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writes:ok I've been seeing this guy alomst 5 months. its been a bit of a strange one. we have talked almost everyday,since we met, we've seen each other as much as we can (he lives some miles from me) and its him doing the travelling. he has said he needs time and wants to take things slow, his marriage broke down in a bad way and he hasn't had a relationship since. (5 years) so thats how its been, slow.. we dont have sex everytime he stays over, and he has wanted to be with me when he had a recent injury and was in a lot of pain with it. he calls texts and speaks a lot via I.M,he called last week when he was away with friends to tell me he wished I was there something he hasn't done before. I have been the model of patience and I know this isnt just a sexual relationship. we get on very well, recently there have been more calls, and he has been confiding in me alot more.I guess I'm looking for a little reassurance does this guy like me I'm confused ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou all for taking the time to reply to my question, It's confirmed what I was thinking, hes a sensitive guy and I think a rare find.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 Hi, Yes it seems that this guy has taken a liking to you but due to his past experience he doesnt want to rush things. Just take things slow and be there for him. It might be alittle frustrating, if you want to go at a faster pace with things. Dont come on too strong as this will scare him away. Be paitent and things should work out for you.Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): HiFrom my own experience i reckon he does like you, it took me a long time to really commit with another guy after i split up with my husband it took me about 4 years. It sounds to me like he wants to get to know you first and see if the trust is there especially if he was hurt in his last relationship. My advice to you is if you like him just go with it and enjoy! he'll let you know when hes ready to take the next step.
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 It sounds like he really does like you! Hell, whenever a guy says "I wish you were here", or initiates a phone call or a visit, there's a reason for it!Taking it slow, while I usually find it to be an excuse (synonymous with "I'm just not that into you"), may be valid this time around.Frankly, with his model behavior, I'd give him the benefit of the doubt for a while. The real prizes are worth waiting for. :)
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reader, flower girl +, writes (26 July 2007):
 Well it sounds like he does as you say he seems to be stepping the relationship up a bit now, i think you are just going to have to wait and see how things go.
If you start questioning him about how he feels he might run a mile, it's still early days but the signs look good so far.
Take care.xx.
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