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writes:Ive been with my fiance for 6yrs and we have two kids 2getha.During my last pregnancy there were rumours going around that he'd cheated on me with a girl from our local,he admitted to cheating but it not been her. He has just confessed to me that it was her and it went on for a while now i don't know whether to stay or go?
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reader, Nevalearn  +, writes (26 July 2007):
I don't have any advise for you, how could I, I am going through the same thing! My husband was sleeping around when I was pregnant with our second baby (now 10 weeks). I was shattered. Couldn't sleep, couldn't eat. As if you don't feel unattractive enough, they have to do that to you. I just wish they new how much it hurt. I am still with my husband at the moment, but am looking for a place of my own. Bugger him. Here I was having all sorts of medical problems with OUR child and he was out having a ball!! Bastard! Problem is I still love him, but I know I will get over him and I know I didn't deserve what he dished out. What you have decide is will you ever trust him again? My answer was no, and I don't want to go through life checking phone numbers and wandering where is when he is not with me.
Good luck with your situation, and look after yourself. xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): That's got to hurt, especially because you were pregnant with his child, and probably feeling unattractive and insecure.. . Also because he lied to you about who it was with and he let the lie go on and on. I am pregnant with my 2nd child and to tell you the truth, I am not in a position to make that decision to leave my boyfriend. I couldn't support myself let alone 2 babies. I don't know if you have that option, but if you do it may be best to leave him. You can always find someone else, and if he is a liar and a cheater it's best to not raise your children around that kind of a role model anyways.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (25 July 2007):
 Only you can make that decision babe.
Do you think you can get over this and you will be able to trust him again?
How long ago did this happen?, are you convinced he has been faithful sinc then.
People do make mistakes and if you love them that much, sometimes they are worth giving them a second chance.
Take care.xx.
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