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*oxielou2603
writes:been with this guy for 11 months now, i do love him, i known him 2 years.. at about 5months together, he rang me one night while he was out, crying about how a girl just "kissed him" but he pushed her away. but i cant stop thinkin bout what he was doing to make a girl think he was single etc... now im paranoid every time he goes out and its makin me depressed. a few weeks back a girl text him, and the first time i read a text it said "morning, just woke up thinkin of you" i asked him, he said it was sent to tthe wrong person.. i am getting paranoid and feel its all my fault.. he assures me he doesnt cheat, but i keep thinking it.. what can i do..
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reader, sexi  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 Hi, you have reasons to be paranoid.The answer to your problems is communication. Tell him exactly what you feeling and thinking and you can judge from his actions whether your suspicions are true or not.If he really loves you then he would stop what he is doing and make you feel the way you should.Even if you really love him, dont fall for any lies.If he is cheating you need to find someone that would treat you right. Listen to what your heart is telling you and then make a decision.
Good Luck, Let me know what has happened.
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reader, MissAttitude +, writes (25 July 2007):
 sit him down and ask what exactly happened that night when a girl kissed him, it may be that she kissed him thinking he was someone else and made a mistake. my boyfriend assured me he'd been faithful and admitted to me that he had cheated once when we first started going out in 2004, it took me a while to accept my feelings that i still wanted to be with him, but as for trust..it was destroyed and we're slowly building it back up. the only thing you can do is explain exactly how you are feeling and that you dont want to be a taken as a fool, tell him if he is or has cheated he needs to tell you now because lying is only going to make things worse. good luck xx
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