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writes:My girlfriend is still texting her ex. It really irritates me. What should I do? Should I give her an ultimatum?
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (25 July 2007):
 It could be that shes just keeping in touch, lots of people stay in touch with ex's but I guess the telling thing would be how she's treating you. If you have a good close relationship, she says encouraging things and is warm and affectionate, then I wouldn't worry. If she is always busy or distracted, is secretive about calls and texts, then I would worry. The fact she is open about the texting, probably means that she doesn't see it as a big deal and thinks you shouldn't either. Evaluate how your relationship is...if it's good and your happy with it, then ignore the texting.
Aunty Em x
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reader, Sweet Gangsta Girl  +, writes (25 July 2007):
Well clearly she still has feelings for her ex. Maybe they shared someyhing special together and she probably doesn't want to lose him. That's bad coz it will coz problems with your relationship.U must ask her if she loves u or her ex. Otherwise leave her if u brave coz clearly she doesn't respect u. Good luck coz u deserve better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): If the texting is really annoying you then tell her. If she refuses to do anything about it and you don't want to be with her if the texting still carries on then you could give her an ultimatum: either she stops texting her ex or you leave her.
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reader, Ask_HanBan +, writes (25 July 2007):
 now thats too harsh,would u like it if she gave you an ultimatum over still texting your ex?if their still friends then leave it @ that, do u trust your gf enough to be in contact with her ex?
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