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female
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36-40,
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writes:Can a guy really like 2 girls at the same time?I met a guy i know through my ex partner one night in a club, he was out with friends and a girl who he had agreed to meet that night (she had a boyfriend at home).We ended up kissing and he offered to walk me to the taxi, when we left the club the girl who he had met must have followed and im not sure how much she saw but we had just finished kissing as she came round the corner. He tried to explain that i was one of his friends gfriends although that now isn't true. I told him to follow the girl and make sure she was ok.I left and he obviously then went on to leave with the girl. She broke it off with her partner and they have been seeing each other since.I text the guy and said that maybe my ex shouldn't know as it would probably hurt him and he said he thought i was still with the ex.He says he wants to take me for a drink but never seems to have time.I saw him out with the girl he is seeing and they seemed ok together but then he texts and says he likes me just as much.Do you think he is feeling guilty this girl has given things up for him or just trying to be a player?By the way i am extremely attracted to him and wouldn't say no to a repeat!!! If he is just playing what could i do as a payback?
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reader, rachy-baby-helps +, writes (25 July 2007):
 I don't think payback is such a good idea. Things may get too much and out of control.I suggest that you arrange to meet with this guy and talk to him about both of your feelings. If he does like you then why is he with this other girl? Or is he just feeling guilty at what she did for him?In the end it is his choice to make, but at the momenthe is hurting you and eventually will hurt this other girl if she finds out.Tell hm how you feel and give him an ultimatum - you or her it's up to him, but don't make yourself more miserable by waiting around for him. You could do a lot better.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (25 July 2007):
 Did he ask her to leave her ex, if not he has no reason to feel guilty as she made the choice herself, he may well like you but if he does then he needs to get rid of her and be with you only.
You need to tell him this because if you carry on going out with him while he is still with his girlfriend then he has the best of both worlds.
Take care.xx.
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