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*il_mizz_cute07
writes:Ok i need some advice, im not very confident around guys i like, never have been and prob never will be. I like this guy, i think he likes me, i see him a fair bit but I don't know how to take things further. I don't wanna blatantly say I fancy u incase he isin't interested, but the signals i get are hot and cold, one day just looking at me, the next smiling and sayin hi, it confuses me. Any tips??thanx... xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): If you are a girl, and he's a guy, if he's interested in you it is his job to ask you out, not the other way around. That's what's wrong today, too many women take on the role of the man. Let him be a man! Kendra
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reader, Sara Petra123 +, writes (25 July 2007):
Hey. Trust me I know excactly how you feel. I've been in the excact same situation and te best thing u can do is to maybe ask him if he'd like to go out sometime. If that seems a bit daunting maybe arrange a party and invite him or join a club that he goes to. I hope this helped. : )
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reader, rachy-baby-helps +, writes (25 July 2007):
 Maybe he feels the same as you and is scared of rejection? This could be why he is hot and cold at times. Lock eye contact wih him and hold it slightly longer than usual, before looking away and then stealing another glance a few minutes later. Try just striking up a conversation with him about anything. If this goes well, spend slightly more time around him to let him know you like him. By just being around him it gives the signal that you are interested in his life and therefore, in him. Good luck :-)
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