calling me names and when a mate of mine asked him whether he was he said no and that his mates were making up stuff but another guy said that he was lying. I don't know who to belei... (84 words)

Ive fallen in love with my teacher, Yes I know its wrong, but surely this is different ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Well yeah , like so many others on here I've fallen madly in love with a teacher. No I know , Not good. Please don't say it's a "crush" because yeah I'm young but I've already had a 2 year relationship which wasn't immature but actually a great lesson for me :) I'm leaving ... (389 words)

Ive been with her a year and love her, but I'm worried shes ashamed of me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya I've been with my girlfriend now for almost a year. I love her very much and believe that she feels the same way. The problem however is I feel she may be embarssed by me. In the time we've been together I've only met her flatmate and this is only because they share a ... (228 words)

How are you supposed to put on weight to become more curvy without it going to your stomach ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - you know when people say boys like curvy girls, how ru ment to put on weight to be more curvy if u only put weight on ur stomach?... (28 words)

I've fallen for her but shes married, she loves me too, but it can never be, Im so hurt and never loved before, please help!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 399 days ago

20 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I met one girl who is 10 years older to me in my office.She is married.But she liked me alot.She tried to talk with me and tried to come close to me.In the begining i tried alot to make her understand that its wrong.BUt after some time i started liking her and i started to ... (195 words)

Can this still be classed as rape as I just gave in to get it over quicker ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i dont know if i was raped or not. i went to a party last week and got quite drunk. i didnt think i was that drunk but i do remeber people saying that i was sluring my words and there are parts of the night that i cant remeber. about 3 in the morning, me and my friend (a gir... (357 words)

Ive lost all confidence with women, I have a good job, house etc, but underneath it all I'm stuck in this rut and desperately unhappy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been seperated from my wife of 14yrs for over 9 months and in that period i have had a couple of relaionships one which hurt me alot. We split because i didnt love her following many years of her gambling addiction and all the lies and stuff that went with that. I have 4 ... (258 words)

How can I learn to trust men, when every guy I've dated dumps me after sex!?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 419 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

- Okay, I dated this guy for like a week, and it was more of just a fling, but does that give him a right to just dump me after having sex.. even though I told him all about my past and how every guy always does that to me. He promised he wouldn't hurt me, (now i realize that was ... (79 words)

Am I right to just get on with my life???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys. I've had loads of help from you over the last few months. I split up with my partner after over 4 years of being together a couple of months ago. My feelings for him had changed and felt like we were in a brother/sister type relationship. The chemistry had ... (353 words)

My husband doesnt contribrute to the household, is there any hope for us ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am married, have three children, one from a previous relationship. me and husband both work, but he does not contribute much to the house hold or physically, the property we live in is too small and belongs to me, but i frightened to get joint property with him because i ... (106 words)

Always thought we were meant to be together, now that were are why dont we hardly have sex ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a man who I've known since high school. I thought we were meant to be together and we talked about having a sexual relationship for a while and how often we wanted to do it. Now that we are together, we hardly do it. Its making me feel like he's ... (152 words)

Should I tell my bf I saw another man come out of the shower with just a towel on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am an Indian girl in USA and have a boyfriend in India who I known since 6 years. I went on a business trip with this friend of mine (male,Indian) who is sweet and nice but I have never developed any sort of feelings for him. We were sharing a bathroom and he came out of t... (157 words)

Out of the blue-she tells me she wants a break! I have no idea what to say, think or feel, I'm just hurt! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

20 May 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a serious problem, my girlfriend has recently told me that she wants to take a break to have space and to think if she really wants to be with me, she has also told me that she has become really flirty and doesnt want to hurt me and wants to get that out of her system. ... (145 words)

I had done so much to help my bf with his courses at uni and now--we've broken up! I am heartbroken..any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months. We are both in university pursuing an undergrad degree and we live together. Right now he is at home with his family because his dad has recently had major surgery. I don't really know where to begin and I wanna keep this ... (377 words)

Does my friend "with benefits" suddenly have feelings for me? Can anything serious grow out of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

20 May 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I was, for approximatley 4 months, sleeping with a guy I lived with last year, we both went to college together. It all happened when I realised I liked him, and I knew I wanted something to happen, and it did. We kept our 'relationship' a secret, and both agreed, that bec... (471 words)

Are there any creams out there to get rid of discolored skin from severe acne?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

20 May 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - on my face i have discoloured skin when i had severe acne. when my spots went it left dark marks. is there anyway to get rid of them? any creams or are they a load of rubbish?... (40 words)

How do you go down on girl??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

20 May 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - how do you go down on girl?? oral sex?? wots it like??... (12 words)